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I will offer a counterpoint from a man's perspective. Women have nesting instincts that men don't, and want more controlled environments because of this. Men have the natural urge to present themselve…
Blog built with “Projects” in Divi instead of “Posts” – Will this hurt SEO? — Hi everyone, I’ launched mta website using WordPress + Divi (still in early stages), and my site developer set up the blog section using **“Projects”** instead of the standard **“Posts”**. Now I’m c…
Do pages created from external RSS feeds (just headers, not full posts) hurt SEO? — A follow-up question on my SEO issue post from a couple of days ago. First of all, thanks everyone who replied -- this has been very helpful. Without going into all details again, the question was abo…
Identifying website visitors (companies) tool recommendations for a trade publication — Hi guys! I have some potential freelance business for a trade publication in the design space (architecture, interiors, landscape, urban planning topics) and I was originally trying to pitch SEO, re…
How do you generate qualified leads for a cohort-based course? — Hey everyone! 👋 I run a live, cohort-based masterclass on advanced Midjourney prompt engineering and am in the process of ramping up my lead-gen funnel for the next cohort. So far, I’ve Explored: *…
What will it take? — Seriously… What does it take to land a UX role these days? My wife is graduating with her masters in UX from a good program but it seems that the industry is evolving and everyone is making it seem …
Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…
Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…
SEO vets - what actually works for ranking nowadays? — Hey, So I’ve been diving into SEO for a bit now — took a dozen free courses (Semrush, Hubspot), read some articles by people like Brian Dean, etc. Thought I was starting to get the hang of it. But a…
Is Mobile Performance 70 Acceptable on PageSpeed Insights to START Blogging? — Other Mobile Scores: 92 Accessibility / 100 BP / 92 SEO Not that matters, but desktop is: 97 Performance / 91Accessibility / 100 BP / 92 SEO Before I start banging out blog articles, I wanted to ma…
SEO Backlink exchange marketplace - 10 testers — We built a software that creates daily SEO articles for your site AND handles backlink exchange between users automatically (similar niche) Looking for 10 peeps to try it for free! You get: - Fres…
Help Me Understand Relation Between Guest Posting and Google's TOS — I'll start off by quoting Google's Spam Policies: https://developers.google. com/search/docs/essentials/spam-policies >Advertorials or native advertising where payment is received for articles that i…
Personal Blog and Portfolio: Feedback?! — I have posted many blog articles on GitHub and other sites before and decided I want to have a personal homepage where they are all to find. I want to use this website as my portfolio as well. It's f…
POYLANG FREETitle: – Any Downsides I Should Be Aware Of? — Hi everyone, I'm new to WordPress and have just launched a website that I’d like to make bilingual. Here’s what I need: * Only **some** of the pages/services need to be translated; * A **blog** with…
Should technical articles be a nlof post or a pagw — I always debate this internally. If i write a technical article about for example how to meaure voltage when testing a piece of equipment. Should it be a page or a blog post? And what normally determ…
Which Caroussel? — Good morning, Which free Caroussel can I use to present excerpts from blog articles (small photo + small excerpt) Thanks in advance.
