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Oh I see! There is several groups available, from the usually mentioned peer-led CODA (12 step program - you can find their website and they have online meetings, you can choose one thats close to …
START HERE !!! — # Step-by step short guide r/Sbreggo So you just found this sub but you don't know anything about "The Gateway Experience", follow these steps and read all the suggested documents to avoid asking the…
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means) — I last posted a variation of this a little over 5 years ago. We're a little overdue for a repost. --- You know how every Uber rating is right on the verge of 5 stars unless something's particularly …
Can we talk about how bad the current Shopify Admin UI is? — How has this continued to be a thing, and how did this get approved internally? The Shopify Admin UI is a complete mess. It's genuinely hard to believe this shipped — and worse, that it's still the c…
I just proved that a crappy industry is literally pissing away money — I constantly preach about template fraud and those "pretty but useless" websites that don't deliver actual business results. This week, I decided to prove my point. I spotted a security product in th…
Why do so many retail & shopping sites hide the item details/description? — I’ve noticed this on a number of sites, and I’m fairly certain it hasn’t always been this way. "Hide" is probably a strong word, but basically retailers making the details/description of a product a c…
What's the best free alternative to Dreamweaver for making a personal website? — I know the easiest route is to just use Wordpress, but I don't want a Wordpress blog again right now. Dreamweaver makes sense to me. I need to see the code view or what I'm looking at makes less sense…
Is Getting Ripped Apart Normal in Product Design? — I’m new to product design, and at this startup, I wear both the product designer and product manager hats. I meet regularly with the CEO (my boss), and during our sessions, we review the website and r…
What could cause massive spikes in Impressions on Google Search Console? — I am getting massive spikes once a week. From 4000 to 16,000 impressions. But clicks do not increase and these are lowering my CTR. We arent doing anything special on these days - no emails - no marke…
What's new in AI for marketing: YouTube is testing AI reviews, will it reduce clicks? Google discusses search ranking volatility, beyond — Sometimes it’s so hard to keep up with all the AI news. It seems like it's taking over every platform and us as well. But the most important thing is staying updated on everything important. So let’s …
Anyone else noticed a drop in Search Console Clicks despite better rankings? — I've got three sites where the average position and impressions have improved considerably in the last month, but Search Console is showing less clicks. Obviously this is because the CTR is down, how…
Looking for CAC/CPC benchmarks for a coffee e-commerce in the U.S. — Hi, I’m starting an online coffee e-commerce business in the U.S., selling both exotic and regular coffee bags. I’m trying to estimate how much I should invest to get started. Does anyone here know t…
Anyone else think the new figma UI is terrible? — I've been trying to like it for a couple weeks but man... this UI is terrible for so many reasons. Like.. this floating thing in front of my work is so dumb. Why does it take more clicks to find my as…
Home page visits but no clicks or sales — Hi all, I was hoping to grab some feedback from the pros here. New to Ecom and wondering whats going wrong. Getting a great CTR from my ads and heaps of visitors to the site, but most of them scroll…
Should I redirect the sales? — This is not a rant/rave about my e-commerce journey as I expected a lot of turmoil and for e-commerce to not be all it was cracked up to be. This is actually witnessed by the shhear number of people …
How do you deal with the spam? — I recently (4 weeks ago) started a shopify store in a niche market with my handmade products. Doing organic advertisement with product videos on tiktok, facebook, instagram and youtube. Generally spea…
Behavioral psychology ruined most UX tips for me (in a good way). — I used to follow every UX “rule” simplify, reduce clicks, make it obvious. Then I started reading more psychology, and things flipped. Stuff like loss aversion, commitment bias, and the labor illus…
Is it not possible anymore to access tik tok analytics directly on one post? — I used to be able to check the analytics of each post directly on the post… I’d just click „analytics“ on the bottom of the post. But now that’s disappeared, I can only see the amount of views and the…
Help with my website — Hello friends, I could really use some help with my website. I provide content localization services, but my website does not rank well. I barely get any impressions, and even less clicks. [https://…
Help with my website — Hello friends, I could really use some help with my website. I provide content localization services, but my website does not rank well. I barely get any impressions, and even less clicks. [https://…
Can we all just take a moment to appreciate how awesome Shopify is? — Over the years, we've tried countless solutions to see if they could replace Shopify for us. WooCommerce, Magento, ClickFunnels, Convertri, hell even SquareSpace. This is only served to make us appr…
Are you guys facing trouble in WhatsApp chat icon setup in your Shopify website? — Hey Shopify users, Which Shopify app do you use add the WhatsApp icon in your Shopify visit? Are you facing any challenge in that? Can we see metrics such as how many clicks are there in the icon an…
HELP? FAVICON — hello, no idea if this is the right sub to ask this and if it isn’t please lead me to it but : HOW DO I change my website’s (shopify) favicon so it shows on google ? please? It shows when you click…
I need you advise am i a UX Jnr Midwieght or more? — **Hi everyone, I need some advice.** I’m currently a Junior UX Designer (30years old) in the UK at one of the top for new broadcasting companies such a Sky BBC ITV etc. **A bit about my background:*…
Google Ads Class Action Lawsuit Legit? — Received an email this morning notifying me I'm eligible for a settlement. Can anyone confirm of the below website is legitimate? https://www.adwordsclicksclassaction.com/ *fully aware it will like…
Robin Image Optimizer doesn't understand Lightbox (opening images) and destroys image quality — I have images that are miniatures (10x smaller on the website than their original size), after clicking on them, they enlarge to full view - attaching how it looks after using Robin Image Optimizer.
