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The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist

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Growing Up With a Perfectionist Parent Is Messing With My Sense of Self

Hello, I had a similar perfectionist mother. Mine was a covert narcissist who secretly enjoyed pitting people against each other, but always under the guise of "kindness" and "what's best for her chil…

r/Codependencycomment3/11/2026
Husband suddenly wants to end our marriage and says it’s because of sex. We have a toddler. I also discovered he’s been dishonest about where he’s been. Looking for perspective.

Please read the book by Debbie Mirza called The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist. It’ll answer pretty much all your questions about what is going on. Runaway Husbands is another that saved my life…

r/Divorcecomment3/15/2026
This book has been phenomenal.

anyone can read it. it would help for sure… but abuse doled out by women tends to be much more covert. there is a book called “unmasking the covert female narcissist” by lucas taylor on amazon. maybe …

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/17/2026
After 9 years together she cheated, moved on fast, and dropped the bomb during 'final goodbye' – advice needed to survive this

Read “Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life” by Scorn or the website “chumplady.com” It’s an infidelity survivor help site. Your ex is trash for cheating on you, but she inadvertently did you a favor by leavi…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/25/2026