Anyone else feeling overwhelmed by how fast AI tech is moving? I will not promote — Anyone else feeling overwhelmed by how fast AI tech is moving? It feels like every week there’s a new AI tool or update — from chatbots to image generators to stuff that can write code or summarize l…
Organic growth and discovery tools - i will not promote — Hey community, I'm a founder of a few products (not posting links as i will not promote). My time for early traction goes in navigating reddit, twitter, articles, etc trying to get organic traction. …
What exactly are "Design Problems" and "Design Solutions" in UI/UX for Web and Mobile Apps? — I often hear terms like “design problems” and “design solutions” in YouTube videos, case studies, and articles about product design and UI/UX. While I do understand requirements and can design user fl…
Attachment Theory & Free Will? — Dear all, I'm very intrigued by the relationship between attachment theory (&, I supposed, any psychological theory) & free-will. They seem to me to slightly conflict. Certainly, it is a difficult p…
READ THIS if you want to POST here — This is a new thread with the SAME GUIDELINES as the previous post which is now archived. THIS THREAD IS ONLY FOR APPROVAL TO POST. You don’t have to be an approved user to comment or lurk. ONLY som…
Global Policy Journal: “Don’t look up?“ – Why it is past time for serious holistic research into Unidentified Anomalous Phenomena — Karin Austin, Michael Bohlander and Kimberly S. Engels have contributed an excellent article to the Global Policy Journal. Two of these people I've met personally and they are experiencers who are doi…
Does Reddit belong to the 3rd House or the 11th House? — I can see an argument for both. The 3rd House relates to our immediate and daily forms of learning/ communication which can include things like newspapers, books, internet articles, podcasts etc. So R…
I just used sandpaper and — I'm making a walking stick and I sanded both sides very fast and I felt some wood chipping at the back of my throat so I got a face mask and continued. I'm worried about how my lungs could now be in d…
I wish I left after the first affair — I feel so stupid for trying to reconcile after I caught the first affair. I was too much of a coward. I was too afraid to be alone. I was still in love. The hurt, the pain, the betrayal, everything wa…
How to stop being attracted to "unavailable" people? — I had a really, really bad relationship experience like 15 years ago, and ever since then, I seem to only be attracted to people who are confused about what they want/who they are. And this is also wh…
"They want to love you but they don't know how" — People say "they want to love you but they don't know how". OK. List all the ways you've tried. Did you ask anyone for help? Did you read books or articles on this topic? Anything that's inspired yo…
How do I (F26) talk to my partner (M33) about casual misogyny? — I (F26) had recently expressed excitement/interest about one of my partner's (M33) interests. It is a sort of biking/beer drinking tour that he does with his friends a few times a year (all male). I …
After 10 years of doing the most, I (30F) told my husband (34F) that we needed counseling or separation. Help me process? — I met my husband when I was a 20 year old college student and even though he is 4 years older than me, I became a pseudo-mother upon meeting him. For the last 10 years, I have been the sole breadwin…
SF to name street after Chinese-American woman who saved thousands from human trafficking — I was happy to read this news about a street in San Francisco being renamed after a brave Chinese-American woman named Tien Fuh Wu who saved thousands of women and girls from human trafficking. With r…
Part 1. How casinos in New England are exploiting Asian communities for profit — Long, long articles on how casinos use a variety of tactics to prey on Asians to rake in billions of dollars in profit; illegal gambling parlors in chinatown; and what Boston residents are doing to fi…
Why is Jupiter in the 7th house under gemini considered bad? — Read many articles and texts which said the same and it ends making married life bad. Would like to know others opinion on the same. Under gemini sign. Sagittarius lagna
Synchronicity and the Beginning or Continuity of Experience? — To begin, I have had quite a long winded set of experiences, that have seemed to have calmed down a bit over the last few weeks. They went on for several months beginning 3 months and 3 days before my…
If you're struggling with Meditation, this might be the push you need! — Apologies for the long-ish post, but I want to share this with everyone here, in case it helps them like it helped me. I used to think meditation was useless. I was a bit confused, a bit dismis…
I'm a crappy friend, I'm not someone good to be in a relationship with. I want help — Hello, everyone. So, I realized basically that I'm a very bad friend and was a bad partner in my past relationship. I'll list my bad actions both in my relationship and friendship, cuz many of these s…
Ramblings of a lunatic (me) — This is gonna be extremely long so I don’t blame you if you don’t want to read it but I’ve been writing about it for a while and struggled with meaning and found this Reddit and thought I’d seek out s…
Artemis II launch Discussion — Does anyone else want to delve into the chart for the Artemis II Launch? I became interested when I realized the return voyage is set to happen so close to the upcoming (Mars+Neptune)+(Mars+Saturn) co…
