right time

32(F) really need advice about feelings for friend — I have developed feelings for a friend (M30) over time. He has given me indications in the past that he might be interested in dating me, but I didn't want to get my hopes up too much. I have been try…

My arguments against manifestation — 1. **Maladaptive daydreaming proves that manifestation isn't real**; Manifestation doctrine teaches that what you focus on expands and manifests in your physical reality. Do not split hairs and try to…

Web Programming Languages Cheat Sheets - JV Codes 2025 — Are you tired of repeatedly searching for the same code on Google? Don’t worry—we’ve got your back! The page serves as a central location to find ready-operational cheatsheets regarding [programming l…

Different Businesses Need Different Content Formats – Here's Why (i will not promote) — Hey everyone! One thing I see often overlooked is the fact that **not all businesses need the same type of content formats**. Depending on your target audience and the type of business you run, the …

"I quit my engineering job due to anxiety and built a small business—how do I scale from here?" — Hi everyone, I wanted to share my journey and ask for advice from those who’ve scaled small businesses. I studied chemical engineering and got placed in a great company right after graduating from S…

What's your marketing strategy? — If you want to supercharge your sales, you need a robust sales funnel to convert prospects into buyers. And this includes creating killer content which will help move your prospect down the funnel. …

I(F28) have to have a tough conversation with my bf(M30), but I’m scared. — We’ve been together 8 years this July. Not married. It’s been a point of contention. We’ve been in a pretty rough spot since last year, and honestly, it’s only gotten worse this year. I’ve realized o…

My Fiancé kicked me out with only a few hours notice — This is the situation I am in. About a week ago my fiancé (25 M) brought up how he has some problems with me (25 F). We have been together for almost three years. He said he cant bring up sensitive to…

28F and 27M — What do you do when you know your relationship is about to end? — TL;DR: That feeling when you know your relationship has already reached its finish line. You both still love each other, but there’s no growth anymore. Your priorities in life are different now. One …

Gateway Improves my timing — Does Gateway improve your sense of timing? I never hear anyone talk about this, but it amazes me how it works. It's worth doing it for this alone. I always seem to be in the right place at the right …

Pulling the trigger but terrified, Male 48 — I'm a male, 48 years old. Married for 24 years to a woman two years older than me. I'm sure my story isn't unique, but here it is anyway. On the outside, we look like a great couple. We have a teena…

About no contact. — I just wanted to say that, yes, you should go no contact if you got dumped, only way that someone will realize what they lost is by not having access to it anymore, could take days, weeks and months f…

Is the hardest breakup the one where love was never the problem? — I’ve been thinking about a certain kind of breakup that feels particularly difficult to process. The kind where the relationship didn’t end because there was no love but because one person couldn’t s…

THIS 👇🏼 is how they moved on SO fast — Something hit me like a damn truck the other day and I genuinely haven’t been able to stop thinking about it, so I’m just going to put it out there in here in the hope that it helps one of you too Yo…

Getting over someone you shouldn't even care about — How do you get over someone that you feel strung you along for years going back and forth between being romantic and then friendship, back and forth, indicating they loved you but "the time is not rig…

We broke up but God is Good. — Hello, share ko lang yung story ko about my ex (27) and me (26). We were together for 3 wonderful years, and honestly, everything felt perfect. Masaya kami, legal on both sides, and we built so many m…

any advice would be appreciated. Anxiety. — Over the course of my life, I have always been a very anxious person, but when I got with my partner, I feel like I clung too hard and we are entering a new chapter in our lives where space is somethi…

Exclusivity talk: when is the right time? — Hi! Me (F39) started seeing a guy (M37) one month ago. We had 5 dates, being physically intimate, slept together, met our friends. We are both looking for a serious, monogamous relationship. We met o…

Avoiding Your Real Work Is Costing You More Than You Think — # Avoiding Your Real Work: The Hidden Cost of Staying Busy Without Progress ***“I’ve been noticing this pattern in myself lately and wanted to share it here because I’m curious if others deal with th…

How do I know when to walk away? — My husband and I have been together a little over to years, married around 5 months. We had issues before our wedding I’d hoped would get better after we didn’t have much stress. Things haven’t gotten…

