fleas

Have any of your friends turned out to be narcissists as well? — If I have gone so long not realising how abusive and narcissistic my own mother is, how am I to trust in my choice of friends as well? I have been in therapy for the last 2-3 years and no contact wit…

This disorder is shit but the worst thing is that it was caused by the most repulsive POS to breathe.. not letting me add more than one flair so this is a vent/rant — I'm diagnosed and everything but hesitant to try any medication/proper therapy. I'm scared constantly and it's been manifesting as hallucinations and constant paranoia. I'm starting to think i need to…

How do you get rid of narcissistic fleas? — It feels like my mind and body has been hijacked by narcissistic fleas. I am only just aware of it now. It feels like a subconscious mimicry as a survival mechanism. How do I get rid of them for good?

Little win i wanted to celebrate — I really like this sub, reading it has given me so many ways to express my feelings and understanding what the fuck even actually happened during my childhood. Especially the notion of narcisstic f…

Happy for you. Nobody asks to have an attachment style that’s dysfunctional. I’m working through mine and try so so hard to have compassion for others. But a big part of self love is learning how to h…

Yes, narcissistic fleas.

I also accidentally discovered this technique. Yes, I had read about grey rocking or JADE but the things I read didn't really say anything about just keep repeating the exact same sentence. With my …

Look into FLEAS. You are not bad. You are recovering.  https://outofthefog.website/what-not-to-do-1/2015/12/3/fleas

Yes, not an ex but a former friend. She would talk for hours on the phone telling me about her day, her plans, her dreams, but then she would ask me about my life and the minute I would start talking …

Hahaha ok this one really hits the spot for my mom. Sorry for the essay but I have a lot of material on this subject. I grew up with a mom who hoarded cats. Now, it wasn't Hoarders TV show level but …

I’m so glad you are getting out of that! I thought I’m crazy for calling a lot of people in my past narcissists. I was wondering how, it’s statistically impossible, something has to be wrong with me. …

Yes or people who have fleas or already abused by a N parent or partner. My Emom collects them too. Women Ns too like house wives or grandmother's who are now facing the music. One of relationshi…

Look up FLEAS regarding narcissism. It will hopefully answer your questions and what to do about it. Here is a fast summary to get you started. "Narcissistic fleas" refer to toxic behaviors or malada…

I can not give a full and great response, but I will try to say something that may be helpful, in some way. For me personally, I noticed a lot, that I don't do/get "fleas" behaviors, towards anyone el…

In every reddit community, there is menus and sidebar informations with the community guidelines and resources. In there you can find an article and previous posts about terms within this community, t…

Gaining more education on Vulnerable Narcissism will increase your chances to identify and stop your flea behaviors. Dr. Ramani on Youtube is a great source to learn. Doing that internal work can mean…

For me, healing through inner child work/internal family system therapy and EMDR helped. The process helped me heal the wounded parts of me and made my sense of self stronger through self compassion. …

I didn't go to doctor appointments very often that I remember, probably because we were pretty poor. When I was 13 I had such a horrible stomach ache for a whole week and I felt really guilty about te…

I had a weird thought that Jesus is our universe and God is what is beyond our universe. Like the Bible is one giant metaphor for how to actually become one with God and depending on how you act in yo…

Look up the concept of having FLEAS from a narcissistic relationship. Also get into therapy if you haven't, it can help some of the harsher stuff land softer.

Had a boyfriend with FLEAS who was MAJORLY enmeshed with his mother like this. She would never come out and say I stole her son, but come up with every excuse in the book to hate me. I.e: I "ruined he…