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It's not your embarrassedment to carry. I'm glad to read you have woken up that he was there for you in the "for better", but not there for you the "for worse". You are right to be upset, but I hope…
I just revamped my website for better optimization. — Can anyone give me some advice or tips on how I can improve my website?
Responsive Font Weights? — How often do you guys set responsive font weights in your projects? If you do, what are your typical use cases - like using slightly heavier weights on mobile for better readability, or lighter weigh…
Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…
Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…
E-commerce shop for honesty/honor farm shop/stand — Hello everyone. I run a small farm shop selling out vegetables and beef. It's based on an honesty system with customers writing purchases in a notebook book then paying in by cash or by typing their…
Discount bundle — Let’s say i sell posters (A3 and A4) and i wanna make a bundle 10 posters of each size at a certain price for better revenue margin. I sell 10 A3 for 200$ and i want a bundle to state 120$, and for t…
Discount bundle help — Hey guys, Let’s say i sell posters (A3 and A4) and i wanna make a bundle 10 posters of each size at a certain price for better revenue margin. I sell 10 A3 for 200$ and i want a bundle to state 120$…
Junior sysadmin looking for project ideas to modernize a simple infra — Junior sysadmin looking for project ideas to modernize a simple on-prem infra Hey everyone, I’m a junior sysadmin working with a fairly basic on-prem infrastructure with about 45 users, and I’m look…
Quick help with CORS error — Hello, This is a stupid question I think I know the answer to, but I'd like confirmation. All the research I've done indicates my gut is right, but I like to check. I'm getting a CORS error when tr…
Need affordable tool to convert 200–400 images/day to WebP — **Need a simple image conversion tool for my website – suggestions?** I’m building a website where users can upload images to their profiles – around 10 images per user. I’m expecting 200–400 image u…
Your tools and tips for better team alignement? (I will not promote) — Hi, Was reflecting of what worked and what did not in my previous ventures and I think team alignement was a major issue...no suprises here, to me it's normal as it's known to difficult but we alway…
Your tools and tips for better team alignement? — Hi, Was reflecting of what worked and what did not in my previous ventures and I think team alignement was a major issue...no suprises here, too me it's normal as it's difficult but we always struggl…
Is this Deactivation? Seeking insights from FAs. Please help me understand this — We're together for 6 months, a lot of push/pull in the beginning, but by the 4th month everything was finally going fine between us. He even called me his girlfriend nd promised to heal and everything…
Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience] — So I'll start off by saying I'm not very experienced and have multiple psychotic and/or disassociative disorders plus a medical card But I'm surprised at my take away when using the medical marijuana…
After almost 3 months practicing Gatewaytapes, this is the first time i feel my consciousness started lifting off, it's not OBE yet but it's definitely something lifted off there, i have to share this with you — I started the very first tape Orientation since Jan 26 until now i reached wave 3 tape 1 , everyday i practice one or two time but at least one a day, going through each tape i practiced at least tw…
Thoughts on astro-seek.com requiring registration? — Astro-seek.com's homepage says it was getting hit with scraper bots and became unusable so now requiring registration. "Use astro-seek" is the top rule in this forum so it seems relevant to the sub.…
After almost 3 months practicing Gatewaytapes, this is the first time i feel my consciousness started lifting off, it's not OBE yet but it's definitely something lifted off there, i have to share this with you — I started the very first tape Orientation since Jan 26 until now i reached wave 3 tape 1 , everyday i practice one or two time but at least one a day, going through each tape i practiced at least two …
“EASIEST AP TECHNIQUE IN HISTORY!” (Update) — “History’s simplest projection technique” (Tweaked and updated for better results!) I posted the 30 second head lift technique a few months back and I wanted to update it hopefully to add to y…
How do you handle conflict? — Correct me if I'm wrong, but I guess the stereotypical avoidant way to handle conflict is to... well, avoid it. Withdraw, stop responding, take time to yourself to process etc. But as for me, once a …
BE OPEN TO RECIEVE! (Manifestation tips + encouragement.) — I'm going to cut right to the chase (forgive my English, I'm not native, and I refuse to use AI.) I've always been a natural optimistic person from myself. Even when life hit me with the worst situat…
I believe I’ve ruined everything by praying and asking for better opportunities — My prayers has true don’t OCD, I don’t look forward to them, and dread them, I can’t miss a single nightie I fear everything I’ve prayed not to happen on previous nights will happen, it’s very long ni…
Would 1 month be ok for me to ask for our break to be over — I have been in this relationship for 2 years and was broken up with so we both could grow and become more mature. I was told I wasn’t able to be serious and show enough emotion and be open. She felt t…
Can You Change a Toxic Relationship? - Is this the right place to post this? — Hello, I am a long-time lurker of this sub first time poster. I’m not sure how to even start this post all I can say is I am completely at a loss. I am so afraid to be alone. Actually, I am horrified.…
