misogynist

When my wife is around, I take her wants/needs/likes into consideration-most men do and they understand when other men do the same. She IS the most important person in the group and I want her to be h…

Her body😫 — Weird confession and I promise I’m not a misogynist. I really miss her body more than anything right now it was LITERALLY PERFECT You guys have no idea. I feel like I won’t have another baddy like h…

Andrew and Tristan Tate visit Asia — Eww, not the western manosphere spreading their germs in Asia 🤮. Not surprised his fans in Hong Kong are all the LBH passport bros, locals would laugh his ass back home. While Asia gets more progress…

How do I (F26) talk to my partner (M33) about casual misogyny? — I (F26) had recently expressed excitement/interest about one of my partner's (M33) interests. It is a sort of biking/beer drinking tour that he does with his friends a few times a year (all male). I …

The western treatment of Korea's feminism in hindsight. — A Korean feminist's post that I encountered on twitter made a good analogy. If a group labels itself a disability rights or working class organization, it doesn't tell you about their full political l…

I(19M) feel like I’ve lost my girlfriend(19F) even though we’re still together — TL;DR: I made mistakes early in the relationship (past flirting, not being fully transparent), which broke my girlfriend’s trust. Since then she’s become distant, says she lost feelings, and gives unc…

The Tragedy of the Chinese Music Industry (and Society) — If anyone's been following the recent controversy in China concerning singers Li Ronghao and Shan Yichun, you've probably seen the actually vile environment that is the Chinese internet (and Chinese s…

I stumbled on my husband’s reddit account. One of them, anyway. — I’ll probably delete this, but right now I need to get it out, to call my nerves and be there for my kids. My hands are a little shaky. I was certainly not expecting this today. Or any day. I was goi…

Everybody is so gross — Before I start, I really don’t want this to come across as misogynistic — not the best way to start a post but, yeah, I really just need a place to vent. Since we broke up, I seriously can’t lo…

Any other Women on here whos dad suddenly started hating you as you grew older? — I’m watching a video about toxic fathers, and the daughters they leave behind by Patrick Tahan on YouTube, a lot of you probably know his content And I’m wondering to myself, if I’m the only one who’…

Are narcissists capable of empathy? — I'm not sure if my dad is a narcissist because he's never been diagnosed, but everyone in our family labels him as one. Big, tough Marine alcoholic. I'm not sure if he's even capable of experiencing e…

Don't you think it's sexist for my fiance (28M) to not want our future children to have my (28F) last name? — my fiance and i always fight over this issue. i think if i'm the one that's getting pregnant, going through labor, and giving birth, of COURSE the child should take on my last name instead of his to h…

I’ve had a change in outlook recently, especially in terms of my self loathing and it’s weird. — So I’ve been thinking really heavily about my life recently and how much I hate myself, but more specifically my past experiences - especially at high school. One night my brain just started thinking…

I've come to realise that my Mum is a Narcissist. — She refuses to talk to me because I told her how she favours my Brother over me, the same Brother who is a racist and misogynistic piece of shit, and who she allows to make racist comments in public w…

Having a misogynist father — Title says it all. Classic unavailable, unequipped to become a parent father who was the breadwinner and was allowed to emotionally act out towards me, my mum and sister growing up. Probably gave me s…

got into 2 ivies, but the way my parents treat me u would think i dropped out of school or something — Told them i got into brown, columbia, and northwestern. My dad goes “congrats” and then immediately starts yelling at me for leaving a yogurt bowl out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 they literally don’t care. …

my mom is a decently popular women's rights advocate, yet still a massive piece of shit monster, and a massive misogynist — I am not going to say her name, or anything identifying so dont bother to ask, if you do not believe me and think I am making this up go ahead i cant stop you, but i am not going to risk my safety so …

AITAH for choosing my peace and dignity over this toxic ahh group? — this is a VERY LONG thread so only read if you have time please, although the full post has more context. SUMMARY IS PROVIDED AT THE END Last year, me (17f), and my 2 best friends lets call them, li…

Anyone else get this? Because I feel like anyone would. — Just a starter, one of my traumas is homelessness. We aren't in danger yet, but our landlord has told us he wishes to sell at some point in the future and we are trying to find a new place to move. Pr…

How do i navigate through a toxic grandmother in law? — Long story short - met my wife a couple years ago as friends. I worked in the same city as her temporarily because we were opening a new office. She was taken, so was I. Fast forward - both of us e…

Narc Abuse - Coercive Control - Police — I’m from England. Coercive Control is now a criminal offence here. I left 1.5 years ago as he slept, four days later got the most brutal discard (all the things he promised he wouldn’t do), silent tre…

cptsd feeling of betrayal in romantic relationships — i really, really want to be happy with my boyfriend. we just started dating and even though my life is really difficult right now he's been supporting me and being very kind to me, but with my cptsd a…

