narcissistic supply.

Hello, I had a similar perfectionist mother. Mine was a covert narcissist who secretly enjoyed pitting people against each other, but always under the guise of "kindness" and "what's best for her chil…

Op, you are awesome for this but i have a question: 1. Certain personality disorders by their actions inflict hurt or harm to others: Anti Social and to an extent NPD. When the result of the action i…

You were in a relationship with a narcissist. That heaven and hell feeling that you felt and now can’t let go.. it’s called trauma bonding. It’s the worst feeling. I went through a relationship with a…

Helping your kids out from your own free will bc you want to see them succeed would be the way to go. But unfortunately we’re not dealing with sane people. They are only in it for themselves and for t…

I think it's called hoovering. Also they just want the free narcissistic supply. Mine kept in touch with me for 12 years until I realized she was a covert narcissist and what she was doing. My clarity…

The fuel is narcissistic supply.

Learn what greyrocking is. The purpose for her saying horrible things to you is to get a reaction, it’s called narcissistic supply. It’s like fuel for narcissists. If you display no emotions, they are…

Narcs are often conned by high pressure salespeople who pretend to admire and praise them. Lacking any moral core they judge people and situations by whether it delivers narcissistic supply. And yes …

So, reading through this. Immediately STOP giving yourself any room for thought that this is your fault in any way shape or form or that you are being at all unreasonable. You are being gaslit and ind…