If you're struggling with Meditation, this might be the push you need! — Apologies for the long-ish post, but I want to share this with everyone here, in case it helps them like it helped me. I used to think meditation was useless. I was a bit confused, a bit dismis…
Manifesting a new man! — Idk why suddenly I felt why even I m manifesting my ex he is not even that brave. Tbh, I have been always attracted to brave. Powerful and intelligent men from uniformed services. Who look masculine.…
My(30m) life seems to have become empty in the past few years and I'm not sure how to fix it. — This feels like a problem ive been avoiding for a while, coasting on friends I've had since high school. We have a generally good friendship and I'm very much not a social person so I've been slow at …
Advice for prolonging the projection/fully projecting? — I've had a few experiences with astral projection, but I've never been able to so much as leave my bed before the projection spontaneously ended. Also, does anyone have advice for better success with …
(27M) I need help understanding and helping avoidant (24F), is she trying to reconnect? — I had a wonderful relationship with a girl with whom from the very moment we first met in person, we vibed hard, everything went amazing for 6 months, but then, we had our first like, actual discussio…
Emotionally Abusive Father + Dementia Mother — I am hoping to get insight on anyone who has or may have similar experiences to me. What should I do moving forward with how my dad is putting himself in this situation? And how to help my mum? B…
Inability to be happy due to verbal abuse my story. — This post is going to be messy as I am just writing down what I am thinking with no actual plan to express my ideas I don’t know where to start but i am writing this post here to express how I am fee…
Just left my husband — I have just left my husband due to years of poor mental health , asking for better and never receiving it . He had a pattern of every time I said I was unhappy or we’d argue he would throw in my face …
If you left your ex then don’t go back because you’ll look like a chump… admit your mistake, move on and grow… if your ex dumped you then face it… you got dumped… examine yourself, grow and move on… …
With number six, laws in the can US change all the time. Just look at what’s happening with the current president..sigh. Nothing is set in stone. For better or for worse.
This kind of discount is all in the positioning. There's not much information here about your typical engagement structure -- e.g. whether it's monthly, annual, how much it costs, whether you bill by…
For better or worse I'll update y’all.
What I would say is that you should decide if you can deal with this long term. In my case, this is the second time we've had an explosive fight like this, where he goes into a full on defensive spi…
Healthy relationships are truly worth it. Obviously, a healthy relationship doesn't mean two perfect people and eternal bliss, but it surely beats crying in the bathroom and being dysregulated for wee…
I've been there. I could have written this three years ago - the second guessing that you feel someone is inconsistent and not safe, but you fixate on the times that feel good. With closer inspection …
I feel like you could probably stand to cut them off sooner. If someone cancels on me for a first date, even with a seemingly good reason, I usually break things off. If they cancel after a 2nd date w…
This might be a silly question, but I always thought you need both condom and birth control (pills) for better combo at preventing pregnancy. Or is a condom only always enough, unless we noticed a lea…
I’m considering a fairly extreme professional change/track. It would solve a lot of problems in my life but would probably also make me even less dateable. I don’t even know what I’m doing with my l…
Post your profile / photos for critique in this thread (most people include an imgur link with screen caps of their profile.) There's someone a bit further down in today's thread who bought a tripod f…
Will start by saying different people are different, I don't think age or gender has a ton to do with it because there's a lot of variance at every point along the timeline. But for myself (31M, so a…
I'm just flabbergasted, I really thought my coworker broke up with this other colleague, but apparently they're still together and he pretty much only talks to her when he wants money from her. I assu…
I didn't do any therapy, but I discussed my situation a lot on Reddit and answered many questions about my experience as a DA, which helped me a great deal in terms of understanding myself. My discuss…
This seems to come up every time. Maybe I should just put down liberal than to open up my horizons more. I am more of a hippie or "eclectic" really for better words as you can tell correctly lol. Main…
Haha for sure. And thank you that makes me feel a little better. I am 32 y/o male and have never had a GF or a date. It was pretty tough on my already lacking confidence to finally submit to the dati…
I have a few different things to say in response: First, I should answer your direct question: # What is Kindness I'd say that's just a semantic thing. The real question is what you think is the ri…
Wow. We have so much in common. Except the anger issue. OK. I don’t know how ok’d are you but in front of you there are millions of possible future timelines. Basically everything around us will affec…
My previous successes in arts or business showed me that the success itself won't automatically fix my problems like anxiety, depression and general sense of insecurity and imposer syndrome. Success …
I would fully commit to my marriage & never cheat again. Please remember the vows of "for better or worse until death" & get marital counseling.