I can't let go and still have hope for an ex that had already said he doesn't love me - looking for advice, community — (⚠️I apologize for the length of this post) Context: I (27F) can’t let go of my ex and still have hope even after he clearly told me he doesn’t love me I’ve been in an on-and-off dynamic with my ex…

When should I recontact my ex? — Im trying to decide on the best time to recontact my ex. She broke up with me after being dry for a couple of days saying that she thought that we were incompatible in the way we talk when we were aro…

Anyone else actually make it in life, only for it to fall apart? — The great sham of my life is that I was successful. THE SHAM: I got all As most of my time in school. I had a website at 19 that made me six figures for nearly five years. I was able to drop out o…

My long distance bf [21M] hid a pretty significant thing from me[21F] for months. — Please help with your (hopefully older and wiser) advice. Context: We are both each other’s first love. My boyfriend has never been serious/exclusive/talking with anyone before me, much less in a rel…

My bf [21M] hid a pretty significant thing from me [21F] for months. — Please help with your (hopefully older and wiser) advice. Context: We are both each other’s first love. My boyfriend has never been serious/exclusive/talking with anyone before me, much less in a rel…

UPDATE: Exclusivity talk: when is the right time? — Hi! A few days ago I asked about the right time for an exclusivity talk: https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/s/u0JrQhGdh7 Thank you for all the nice replies, I want to give un update. I had…

34F and 39 M unlucky in relationship breakup, divorce struggling — I’m 34 F I feel I’m unlucky and I wanted to know if I did anything wrong in my relationships? The first time I was dating a guy and we are engaged. But after that the real struggle started . He never …

Not feeling romantic or wanting to share any time while grieving. — TL;DR: I’ve wanted more alone time from the beginning of my relationship, now my father passed away and those feelings are amplified. Is this something I need to adapt to or should I end the relations…

25M. Why is my career stagnant? When is the right time for improvement?

I’m trying so hard to not break no contact — My ex broke up with me because we didn’t give each other enough space and we both have things we need to work through. She broke up with me less than a week ago but she told me she still wants me to b…

I (21M) am ready to break up with my (20F) Gf of 4 years… but she is away — Her and I have been on the rocks for a few months and I think the relationship has run its course. We broke up for a week but I caved and got back together with her. While we were broken up, she booke…

First lucid dream after years… Why did my dream control completely fail? My new method backfired — # Notice \----- This post might contain some sentence blobs that may be large for those people who just want to skim through, so I wrote a summarizing “**TL;DR**:” after every few sentences! Additi…

Pls some piece of advice would be helpful. 4 months now, thought I was better, but I'm not... — Hi, everyone! Sorry for the long post. I’m not used to posting on Reddit, and I’d really just like to talk to someone about this. It feels like my friends are sick of hearing me go on and on about it.…

Success story…but some questions too — Like I don’t know what flair to use for this, so used the miscellaneous one, so This is a long one, so grab your popcorn, so before starting let me tell you the manifestations i was trying to achieve…

Experienced sexual abuse but nobody believes me — I've been struggling a lot lately with panic attacks and flashbacks. Whenever the thoughts come into my mind I'll get stuck thinking about it for hours, and it's clearly not good to live like this. On…

54m and 48f at an impasse — My wife 48/F and I 54/M have been together on and off for the better part of the past 20 years. Last time we went our separate ways, it took about 5 years to come back because I moved out of state. …

THE OYSTER IS NOT YOUR WORLD! (IT'S THIS SIMPLE) — LONGGG POST! DISCLAIMER: for any of ya'll havin a problem with "long posts" , "english", "structure", "accent" etc etc. i got 2 tips for ya 1. chat gpt (or any other ai platform) - command c+v (summ…

WHAT DO YOU WANT?! — OK IMMA ASK A QUESTION - **QUES-** how many of ya'll had worse "3D" after learning about manifestation? reading neville? reading secret? law of attraction? law of assumption? anything at all youtube?…

Would something that catches your day slipping early actually be useful, or just annoying? — I’ve been noticing that when my day goes off track, it usually is not because of one huge thing. It is smaller stuff stacking up. Bad sleep, too much time on my phone, one stressful thing, lower energ…

[18M] with [19F] - We agreed to work on things, but I still feel like it’s over. Do I wait until after exams? — Hi everyone. I’ve been with my girlfriend for about six months. Recently, I realized I wasn’t feeling the same way anymore and I actually brought up the idea of ending things. When we talked, she got …

Is it a good time to start learning lashes, beauty related field? Really wanting to do this career wise. But am nervous and doubtful of taking the first step, and when the right time would be.

