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Has anyone looked into what chronic depression and trauma actually do to your body at a cellular level? The research is both terrifying and oddly empowering.

Your research is solid, and if anything you've understated it. The 2-7 years figure comes from some of the more conservative estimates. Simon et al. found telomere shortening equivalent to as much as …

r/CPTSDcomment3/23/2026
Virtualization is hurting my mental state.

Virtualization is hurting my mental state. — I was just curious if anyone else was experiencing this. With the rise of AWS and other cloud services, it's making my work feel more and more "fake". All the machines are virtual, the networks are vi…

r/DevOpspost5/3/2025
How do you persist data across pipeline runs?

How do you persist data across pipeline runs? — I need to save key-value output from one run and read/update it in future runs in an automatic fashion. To be clear, I am **not** looking to pass data between jobs within a single pipeline. Best solu…

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
Why Do WooCommerce Payment Settings Look Different on Two Identical WordPress Sites? Proofread Version:

Why Do WooCommerce Payment Settings Look Different on Two Identical WordPress Sites? Proofread Version: — Hello, I have two WordPress sites (version 6.8.1) with WooCommerce (version 9.8.2, database version 9.8.2, high-performance order storage enabled). Both sites use the same theme, PHP version, and iden…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
Which Hosting to choose for a website with ~100 pictures uploaded per day by users

Which Hosting to choose for a website with ~100 pictures uploaded per day by users — The website is mostly of the pictures posted by users. Please advice any good cloud storage that is easily scalable. My dev told me to go with digital ocean. They have so many pricings and I am lil co…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Should I move from Supabase to a self-hosted backend?

Should I move from Supabase to a self-hosted backend? — I’ve been using **Supabase** for my current app—mainly for Postgres, authentication, and storage. It’s been super convenient for getting started, but I’m starting to think about switching to a **self-…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Has anyone used https://imgbb.com/ to host images?

Has anyone used https://imgbb.com/ to host images? — We are currently looking for the cheapest and simplest way to host images. So we've stumbled upon. We are aware of using AWS S3, of large blob storage requirements and so forth. This ques…

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
💾 Why You Should Consider MinIO Over AWS S3 + How to Build Your Own S3-Compatible Storage with Java

💾 Why You Should Consider MinIO Over AWS S3 + How to Build Your Own S3-Compatible Storage with Java — Hello ! I just published a 2-part series exploring object storage and S3 alternatives. ✅ In Part 1, I break down AWS S3 vs MinIO, their pros/cons, and the key use cases where MinIO truly shines—esp…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Log / Metrics / APM for SaaS Solutions with minimal / no Selfhosting

Log / Metrics / APM for SaaS Solutions with minimal / no Selfhosting — I'm currently looking into a tool for our developers to get metrics and logs from our Azure App Services and Azure SQL services into. I'm currently using Azure Managed Grafana for Alerting and Datadog…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Started my instagram clothing store

Started my instagram clothing store — So i’ve opened my instagram clothing store oriented for kazakhstan and i would like some feedback. The store is wicked.storage

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
how do you manage cache browser control- after version update?

how do you manage cache browser control- after version update? — here's the problem- obviously we don't want to screw up our clients when they are working, so a new version should be in a manner that won't cause conflicts in the previous version, which has loaded …

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Video camera for YouTube and digital camera for products

Video camera for YouTube and digital camera for products — I have been using my phone to run my business but I would like better quality photos 📸. Not to mention, my phone storage is pretty full because of the photos and reels. Also, I want to utilize my You…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations

Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…

r/attachment_theorypost10/23/2025
NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories.

NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…

r/experiencerspost3/13/2026
Almost 1 year since I left... And I just started my own business!! I'm living in MY own apartment and I own everything I need — I decide how ALL of my days are gonna go now! FU!