Do jealous immigrant APs like to call their well-adjusted children racist? — As a Chinese American who is somewhat trilingual, I'm curious as to whether anyone else has APs who either a) do not speak fluent English despite living in the US for 20+ years and demand your transla…

My (36F) partner (37M) recently got a medical diagnosis and now wants an open relationship. Is it selfish of me to not want to? Or selfish of him to ask for one? — We’ve been together for 7 years now and been through a LOT of life changes and difficulties (grad school, moving, new jobs, etc). All of the stressful things and have come out on the other side strong…

N Dad wants to divorce my mom after 30+ years because she hasn’t slept with him the week after her mom died — Marked NSFW just to be safe. TW for rape, physical abuse, verbal abuse, even if I don’t go into much detail. Let me know if I marked or did anything wrong! I don’t usually use Reddit. I’m (31F) unfor…

Is this normal, or am I being dramatic? — I just want to hear others opinions, and if someone else has/had similar experiences, because I feel like I'm being overdramatic about this. All advice is welcome and I would really appreciate it. I a…

A Pro Asian Men Facebook Page Call Crystal Ren Hosted by a Chinese Women. Is It Legit or a Grift? — ***Preface:*** Aznidenity don't allow Facebook links, so you guys have to search it out for yourselves. I came across a Facebook Page call Crystal Ren hosted by an Asian woman. Today was the first t…

relationship with my dad that makes me feel uncomfortable — My 56m dad is an undercover misogynist and very religious because most abrahamic religions allow men like him to have community. Around middle school- highschool (12-14), my dad had this obsession wit…

Partner traded me in for in laws — TLDR: has anyone had a partner go back to their nfamily after going no contact and then blamed you for everything while the nparents refuse to apologise for anything at all and are treating your partn…

Ended up dating a narc (I think) — So I want to preface this person was 18M and I had known of them since they were 14. From what I knew of them they were relatively nice, insecure, unattractive, smart, had family issues, and deeply un…

I'm pretty sure my ex bf was FA. He claimed he was anxious but the trauma he experienced and his behaviors leading up to our breakup kind of point to FA. He broke up with me for just shutting down. Li…

My ex FA did this as well. After our relationship ended, he told all the men who were interested in me that I was a stalker (I’m not) and to block me on socials (they did). I am an FA and can certainl…

It is like misogynist comedy or shows with a lot of violence? I can’t watch that stuff either or be around it.

Moderators, where are YALL WHEN WE NEED YALL??? "I promise I'm not a misogynist"

I'm a woman. I miss my ex's (a guy) body. It's not misogynistic. It means you bonded with her. I don't just miss his fun bits. I miss his eyes, his smile, his laugh, and the way it felt to hold hi…

>Is this a result of chronically online and/or porn culture? Yes it is, most of them will not even have the gall to ask you that in real life or face to face, the internet emboldens people and gives …

Thanks for the kind words. I don’t understand it either, but it didn’t help that his family was a lot more conservative than I initially realized and I think some of his views were pretty ableist as w…

Or with "strangers" But, it is a girl, with STD. So the misogynist must misogynist.

Misogynistic assumptions, probably

Yeah I don't get why it's controversial to talk about this, or why people saying that attractiveness didn't help them overcome certain things/made others take them less seriously/made them a target is…

Here’s the thing, there’s so many single women in this world who want a partner. A good man. Sometimes good men come with some baggage, as do good women. If you’re not a misogynist, point in your favo…

The fact that I have right-wing misogynists getting mad at what I’m saying is just helping my case that this idea of “most women have responsive desire and most men have spontaneous desire” is repacka…

I dont want to sound like a misogynist but I honestly believe most women are not wired for casual, FWB, type of thing. In my experience the women always got some kid of attachment, they always wanted …

I think that my dad was so horrible that it made me feel unreasonable for thinking I should cut off my mom as well. My mom was a narcissist too, but she was not as overtly terrible as he was. She was …

As a type 1 diabetic, sometimes there's genetic factors involved. it isn't always a clear connection between carb/insulin intake and exercise. you can get diabetes and "do everything right." tell him …

My thought is if he is all of a sudden lamenting about wanting children, then he is being brainwashed by propaganda. He is most likely a Trumper and a misogynist. I wouid run as fast as I can.

Responding partially to your response and partially to the OP. I've been concerned with this manosphere garbage since I accidentally stumbled onto it online six or seven years ago. My initial response…

If they part of the “manosphere” most likely they are: covid and vacc deniers, misogynistic, andrew tate lovers, money obsessed, everything is the “lefts” fault and conspiracy nuts. Mind you i love a …

He was probably taught to make comments like that on one of those misogynistic manosphere podcasts about how to control women or something.