How do you deal with narcissistic parents when you're a minor, don't have a job, can't really move out, etc.? — I've heard of people running away, too, but how do they even know when the right time is to run away?

27F, going on first date ever tomorrow. I'm nervous, any advice? — this is not my first time getting into a relationship, I was in an abusive 10-year-long relationship without any dates, gifts, or love. I escaped, and have now recently gotten back into the dating wor…

So, if I'm asleep... I should just wake up like I usually do? But I don't know when is the right time. 😬 Cause I'm basically hearing myself snore. I don't hear sounds or anything flashing or vibratio…

I would like to know when the right time to know is? I’m in a VERY similar situation, and many of the comments are saying that it’s too early to tell and my thoughts are a reflection of my own attachm…

It's not a workbook, but "Anxiously Attached" by Jessica Baum has a lot of questions to reflect on and guided meditations. When she asks questions in the book and in the meditation I would pull out my…

Thank you so much! I’m sorry we’re all in this together but at least we have this. I read this at the exact right time. Take care!

I think you’re right which is why I'm dating again. She's smart so I'm sure she’ll heal one day it just pisses me off that some other guy who is just at the right time and right place will get to be w…

Well the same is true for you. The right person will come to you at the right place and the right time and get to be with you. Both you and her lost someone when the relationship ended and you both …

I think this comes down to the art of surrender. Letting go, faith, trust it's all the same thing. Not trying to control the outcome. You have set your intention your belief or even got to the knowing…

Children should not be adjusting their expectations to their parent's comfort level. That does cause damage, and teaches the child to suppress their needs and choose "the right timing" to express that…

The apps mean we go on dates with people that we probably never would have otherwise. Sometimes two people just don't click and it's no ones fault. Think back to high school or college. Were you upset…

You will know when you’re ready. I can’t explain it, but you’ll know it. When it’s the right time for you, it’ll feel like the right thing to say. In fact, when you’re really ready, you might even not…

It does sound like his idea of what love is could be quite different, and maybe he really does feel the same way about you, but for him “love” isn’t the right word yet. However, it’s definitely a vali…

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 I have developed feelings for a friend (M30) over time. He has given me indications in the past that he might be interested in dating me, but I didn't want to get my hopes up too much. I have been tr…

It’s my first first date in 10 years. My ex broke up with me the first week of January, but then followed that up with saying they had wanted to do so for a long time, but it had “never been the right…

I was afraid of losing the friendship and it never felt like the right time. I do regret not saying it sooner now though. He did talk to me and ask if I was interested in dating (not him specifical…

I don’t know if it’s settling, I think it’s a matter of realizing that you need the right partner beside you. Coming from a guy that’s 34 and has had very little success dating, it’s not that we don’t…

I’m Jupiter Aquarius in 3H 🙋‍♀️ I get why Jupiter in Aquarius feels confusing. Jupiter is supposed to be warm, abundant, obvious. Aquarius is detached, future focused, and kind of impersonal. It doe…

jupiter in aquarius is a genuinely tricky placement because jupiter's mode of expansion (organic, faith-based, through meaning and generosity) runs into aquarius' saturn-ruled framework (systematic, i…

Went on a fourth date with a girl a friend set me up with, who I [posted](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1r218q9/daily_sticky_thread_for_rants_raves_celebrations/o4vrsmg/?context=3…

I found that it often happens when you aren’t looking for it. I had broken up with a boyfriend a few months before, and wanted to go to a rave and have fun and just kiss a bunch of people, and ended u…

Oh there's always hope. Hope it's the last thing to go. I'm in no contact with her so my emotions can calm down but i still need to get all this off my chest and chatgpt is the only thing that helps a…

If you look at the right time for marriage, then according to your birth chart, it is when you are 32 years old.

