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[Update] She [F25] withdrew consent after the act, how do I [M26] move on from this?

It's actually not "far more likely" at all. Read the original. >If the situation is as ridiculous as it sounds, then why has the whole friend group sided with the girl? The first one to tell the sto…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
Best pointers for Do Nothing meditation

It's just being awareness, but it's an approach that is understood best and best practiced after awareness has been established enough that it's more conscious than is typical. Before open awareness …

r/Meditationcomment3/7/2026
My (19f) boyfriend (19m) keeps telling me I’m at high risk of diabetes. How do I address this?

You tell him he is likely to go bald and get PD in a future. Far more likely (unless diabetics runs in your family)

r/relationship_advicecomment3/12/2026
“Asian Men Only Like White Women” Is So Baffling to Me

Not quite true. But the perception doesn't come from nowhere, and AMXF was genuinely super rare and is still far rarer than it should be. I will say several things: 1. Until the 1990s, America was q…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/14/2026
[Update] She [F25] withdrew consent after the act, how do I [M26] move on from this?

It's far more likely that OP is deliberately omitting details to make it seem like he's completely innocent. If the situation is as ridiculous as it sounds, then why has the whole friend group sided…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
This is harder than it should be. 🥸

Perhaps you just want to vent lol, but that said -- Nothing is a silver bullet, unfortunately... But there are options outside of apps, you just can't think of them as "dating focused". I think a lot …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/17/2026
Potentially unpopular opinion re: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents

So, its not as discreet as "externalizers will ignore or be harmed by" it. It's more that on how much a person shifts responsibility and accountability onto the external world or themselves will have …

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/17/2026
Violence against Asian communities in the US spiked after Covid. What happened to the movement to stop it?

Not to mention that same study notes that perpetrators of anti-Asian hate crimes are far more likely to be non-white than perpetrators of anti-Black or anti-Hispanic hate crimes. At the same time, th…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/20/2026
Asking for STD tests?

I think people dating in this age group need to have more grace, and more education on STIs in general. It’s far more likely you have sex with someone older who has had or does have an STI, known or n…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/22/2026
Single and celibate for 7 years -- how can I show a man I'm into him?

Haha that is so wildly unlikely. If anything owners are far more likely to look the other way about patrons harassing their stuff because they don't want to lose the business.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/25/2026
Violence against Asian communities in the US spiked after Covid. What happened to the movement to stop it?

Not really driven by misinformation at all. In 2018, which was the last year this kind of statistic was tracked for Asians, the race/ethnicity responsible for the most violent incidents (total of 182,…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/26/2026
My Boyfriend (28M) thinks the reason why he can't finish is because I'm (20F) too big from the inside.

There is also the option he has a micropenis. Then from his perspective every V is too loose for him to feel anything. But yeah, your option is far more likely. Either way this is on him not on her.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/28/2026
Series of constant projections, seeking to stop.

Would you not have been happy to eliminate those awful, ugly parts of yourself? In shadow work, those parts are meant to be eliminated—washed of the body and soul due to the self harm they cause. OP m…

r/experiencerscomment3/29/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 29, 2026

If they’re emotionally abusive you deserve better, period. But more importantly, esp if you’re earlier in your relationship, emotional abuse can easily become physical abuse later because obviously …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/29/2026
I understand getting a divorce is normal and you will finally move on after some time. But its different when it is your turn and you lived more tgan a decade together. Especially when you have to give up the custody of your kids and all the life to begin again at 40, from zero again.

> you dont have a fairytale ending It's funny that we call it a fairy tale ending, because fairies were far more likely to destroy your future than give you something beautiful. --- No matter what …

r/Divorcecomment3/30/2026
Husband (29m) and I (33f) disagree. Is counting hours with the baby "unfair"?

Preach🫶🏼😂🤦🏽‍♀️🇨🇭🇨🇦🍁🩷🚩🚩🚩 Plz don’t make more kids,you have two babies already and please tell him that and show him this right here: have you done any or looked at behavioral or psycholo…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
Sanity check: is not drinking alcohol immature or hurting my dating chances?

Yes! Agree. Something just kind of stale and uninspiring about many coffee shops. Almost like .......there is not excitement there. And I know that "spark" is overrated, but it's far more likely to oc…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
I've finally realised that my role in my relationship is to stay out of the way, life feels grey.

While you decide on whether to leave or not, please go to therapy.  Some things to consider talking about in therapy:  - Make a list of what feels bad about staying and that feels bad about leavin…

r/relationshipscomment4/6/2026
Is no friends in the area a red flag?

That's definitely better than trying but not being able to make friends, but does sound like whoever you date is going to be basically your entire social world. I'd also be worried that there wasn't a…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/7/2026
The idea that dumpers could be afraid of reaching out, is killing me.

It’s far more likely they just don’t want to

r/BreakUpscomment4/8/2026
I'm looking for a scientific explanation behind why I get hypnogogic hallucinations when I pray during the day (they're scary) plz help

By the definition of 'hypnogogic' --- the transition space between waking and sleeping --- you're starting to fall asleep as you pray. This is likely a result of sleep deprivation and the answer is,…

r/Meditationcomment4/8/2026
Google engineer rejected by colleges uses AI to sue UCs and others for racial discrimination

The kid was already shipping code to prod while still in school and it’s still live today. That’s real experience in my book. I also doubt an L5 can meaningfully influence a Google hiring decision. R…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/9/2026
I manifested the man of my dreams and he turned out to be a cheater. Help

Check your intention, and make sure he matches what you specified. If he does, you needed to be more specific, but I doubt this. Far more likely he's NOT the one you're looking for. 90% right is no…

r/lawofattractioncomment4/9/2026
What are common reasons women return after a breakup?

Common reason include- - the man suddenly started to do everything he didn't before. Within a month he is paying off her debts. Handling her health. Asking for affection when before he withdrew and ra…

r/BreakUpscomment4/10/2026
Confused about second date

Do you see how asking that immediately puts the focus and blame on her for being "off?" He barely knows her! Rather than ask her to supply an explanation for why he has perceived a shift, can't he j…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/11/2026
My gf [25F] has randomly stopped being intimate with me [26M]

That's....an unfortunate go to as a first option....its far more likely that home and work stress has her mentally not in a place for focus on the bedroom activities. Sit and have a conversation and a…

r/relationshipscomment4/12/2026
How do I (31M) convince my (29F) that her reading is unhealthy for us?

Okay, I am not trying to pick on you or put you down. But I feel like you misunderstand reading in some ways. Probably because your comparison is porn, which is a visual media. And so here you are foc…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
What does it mean when a close friend asks you when you will get a divorce?

You described her as a wonderful person and yet also sound certain that she is behaving in a malicious way. I’m not doubting you in the least, I have no idea. I was responding to the fact that you sou…

r/relationshipscomment4/12/2026
My husband (27M) fell asleep while driving and almost killed me (26F) and our two dogs.

It’s far more likely he has a common issue like Apnea and is too stubborn to go to the doctor about it.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/13/2026