So sad for the young men out there. Clearly, these men have not been taught how to talk about their feelings with a woman. They are desprerate for strong, kind smart role models. some ideas 1. We…

this is such a weird argument, it’s basically just manosphere talking points with the word “society” swapped in so it doesn’t sound as obviously misogynistic lol. you’re talking about the problems m…

you're more than welcome to restart the entire conversation from here if you can actually engage with what i said instead of Darvo'ing the conversation while accusing me of being biased and misogynist…

I didn’t call you a misogynist, I said your talking points were because they are. and you can keep repeating DARVO all you want, the goalpost won’t be moved. back to the point—calling a few feminist…

"I didn’t call you a misogynis"" which is why I called your talking points misogynistic in the first place" , at least try to argue in good faith.

I think income plays a big part.. Almost all the guys I know who got divorce is because they lost their jobs or business and these are Asian , white , black you name i men. Asian men are on the ave…

you cut my sentence in the middle and then pasted another sentence despite the original one literally saying the same thing. the full sentence is: “I didn’t call you a misogynist, I said your talking …

do you know they also have defined spellings? and I’m telling you I literally mean what I said—the talking points are misogynistic, not necessarily the commenter themself which is why I gave them sev…

Since you are in Mumbai, it’s understandable how onerous the dating expectations are for you from such a misogynistic culture and why the men you date have these demands without even vetting the proce…

It sounds like your idea of being single does not include sex. That’s ok. Just be honest up front. And not judging. There are many gray areas of ethically non monogamous connections. Some people o…

Please listen to people advising paternity tests and more robust birth control going forward. If you look at the comments here you will see a ton of people offering their relationship trauma as advice…

Uncomfortable truth: if AMs were more misogynistic and aggressive like the Arabs and Latinos, we would not have had Joy Luck AFs becoming the representatives of our race. It’s not too late to right th…

I think so. He would normally grin, it became a regular face in my nightmares. He also did lots of impressions of me being scared/mentally ill and recount some of those moments anytime.. impressions o…

I honestly don’t think the core reason behind the Red Pill ideology is sex or dating. As an older Gen Z, I feel like a lot of boys younger than me would agree that “white people have more privilege th…

Girl, ditch this loser behavior and join us over at r/ReverseHarem and r/RomanceBooks. Shaming you for exploring and indulging your fantasies in a safe way is not only ludicrous but also dangerous. Sa…

Dump this insecure, misogynistic loser.

If this is new behavior, it’s coming from somewhere. Has he started listening to misogynistic podcasts?

>It’s her way of connecting with you. No, I'd say it's not. Connection implies a joint understanding and chemistry, not being blasted with one way drama dumping on the day and the people in it. Call …

>Holy misogyny. Why do you assume it's drama dumps? Why even mention the bachelorette? Thheerrreeee we are - right on time as predicted; misogyny - the word of choice to shutdown a man's response. D…

If she has a career then having kids is absolutely a financial transaction. The time she loses being pregnant, recovering, child caring, that all relates to her earning capabilities long-term, never m…

Look. One of the most dangerous things a woman can do today is to have children. Especially if you live in the US. Not only for her physical body but it would also be a hit to any career objectives sh…

He’s a known conservative misogynist and he does this all the time. He’s not a psychologist or a therapist, and often uses shaming techniques to explain his pov on the attachment style theory.

We need to get familiar with the concept of selective enforcement so they can’t gaslight us regarding stuff like this. In social media comments, defenders of the Oscar show runners have been saying th…

Why do you want to be with someone who expresses misogynist beliefs?

Sounds like he's the one who's getting emotional about the topic, given that he couldn't even continue it as a topic of discussion. Real talk: if he's not willing to engage with scholarly articles t…

Edit: as requested, citation below. If you had planned a girls weekend trip away and he asked to go, you know it would make the whole trip feel different. You might not want to admit it, but you kno…

Because he’s a misogynist.

The better way to handle it would be to ask questions instead of telling him his beliefs are misogynistic. Or to tell him how you feel when he makes those comments. You immediately put him on the defe…

nothing casual about casual misogyny. he’s just a misogynist. he doesn’t respect women - and that includes you. but will you have respect for yourself and see that you deserve better? edit: op plea…

This whole situation is very telling and I’d seriously reevaluate everything about your relationship. Sounds like this whole friend group is just as misogynistic. So hes claiming that women are biolog…

I am a woman who spent her career with mostly men (in the fire service) and if it's only women who are biologically complainers, per his theory, then every man I met in the fire service was an oddity.…