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i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

I've been married for 25 years and after reading "pegging" and seen all the comments about it, I had ask Copilot what was that. I guess there's still so much to learn.🤣

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues — me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex multiple times but it never seems to work and it makes me feel awful. the problem we always run into is that we’re in the moment, he tries to insert himself,…

r/relationship_advicepost3/26/2026
I am trapped in a cycle of trauma, fawning, and complete emotional dependency: How do I survive when my past won't let me breathe?

I am trapped in a cycle of trauma, fawning, and complete emotional dependency: How do I survive when my past won't let me breathe? — **TL;DR:** I survived a horrific childhood witnessing my mother’s repeated sexual assault and suffered years of severe bullying. Today, I’m struggling with AuDHD, Bipolar, BPD, and what I suspect is s…

r/Codependencypost4/11/2026
I am trapped in a cycle of trauma, fawning, and complete emotional dependency: How do I survive when my past won't let me breathe?

I am trapped in a cycle of trauma, fawning, and complete emotional dependency: How do I survive when my past won't let me breathe? — **TL;DR:** I survived a horrific childhood witnessing my mother’s repeated sexual assault and suffered years of severe bullying. Today, I’m struggling with AuDHD, Bipolar, BPD, and what I suspect is s…

r/EmotionalNeglectpost4/11/2026
Update: How can I(20F) tell my boyfriend (20M) about my sexual preferences when he has already expressed disgust over it?

They never even ended up talking about the pegging again. He needs to grow up because he thinks it's reasonable for an adult, working woman to not have any platonic relationships with men.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/11/2026
New Partner Has Never Used Condoms

Ahhhh, so you're into pegging. Does he know? and we didn't let aids happen, it was lab created by the CIA to remove a certain type of undesirable

r/datingoverfortycomment3/15/2026
New Partner Has Never Used Condoms

Also, I don't think you know what pegging is if you think you can get aids from it. 

r/datingoverfortycomment3/15/2026
Fiancé 26 M shamed me 25F for my kink

Let's say it's still within the realm off pegging/sm/role type of kink.. I've no desire for scat or what's beyond you know

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
My (37F) partner (43M) is obsessed with having something in his ass during sex and its ruining it for me.

Look, no judgment for him liking what he likes, but are you sure he's not gay? Have you tried pegging him instead?

r/relationship_advicecomment3/22/2026
Cobblestones

You talk as if you're 100% wholly convinced of what you're speaking. It's a unique thing to hear someone speak with the conviction that you do. I would describe it as "peaceful" because you're clearly…

r/experiencerscomment3/23/2026
Spent money on clothes, grooming, and a Miami photoshoot for dating apps. Still getting weak matches. What am I missing?

id aftually be down to talk to you in dms too! i think in asia you’d be well above average! ive done dating in france/china/east coast/west coast and did some teaching in high school in taiwan and …

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/24/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

Man, I am falling behind on the times if pegging is considered "general stuff like that". I agree about posting on /r/sex but I'd also talk to a doctor about it if it hurts so much.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

It did crack me up to read “you know, oral, pegging, like everyone else!” Type of sentiment! Haha

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i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

"Pegging and general stuff" had me dead 💀 🤣

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

By pegging do you mean you pegging him or him pegging you (or am I stupid)?

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

The way she slipped “pegging” into the list like she was saying hand holding

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

Pegging involves a strap on so it's virtually always going to be referring to the girl penetrating the guy.

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i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

The fact that you think pegging is so vanilla and something everyone does is wild! I promise you that it’s not nearly as common as you think. 😅

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

Isn’t pegging the guy getting banged in the butthole my the woman? Or something

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

Ooh I’ve always thought it was purely a psychological instinct for me. Something about being closed in on and invaded. Minus the pegging this was so me with my ex. I pushed through in a dissociated wa…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

No one that knows me would refer to me as normal. But compared to someone that thinks pegging is something everyone is doing, I'm pretty vanilla.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

Bro had to resort to pegging to fill the void 😭😭

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

LMAO yeah I'm more curious about what else general stuff would imply here if pegging is lumped into this category. I constantly tell ppl I live in a world of I don't understand especially when you hav…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

I dont think shes confusing pegging with makeout Atleast i hope so

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i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

Yeah I don’t think pegging is that general, I guess try to do it when you’re both drunk

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

Pegging and “general stuff like that” in the same sentence is beyond me 😂 Lay off the porn

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

pegging and general stuff💅🏼 visit a gynac ig

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

Maybe it’s meant as he is pegging her that is my only defense for this “normal” thing😂

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

Hmm seems like you should talk to a doctor about the pain because... Wait PEGGING!?

r/relationship_advicecomment3/28/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

Yes, I feel like we need more clarity on the pegging thing. 

r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
i (19f) cant have sex with my (19m) boyfriend and its causing issues

hmm. maybe Sliquid. It's lube originally created for a woman who was allergic to like every lube in existence. It's worth a shot. Also, my best suggestion is maybe quit the penis penetration for a bi…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
My (21F) bf (21M) says he liked being “manhandled “ what does this mean

My suggestion is to present Pegging to him— seems like a textbook way to manhandle this situation.

r/relationshipscomment4/5/2026
I (27F) took my boyfriends virginity (26M) expecting him to love sex but doesn’t seem like it

Is he on finasteride? + how about you turn the position and maybe try pegging him if he is okay? Prostate stimulation can do magic. There’s a very likely chance that he is anxious and being used to je…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026