Welcome! Read Me First. — # Welcome to r/Stoicism. This community exists for serious discussion of Stoic philosophy. It is not a forum for general self-help, motivation, validation, or professional therapy. It is also not a p…
Asian Men Low Testosterone — [https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/testosterone-levels-by-country](https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/testosterone-levels-by-country) I've been edging to make this po…
Told my husband (37M) my life (34F) would be easier without him following a disagreement about household chores. — My husband 37M and I 34F have been married 5 years, together 8 and we have 3 kids (I have a 13 year old and 10 year old from a prior relationship ship and my husband and I have a 3 year old). I have p…
Do narcissists know what they're doing - an answer. — A question victims of narcissistic abuse often ask is, "does the narcissist know what they're doing?" This is a completely reasonable and understandable question. From my own lived experience with a …
If you don't believe and look for something, you won't find it — I usually ask questions about manifestation but today I wanted to put together a list of things I manifested in my life. It's easier to think you haven't achieved anything if you don't look for it. Th…
Dopamine and Infidelity — [https://mindlabneuroscience.com/dopamine-and-infidelity-neuroscience/](https://mindlabneuroscience.com/dopamine-and-infidelity-neuroscience/) New here. I stumbled upon this (very long scientific) ar…
For those curious on the possible science of shifting — I have recently been into the topics of astrophysics and neuroscience specifically in the discipline of the human consciousness. I came across a theory thats been thrown around in the science field an…
Podcasts or book recs for understanding privileges. — The past year has had so many ups and downs for me and I want to take steps to becoming a better person for myself and the others around me. I had a 8-year relationship that just ended and one big fac…
My (42F) husband (41M) grew a mustache that triggers my childhood trauma. He says I should get over it so he can do what he wants with his face. Am I being unfair in asking him to remove it? — I’ve been with my husband for thirteen years, and for most of that time, he has been clean-shaven. Recently, he decided he wants to try growing out a mustache "for a little while." The problem is not…
Got a few questions about lucid Dreaming. — I‘m relatively new to Lucid Dreaming and never experienced it before. I read a lot of articles about it and that topic fascinates me. But is it really like I think it is? Are you completely yourself i…
Procrastination is literally ruining my life and I want to snap out of it before it is too late. — I hope this isn't too much for this subreddit but I'm in desperate need of help. I've been dealing with procrastination issues my whole life and it's destroying my future. For example, I notice that i…
'Young 40s': Gen Z has found a new way to mock millennials for their style in South Korea — ['Young 40s': Gen Z has found a new way to mock millennials for their style in South Korea](https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c78vw30p1d2o)
Should I (31F) tell the man I’m dating (28M) about my last hookup? — About four months ago I was preparing to go on vacation out of the country. I knew this trip would involve meeting up with a friend-with-benefits who I had seen and slept with before. But the night be…
my mom is a decently popular women's rights advocate, yet still a massive piece of shit monster, and a massive misogynist — I am not going to say her name, or anything identifying so dont bother to ask, if you do not believe me and think I am making this up go ahead i cant stop you, but i am not going to risk my safety so …
1. Mental thoughts don’t become physical reality. Beliefs do. Repetitive mental thoughts turn into beliefs. 2. People in your world reflect your beliefs. Perhaps upon meeting someone you had an origi…
Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an approach to [psychotherapy](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/therapy) that identifies and addresses multiple sub-personalities or families within each pers…
This research might be interesting for you. [https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5026862/#TFN4](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5026862/#TFN4)
[It turns out that 21% of the time restraining orders actually instigate *worse* behavior.](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1448307/) I'm so glad I had such a savvy detective who both knew th…
There are good articles out there on scaling mariadb. Most of them start by understanding the mix of writes and reads. They end by softening the ACID constraints. Either by sharding and routing requ…
Hey there! I'm Josh, and I'm a **freelance copy and content writer** specializing in writing web copy for US-based SMBs and content such as articles and blog posts. Let me do what I do best--which is …
Please note the following is my opinion only, YMMV. I like minio for homelab or developer use cases. When it comes to cost though, I'd argue that S3 is generally cheap enough for anything that is ei…
Yes of course next parts will be around how to deploy production ready MinIO cluster on K8S, This two articles were like introduction beginner friendly, as POC for devOps and developers who wear the …
Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an approach to [psychotherapy](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/therapy) that identifies and addresses multiple sub-personalities or families within each pers…
