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A book for "anyone who has kids" (or anyone who has adults in their lives) book that I love is "Hunt, Gather, Parent" by Michaeleen Doucleff. It was eye opening how ... infantilizing western society …
START HERE !!! — # Step-by step short guide r/Sbreggo So you just found this sub but you don't know anything about "The Gateway Experience", follow these steps and read all the suggested documents to avoid asking the…
Power of The Subconscious — Hello, I'd like to start this off by saying I've been a part of various subreddits that go around the topic of manifestation. The one sense of direction I've gotten was from this sub, which was to ac…
Long road to dream job and instant healing. — Bestcub called me to write this, I hope it will be helpful to someone. A story like many others. After years of wandering around shitty loa and other stupid spheres, books and forums I finally start…
Why do so many retail & shopping sites hide the item details/description? — I’ve noticed this on a number of sites, and I’m fairly certain it hasn’t always been this way. "Hide" is probably a strong word, but basically retailers making the details/description of a product a c…
I got ghosted and I feel blindsided — I (26F) met a guy (26M) 3 months ago who was in every sense of the word my dream guy. We spent 1 week together before he left back to his country. Ever since we have Facetimed every single day, and we…
Why you should always schedule your job interviews in the early morning. — I got reminded today of a very important tip when you're setting up interviews. \>> Do not set up job interviews at the end of the work day. In short, there have been studies done on judges that sho…
Built a fast multi-host terminal log viewer with timeline histogram – looking for feedback — Hey all – I’ve been working on Nerdlog: an open-source fast terminal-based log viewer loosely inspired by Graylog/Kibana, having a similar timeline histogram on top, but designed to be snappy, lightwe…
portfolio: case study vs showcase — I'm completely torn. I know there isn't a one-size-fits-all portfolio for every hiring manager, so I'm unsure whether I should include comprehensive case studies or just showcases that summarise each …
How to add customisation order to customer notes? — We have a product you can choose to get engraved. All the apps I have found for personalisation put the customer request in the line item of the order. Does anyone know of a way to have it appear in…
Starting a powdered supplement product - what is important? what is not? — I have a clear market position and application I see working. I will probably be investing 20k to start this. I know the ROI isnt there on paid ads so i’m going for organic + affiliates. If you’ve g…
Modern web dev has me on the ropes — I'm a FED, and I've been helping build websites for 15+ years. Started on LAMP stack, did some Wordpress stuff, but mostly my bread and butter has been FED-heavy, building UIs with HTML, JS, CSS/SASS …
I cannot access my friend's blog. help me please — I have a friend who recently started blogging and I would like to read her blog, the problem is whenever I open the link it redirects to the attached image above. any insight is helpful. Thank you in …
The point of the index — It might seem like the mods here are being rude when they dismiss questions and ban people for not reading the index. "Just answer them," you might say. I thought that. Then I realized the point. The…
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Having trouble differentiating between anxious attachment / normal needs, feeling lost and alone — First Reddit post here! (It's a long one, I just really need a place to put it all down and get some support, so thank you). I (19F) got out of my first long term relationship about 3 months ago. It l…
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Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…
READ THIS if you want to POST here — This is a new thread with the SAME GUIDELINES as the previous post which is now archived. THIS THREAD IS ONLY FOR APPROVAL TO POST. You don’t have to be an approved user to comment or lurk. ONLY som…
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Unsent letter to a prior ex, in the midst of a current breakup. — I am in a crash course on my own nervous system while in the midst of a breakup with a dismissive avoidant man I've loved for almost five years. I'd known about the anxious-avoidant trap for some time…
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I'm starting to disconnect with my first real love — My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 months now and have known each other for a little over 6. When we got together I felt the feeling of really being in love for the first time …
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Seneca Letters Translation — What translation for Seneca's Letters from a Stoic would you recommend? I know penguin classics can be a little difficult sometimes. Is there a modern translation that is easier to read? Or do you guy…
Being kind isn't just nice...it's smart...b/c we live in an environment made of each other. — Think of it like a fish swimming in an ocean made of other fish. Everything we do as we move through this world...for our little bit of time here...relies on other people helping us, often in ways we…
Update: How can I(20F) tell my boyfriend (20M) about my sexual preferences when he has already expressed disgust over it? — Alright, so even though no one asked for it I’m back with an update. First of all, thank you to everyone that commented, I swear on everything that I read each and every single comment. Thank you for…
I (21F) Am losing feelings for my (22M) boyfriend. Any advice? — Throwaway account. I (21F) and my boyfriend (22M) have been together for a little over two years. It's been good for the most part, and i can tell you that my boyfriend is one of the best people i kno…
