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Got an insane flying monkey voicemail this morning

Funny how the "heartbreak" and "manning up" only ever works unilaterally, isn't it? Sorry. Reading that pissed me off because I have experienced things that have a very similar dynamic. I hope you m…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/12/2026
Got an insane flying monkey voicemail this morning

I'd LOVE to know how he broke both kneecaps! Man up? It's harder to stand on your own than continue to be a masochist and take the abuse. So you ARE manning up, just not the way they want you to. …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/12/2026
How do I stop replaying things people said to me?

the constant replaying is brutal especially when you're seeing them at school every day. Your brain gets stuck in these loops trying to make sense of what happened but there's no real logic to find wh…

r/BreakUpscomment4/7/2026
I’m(M18) in a 4 year relationship(F18) but I want someone else(F18)

Man that hits real close to home for me. I’m in this wjth you man. I am certain the conversation will end in tears and seeing her cry is heartbreaking for me. I see her tomorrow and plan to have a con…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
How do I (F24) nip my boyfriend’s (M26) weaponized incompetence in the bud?

The next time he says, “I don’t know how,” ask him- completely seriously- what on earth has happened to cause this change. Ask him point blank if this is something he’s started doing in order to get o…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026