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Declining all invitations. Not being able to "read" people. Expecting betrayal at any moment. Thinking all families are manipulative. Not ever letting anyone really "know" me and yet not being able t…
Got my profile on OLD started up again after 8-9 months off. I feel like a lot of sketchy guys match with me -- some guy who literally lives 2k miles away matched with me. I was trying to be open mind…
You did deserve it just as much as anyone else inheriting their parents. And you have done much better than so many by placing it securely, spending it wisely, getting a career for yourself, and donat…
That makes no sense to me, sorry. You’re not “at serious risk” if the guy doesn’t show up. And phone calls are time wasting by definition, talking to someone you might have no chemistry with. But no…
Dealing with regret is really difficult, and I also struggle with making the same mistakes repeatedly in my life. I have two separate thoughts on this. For the regret, get a journal and when you find…
Time wasting is the worse. How long will it be before you accept what isnt yours ?
I am dating for a long term relationship. As another commentator has already aptly put it: "Sex is even more important in a LTR so compatibility is critical. If I really liked someone and saw a futur…
Sounds like he played the long game and told you what you needed to hear in order to get in your pants. Unfortunately this happens. It’s one of the most frustrating parts of dating. I wish that these …
To be fair on her, HE set that expectation. If you're exclusively seeing each other, you should be bf/gf FFS. Anything else is insecure time wasting.
Actually it’s come from a place of concern AND avoiding time wasting. They don’t have to be mutually exclusive. If there is something wrong then we take a rain check or change the tempo but more often…