Supporting an artist — Hello everyone, I appreciate in advance anyone who takes the time to read and respond. I think in general it will be good for me to get this all out there. My (31m) husband (32m) and I have been mar…
Why do people not read dating profiles? — Just as the title suggests. If you are on an online dating site it seems obvious that reading profiles would be a big part of it? But apparently lots of people...don't do that? But why? It just seems …
A strange period of brain fog that lasted months — A while ago I went through a period that honestly scared me. My thinking felt slower than normal. Sometimes I would read the same sentence three or four times before understanding it. Other times I’d…
I'm sick of the state of this subreddit — I'm tired of it: I love lucid dreaming, I achieved it on a weekly level for years now and I love to read about people's experiences, sharing my own piece of advice, learning about the different techni…
HOW TO MAKE CHARTS SO YOUR POSTS DON'T GET REMOVED — # MOST IMPORTANT PLEASE USE ONLY THESE SITES: * [Astro-Seek.com](https://Astro-Seek.com) * [Astro.com](https://Astro.com) Do not use these chart makers. All are either useless because they don’t pr…
The Revision method works! Trust me, it does! — I have read a ton of books and watched numerous manifestation YouTube channels. Most of their teachings are based on Neville Goddard's teachings. And gotta say, that going back to read his words just …
So what do I do about this date...? — Scheduled for 9:00 pm EST tonight, so this is a real-time survey! M/54. Finalized details for the date yesterday via the app. Later that evening, I jumped on the app to send a follow-up message with …
The habit of hiding things…. — I really thought I was past this of hiding situations and trying to deal with them on my own. It may not seem like a big deal, but this habit has gotten me into awful situations before, sometimes even…
please, take your time to hear my story, because no one else ever did — My mom gave birth to me when she was 41 years old, I have a sister and a brother, my sister is 27 years old, but she has mental problems and behaves terribly immature, so she is always making screamin…
why am i angry all the time and how do i stop that? — In general, I have always been a quietly angry person. I feel like my anger bubbles in my chest and weighs me down; I don’t know what I should do about that. Usually, I get angry at my parents, their…
(trip report) Telepathic communication through high doses of psilocybin — Dose: 8g (Myself), 5g (Brayden, first time), others 3–4g Setting: Friend’s house, nearby park, neighborhood walk Time: 3:00 PM – 9:00 PM Participants: 5 friends So a couple years ago me and my …
I was in Barbados… Well actually it was Turks and Caicos but close enough! — I was in Barbados… Well actually it was Turks and Caicos but close enough I just came back from a 4 week long vacation in Turks and Caicos in the Caribbean. This was the 10th year in a row I have don…
After 30 years of being a people pleasing, peace-keeping, manipulative, caretaking, dysregulated, codependency "addict," I've finally reached a point where I have enough control to simply STOP. In a very short amount of time, my whole entire life has changed. It's nearly impossible to describe. — The first part of this post is just context, and you can skip it all by scrolling down to **The Proof** I'm not going to go into much detail, but just for context: I experienced some pretty major chi…
Why is my relationship with my mom so bad? — I love reading other people’s charts (I’m still new to astrology) but when it comes to reading my own, it’s tricky. Interested if anyone can point out any correlation to the bad relationship I’ve had …
This is a great read, thank you for the effort put into it. As someone who sort of knew they were emotionally neglected but never really understood it was a real thing before I discovered this sub, t…
>About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought I’d always be broke. I even had to take a screenshot of my bank balance to remind myself of that amaz…
>“A good start”, LOL. ​ Ah. A chortle. Clearly, not much money in your bank. Must be because you know the law. lol ​ >I’m not reading POSM anytime soon. I already have a formula that…
>Before you ban me, please understand that I’m not trying to argue with you, I was just pointing out that claiming people can’t think critically is not a wise move because it can easily be said of yo…
Hi! So I’m pretty new to this sub and currently trying to read up and decide what I think about AP. For a long time, I’ve believed that reality is a construct in the mind, or just a result of what our…
Hacking the Out of Body Experience by Bob Peterson is filled with tons of techniques and methods. Or if you're interested in awakening consciousness and "going beyond methods" then you could check ou…
I can’t wait to read all of this information! I must sleep for work, but tomorrow I will read! I tried to AP last night and just ended up falling asleep.. I can fall asleep with in 30 seconds. So I…
I just realized recently that I've been astral projecting while attempting to meditate. I was in a meditation group and telling them of my experiences and every single one of them said I was astral pr…
I needed to read this right now. Do you have any links you could share me for me to read through for motivation please and thank you.
It was all a dream. I used to read Word Up magazine.
This is so interesting to read.. I was looking up astral projection and this reminded me of a recurring dream I had as a kid. I was a princess running along a path. It splits, and if I went Into the w…
Oof … I needed to read this today… I am struggling to let go even when I know they really aren’t good for me even if It feels like they are. Thanks for the call out.
