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we are not the same

r/AsianAmericanUpdated 30 days ago
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ICE Agent who detained a mom and her daughter in SF International Airport

Not op but I read it as he straight up lied about the existence of the Asian flush to either A) set a firm boundary that "we are not the same" or B) he's a dick who dgaf about facts

r/AsianAmericancomment3/23/2026
Does anyone else just not tell their mother anything

I've also learned to stop sharing around the middle school era because whatever I want, say, or do never measure up to the "potential she knows I have in me". They don't understand, somehow, that we …

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/11/2026
How do you stop your brain from replaying the same relationship memories?

To “stop” perhaps implies “to get rid of”, or to bury something. Our minds aren’t really something we can control for very long. Try to prevent yourself from thinking about pizza, and you end up thi…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/11/2026
I'm a rotten abuser and I can't forgive myself for it and I don't feel that I should.

I hear you. Like...I could have basically written the same post. My partner is the best man that could ever be in my life, like....painfully good and understanding. I do lash out for minor things, tre…

r/CPTSDcomment3/17/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 07, 2026

Weird one but does anyone else ever feel like the person they are on a date with is, like, a different species of animal to you? No idea how to express this as it's not really like they are in a diffe…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/7/2026
Am I wrong to feel offended?

I have realized and you should realize our own biases that people are kind, honest, respectful, and want high performance out of ourselves. It's a bias most people have that others are just like them …

r/AsianMasculinitycomment4/9/2026