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Just realized how damaging people pleasing and not being able to say “no” really is

The second last paragraph is peak people pleasing. There's no reason it had to be uncomfortable and there's definitely no reason to preface it with all that fluff LOL. I think you're reading too far…

r/Codependencycomment3/15/2026
How to friendzone well??

How to friendzone well?? — ok imma start by giving context we're both student and live at the same res obviously he live in the guys side. hes 21 m and I 21F. we are doing the same course and both in the second year of it. ok …

r/relationshipspost4/6/2026
I got ghosted and I feel blindsided

Although your story is different to an avoidant, doesn’t matter DA/FA, unless your constantly throwing up boundary walls at random and make them chase you they’ll stick to the avoidant (unofficial) ha…

r/attachment_theorycomment12/6/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

can you do a little flirting to drop hints that you're thinking about it? i have no idea what that looks like (been a long ass time since i've had to do this) but maybe you can get a little vibe check…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
I (34m) have been with my partner (34f) for 8 years. I have supported us financially for 8 years but want her to contribute and I'm made to feel like the bad guy

Still different and I'm not sure this is productive anymore. You've given her 8 years and said this need in the context of the future, not in the context of the present. Look man, I did something simi…

r/relationshipscomment3/20/2026
Exclusivity talk: when is the right time?

Salutations! You can ask for it whenever. I always asked for it before scheduling a second date since I don't multi-date. Plenty of people require it before having sex. You're long past the point whe…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/1/2026
How to kindly reject a friend who has a crush on me?

If you're not ready to have a direct talk, you can try drop hints in how you frame a relationship. Call him a friend, say you love him like a brother, maybe talk about other men you're interested in, …

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
How can I (25F) get my boyfriend (23M) to stop sufferingmaxxing?

Sounds like he's looking for a grown-up in his life but only knows how to drop hints about it.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026