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you may relate, but your religious mythology has nothing to do with physical touch, and stop insinuating that it does. Me pointing out the manipulative tactics you are using to exploit peoples vulnera…
My dad told me to kill myself in front of my teachers — Last week I had parent teachers meeting in my school where my dad was present. So my school is a hell hole, because it mentally abuses students to the point a lot of the people here do self harm. Till…
When did you finally realise, your life would never be ‘normal’? — I am 47M I grew up in an EXTREMELY dysfunctional household, with every type of abuse you can imagine, and death of a parent at 12. I’ve had to fend for myself since that age, whilst being used and a…
Can you still think of your WS as a ‘good person’? — I was having a random conversation with my WH today about something… and he said, “Well, I’m a good person, so I could never do that…” I was quiet for a beat, but eventually agreed with him… though I…
Hot take on Daniel Love — (quoting will NOT be accurate, only rough from my memory). I am not structuring this as a super hateful post, not SUPER hateful, and I wouldnt try to say hateful, so bare with me here. I dont like Da…
my 22M bf says he will leave me 22F if i get breast surgery — Hello, hence the title. I made a joke that had some truth in it saying, “I’m gonna get breast implants.” **I have little-to no boobs, and it is my BIGGEST insecurity**. Women can grow glutes by eating…
My boyfriend (M21) broke up with me (F21) because I won't have a baby — My boyfriend (21M) and me (21F) had been dating for a little less than a year. I had left the US recently because of some trouble with school (I'm an international student) and was back in my home cou…
am i childish for not being able tolet go? — its a little complicated we didnt just date and break up, i mean we kinda did but there was a lot before that. im gonna start from the beginning. i will skip a bit of unimportant stuff just keep in m…
Need to write out what I've been dealing with for 3 months now — I cannot believe how much has happened in such a short amount of time. I met this guy back in mid-December and we had both recently gotten out of relationships in which we were both burned. At first…
My mom put my family in a dire financial situation and I don't know what to do — She hasn't worked a legitimate job since June and decided to try to make ads for things on tiktok shop. She also started taking bootleg ozempic she's getting from a friend somehow, about $500 a month,…
How did you cope when you realized that the person you loved was never really "there"? And that what happened between you, was mostly in your head? — An eerie and disturbing feeling crept in the moment the mask slipped. At first I was confused, but during the next days I came to the harrowing realization that she was wearing a mask all along, and t…
I’m intensely triggered by my partner’s younger sister and I hate what it brings out in me — I need to say something ugly and I’m hoping someone here will understand rather than just tell me to “work on my self-esteem.” My boyfriend has younger sisters, and one of them especially triggers so…
Wish I could say I was surprised at this response — To keep the story short I sent my mom a text highlighting all of things that I’ve been blamed for and ways I’ve been hurt through the years and asked her to please not reach out to me again unless it…
I don’t know what to do anymore. — M17, neurodivergent. Ever since 2025. I’ve fell into an endless hole of bad behavior. I keep losing people I genuinely liked and increased more of the hateful stuff they make of me. I’m at my lowest. …
Does anyone else get called manipulative, mean, etc.? — My parents always say that I’m some mean, horrible, manipulative, selfish, hateful person. I admit, I’m not the nicest, but I’m far from being some mean, manipulative person. My dad even goes as far…
It is REAL. It is easy. — First things first, I want to start with some of the things I did. \- manifested a change in my position at my job (was close to termination) \- manifested extra on tax returns \- manifested my dre…
Manipulative ex might get everything he wants — Been married 10 years, was together for 15. About 5 years ago I finally realized how controlling and manipulative he was. He was emotionally abusive to me and his kids, talking down to us, constantly …
Saw my narc mom for the first time in 2 years. The night ended in tears. I feel like I messed up? — I'm 28, married and have a 4 year old. I cut my narc mom off 2 years ago because she is verbally, emotionally, and financially abusive. She was/is an addict, a habitual liar, and someone who has made …
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 2 — SELF-CONCEPT (roll those drums caz i got my tea and i got to PREACH) i can claim to be the GOD of self concept i swear on me i got it baby and i got it sooooooo goooood (please take what you will …
THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 2 — SELF-CONCEPT (roll those drums caz i got my tea and i got to PREACH) i can claim to be the GOD of self concept i swear on me i got it baby and i got it sooooooo goooood (please take what you will caz…
I get immediately anxious around him. — Except for one year, ever since moving out over a decade ago I’ve lived (usually) one thousand miles away from him. He doesn’t visit, namely because I’ve never asked him to and we aren’t close enough…
