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ICE Agent who detained a mom and her daughter in SF International Airport

Yup, cop training literally instructs them to look down on civilians as either criminal "wolves" or dumb helpless "sheep," and cops are the valiant "sheepdogs" who keep both sides in line. Anyone who …

r/AsianAmericancomment3/23/2026
My parents raised me to just serve people

My parents raised me to just serve people — I'm 22(F) and have moved away from my parents place but might have to go back because it has become too expensive to live alone and my parents bought a bigger house so it would all work out for me if …

r/AsianParentStoriespost3/16/2026
I haven’t Had a Nightmare Since I was 6

I haven’t Had a Nightmare Since I was 6 — I don’t want to disclose my age, so we will just say I’ve been through both elementary and middle school since then. I genuinely haven’t had a nightmare since I was 6 and don’t know why. The last tr…

r/LucidDreamingpost4/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I didn't know attachment styles even existed until I started browsing this subreddit a few months ago, and it's absolutely wild how people are apparently going around constantly on guard watching out …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
Jesus loves a homewrecker...

I just want to say how much I feel for you. I also discovered my husband’s infidelity RIGHT before we were about to start IVF to have a child. Like, at least you and I dodged the bullet of another maj…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/12/2026
My mother sent my childhood abuser to my home, after I have been successful at making sure he never knows where I live.

Run and never look back. If he ever shows up at your home for any reason, call the police and do not open the door. Your “mother” should be treated just the same. That woman birthed you, but she is …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/16/2026
My mother sent my childhood abuser to my home, after I have been successful at making sure he never knows where I live.

Oh, hon, it's time to go NC with her. She's throwing you to the wolves to give herself a little respite.

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/16/2026
I've noticed everyone wants someone with CPTSD to stand up for themselves until they actually do it.

I have found that it results from holding two opposed prejudices in their psyche at once, without the realization of their cognitive dissonance. We're all gentle, innocent lambs that have been victi…

r/CPTSDcomment3/16/2026
When the Disciples could not perform Miracles, they were not told to become Detached or to do somatic release work, they were told that they MUST Believe!

I resonate with this because otherwise how would one explain how someone who isn’t completely rid of traumas (which by the way I must add a personal view upon - are the “dead” whom revive every time o…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/17/2026
My (26F) boyfriend (26M) ragequits when playing video games with me

I'm not gonna lie, and this is coming from someone who plays a lot of video games, I would never date a guy that plays online games that fall under the e-sport umbrella. Certainly not if its the only …

r/relationshipscomment3/20/2026
My (26M) brother (35M) has impregnated my ex wife(F27) and is engaged to marry her. How do I move on going forward?

Your family sucks; your mom is in an impossible position, though, and probably has fears for her grandchild because your brother is such a fuck-up and shit father, and "Key" comes from a shit situatio…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/20/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 21, 2026

A month ago on here I compared the apparent fear of avoidant people to fear of [werewolves](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1qxljhc/comment/o3yxi82/?context=3), because the whole co…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/21/2026
ICE Agent who detained a mom and her daughter in SF International Airport

Any Asians that join law enforcement, whether ICE or local police, should do well to remember that you’ll never be part of their club, even if you wear their badge. Remember that Tao Thao got the seco…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/23/2026
Did anyone else's parents never teach you literally any basic life skills at all. And then turn around and mock you for not knowing them

Yeah I almost drowned in a pond at my bio dad's when he wasn't watching me. He raised hybrid wolves a d appointed them my babysitters. He told me once that he was working on a car and Max, the big wol…

r/CPTSDcomment3/27/2026
Why does it feel like "kind people" suffer the most while "toxic people" thrive?

I think it comes down to predators and prey. Wolves and sheep. If that makes sense. Toxic people, and I've sadly fallen for one, can truly do untold damage to a genuine, caring, empathetic and decent …

r/CPTSDcomment3/29/2026
It gets to a point where the enablers are worse than the narcissists.

I agree 100%. Enablers can be dangerous because we're much more likely to trust them than the narcissist which means that when they invalidate our abuse and tell us we're over-reacting, we're much mor…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/31/2026
song recommendations for a broken heart

My taste is more alternative rock if that's your flow Three Six Five, by Shinedown A Symptom of Being Human, by Shinedown Get Up, by Shinedown Ghost, by Badflower Gives You Hell, by All Anerican …

r/BreakUpscomment4/1/2026
My brother (28M) is getting married to his gf (18F) and I am TA for disapproving...

I think that your concern is merited. She was never a child. Her father tried to "sell" her, which means she was most likely SA'd by the men he tried to sell her to. Then mom lets her quit 9th grade, …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
I (28F) want a divorce from my wife (39F) after she gambled again tonight?