As a 42M also having trouble dealing with aging, a liberal/progressive/social dem, living in a very small, conservative, evangelical town, in a conservative state, who would gladly date 30’s, 40’s, po…

I think the issue is, "If only I were in their shoes." Because if I was attractive in OPs shoes, I probably wouldn't want to be attractive. But in my own personal experience, I know the better phrase …

If I go to a restaurant and I’m hungry, I’m ready for the food immediately. But if I demand the meal immediately, what will I get? Raw chicken or bland veggies or other issues with the food that would…

But in the right time.

Your Saturn rules the 7th house so there will obviously be a little delay but worry not Saturn demands patience and if there is a will of god you will meet your partner in an unexpected situation and …

Ive actually been on a spritual journey recently..ive had lucid dreams often being in other planets or in the space since childhood...down in the rabbit hole of spritual learning ive been trying to pr…

Ive actually been on a spritual journey recently..ive had lucid dreams often being in other planets or in the space since childhood...down in the rabbit hole of spritual learning ive been trying to pr…

You'll never miss it. It is bound to meet you at the right time. 🙏😇 Believe!

I did this after being told not to and was pretty trapped. Just take your legal documents. You might risk too much by trying to move something that is literally large lol. You can buy everything else …

Yes, I know. I haven't contacted him because I know it's not the right time yet. We both need to heal and learn

Wow thats mindblowing, I don't think I could trust myself that much to wake up at the right time, especially if I have an important flight to catch haha. But what a fascinating skill you've developed!

Thanks for the link, I'll definitely check it out! You're wise to pay attention to those prompts when you get them and try to determine what's being said. In my case, I found a numerology website tha…

Oh god this is so true. I would drink to escape but then he would trigger me targeting my vulnerability. I left last year but the trauma still remains. Worst thing is that no one understands. I'm just…

That’s so vague. If she thinks that you are the one that she sees in future but why not right now? Bro there is no right moment for something. If you know that you see future with someone its either Y…

Those 2 factors are still luck because they involve being in the right place at the right time while having skills they need for that project/job. But they also chose me over many other qualified cand…

Are you taking action that get what you manifest? I just manifested our next home. This is the first time my husband has been with me thru the whole process. He has always believed I had some kind …

Sex on the 3rd date. I cant be in a relationship without sexual intimacy- so for me 3rd date is the test. You dont have to wait until third date, you dont have to have sex on 3rd date- but if sex…

I will preface my response that this is coming from a man's perspective. I know women get bombarded with messages so my experience is very different. Every person has their own messaging behavior (t…

It took a little over 4 months for me and my partner! Although I had been feeling it for a few weeks and considering saying it but not sure of the right time/if he was ready to say it back. Then there…

Go, you! It's an incredible feeling. As a woman, my numbers are obviously higher, but what really threw me is the sheer quality of the men- actual, live verified 10's that are interested in ME. I have…

Yes, they keep looking for reasons to fight to call you names and y torture you for the rest of the day or a couple days. It’s never the right time to talk to them and they are literally born right (a…

All that counts right now is you feeling a bit safer. Do you do any breathing exercises? Can you run your wrists points under a cold tap. Can you get some fresh air? Eat something sugary? The crying a…

So I did a shit job of providing any detail that in hindsight would have been relevant. I was on the subway and saw posts getting a couple comments and thought "let me post this train of thought and m…

Thank you for your kind words. We don’t have space nor the money for another child right now anyway so we will definitely wait for the right time 😊

This is exactly what I needed…crazy how these things pop up at the right time. They were avoidant but the moment I got stressed/overwhelmed and avoidant for a week or two was the deal breaker. It was …

Yeah, that sounds tragically familiar. Cuts you like a knife in the heaviest of ways! I'm also doing counselling at the moment, as well as domestic abuse support work stuff, while waiting for more spe…

I've been using the Liven app for about 3,5 months now, and it’s been really helpful for me. I definitely know what you’re talking about, because I was in a kinda similar situation. I was totally exha…

"Maybe I am leading with the assumption that there is a consensus reality" - Yup! That assumption deserves questioning. In working my program and doing the 12 steps I have learned that there isn't a c…