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I (40m) found out my wife was having an affair. Confronted her. Now she has ghosted me. — It is still very early days, I'm currently staying with my parents, trying to navigate this very fresh wound. I don't even know where she is anymore, I thought she was at home with the cats, but I can…
Does EMDR therapy work? Specially for this? If not what’s something that will. — TRIGGER WARNING: mentions SA This is like hard for me to type. I just don’t know where to start with it. I have gone to therapy for other things like anxiety, depression, and my trauma I went through…
Will EMDR help? — TRIGGER WARNING: mentions SA This is like hard for me to type. I just don’t know where to start with it. I have gone to therapy for other things like anxiety, depression, and my trauma I went through…
this really resonates with me because i feel the exact same way about uncertainty. i HATE not knowing. like, i wanna know if things will work or not so i can either feel ok or move on but that is not …
That is not over functioning. What are you even talking about. How long would you have waited in this situation of not knowing. Yes, this guy messaged you back, eventually, but that’s not everyone. …
Incredible post and reminder for us to stay in our I AMness! Our little 3d based egos cannot fathom the magic and miracle behind the I Am. There is nothing to do, nothing to work for. Doing these exce…
My parents didn’t teach or made the lessons intolerable, then would scold me for not knowing.
Yes, the overwhelm that comes from knowledge is also something that isn’t fully talked about up front. I think I actually burned myself out on managing my CPTSD at one point because I was taking in so…
I’ve been there. It hurts. Just leave her alone now so you don’t make things worse, and try to find some peace in not knowing. Sometimes I try to make up reasons why, that are about them, so that it d…
Thanks for the feedback. This was actually my very first Reddit post in my entire life! And I get it that nobody wants to watch a video. It's not AI, it's an hour-long video because it was very hard t…
I do feel as though I betrayed my father. Whenever my dad would ask for help with his phone, I would see random women come up who were not known family friends. I found that suspicious. Several years …
Not mocking but certainly blaming me for not knowing. Once I asked one of them if they ever teached me to organize/clean my room and she was like 'oh I'm pretty sure we must have shown you once or twi…
Why does this post look like AI? I hate not knowing. Anyway, my experience with the outside world and my traumatic abuse is regular people simply don't have it in their brain wiring to comprehend it.…
Girl, I know exactly what you’re going through because I’m going through the same thing. Reading your post felt like looking at myself. I know it’s toxic, but we can’t help it,we’re just so attached, …
I had a cancer that had a 5% chance at survival of 10 years. Im 15 years out from it and not a day goes by that in some ways i miss having cancer. I had to drop out of college for a while but i got to…
I'm truly sorry for your pain and you are in the right place here. When it comes to it, the ultimate question is should you stay or go. From my perspective, staying means you'll have to learn to liv…
My husband, as far as I know, cut all contact with AP once he confessed it to me. She was his employee and quit working there. He was the same as your wife though regarding my feelings. He would ge…
Oh man Its hard to say. free will and all lol. No two people are the same and who knows what the percentage of men vs women that reach is. Idk. I can tell you one thing. My ex is soooooooooooo stubbor…
Don’t tell him. It’ll be shittier getting a I don’t care type of response than him not knowing.
I don’t tell ppl this often but dump his ass. I usually try to avoid this type of advice because ik most ppl won’t so I try to help with other ways to tackle the problems. But coming from someone who …
I'll be honest. Some of this is real and some of it is revenge fantasy dressed up as dating advice. The parts that land. Number 6 is true. Begging feeds their ego and resets your healing to zero ever…
>Whatever u are thinking all the time, it is already getting manifested. Not really, Neville did NOT say every random thought manifests. He taught that only accepted states of consciousness manifest.…
Non-duality is being mixed here with manifestation, and they’re not the same thing. In Advaita Vedanta, there is no individual self, no doer, and nothing to “manifest.” Even the sense “I am” is not u…
That sounds really overwhelming, especially dealing with both mental health and this at the same time. No one here can tell you what that lump is. Bloodwork from 3 years ago doesn’t rule things out n…
Truly remorseful cheaters who might be able to change do all of the following: 1. Confess immediately in full. 2. Gets a medical screening for STDs and refuses to have sex with their partner until t…