Thanks for this pinned article. For me it feels hard to read this because the emotional /inner life that I had- they weren’t a part of it at all. I doubt they know about it themselves. i don’t know wh…
It’s called a false awakening and you can search the sub to read more about it. The best method is to do a reality check upon awakening each time
Wow. I needed to read this. Thank you.
It feels sad to read this, because I’m also going through similar stuff
Loved to read this. However, a riddle; how is your silence going to work if they block you on everything. So you can't reach them even if you wanted to.
Something my therapist said to me yesterday: closure in these situations has to come from within you, since the other person has opted to disconnect. I chose to write a letter to my STBX before our …
Honestly, I'm probably going to read and reread this comment all night long to try to get me through this. It seems like you are living my exact situation (but with the genders reversed), and you're w…
Ohhh my god I needed to read this so badly today.
It’s also in the wiki, did you click to read through anything mentioned in this post?
I reread what the OP wrote. They haven’t even started the training yet. She will continue to have these negative thoughts because they are doubts and unbelief from her SM. And she will continue to fe…
You’re telling me you haven’t heard “what you focus on expands” word for word? Because I have… I clearly know how to read. Do you?
Bro/sis/they/them I needed to read this. Thank you
I get it. As sweet as that sounds, if somebody is moving fast after one or two dates by buying presents then I'd say the onus falls on them to read the room better and take a step back. At that point …
>Not saying you’re entirely wrong but that wasn’t the point of the ladder experiment. The point of the ladder experiment was to teach about awareness. > Ah. Conscious awareness. Complete rubbish and…
Banned 60 days for not even attempting to read the index. Thread locked.
You are welcome, you do sound healthy. I cover mostly attachment wounds / relational trauma in my IG series if you want to read more about that. I think an attachment therapist might help if you ar…
Does anyone have the answer? Of course! YOU will have the answer....... After your 90 day ban, which should give you more than enough time to read the fucking rules of the sub.
Still new but posting this comment both to help you and hopefully get feedback from the mods that I’m understanding things properly. You are not trying to trick yourself in the 3D. Your only job is …
Failure to read the index, Try to trick the mods from not banning you first
You will find the answer here - Moonlight Mailed Me ! : The No1 reason why people fail with their alpha programming. *Hi Everybody, I am one of moonlight's new cubs and his best for sure. I have a …
You're not broken, you just need to learn how to deal with your emotions in a healthier way. There's heaps online to read and watch.
ChatGPT generated posts are so tiring to read
Every deployment to Slack? So then nobody pays attention and that's why they ask you to give them the details. Don't do this. People mute these channels because 99% of what goes to it doesn't matte…
Helm. Kube manifests are already simple enough, I don't understand how abstracting them even further is a good idea. There are a ton of community chats and most of them that I came across were not gre…
This is beautiful to read. You describe it so well, what it is to heal this stuff. It doesn’t actually go away, we just learn how to navigate the default urges better. Glad for you that you’ve done …
So instead of replying individually and repeating myself, I'm just going to make a comment addressing it all. Firstly, it was interesting to read all these perspectives. I see where some of its comin…
The first two points are big red flags for me now too! The third isn't a big deal, because I like to take things slow, but I'm also not trying to get on the relationship escalator. 4 & 5 are not gre…
I’m so sorry about your daughter. That’s terrible and truly hurt my heart to read how he treated you. You deserve to be acknowledged ❤️
Attachment issues aren't medicated: source I work with people with insecure an attachment. Psychologists/ therapists don't prescribe medications anyway, at best they can give you a referral to a psych…
I was in a similar position, ruminating for more than a year excessively about a relatively short relationship, feeling guilty about not being understanding and patient enough. And that’s the point I …
i’m in the same boat right now. I dated a girl a girl for two years who dumped me and has never spoken to me again since that day. it has been about a year since our breakup, but I keep obsessing. m…
Though this wasn't for me, this was so beautiful and moving to read. I'm pleased for your growth and journey. It also shows that you possess emotional intelligence, which seems like a rare gem 💎. All…
Thank goodness for the "almost"! I was about to shed a little tear for you, but then I read the story till the end, and I'm very happy for you!!! I'd love to read about possible continuation to you…
Good god, serial abuser!? I don't need to read the rest of the comment to know we're not going to agree about this at all, if that's your take based on a single text and the post from OP. And no, I do…
Im going to get down voted for this but the fearful avoidant bashing on here is rough to read. They needed healing yes, and are responsible for it but this text was raw, very vulnerable, and it cost h…
I see where you’re coming from and can understand why it’s hard to see such vilification of FAs. However, just because it may have been difficult for him to express his feelings doesn’t mean that his …
Why do you even look at my post if you’re not going to read them and make wild accusations???