Indeed! Which is why we promise “for better, for worse.”…
I feel this. It’s showed up in many different ways through out my life. Just recently I had a close family member tell me they didn’t care about the pain my eating disease order has caused bc I’m smal…
I went through this a year ago. My life hit rock bottom and I thought the universe was out to get me... hated everything and everyone. And I wished and wished for things to change (I've just made a po…
47m here, and I spent most of the last 30 years in a dissociated state, living in my mind or in books. I only paid enough attention to the outside world to make sure that my brain's life support syste…
In no way shape or form what he said in acceptable. Its for better or worse. My dad has never said a word about my moms weight ever, thick and thin. It wasnt until she got diagnosed with throat cancer…
My husband has been overweight for years. He has also been up and down, loses it then gains it back on. Im not attracted to overweight men and I have openly told him this too in the hopes that it wil…
I mean taking too high a dose and completley shattering your perception of reality. It will permanently change you for better or worse.
Yes I am a man, and I understand a pretty woman could be getting upwards to 10-100 likes a day. But I would have imagined or assumed for better words that that person wouldn't be given out as many ini…
Alright, I'm not reading the other comments, because they're sure to infuriate me. Let me summarize: a bunch of people are going to ignore the fact that you've been married for 32 years, and tell you…
I appreciate it! and you're right, I made a lot of bad choices, but I survived, and I've arrived in a place to learn from them and aim for better moving forward.
Did you never have a man spend the night in your 40 years? It’s like that, but repeated. Just ease into it. Once he’s spending most nights at your house, or you are spending most at his… that’s what i…
You need to have faith in yourself and trust that the things you cannot control will eventually break your way. APs, for better or worse, do not survive without the affair. They go from forbidden frui…
Update: 99% confident that CEO is in SF Bay Area based on his other content. We should all know what that means. Obviously you cant just leave your company for better dating. But most likely he…
Failed marriages or relationships can change people - for better or worse.
I'm in a similar boat. I don't like texting via apps either, and try to use text for logistics only. I'll message on the phone a bit to keep some contact going until the date comes, but even then, it'…
For better or for worse, posts like these are important because it breaks the trend of “overly romanticizing divorces” that occurs on here a lot. Sometimes, things never gets “better” for you after a…
I am sorry this has happened. The problem is one sided and the solution is one sided and all rests on HIM. There is NOTHING you can do in your end to fix things because YOU didn’t break it. The be…
My mom and sister both do that. Quite a few friends do as well. You don't have to know the person to remember "Tanya" is the insufferable one and "Jenna" just had a baby. You can also make an effort a…
The conversation you had with your therapist actually perfectly summarizes a recent session I had with mine. “Waking up” is a very good way of putting it. When I told my T it somehow felt lonely, and …
Those of us out here who don't suck are waiting for better weather :D
Nope. Not a good match. The boy is mars nakshatra, and the girl is ketu nakshatra. Mars-ketu should not marry each other. This relationship will end in an extreme chaotic way. Wait for better matches…
I believe alot of people even without cptsd are struggling with this issue rn. Phone addiction. Process addictions are on the rise! Making tiny choices everyday can change your life. For better.. or f…
The number of people who have complimented my ring and or made comments about how much my husband must love me because of my large diamond ring... when I am not wearing a large diamond ring is hilario…
>During the date she made several references to "Oh I will show this to you later", "I can't find this picture but next time". "I think my dogs will love you" This feels like future-faking to me. It…
Honestly once you leave school, dating in your 20s as a man is hard. I think it was easiest in my 30s. 40s isn't harder per say, I'm just way less interested in the people I met and less motivated to …
Thank you so much for that! I'm sorry you've been through something similar too, and I hope it turns the way you want. Very much yes to embracing impermanence. There's been a colossal amount of uncert…
IMHO it would affect your kids regardless if you engaged it or not, assuming you had contact of some sort before. In fact, I would venture to guess your kids are having experiences of their own, thoug…
If, as you say, you love your bf, remember he loves his dog. Maybe you could work to help your bf train some of the dog's habits for better. Poor dog must feel your constant animosity.
I have tempered it and still let it guide me. Belonging is the need beneath it, right? Which is inherently human, and because we carry these wounds, belonging can require a different kind of capacity …