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You mentioned coming to terms with your gender identity, well my ex is also a trans woman, she came out in 2014, not even one full year into our marriage. But it was triggered by her dad's sudden deat…
Is there a better way to create posts that actually match your brand? — As a solo builder, I’ve been working on a small idea I think might be useful — especially for startups and B2B teams trying to stay consistent with branded content on instagram. The problem: Creatin…
What would you be willing to pay for at your company? — Over the years, we’ve seen several licensing dramas and ongoing debates even on this sub — the latest being Redis becoming open source again. Someone once said: “I'm fine with companies making money …
SEO Backlink exchange marketplace - 10 testers — We built a software that creates daily SEO articles for your site AND handles backlink exchange between users automatically (similar niche) Looking for 10 peeps to try it for free! You get: - Fres…
Best Practice For Canonical URLS — Hi everyone, I haven't used reddit much for anything besides lurking and memes, so its time to try it for crowdsourcing information. I'm looking to implement a rule set for a very large catalog of p…
I made a custom date-time picker using pure JS and CSS. — Hey r/webdev. A few months ago I put together this date-time picker system for a project I was working on, as I needed a professional way for users to be able to select dates and times for various fun…
Looking for early adopters - Customer Review Reminder — I'm a solo builder and recently launched a simple tool called **ReviewReminder (https://www.reviewremind.com/)** to help small businesses automatically remind their happy customers to leave a review. …
Spent 1 year solving a problem users “loved” but wouldn’t pay for: my learnings [I will not promote] — We are 2 years into building our SaaS, but spent 1 year building something people “loved”, “were excited about”... yet did not pay for. Since then, we have slightly pivoted and gained traction, but I …
Feeling conflicted, I don't know if I don't love him and I am settling or if I love him and the "cons" are avoidant deactivation? — I 33F have ve been dating this guy 32M for 8 months. He's chased me for years and eventually recently I started to feel attraction back, he figured it out and kissed me. For some months I didn't feel…
Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience] — So I'll start off by saying I'm not very experienced and have multiple psychotic and/or disassociative disorders plus a medical card But I'm surprised at my take away when using the medical marijuana…
You can reality shift just by washing your hands — Hey everyone, I’ve been obsessed with this idea lately and I can’t stop thinking about it: what if the simple act of washing your hands, when you actually slow down and get fully present with it, bec…
I’m so lost and need help — I wouldn’t say I’m new to the world of projection, I’ve known about it for 8 years and been wanting to try it ever since. I bought multiple books on the topic and have read them. Unfortunately all o…
Hairy Crabgrass (Digitaria Sanguinalis) -- Is it a potential 5-MeO-DMT source? [In a wider Ayahuasca narrative] — I can't say for sure if it was the grass because I also have a lot of existential stuff going on. I read a report on an old message board that someone's cats like eating crabgrass. They tried ferment…
What's an anxiety hack that has changed your life? — okay 11 years of anxiety. here's what actually works for me. no bs. the biggest thing first I named my anxiety. we call it Lisa. when my brain spirals I literally say "Lisa stop, none of this makes …
SSRI Time! — After almost 3 years of CBT and SO much growth and progress, I am still struggling to feel a healthy balance of calm and energized/motivated. My healthcare provider and therapist believe my fight-or-f…
How do I tell my boyfriend he is wasting my time? — I, 21F have been dating my boyfriend, 24M for almost 3 years now. Recently more than ever it seems as though he never wants to do things I want to do... like, not even consider it. We always end up pl…
Mugwort & Lucid Dreams — Let me start off by saying, you can take this as a “how to” guide or a warning, honestly either way works. So in 2020, I was obsessed with having lucid dreams. I did the YouTube meditations, never w…
Why can't I astral project anymore? — I'm a 30-year-old woman, and I first astral projected when I was 17....I used to have lucid dreams naturally since childhood, but I didn't know anything about astral projection at the time. When I was…
Have you guys tried eating in a lucid dream? — Not a regular lucid dreamer yet so haven't got the chance to try it. I've had regular dreams where I ate something and I remember being able to taste it. What's your experience?