Change gets harder the older that we are (I'm 49). Someone with a gambling problem at 39 is really unlikely to get this *forever* behind them. While it can really be hard to think of the far future …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
Cbt is humillating

I'm not a practitioner but I think you understand it in a nutshell. The two parts that stood out to me were 1. Interupting your train of thought. Realizing you've just experienced something that makes…

r/CPTSDcomment4/1/2026
Anyone else had a golden retriever husband/long-term partner that turned out to be a serial cheater/womanizer?

I never heard that expression. It’s a good one, golden retriever. Those are the hard ones to leave because everyone says he’s so great. Some people have amazing owl or hawk like vision, to keep o…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/2/2026
Does anyone else realize they were a weird kid because their parents did not teach them social skills?

I say I was raised by wolves. But yeah, after how much effort I put into my puppies, I relate to that. I'm an under socialised puppy who wants to make friends and just ends up awkwardly wriggling in t…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/3/2026
Make it stop

I plan to go to Canada this year. There is a cabin out there with glass walls and the wolves come up to visit. Its stunning from the photos.

r/LucidDreamingcomment4/3/2026
what are some you games you absoluetly should NOT play if you have CPTSD and the game is high colestrol

Second this. I play PvE so I manage to stay alive more often than not, but even then wolves and gunshots give me a thousand yard stare. Footsteps are instant adrenaline. When they ran the update that …

r/CPTSDcomment4/3/2026
what are some you games you absoluetly should NOT play if you have CPTSD and the game is high colestrol

Dude wolves that appear without howling have given me a complex. Also on the rare instance I don't play pve, I usually freak the fuck out every time I have to make a campfire because it sounds like fo…

r/CPTSDcomment4/3/2026
Nostalgia is now another form of grief

Jesus, I could’ve written this myself. I didn’t want the divorce.I mourn my marriage and this is the most traumatic experience of my life. I cried all the time. No music b/c I cry. I liked being mar…

r/Divorcecomment4/4/2026
got fired because "it doesn't seem like you're trying hard" and my heart is broken

My last restaurant job, I was the kitchen manager and excelling at it by all standards but the owner just had beef with me no matter what I did. I basically got the same message you did as an excuse t…

r/CPTSDcomment4/4/2026
How to call out white liberal racism

>While conservative whites are much more direct with their bigotry, usually resorting to slurs, harassment, and violence, white liberals are way more sneaky—they’ll gaslight, be snide, smug, and passi…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/5/2026
“Why don’t you want to die with the rest of us”

Nothing about what your mother said makes sense. At heart, humans are biological organisms. The purpose of an organism is to survive long enough to reproduce and either raise its offspring to reproduc…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/5/2026
Do you believe in dating leagues?

If you met someone who told you they were from Mars and raised by wolves.. would you wait for a formal diagnosis?

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
Breaking up with my Gf might ruin her life

Exactly what sacrifice has SHE made by leaving an abusive family? This guy gave her an opportunity to leave that situation and is continuing to help support her as she builds herself back up. The fac…

r/relationshipscomment4/6/2026
Astral animals?

Haha what I meant by that, which is a bit confusing, is that it is as if it livered in multiple layers of existence at once. Here, for anyone else who reads, I’ll link both original posts. They involv…

r/AstralProjectioncomment4/6/2026
My mom threatened with killing herself after i set some boundaries

He's using you as a Meat Shield. If he didn't do exactly what she wanted, when she wanted, how she wanted she would be all over him. So YOU get thrown to the wolves instead so that he doesn't have …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/7/2026
Ran into my DA ex years later and he remembered everything. DAs, what’s actually going on internally?

Sometimes I feel like a lone wolf. I treasure special experiences, connection, and emotional intimacy with others, at times. But I'm still that lone wolf. I like freedom, independence, and not constan…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/7/2026
My (21F) boyfriend (26M) met my parents and it didn’t go well. I want a strangers opinion on the situation?

Yes, I agree but it’s clear he does not know how to deal with the situation DUE to it being a trigger and trauma response from his childhood. Nobody on this earth is perfect. I choose to give empathy…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
He has significant debt from his divorce, I'm debt-free, can this work?

> or better. If you won't settle for someone less financially stable... why should he? >secure as I am** if not more**. She still thinks that she should be chosen by a guy that makes more despite…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/10/2026
I (23f) recently discovered that Im a brat through a dom friend (29M) and need some guidance….

First off, some very important distinctions. * Don't confuse kink with personality. Enjoying being dom / sub / brat-sub etc as a kink is not real-life behaviour and personality. In most cases, it's di…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
Ran into my DA ex years later and he remembered everything. DAs, what’s actually going on internally?

Lone wolves may survive but they won't thrive in isolation as a fundamentally social creature. This seems like romanticizing an unhealthy coping mechanism

r/attachment_theorycomment4/12/2026