Almost 1 year since I left... And I just started my own business!! I'm living in MY own apartment and I own everything I need — I decide how ALL of my days are gonna go now! FU! — I can't say it to my nex(because I am keeping absolute no-contact), but I'll say it here, hell I will scream it: #Fuck You!! Fuck you for every time you put me down Fuck you for every time you deci…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/21/2026
A recent dream experience that leaked into my waking life

A recent dream experience that leaked into my waking life — I should have taken a photo, but at the time I really wasn't sure if I should talk about my dream. Now I feel like I should. In the dream I was in some room. The walls were painted white and there wa…

r/experiencerspost3/28/2026
Let it go

Let it go — It was the moment I surrendered the outcomes and realized surrendering control is an active task, is when the tide started turning. I noticed there was tension at my current work , for the last mont…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/29/2026
My father won't clean up the mess he made in the bathroom and he thinks it's funny. Am I overreacting? Would I be if I stopped doing things for him that I would usually do?*

My father won't clean up the mess he made in the bathroom and he thinks it's funny. Am I overreacting? Would I be if I stopped doing things for him that I would usually do?* — Marked as NSFW due to the general content: mentions of urine/fecal matter (in a bathroom), but with some level of descriptions of the bathroom as a scene visually. (Note; I hope that that is okay to t…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/3/2026
Am I actually losing out?

Am I actually losing out? — Looking for ways to build my life up (hobbies, activities, places to travel in EU etc). I found out my partner of 6 years was having an (at least) emotional affair with a coworker since January. Best…

r/survivinginfidelitypost4/4/2026
Why is my mother being cruel to me during an already difficult time?

Why is my mother being cruel to me during an already difficult time? — Sorry, this is going to be a long one!  Let me start off my saying that I love my mother. She and I used to get along for the most part. It always seemed like we would get along great during the day …

r/EmotionalNeglectpost4/5/2026
Husband (28M) wants to cut off lifelong friend (28m) after he made AI porn of me (28F) How do we move forward?

Husband (28M) wants to cut off lifelong friend (28m) after he made AI porn of me (28F) How do we move forward? — My husband has been best friends with this guy since childhood, they grew up down the street from each other. I’ve been with my husband for 8 years, and I’ve known this friend the entire time. A few …

r/relationship_advicepost4/5/2026
I [30F] and my boyfriend [30M] are struggling with recurring drawn-out arguments and communication issues

I [30F] and my boyfriend [30M] are struggling with recurring drawn-out arguments and communication issues — My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 years, and the last 2 years have had a lot more ups and downs. I care about him, and we’ve built a life together that I really value: we have a home i…

r/relationship_advicepost4/7/2026
Hi! (29f) here my boyfriend (33m) pushed me to the point where I had to end things. I am really, really sad. Showed up to the AA meeting I’ve been going to.

Hi! (29f) here my boyfriend (33m) pushed me to the point where I had to end things. I am really, really sad. Showed up to the AA meeting I’ve been going to. — I’m feeling so sad even though I know this relationship is destroying me. I am the type of person who will never quit on someone (just see my other posts about my relationship over the years) but I ca…

r/relationship_advicepost4/7/2026
Loneliness is a major part of my depression, and I need help finding friends

Loneliness is a major part of my depression, and I need help finding friends — Hope this is appropriate for this forum. I am in a lot of pain every day. I have been completely alone for many years. I have no friends at all, for over ten years but more generally all of my life. I…

r/selfhelppost4/8/2026
“I suffer, so you suffer” mindset, why?

“I suffer, so you suffer” mindset, why? — I’m not fully sure if this is the right Reddit thread for this, so please kindly point me in the right direction if not. My dad, and brother subsequently, have always had a “I suffer/suffered, so you…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/9/2026
My boyfriend’s dad read my private letters and I feel completely violated

My boyfriend’s dad read my private letters and I feel completely violated — My (26F) boyfriend (26M) has a father who has been the biggest challenge in our relationship. I’ll call him Ned. He’s an alcoholic, gambler, emotionally manipulative, irresponsible, immature, and of c…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/9/2026
How do I switch providers without coming off as disrespectful?