The above post was initially removed by the mod team, as it is of the usual crap that populates the ngsub even till today, but has been reinstated to make a simple point that was touched on here : […
i’m in the same boat right now. I dated a girl a girl for two years who dumped me and has never spoken to me again since that day. it has been about a year since our breakup, but I keep obsessing. m…
It’s so absurd! This is a slight tangent but it is such a red flag when these people are “always” getting entangled with narcissists 😂 How is that even possible?! Are they going to Cluster B Mixers?…
Yes, I replied to another comment above with links to articles and further discussion on this topic. You made a unique point that other commenters haven’t pointed out about the racial and gender base…
chat gpt is not a person, its a bunch of code programmed to analyze what youre saying and keep a conversation going. sometimes it spits out pure nonsense just to answer your question. it literally jus…
read about your attachment, "attached" is a good book to start with. read articles, watch YouTube videos. Jimmy on Relationships makes great videos about attachment dynamics. Therapy if you can affo…
I'm confused, I'm distraught, I am lost. I've spent 10 months loving him, and learning him, and adjusting, and ignoring my needs for his needs, and the day I felt that something was wrong, I in fact w…
That meta analysis addresses empathy in general. As stated by them >We did not differentiate the dimension of the empathy; both cognitive and emotional dimensions were included as a general measure o…
Here's my thoughts after being on this subreddit for a while, and I am someone who has been daily practicing for the past 8+ months with no physical results. 1. Maladaptive daydreaming proves that ma…
Okay so I agree with a lot of what was said here, and I have something additional to add. I think part of this is the overculture. I grew up reading mags with articles about how "drive them crazy…
That makes total sense. Wild how that idea has managed to stay in the zeitgeist when I think if you pinned even (for instance) the authors of those articles down and asked them if they actually though…
I agree! There's an abundant amount of attachment style information out there but not much that demonstrates secure attachment style. Although this lady is not a psychologist or therapist, I think her…
Having the desire to work on it is the first step. I really like reading about this stuff and watching free resources on it. I like Heidi Priebe (who is fearful avoidant), Thais Gibson has some really…
This is a good read. [https://tealswan.com/resources/articles/chooseme/](https://tealswan.com/resources/articles/chooseme/)
Composite charts are a great tool for understanding family dynamics. I recommend 'The Astrology Bible' by Judy Hall, which has a solid section on composite charts. If you want some references immedi…
Gosh. I don’t feel good at all. I guess it is easier for me to be dumped than to break up with someone. It was so hard for me to actually write that breakup message which was not really a breakup m…
Attachment styles are different from attachment disorders… of course they aren’t in the DSM, it is not a mental health disorder. However, [researchers do use it](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/…
Pluto is a big factor here but it’s one layer in the pile. “US Pluto return” depends on which national “birth” you use. The common July 4, 1776 chart puts Pluto around 27° Capricorn, so the exact ret…
Netflix has a new show, [Age of Attraction](https://www.netflix.com/tudum/articles/age-of-attraction-season-1-cast-instagrams). This looks really entertaining. Dating show where everyone hides their a…
[About Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) | Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) | CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html) I don't agree with the other posters to point the finger at men given n…
Been talking to a new guy on Tinder for about a week. Had some great easily flowing conversation, lots in common, he’s super hot in his pictures though I did notice he’s wearing a hat in each one. He …
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My NM mailed me a huge stack of old New Yorker Magazine issues. They didn’t have any specific interviews or articles or cartoons that she wanted me to see. She just mailed me literal garbage so she co…
My article’s abstract says this: Antibiotic resistance in Chlamydiae: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3075073/ “There are few documented reports of antibiotic resistance in Chlamydia and n…
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I was a perfect little race horse. Ivy League degrees, a forking Fulbright, published books. The problem is once you perform so well that you outdo them, then they just go completely cold on you -- …
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The South China Morning Post (SCMP) has been accused of using its editorial platform to manufacture positive sentiment toward China while frequently publishing hit pieces targeting the United States. …
I'm already so sick of this era and it's only going to get worse. This the start of AI sickness with mental health. I notice AI posts all the time. Every other video reel is now AI. Reading is my fav…
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Chiming in as a Canadian to say that we will sometimes write things like "favorite colour" because of how much we switch between american and UK spelling lol. I've even seen discrepancies like this in…
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