My (20F) boyfriend (22M) has changed me into someone I don’t recognize anymore, how do I fix this? — Hi guys, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years. We’ve had our ups and downs like any normal couple but overtime his anger and the way he speaks to me has really started to affect …
“Are you not cleaning the house today?” — So I wake up. Long weekend because it’s Easter. The only thing she is concerned about is ME doing all the chores for her so she can “go out later” and come back to a clean house. I basically just …
Is no contact really the right thing if you still want them back? — I know no contact isn’t supposed to be about getting your ex back. I know it’s meant to help you heal and focus on yourself… but does it still leave a chance for things to work again? It’s been about …
Question for the dudes, did sleeping with someone else helped you move on? — Little background to my question, me n my ex broke up over a year ago. The first few months, I didn’t handle the break up well, then I became hateful and bitter, and I’ve slowly been pulling away from…
I was adopted into a family of psychopaths — My adoptive mom,dad,younger sister (I have hope for), older sister, and older brother are all psychopaths and I’m not lying. Narcissist isn’t a strong enough word anymore. I was the only one to move o…
*Repost* Old OrionDirectorate post (prior username change) — Hello everyone, I found this success story interesting. I hope others do too, especially the ones seeking the financial aspects of manifesting. **For those new here, I'd like to clarify once more tha…
Genuine question, but has Reddit gotten more racist? — I've been using this site very casually for a couple of years, and I feel like I've seen more... racist comments and micro-aggressions in recent times, especially in popular posts. And it used to be t…
She did it by text — My wife shot me a long text about 3 weeks back. she wants a divorce, she had packed some things and left while I was at work. We hadnt been fighting, money has been tight but she started a new job 2 m…
How to value yourself more? — Hello, I've recently been going through a lot of self reflection after an argument I've had with a friend. This friend really upset me and, although I understand her perpective on the entire situation…
Right now I feel extremely alone, emotionally exhausted, and unsure how to move forward. I’m hoping to connect with others who understand parentification, narcissistic abuse, or rebuilding after losing support systems. — TRIGGER WARNING: Emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse, sexual assault, relationship abuse It took me a long time to realize what had happened to me growing up and I’m still trying to understand. As …
Living with Nmom and leaving — I’m 22 gonna be 23 at the end of the year and I’m just so done. I’ve been living with my mom for 2 years after my dad moved states away. She is so exhausting. I work full time with a well paying job a…
cptsd feeling of betrayal in romantic relationships — i really, really want to be happy with my boyfriend. we just started dating and even though my life is really difficult right now he's been supporting me and being very kind to me, but with my cptsd a…
Completely mindfucked and heartbroken after a relationship with a highly intelligent covert narcissist — This is going to be a very long post, but if you want to know how a relationship with a highly intelligent covert narcissist looks like, you might be interested to read this. I've seen so much shit i…
How do I switch providers without coming off as disrespectful? — I accidentally found out that one of the clients of my group therapy program is a registered sex offender with FIVE 1st-2nd degree charges for SA/rape of a 10 year old child. This doesn't really surpr…
Unhappy with my life and don't know what to do about it — Need to get some things off my chest. Not 100% sure if this is the best sub for this but I couldn't think of anything better. Can't place exactly what's bothering me, nothing uncommon but it always …
My nMom passed away. I handled her final days, funeral, and possessions. — ​ Growing up, I was always told that I looked exactly like my mother. I was her “spitting image.” I sounded like her, had her mannerisms, her laugh—everything. My younger brother also looked …
I want to get my parents out of here. — Hello! Ugh... I'm desperate. To sum it up: We live in my paternal grandmother's house,I have a super awful family on both my mother's and father's sides (with very, very small exceptions, as always).…
My grandmother says it’s my fault that my parents are dead, and that I have no right to mourn them. — So, I \[18F\] lost both of my parents when I was a baby. My mother passed after childbirth. My father ended his life 3 months later. My maternal grandmother decided to raise me. However, she's extreme…
a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…
This is not standard. Maybe the person has other stuff going on making them act hateful. Or that’s how they cope with their decision to leave. An avoidant deep in the trenches does not want to look li…
I don't think it's hate, it's just a 'ok that's done now' door close moved on. Heidi Priebe on YT (video: avoidant blindspot) talks about the idea in her videos about avoidant behavior of having the …