How do I switch providers without coming off as disrespectful? — I accidentally found out that one of the clients of my group therapy program is a registered sex offender with FIVE 1st-2nd degree charges for SA/rape of a 10 year old child. This doesn't really surpr…

r/CPTSDpost4/10/2026
Loneliness is a major part of my depression, and I need help finding friends

Loneliness is a major part of my depression, and I need help finding friends — Hope this is appropriate for this forum. I am in a lot of pain every day. I have been completely alone for many years. I have no friends at all, for over ten years but more generally all of my life. I…

r/selfhelppost4/10/2026
Working for a better future

Working for a better future — Sorry if this is all over the place, I'm brain dumping. I posted a while ago about my abusive parents and how I wasn't sure what to do. After some reddit advice and reflecting on my life, I decided l…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/11/2026
Brother is no help in dealing with nparents’ estate

Brother is no help in dealing with nparents’ estate — My ndad died a couple of years ago and I’m the sibling who lives closer. My mom just died last year and they made me executor of the estate. My brother has done absolutely nothing to help plan her fun…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/12/2026
my n-parents again comparing me with my elder sis

my n-parents again comparing me with my elder sis — im tired of my parents always comparing me with my elder sis. my sis is the golden child and also narcissist like them. as if their abuse (both verbal and physical) wasnt enough, they started comparin…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/13/2026
Why are narcs always hoarders & why are all of their possessions always broken/in disrepair?

Why are narcs always hoarders & why are all of their possessions always broken/in disrepair? — I guess this is a rhetorical question because it's pretty much a reflection of how broken they are as people, how little they care for anything but themselves and their inability to accept a loss of c…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/13/2026
Self-hosted alternative to AWS Elastic Beanstalk with GitHub deploy and automatic horizontal scaling (no Kubernetes)?

This is the poor man’s version. For deploys, trigger your GH Action pipeline on what ever event that matches your branching or tagging strategy. That action would build/push a docker image or build an…

r/DevOpscomment5/5/2025
💾 Why You Should Consider MinIO Over AWS S3 + How to Build Your Own S3-Compatible Storage with Java

I too enjoy running mission critical data at rest storage when a company sees it as the cheaper option.

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

TLDR: Seeking advice re: Dismissive Avoidant 50F dumped my Anxious-leaning Secure self (53M) but posts her upcoming travel to our once-shared calendar.  ..... Yes, it was the classical Avoidant's int…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/21/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I was going to get rid of them this past week and just couldn’t do it. Into a box into storage maybe..

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/15/2026
No contact but want my stuff back

I’m still in a dilemma because I found one of her earrings about a month ago. I’ve been advised not to reach out to anyone about returning it as it would just show that I’m still thinking about her. I…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/22/2026
DDay - 2/19/2026 - Online Emotional Affair Led to Full Blown Infidelity

It would've been her things that got packed and put into a storage locker and locks changed

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/8/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 08, 2026

I just have a minor complaint to bitch about. My boyfriend is planning on moving into my house in a couple months, things are going great!!! He’s calm and sweet and kind and patient and steady and goo…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/8/2026
Did your Narcissist gift you a " Trash " gift?

My mom is always “gifting” us kids old stuff that has been laying around in storage at her house. She will tell us when she gives them to us how she doesn’t like or wear it…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/8/2026
Did your Narcissist gift you a " Trash " gift?

Yea expired chocolate covered fruit in my stocking and random stuff from her storage wrapped up under the tree.

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/9/2026
What was the hardest non-legal part of your divorce that nobody warned you about?

I'm sure you are considering the emotional work (therapy, diet, exercise, etc.) so I won't mention that but for me it was the administrative work and operational chaos. Things I wish I knew about: *…

r/Divorcecomment3/10/2026
I'm letting her keep about 80% of "the stuff" from our house, and it feels great to lighten my load. Can anyone relate?

There was a time I wish I could say this but when I was given the divorce papers, it stated I would get 50/50 custody so long as I gave them the house and everything in it. Dogs, tools, furniture, clo…

r/Divorcecomment3/11/2026
I'm letting her keep about 80% of "the stuff" from our house, and it feels great to lighten my load. Can anyone relate?

Heck yeah! We sold our 4-bedroom house and I knew I'd be moving into an apartment. I sold my garage tools and threw out or gave away a TON of stuff. I left with only what I could fit in my car. She wa…

r/Divorcecomment3/12/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 13, 2026

I think it’s relative to your ideal match. I’ve dated in Denver and the guys are genuinely very kind and balanced but I had a hard time with compatible lifestyles like I don’t want to scale a mountain…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/13/2026
Do they always come back?

