we're done

My (28M) girlfriend (28F) is pregnant with twins. We had an arguement today and she was mad and showed me a video on her phone sucking off her ex. Now what? — [Updated] My partner and I are on holiday for the long weekend. It'll be our last chance to go away before the babies come so we headed off. Two days in, we're having a fight. I'm upset, she's upset. …

Handling another crush as a FA — Hello all, spring is here and so is a new crush. I really can't get used to how excited but anxious my butterflies and fantasies make me. Sometimes they make me so anxious to the point I get dysfuncti…

Broke up with DA after a year. — Met her a year ago, almost to the day. Things started well, relatively slowly which was nice for a change compared to other situations I have been in around that time. After two months, we became offi…

Advice required for dealing with gender related burden — I'm currently evicting a male boarder because he lacks in basic hygiene and isn't employable and has the expectation I need to run around for him (he leaves in a week). I am looking on taking on anoth…

Am I 30F ruining my relationship with my bf 31M over not having kids? — I 30F and my boyfriend 31M have been together for six years, living together for five. Before that we were friends for two years. We are still incredibly in love, best friends, and I want to spend th…

I (25M) broke thing off with my fiancé (24F) last night and she refused to accept it. — So recently I've been struggling with the idea of ending my relationship with my fiancé. Weve had a lot of trouble throughout the relationship, and I've tried my best to hold it together, but I just c…

Months later and I still missing a girl that I dated for just 2 months — I date that woman for almost two months, she let me meet her kids, we spend a good time together but then after an argument and some issues I decided we're done. We then text each other one time but a…

I (20M) broke up with my (20F) girlfriend and now regret it. How can I rebuild trust and potentially fix things? — So for context, me and my now ex (we'll call her Jessica) had been together for 10 months prior to the breakup. The relationship was going great until about 5 months in, when Jessica and her family mo…

I (20M) broke up with my (20F) girlfriend and now regret it. How can I rebuild trust and potentially fix things? — So for context, me and my now ex (we'll call her Jessica) had been together for 10 months prior to the breakup. The relationship was going great until about 5 months in, when Jessica and her family mo…

I think two things are true: what she did initially was something most people would not be okay with in a relationship. So that was bad and it was a big deal. However, two, It sounds like she handled…

Gave him an ultimatum basically and said if he doesn't decide he wants to be exclusive by end of play today then we're done. I've never done that before, I doubt it's going to go in my favour, I don't…

That's classic abusive behavior. Prioritizing his needs over yours, threatens to end things to make you comply to his demands, and when you finally said okay we're done THEN he wants to try to fix thi…

Three years and he placed you last again. Smh. He relegated you to a booty call.😪 My ex tried that after a 4 year relationship. He started texting and calling, and I agreed to meet him for a game of …

How do you bring it up for them, when, what do you say? Particularly when the man is Im done, we're done. Thx

You are not gross. It's not about your size. There are posts on here of loads and loads of men saying they love more curvy women. I can find some of them probably (the posts not the men) FWiW som…

I've also had notifications off when active on apps (41F). It was my habit to check the app at least once a day, even when I was chatting with one (or more) guys. I would not have fared well with a ru…

I remember my ex once saying "All my ex's are crazy, people don't break up with me, I break up with people. My sister and I are a lot alike, once we're done with someone, we're done" At first I didn…

Hey u/Rianneskym_01 I'm sorry. It sounds like you're practicing saying out loud that you are ready for it to end. That you know deep down it isn't working and you're not willing to accept the relation…

Literally just laugh at her and be like okay you cheated we're done. If she didn't then it's on her to offer an alternative and adequate explanation.

Also, I'm over $40k and will likely spend another $20 to $25k by the time we're done with the trial next year... Fun stuff lol 

I'm like you, homebody, live alone, my dog is my best friend, most of my friends are partnered, but hey good story for you. I've been seeing a guy for about 4 months, and I was always worried about my…

If you decide to leave her before u talk to her, there's no point in having a discussion about it. "We're done," is simple enough. Skip the drama.

I got hashimoto, alopecia areata, osteoarthritis in several places, hypermobility(undiagnosed) and fibromyalgia. Also going to get examined for multiple sclerosis. Last year I got the fibromyalgia an…

This man is doing the classic bait and switch. >After a few weeks of casual dating he stated that he is ok with never having kids and said, and I quote "We are perfect together. Why on earth would I…

Lmao. If my dude ever said that he didn't feel safe around me for asking him to pick up, I'd tell him okay then there's the door, go on back to your mom's place, we're done here.

I don't know what it is with narcissist mothers (maybe fathers? As well) about wanting to see their daughters naked and expose themselves to them. Most of them have that habit. My nmother would sit o…

So you text him right back and say "ok we're done". This is not hard, it is not complicated. The only thing holding you back is yourself and your lack of anything resembling self-respect. Like I said,…

At 30, he is way too old to be this immature. Text him back: "No worries, I have no interest in being in this relationship one day longer. We're done, I'm out, goodbye." Then BLOCK HIM.

That loop where you've already thought it through but your brain keeps spinning sucks. For me the thing was realizing planning doesn't actually tell your nervous system 'we're done here'. What helped …

It's up to you but just know you can and should be prepared to interrupt and leave the appointment if you feel don't feel emotionally safe. If that were me, I would preface the conversation with "I h…

I went on a walking date just once. I was less than 10 minutes into it when I wanted to end it but how do you be like "you know what? I think we're done". We finally looped back to my street and he su…

'I need you to cut the crap. You have one chance to show me that you're a functioning adult or we're done.' and than dump him.

You've just about hit the one-hear mark, and he thinks that he's got you trapped. That you're so anxious to get a ring, marry him (after 3yrs of dating), establish a permanent household with you that …

Well, if the measurement of success is "never falls off the wagon", true success is rare. If that's you, you're an outlier and are to be congratulated. As for the rest: addiction is almost invariabl…

Run. That is sexual assault, honey. And those 'jokes' are casual insults intended to lower your confidence and ability to speak up for yourself. Eventually this will lead to so much more abuse. Run, d…