Duplicate Websites: One Ranks, One Tanks — I own two small‑town dental practices and spun up two nearly identical websites for them. Same structure, images, and copy, just different color schemes and logos. The site for Practice A ranks nicely…
Shopify POS exchanges on discounted items — Hello shopify community, I've been scouring the internet for a solution but no good solution exists. I am wondering how other brick and mortar merchants are dealing with this. This needs to be addres…
Is this site using a bootstrap or plug-in? — This bookstore has a section where, if you you click on one of the books in a slider, it expands a panel about that book below. These sliders under "New and Featured" and "Trending" (the entire div is…
Discuss SaaS idea - API wrapper — Hello everyone! I am building a tool that turns *any* API (yours or third-party) into a full SaaS website,. with a UI, user auth, billing, and deploy, in one click. It is a no-code solution, where yo…
using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…
Help: Pull to refresh replication mystery on Chrome — Hi all, I need some help! I have a drop-down list that is basically a giant carousel with vertically aligned buttons where you swipe up and down the page to go to the higher/lower button elements. Th…
A great copywriter is worth their weight in gold — I've been building brands for 15 years. If you just got your first $20k-$100k budget to build your brand/web/app, let me humbly offer you a tip: # In 2025, the #1 thing that will affect how 'pro' you…
Attachment page with info — Hi, I've had a couple of basic Wordpress sites for about 15 years for my artwork using the Twenty Ten theme. I'd create a gallery, and on clicking the thumbnail, it would link to an attachment page wi…
iThomas.dk - New site don't get traction? — I launched my site on March 1st, but I’m still struggling to gain traction and would really appreciate a second pair of eyes. A quick check using site:ithomas.dk shows that most of my pages are index…
Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI — Hey guys! A new week means a fresh batch of marketing insights. Google’s keeping us on our toes as usual, and AI is busy finding new ways to take over the digital space. Let’s read: **SERP features /…
What really makes an Internal Developer Platform succeed? — Hey, I work at Pulumi as a community engineer and as we are doubling down on [IDP features](https://www.reddit.com/r/pulumi/comments/1kg3o0l/introducing_pulumi_idp/) I’ve been looking around at variou…
Issue with website being blank unless I manually go to pages. — I’m sure I’m just missing something but, I built a website with Elementor/Wordpress that is hosted through Hostinger. I have pro plans for both hostinger and elementor, hostinger says the page is up …
Website Traffic Analytics Show No Activity Suddenly — Hello Guys. Hoping you can shed some light as to why we are facing a situation. When I click on Rank Math Analytics for the last 30 days it shows zero activity across the board. There is activity up…
Do any of you find that search ads work better for your store than shopping? — I just launched Google ads April 29. My shopping ads are getting lots of impressions but few clicks. Like 3.5k daily to 6-10 clicks with a budget of $15 and not spending it all. My search ads at $10 a…
“Found this gem when I was applying for a job 👀🔒” — Clicked the eye icon to reveal the password… only to have it immediately blur again when I tried to edit it. Who designed this — a magician? 🎩✨
Proud of my results as a non expert and want to share and say thanks! — I posted about my SEO efforts about 5 months ago and I had such a warm response from everyone that I kind of wanted to provide an update. I had both shared my results and asked for advice on next step…
No conversions at all. What am I doing wrong? — Please critique my shop, [redacted]. What puts you off? Why are people not buying anything even after clicking an ad that shows the product, presumably indicating they're at least somewhat interested?…
How would I create an active demo section? — https://preview.redd.it/z0zqo2sqq8ze1.png?width=2148&format=png&auto=webp&s=93373216fb9f7e07f32e1d3c4224c444450fc427 Something like this where you click the feature on the left sidebar and a short gi…
Weird space in product listings… — When I first view a product listing, a weird space will appear between the featured image and image gallery. Clicking on different items in the image gallery will make that space go away. Reloading …