I’m gonna say in my experience, no. I’ve heard from her once in a year and a half-ish and it was to pick some things I had in our shared storage unit up. She no longer had the storage unit and was g…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/14/2026
Her family keeps kicking her out and I couldn't be happier about it.

I wasn’t a believer in karma until my divorce. My daughter blew up her moms infidelity at age 13, the second DDay. First was 11 years before. When my kid smoked out her trash mom, I went all in on div…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
What can I do when my (20F) husband (20M) is convinced I cheated on him because I’m pregnant again and refuses to listen to me.

So, if you used the condoms 100% of the time and you used them CORRECTLY 100% of the time, they have an efficacy of like 98%. Most people don’t use them correctly. Either incorrect storage or improp…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband

Your options are as follows: 1. You secretly get your ducks in a row to leave. Start gathering evidence. Snoop. Save what you find in a password-protected folder in some kind of cloud-based storage. …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Married 9 years and just found out my wife has been cheating on me.

Stay sober. Don’t confront her again - not yet. All you will get is more trickle truth, blame shifting, and gas lighting while she hides/deletes all the evidence. Take screen shots of everything a…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
What can I do when my (20F) husband (20M) is convinced I cheated on him because I’m pregnant again and refuses to listen to me.

💯 similar to OP, I learned the hard way that condoms are not very effective for birth control. Thankfully I lived near a blue state with really strong laws, even for minors, and I had exceptional sex…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
My mother sent my childhood abuser to my home, after I have been successful at making sure he never knows where I live.

OP, from an outside perspective it sounds like he is going to kill you. I'm not kidding, or being flippant. It's good that you are prepared to use your second amendment right, and that you have some s…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/16/2026
I (36F) want to eat dinner together every night. Husband (37M) is resisting.

Well that sounds terribly annoying and rude of the sock to put itself back there! I could supply a list of annoying things I haven’t moved for no reason. Like the reusable grocery bag that is empty an…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
Why are people such sheep when it comes to drugs?

have to be concerned nowadays with fentanyl on the scene, used to be great 25 years ago, I wouldn’t touch shit unless I could test it myself, unfortunately I lost my Bunkpolice $200 test kit to an ill…

r/Psychonautcomment3/18/2026
How do you end an engagement when you both live together, share a lot of expenses, and the wedding is less than a year out.

Don't drag it out, that's the most important thing. End things ASAP before she spends any more money. And a $6500 nonrefundable deposit is absolutely batshit crazy (hopefully you didn't sign anything …

r/relationshipscomment3/18/2026
They don't care

My mother passed away right before I had to leave to country for work. I had some issues with her getting sick and the when she passed due to abuse from both her and my father it took as heavy toll on…

r/BreakUpscomment3/19/2026
I have friends, a job, and a full life. I've also never felt more alone. Is this normal?

I have to tell you that what your experiencing now is exactly what I was experiencing. After 17 years with my wife she suddenly asked for a divorce. The reason that she gave was incompatibility. I did…

r/Divorcecomment3/19/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 19, 2026

You should put the ball in the storage closet. Her actions show it would not be a healthy relationship.

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/19/2026
How do I (F26) talk to my partner (M33) about casual misogyny?

You're simply wrong. Sorry. Men want men's storage so they don't have to filter themselves to please women. Swap the genders and I'm sure you'd understand. And if so, now you know why you're actually …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
GOD IM SO FUCKING PISSED I'VE TOLD MY MOM MULTIPLE TIMES TO STOP "CLEANING" MY ROOM BUT SHE STILL FUCKING DOES IT !!!!!

Its time you throw her shit away and reorganize. If you can rent a storage unit, do that. Probably a safer bet for your projects.

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/20/2026
Ghosted at 45

I might be going thru something similar. Except it was only one amazing breakfast date and morning. We went back to my place and didn't have sex. We both really wanted to but wanted to wait. We just l…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/22/2026
Have any of you ever done psychedelics at work or went to work a day after tripping?

I disagree, if people see you use them constructively and responsibly, it helps untarnish their image. Silicon Valley was built on psychedelics, I myself used them for my creative job, and they only…

r/Psychonautcomment3/22/2026
​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it?

Rent a storage locker and start putting all of his stuff there, one of every sock, random cards from his wallet. Passport, and so on.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it?

I'm sorry but with the boxed clothing and letter examples, I'm truly convinced there isn't any way he doesn't know what he's doing. Absolutely no reasonable person would do what he did in those situat…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it?

Nothing to apologize for, thank you for the comment--and also for the reassurance that, no, he's not actually reacting to my messiness! Like, "If he's doing this, you must be very disorganized and mes…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it?

It’s time to pack all his shit up, put it in a box, move it to storage and say, I was just following your line of thinking hon! I get it and it makes so much sense now! Do it with every room and each …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
​Husband (46M) keeps "helpfully" rearranging, hiding, and disposing of my (46F) stuff--what tactic or wording can I use to stop it?

Good for you getting out. Move everything you love into storage when he’s away then hit him with the papers. He will totally destroy your stuff

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
Mom yells and makes me feel bad about my figure collecting hobby

She'll approve only if she hears that her friends/relatives children are doing it. that's how Asian parents are. Rent a storage space if you have the extra cash. (as a kid, I was renting mailboxes to…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/23/2026
Mom yells and makes me feel bad about my figure collecting hobby

I might look into renting storage space. Thank you for advice

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/23/2026
Is reading pointless if I don’t remember most of it?

You’re overthinking it a little, yes — but in a very understandable way. Most people do not remember everything they read. Honestly, almost nobody does. Reading is not only storage; it’s exposure, pa…

r/selfhelpcomment3/24/2026
Do you get given gifts that prove how little they know about you?

Omg my mom is exactly like this, always sending me loads of fast fashion from Ross or what-not like she did a sweep of a rack (with mixed sizes). This has happened all my life (also includes force-fe…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/24/2026
Is it possible to manifest someone after 4 years???

Four years AND a bad breakup? Honestly, that's nothing to the Universe. Time is just a 3D construct – in the 4D, she's already back, already choosing you, already loving you the way you always knew sh…

r/Manifestationcomment3/24/2026
Mom yells and makes me feel bad about my figure collecting hobby

This might be an out there suggestion, but can you afford a storage unit until you're ready to move out? I'd say ship it to a friend you trust if you can keep them in storage. Otherwise you might have…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/24/2026
I (38M) was just sent proof that my fiancé (35F) has a recently active hinge profile.

I wouldn’t even talk to her. I’d let her go on the business trip and come back to an empty house. Or all of her stuff in storage and the locks changed.

r/relationshipscomment3/24/2026
Mom yells and makes me feel bad about my figure collecting hobby

My office is probably not a safe place to put them but that is really nice to hear they give your space to put stuff!! I’m looking into storage units with my friend currently

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/25/2026
Mom yells and makes me feel bad about my figure collecting hobby

I plan to do that. Me and my friend are looking into renting out a storage unit together

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/25/2026
Mom yells and makes me feel bad about my figure collecting hobby

I’m sorry to hear what your dad did : ( I hear so many stories of parents throwing away their kids’ possessions and makes me scared for mine. I am looking into a storage unit with my friend so hopeful…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/25/2026
Dead bedroom, found pregnancy tests

The info you posted doesn’t shed anything positive. DB, bad relationship, finding pregnancy tests from way back that should’ve been discarded. First contact a divorce attorney to get a full landscap…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/25/2026
Watching Life Pass Me By

Hey man, I really feel you on this. That 'watching life pass me by' feeling is so heavy – like you're behind glass watching everyone else live the life you want. And depression makes everything feel s…

r/lawofattractioncomment3/25/2026
HOW TO KNOW YOUVE ACCESSED THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND, which is 1,000x more powerful than the conscious mind.

You literally just said “hey pay attention to all the things your subconscious mind does on autopilot and manifest from there” no, the best time to access the subconscious mind is right before bed whe…

r/Manifestationcomment3/27/2026
My boyfriend (39M) threw his bag at my (33F) face, refused to apologize "because he thought I would block it", then stormed out to leave after I said I just wanted to be alone

There was just one time, last August. We were cleaning out my storage area at my house, and he picked up this handheld leaf blower, then playfully pushed it towards me, but my hair got sucked inside i…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/28/2026