Breaks are as important as the attempt - from an experienced shifter ⋆˚꩜.ᐟ — hi gorgeous souls! I have seen some posts about people feeling demotivated after a lot of failed shifting attempts and I wanted to give a bit of advice on how to navigate this as somebody who used t…
First Stage Separation [Success] - Wave 3, Exercise 6 — First thing first, English is not my first language so if I make mistakes I'm sorry, I won't use any AI translators for my experiences. I've done Wave 3 a few times and my first experiences with "Fir…
Does anyone have experience with Mexican dream herb? Trip report. — I met with 2g of tea brewed in 2 cups of boiling water, steeped for 7 minutes. I wasn’t able to fall asleep, not really, but I didn’t dream, either. What the tea showed me was a lucid, waking dream. …
Sending my breath places has relived a lot of pain. — I was always taught to try and ignore pain or distract myself. A friend of mine years ago said her yoga instructor said to “send your breath” to places that hurt. After many years of practice I can ma…
I upgraded this method — So many people claimed that they were losing focus on their DR. They couldn't decide if they should stare or imagine more. So I would recommend: 1. Choose a point to stare. 2. Start imagining or feel…
If you're sick of fades/tapers, try a down perm — This really just goes for the Asian bros with the typical 2A, flat, pin-stright hair that sticks straight out from the side and back. The ones who don't have this problem, I envy you. Even if it's re…
I built something because I was tired of not knowing what to do with my life. — I built something because I was tired of not knowing what to do with my life. It’s a simple tool that asks you a few questions and gives you a clear direction + what to do next. No fluff, no 10 opti…
Breaking Through the Barrier — Greetings I'm new to the whole energy work thing so I have something to ask about. I was surfing some forum till I stumbled upon a post there for a guy claiming that there's a vibrational barrier…
Why is it so hard for people to do something this simple? — I’ve been trying something small recently. I started a notebook that gets passed from person to person. Each person writes one honest line about themselves and then passes it on. That’s it. No pr…
Just three months of dating and I'm having a tough time getting over it. — Hey everyone. So, I (28/M) met my ex (43/F) about three months ago. I was a bit fresh out of my previous relationship, which I ended after almost two years because of sexual incompatibility. I was j…
i almost lucid dreamed but i couldn't control anything — so last night i remembered about lucid dreaming and i wanted to try it again because i had in the past and it didn't work. recently I've been having very vivid dreams where i remember them a lot and i…
my dream journal has been working in reverse. let me explain — so a while ago I started a dream journal to write down all the dreams that I can remember from each night. I also wrote down all the unsual things in my dreams and created a "dream rule list" to read …
Two festivals ~3 weeks apart. Recommendations on which substances to take? — There are 2 festivals coming up in my area with around 3 weeks in between them. I plan on taking MDMA for the second, but was unsure of what to do at the first one. I've considered weed, 2CB, shrooms …
HINGE APP Am I doing alright on Hinge or nah? (30M) — I’m a 30M East Asian guy, 6’2, in Canada. Just got out of a 10-year relationship (also a single dad of 3), so I’m pretty new to dating again. Downloaded Hinge 5 days ago just to try it out. So far: …
I can't fully believe in it — No matter what I do I can't exactly believe in manifestation. I feel like every success story can be explained. Even though I'm interested in spiritual stuff I always have a realistic side believes th…
God's Territory technique — There I was, again feeling like everything I'm imagining is waaay off with some invisible barrier between me and it. My mind was racing again with how I'm going to get this right. It kinda sucks when …
I’ve done near every regular psychedelic except dmt. Should I tick it off the list? — I’m terrified to try it cause I have a lot of trauma I guess I’m scared of finding out what the deal is and I’m scared I’m gonna have a bad trip which I don’t normally have on any psych. I’ve done mes…
How do you “win” the breakup? — I need genuine tips for how to glow up after a breakup. Not only physically but also mentally. Long story short: Me and my ex were together for almost 8 years. He is an avoidant and discarded me on a…
How do you “win” the breakup? — I need genuine tips for how to glow up after a breakup. Not only physically but also mentally. Long story short: Me and my ex were together for almost 8 years. He is an avoidant and discarded me on a…
Manifesting signs for proof — So I want to manifest a sign that manifestation actually works and I am 100% sure it does work but I just wanna try it but I am wondering like when I want to manifest something random that I rarely se…
I'm a UW Madison student who got way too deep into YouTube and I’m building an app to get myself back on track. — I started using YouTube a bit too much and honestly it got out of control pretty fast. I was spending a couple of hours on it every day without even realizing it. I'd tell myself I'd watch one video a…
Pushed into open marriage? Sorry, just some unsorted thoughts — My wife and I first talked about an open marriage during our vacation in the Maldives in 2025. At first, I didn't think the idea was that bad. However, I have no desire for another woman. I told her i…
Personal musings on the reality of astral projection — As a truth seeker of metaphysics, I have been fascinated by astral projection experiences and its implications on what constitutes our reality. But yet at the same time, I am aware of how many seeming…
The Lucid Wake App is officially released! Inviting users who want to try REM sleep stimulation to induce lucid dreaming. — