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Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means) — I last posted a variation of this a little over 5 years ago. We're a little overdue for a repost. --- You know how every Uber rating is right on the verge of 5 stars unless something's particularly …
My horrible mushroom trip by Jimmy Burnt — It all started during an environmental school excusion/protest. I had packed my lunch that day, drank my water, dressed well and expected nothing to happen. To preface I live in Sydney and lived aro…
How to stop being jealous/bitter over rich people? — So I'm trying to manifest wealth but I have sort of a "block". I'm really bitter whenever I see someone my age on social media or irl going to trips, concerts, etc. just stuff I wasn't able to do due …
I have severe trauma around lice and I’m trying to understand what happened to me — Title: I have severe trauma around lice and I’m trying to understand what happened to me When I was 15 I had a lice infestation that was so severe it completely took over my life. I’m 21 now and I st…
How do you get rid of narcissistic fleas? — It feels like my mind and body has been hijacked by narcissistic fleas. I am only just aware of it now. It feels like a subconscious mimicry as a survival mechanism. How do I get rid of them for good?
How to stop letting toxic and negative people affect and control my whole life? — I want to be a better person—a better woman.in every aspect of life. I really, truly do.👀 After months of self-isolation and struggling with depression, I’ve been trying to socialize again, both o…
Parents — this is going to be really long and jumbled up because I'm writing this as it's happening. I don't even think anyone is going to read this but I genuinely feel like I won't be able to hang on if I don…
Weird dreams. ETs messing with me? — For the past week or so I've been having dreams of family, deceased and alive. This is unusual for me. I'm a ET Experiencer so don't know if it's them messing with me or a human organization. **Dream…
How do you guys get rid of resistance? — In the last couple of days I realized again how easy manifestation can be. I’ve manifested a few things (some intentionally, some unintentionally) and it reminded me that you really can have anything.…
My (F23) partner (M29) views porn but every now and then keeps it on his phone — Hi. Title, my (f23) partner (m29) watches or looks up porn sometimes. I actually don’t really have an issue with it because I do it occasionally as well, so it’s hypocritical if I place unreasonable e…
Hey. There's a lot there. It sounds like you just want more connection with your partner and also to know that they aren't going away. If the digital self harm is making you feel worse, perhaps try no…
Hi! I'd like to know how someone with anxious-avoidant attachment transitioned to secure attachment, especially regarding expectations. I know expectations are the root of the problems I've had with m…
You should keep those dealbreakers, it doesn't make sense to get rid of them
I was going to get rid of them this past week and just couldn’t do it. Into a box into storage maybe..
Wait, am I the only one that read the last part of the post? The whole time she was asking for the stuff back she was hoping for further discussion about the breakup. He wasn't interested in entertain…
My mom always gave me awful, cheap clothes from Family Dollar/Dollar General. I would get rid of them ASAP. Before our relationship became extremely low contact, my *favorite* gift she gave me was pin…
You are both young,it's obvious. One day your going to wake up and realize social media isn't anything, definitely not important enough to have in a committed relationship at all. They always cause pr…
Yeah, once again that is very relatable. I run into that issue all the time. In my experience what that means for me is that there's something I haven't learned to let go yet. I'm still clinging to t…
Am a dude. Read profiles. Have had a few instances where women didn’t read mine. And in spite of making it obvious I’m monogamous and non-MAGA aligned, ENM and MAGA women like my profile. Can’t solv…
My mother would do this, adopt them and once I got attached they became too much and she'd give them away while I was at school. My ex best friend, I contacted her ex boyfriend after I went no contact…
He’s trash. He helped you pick the birds and he’s irresponsible. Get rid of him and keep the birds. This behavior shows lack of character. How’s he going to react if he becomes a parent ? I don’t…
I think you gave him a really reasonable compromise where you keep the birds in a separate space where you work. If you worked in an office, you would be leaving to go to an office every day. The fa…
You wanted a cat but he put his foot down about not liking cat hair so you didn't get a cat. You get budgies and now he's putting his foot down and saying you have to choose him or the budgies. Can y…
Keep the birds, dump the boyfriend. He thought the birds would be a good idea. He made this decision not on research and understanding of what bird are, but of short videos. What? So you get the bir…
A man that says he doesn't get anything emotionally out of living beings, that your are emotionally attached to, so you have to get rid of them? The emotional thing he should be getting out of it is …
The fact that the birds were his idea, but he's still pushing you to get rid of them should tell you, this isn't someone you want to marry. It's not just about the birds, it's about his behavior *arou…
Darling... he wanted the birds, doesn't take care of them, and now wants to make you choose between him and the pets? It sounds like a child with extra entitlement. Sooo... what happens when he wants…
He is absolutely going to end up breaking up with you. He just wants the control of forcing you to give up the birds first. This man isn’t a safe partner. He forced your hand into getting birds rather…
So he wanted animals, they’re not what he thought they’d be, he’s bored now, and he wants to get rid of them. Do not have children with this man, ever. Also, keep the birds. This relationship is…
Wtf he wanted birds and then when they did not turn out to be like in his fantasy, he just wants to get rid of them. Red flag. He does not even do anything to care for them too. These are living being…
Is this capriciousness and lack of empathy new? It was his idea to get birds because he saw them on social media, you did all the work, he hasn't bonded with them because he's done none of the work, a…
I would not base any part of this decision on how I feel about him because it seems like he's checking out of the relationship. The compromise that you offered is very fair but he's not a bit interes…
He is not a keeper. Do you really think he is? 1) he wanted the birds. Now he doesnt. Now you have to get RID of them?!?!?! And thats an ultimatum?!?! 2) you do ALL the work. Imagine kids. Imagine.…
Your bf is cruel, childish and stupid. He built his expectations for the birds on (sigh) social media, ffs. Then he looses interest like a child who got tired of a toy. And then, to top it off, wants …
Sorry, but he's a trash POS person. HE chose to get birds, and when they didn't live up to what he expected of being trained despite him not lifting a finger to train them he wants to get rid of them?…
I want you to consider your future. Do you want children? If you do have you discussed that with him at all? If he was all for these birds and then just said nope not what I thought it would be get ri…
So let me get this straight. HE wanted the birds 'because they would be really cool' You've paid all the vet bills, cared for them through some nasty health issues, presumably he did nothing to h…
So he thought birds would be really cool and now he wants to get rid of them? You're dealing with a kid in a man's body who wants, wants, wants and then decides its too much work, or takes the attent…
This guy sounds like a bit of an idiot. He based his decision to get pets based on some ig reels he saw, when he got them left all the work up to you, now he's not getting what he wants he wants to ju…
Always choose the birds, especially when he has made it clear he "can't promise" the relationship will last even if you give up the pets HE agreed to! My husband is not really an animal person. He ha…
When I had to put my kitty down so unexpectedly I waited because I need to grieve. Then my husband and I were going to go to my great aunts farm because they have kittens all over. He was thinking one…
What kind of person convinces you to get birds then tells you to get rid of them because he’s “not getting anything out of them” or the relationship is over? Girl. These are living things. Please ditc…
So he thought having birds would be cool, but since they don't meet his expectations, he threatens to break up if you don't get rid of them? If children are part of your future plans, what happens whe…
All of this. But also you're incompatible. You wanted cats, he says no. You get birds - he asks you to get rid of them. Go, find yourself a man who asks how you can fit a budgie palace in your apa…
This. There are a lot of angry comments about that part but I’ve had my dogs longer than my boyfriend by ten years I wouldn’t get Rid of them.
You stop trying to get rid of them. You gently notice them. You let them be present. They don’t have to be eradicated for you to live what you’re desiring to live. They’re just thoughts.
Whether sensations are neutral or good or bad, they are already there, and they won’t stay there forever, cause nothing does. The part that makes them feel unbearable isn’t the sensation itself, it’s …
>The part that makes them feel unbearable isn’t the sensation itself, it’s the feeling that you need to do something to get rid of them faster. But the reason why I feel the need to get rid of them f…
Look you already moved across the country thats step one, You said you remained friends Leave it at that Its been 2 years the only way you can move on is its over period!! Don't look to the past only…
ill tell you what i did and what im currently doing so first you HAVE to regulate your nervous system, you nervous system will try to sabotage you bc it wants to stay in the comfort zone and it will f…
How? Just get rid of them. It's not difficult to hide a journal.
My awakening happened a little over a year ago and it's been awesome and hard at the same time. Like you, I get spontaneous moments where I am so happy, filled with love, and grateful that I get to be…
get rid of them mate
Got something similar doing entheogens. I dont feel them under my skin but over it like a silk sheet almost. When it tries to possess me its not that powerful I can easily resist it. It can affect my …
Hey, I will jump in because I’m literally working on same issues with a therapist and I will share what techniques she gave me. 1. childhood trauma - you need to think about that one moment when this…
You forget that dogs also adore their favorite people even if they’re treated poorly. If the dog preferred someone else in the house or it was a cat, the narc parent would insist on getting rid of the…
I hope the mods take a strong stance and get rid of them. I have seen subs completely fizzle out because of coordinated attempts at this. It’s all mockery, trying to embarrass people so they will sh…
did he ask you to get rid of them or something? it's a very strange response if he already knew you owned and used them
He never asked me to get rid of them but he said he didn’t like that I had them.