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My GF (22F) told her parents about my (24M) secret financial situation

I would say it boils down to whether, outside of this incident/situation, you really think you have a future with this person, because the reality is that you will eventually tell any serious partner …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/28/2026
How to bring up SI to my therapist?

How to bring up SI to my therapist? — (Prefacing: I am currently safe! This post just sucks to make.) I'm relatively new to having a therapist, I started last year in November. I feel like I hit the jackpot with my therapist, I think we …

r/therapypost3/16/2026
I found out what my girlfriend is talking about behind my back with ChatGPT M24, F27

I found out what my girlfriend is talking about behind my back with ChatGPT M24, F27 — I'm a 24-year-old guy. My girlfriend is 27, and we've been dating for two years. I moved to the city to be with I'm a 24-year-old guy. My girlfriend is 27, and we've been dating for two years. I moved…

r/relationship_advicepost4/3/2026
I stumbled on my husband’s reddit account. One of them, anyway.

I stumbled on my husband’s reddit account. One of them, anyway. — I’ll probably delete this, but right now I need to get it out, to call my nerves and be there for my kids. My hands are a little shaky. I was certainly not expecting this today. Or any day. I was goi…

r/Divorcepost4/3/2026
My (28F) boyfriend (28M) told me I was "too emotional" for two years and I genuinely believed him

My (28F) boyfriend (28M) told me I was "too emotional" for two years and I genuinely believed him — I can't believe I'm writing this but I need outside perspective because everyone in my life is tired of hearing about it. My ex and I dated for just over two years. He was charming, confident, and w…

r/relationship_advicepost4/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I remember with my (turned abusive) ex, we'd open a bottle of wine and stay up all night talking about anything and everything under the sun, and then in the early hours we'd go out for a walk and to …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/8/2026
Keeping the conversation afloat

I've been told I'm quirky so my banter is just a bit off to most but if she's looking for that, she'll think she hit the jackpot with me.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
My husband [M31] let slip in a compliment that he thinks his ex was prettier than me [F28] and I can't stop thinking about it. How do I let it go?

1. he told you it might’ve been true that he can get prettier than you, 2. his ex was model pretty unlike you 3. ex taught him gorgeous women are bad people, yet he didn’t take your beauty as proof t…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Dating Apps Make Me Feel Super Lonely

What's Holy? A religious dating app? Also, I thought Feeld was just for hookups and exploring, so I wouldn't put too much stock into that one in terms of meeting someone for a committed relationship, …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/19/2026
How do I (M22) explain to my girlfriend (F20) that I have a substantial amount of money?

Sorry about your dad! You have hit the jackpot and you want to place it in the cross hairs of a modern western woman, only to risk losing half it a few years or months later, because she "needed to d…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/20/2026
Anyone find out later in life the “good” parent was as bad as the “bad” parent?

I don't have either. My dad was a traumatized alcoholic who never hurt me and was always nice to me, but never really cared how his behaviour affects me and we had many days and nights him shouting an…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/21/2026
My GF (22F) told her parents about my (24M) secret financial situation

She has told everyone she knows. She thinks she hit the jackpot.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
My GF (22F) told her parents about my (24M) secret financial situation

She's probably showing off to her family and friends that she's accidentally hit the jackpot by dating you. And tbh; I would break with her. Because her intention for being with you now will be "stay …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
My GF (22F) told her parents about my (24M) secret financial situation

That doesn't make it much better... she absolutely told her friends too. Plenty of people have nice cars even if they live paycheck to paycheck. She thinks she hit the jackpot.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
My GF (22F) told her parents about my (24M) secret financial situation

She is out there bragging because she feels like she hit the jackpot. I dont usually say leave, but long-term I think you will be better off.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
My GF (22F) told her parents about my (24M) secret financial situation

>If she felt like she needed to process this with her parents, she should have checked back in with you to ask for permission, or work with you to think of another approach that would be mutually sati…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
Cbt is humillating

This is beautiful, and made me realise I truly hit the jackpot with a wonderful therapist. It’s been so hard and sometimes feels like it’s not helping, but I’ve pushed through because I can tell that …

r/CPTSDcomment4/2/2026
My (M20) Dad (M59) says Heterosexual Relationships are only about Sex, is that really the case?

While sex is really important, it’s hardly the most important or only thing that matters in a relationship. Seems like your dad hit the jackpot of compatibility without even trying - or your mom is …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
Had a terrible breakup. Suffering mentally. Need advice.

Let me put this in perspective for you. I met her 6 years ago. we became friends. She was a college topper preparing for diplomacy exams. we started dating 5 years ago. there were some red flags in he…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/8/2026
Need insight on new relationship

At 36, I met a woman who was looking for the same thing I was - marriage and more kids. I was so excited. I had one child, a teenager, and when we met I was sad, feeling like the window for me to be a…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/8/2026
Evil ex boyfriend

Yeah be wary of men that lovebomb you early and talk shit about their exes. It’s a huge red flag for a reason. My ex’s new supply thinks she’s really hit the jackpot because my ex has been talking sh…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/12/2026