I think what others are saying unless someone says I hate you, then it's based on your feelings. Feelings are 100% valid but not facts. I'm anxiously attached and felt many people have disliked me ov…
What would you make of an avoidant who, when unable to fully avoid, resorted to behaviors that can really only be described as hurtful? So deeply so that they nearly certainly must come from a place o…
People from the last post said she might be avodant I thought she was secure. It’s weird how there’s a following of hateful avodants who try to attack me while I’m trying to be vulnerable. Glad im no…
Flight/fright. Adrenaline. Feeling like I’m completely on edge. Can’t relax, nervous system is in overdrive. Like everything is just “wrong”. Angry. Angry because that’s the only emotion that can come…
I genuinely hate the people who do that. They're just fucking cruel. They spew hateful shit about us but meanwhile they're the ones being wildly entitled and vindictive, who trample people's boundarie…
Maybe I’m too hateful towards people, but this reads as a step one in a plot of guilt-tripping you into helping him get a legal status.
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Look, I don't disagree about that. But let's look at this as a whole. There are entire communities dedicated to fetishizing black women, Persian women, Latina women, white women, and further devolving…
I put all the versions of myself in that box: the one who's depressed, the anxious one, the frightened one, the hateful one, the one who's with the period, the dubious neurotic one, the bitch who ques…
People who try to make others feel bad for things that bring joy with no harm are not nice people. They can behave nicely but that type of hateful judgement will eventually spill onto everyone nearby.…
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Banned - particularly hateful and aggressive boomer-bashing.
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Yes. I was working 100+ hrs a week, lots of travel as a Dr, and he was a great dad and husband until I became very ill from Covid and then he changed. He became hateful, withdrawn, verbally abusive to…
Former straight A, high achiever in school and work person here chiming in I want to second the people who said it took a lot of therapy. I think I expected therapy to work a lot faster, but it takes…
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He could be having an affair with someone at work and the woman is jealous and hateful so she either uses his phone to text you or spoofed his number. Maybe she is the psycho and that’s why he looked …
Trade phones with him and have him take the phone to a place you often go. Your favorite coffee shop or whatever. Record his phone on a laptop at home while he does this. If he gets hateful texts to y…
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There might be some lunatic he works with that’s spoofing his number and sending you these messages to try and break you two up…. Which, if true, they’ve accomplished their goal. I just feel like t…
I've been feeling like I was waiting for a bus until about a year ago. Just... sitting there, watching things happen to me. I did not have the me to care about, to want things with. Abusive wife? Wel…
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Health negging is still negging, and your boyfriend is seriously ignorant. When I first started reading, I thought he had a pathological fear of you gaining weight. But just reading everything he’s sa…
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to be honest, I think that for a lot of people, these feelings don't arise because they perceive this to be a competition but rather their inner critic is so (self)hateful and their tendency to blame …
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>The truth of the matter is, he destroyed another human being. He hurt me in a way that I can never recover from. He did a hateful, evil, selfish, vicious thing. He ruined my life. Our life. And, he k…
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THIS. My dad was THE BIGGEST enabler by proxy. Never once stood up for me or protected me. My mom is a very outwardly, angry and hateful person and was legitimately just always incredibly verbally abu…
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Very interesting! Sometimes, I feel like I can't visualize when I'm trying to follow a guided meditation or something, but then I remember how often I think in "movies" and I know I can visualize perf…
Those eyes have been talked about here before.. that vacant hateful stare
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You need to reflect on your beef with homosexuality. For your info, Ang Lee also made a film (The Wedding Banquet) about a gay Asian male protagonist who marries a woman to appease his parents despite…
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This! My dad was a very conditional love type of parent. Only paid attention to me when he had to scold me or when I was doing something he liked/was interested in. I was basically trained to be a pe…
So many ignorant hateful comments below. OOP please don’t feel discouraged by these Redditors. There is still much good in the world. Do not give in to the petty squabbles of Redditors. I’m happy to…
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