Problems with Elementor and elements — Hi, I'm experiencing some issues with my website. When I'm logged into WordPress and try to access the homepage (for example) and click "Edit with Elementor," nothing happens. It just keeps loading. …
Do we overestimate usability and underestimate motivation? — I used to obsess over UX friction, fewer clicks, better layout, no confusion. But lately I’ve been thinking more about *why* people even care enough to use a product in the first place. Sometimes i…
Looking for early adopters - Customer Review Reminder — I'm a solo builder and recently launched a simple tool called **ReviewReminder (https://www.reviewremind.com/)** to help small businesses automatically remind their happy customers to leave a review. …
The mobile menu button doesn’t click anywhere. — This has to be something new, because I’ve used this theme and website for a few years and just caught this today. On mobile, the menu button does not activate any menu listing. It just sits there. …
What’s one DevOps tool you tried but just didn’t click with? — I really wanted to love Terraform when I first picked it up. Everyone was hyping it up, and it *is* powerful—but I kept getting tripped up by state files and weird syntaxes. I probably broke my infra …
So I just tested the link you are talking about, and it appears that if you actually click it, through the power of technology and the Internet a hot babe is delivered right to your hands
Agreed. I just checked out this sub because I was interested, but the putting down of Neville has turned me off. Studying and implementing Nevilles teachings for the past few years has made me a new w…
Lol I have been visiting this sub for about a month now and when I first saw this post stickied I refrained from reading it because I didn't want them back, I just wanted no contact to help move on wi…
The 2019 DevOps Roadmap link (aka https://roadmap.sh/devops) is no longer useful and should really be removed or majorly updated as it's confusing to newbies. It's actually linked twice in different…
One other pet peeve of mine is people who argue in the comment threads but don't try to give the OP any advice of their own. Like you have told me before you think what I said is stupid.....but you a…
I know this comment is nearly 6 months old, but I just wanted to say THANK YOU so much for posting this, I feel like I’ve just found a master key to a huge door I’ve been trying to unlock for a while …
It’s also in the wiki, did you click to read through anything mentioned in this post?
Lol 🤌 I clicked. And realized I wasted time reading about loosers who waste their time bitchin instead of getting their shit.
And like clockwork, one click on your account shows that you haven’t manifested anything.
I think I have the opposite issue? I can’t form an attachment to any therapist no matter what. I always want to retreat and it feels like I’m sending myself toward a trap each session, the closer I ge…
Nice click bite. Thanks 🩵
Im sorry, but 80GB ingest/month is not medium company. 80GB/hour may be middle sized company. You are really looking for small scale/homelab sized solution. Worst part of grafana stack is loki. If yo…
There's all sorts of reasons why it might take that long, though I'd echo that 24 hours doesn't seem that long to me considering their scale of operations. Ignoring all of the technical side of thin…
Deep custom integrations, every company has unique process that is also bullshit. An IDP succeeds by doing those things with a single click. That's a hard thing to build, but it is what drives a need…
At our shop, the dumber and more boring the setup, the more stable and automated everything becomes. Our "internal developer platform" is just a simple CLI: `./run-cli.sh deploy all/staging/demo…
I had no purpose, no self awareness, no clarity. But I gained them through one thing. I got you. I will help for free. Nine out of ten people are blind to their purpose, and I was too just six month…
Start with talking to potential users, tutors in this case. Conduct interviews or surveys to understand their pain points and needs. You can also create a landing page that explains your product and g…
Realized early on that fulfillment is a key driver. It’s not just about getting products out the door; it’s about building a seamless, reliable system. The best brands treat their supply chain as a co…
Hi OP. I [25M] had VERY similar experience recently with the girl [25F] I was dating. It basically was the same as you described but in a shorter time frame - 2 months, and also we had sex twice. Ho…
I'd handle it by doing a lot of merging - and by not doing clickops - this is a devops subreddit, you should be automating everything so you don't need 30 aws tabs...
Humm, this is very interesting and I can see myself in that fear But I did something weird, I wanted to feel close and vulnerable but did not know how and still feel sometimes so afraid of intimacy th…
To be fair, not exactly pressured because I just wouldn't do it. The implication of one day not doing it and the relationship being tied to this little game would make me avoid it. And how do you real…
So instead of replying individually and repeating myself, I'm just going to make a comment addressing it all. Firstly, it was interesting to read all these perspectives. I see where some of its comin…
The one time that I noticed a sign and was correct was when they would say that ALL of the people they’ve dated, they just didn’t click with. Just nonchalant, didn’t click with any of them. I just r…
The way this made me CACKLE after I clicked the headline. Thanks for that. It's kinda disgusting how much of a market there is for this type of advice. So many snakeoil salesfolks out there promisin…
Well, where do I start? I guess for me the foundation was based on 3 pillars. 1st was of course Mindfulness as ability to comprehend that neither thoughts or feelings are our true self, which is in fa…
The video is tagged in most of her descriptions. I rather not share this here, because it will boost her channel if everyone clicks on it.
Its classic..you are not alone in this. I dont know if its allowed to say but i watched a lot from Dr Caroline Leaf free youtube videos, which is not about the attachment per se, but its one of those …
Sweet lord that’s crazy 😭It’s 100% okay to take breaks and the fact that they’re just spitting that weirdness out is gross :/ From my own personal experiences I always feel really good about shifting…
So me and guy are talking, been about a week. He asked to be exclusive with talking and I said yes because I don’t usually talk to many people at the same time so he would be the only one I would be t…
If you come off desperate for love/affection/a relationship and move quickly because of said desperation, people are gonna run the opposite way. That’s just how it works. No one is interested in despe…
As someone who feels similar to OP, I honestly don't know how easily you can get that same type of feeling through these other things. I'm open to the idea but I guess it doesn't click for me. I hav…
He was amazing, thoughtful, and genuine… until he vanished (I think?). Help me stay zen while I wait. --- So… I (35F) matched with this guy (43M) mid-July, and honestly, he’s been kind of wonderful.…
Yeah definitely. "Didn't click" = nobody met their standards as an excuse of themselves being the actual problem.
Text of original post by u/f1rstpancake: I am in a crash course on my own nervous system while in the midst of a breakup with a dismissive avoidant man I've loved for almost five years. I'd known abou…
POSM has tons of techniques. Every technique in there has worked for some people - if not JM would not have put it in his book. Yet they are very varied. The reason for this, is to motivate you to try…
I am navigating a post-breakup friendship. I really thought long and hard about keeping this person in my life because yeah I know myself and the last thing I wanted was to spiral into an insecure dyn…
Text of original post by u/TheOceanTheSun: Thank you to everyone who responded to my [**prior post**](https://www.reddit.com/r/AnxiousAttachment/comments/1plm1g1/selfhelp_group_for_anxious_attachment/…
Hi! I'd like to know how someone with anxious-avoidant attachment transitioned to secure attachment, especially regarding expectations. I know expectations are the root of the problems I've had with m…
Okay…here is what I am seeing in what you are saying. It doesn’t sound like you really enjoy your hobbies/interests very much. Like you are doing them because you think you should but not because yo…
I think a good way to keep it productive is to learn as much new information as you can about different dynamics and attachment patterns or other relationship topics with the goal of connecting them …
Thanks for sharing. Welcome to the group. And if you click the link above my original post, you are welcome to join our weekly zoom healing group as well. Basically a little bit of meditation, a readi…
This is probably not the answer you want, but it could be the one you need. With 8,3 billion people on the planet. It is to be expected that a few of them doesn't get the same emotional response as o…
You might need to try a new therapist. Finding a therapist you click with is like dating, you can't really know after the first or even 5th meeting. Sometimes it takes time. If you aren't seeing progr…
I read that when trying to heal avoidants approach it internally while the anxious approach is external. This really clicked with me and I could see it with my partner who had a lot of boom and busts …
The apps mean we go on dates with people that we probably never would have otherwise. Sometimes two people just don't click and it's no ones fault. Think back to high school or college. Were you upset…
Got it. I had no idea that is what it was for! The "New? Start Here" was not showing until I actually clicked in. The odd part is many of the other dating sites you need karma to post, but you need …
This isn’t necessarily the case. You’re regularly talking to multiple people on the apps, and sometimes you just click with someone else more. Or maybe even one or two people. So they become the prior…
I think we all want to "just click" with someone and sometimes we do and it IS intoxicating. There are not a lot of romantic movies about two More Or Less Compatible adults working hard at communicati…
I hate voice notes with passion. They are convenient to send, but very inconvenient to receive - not all of us are wearing headphones all the time. Granted, nowadays it's getting easier with various p…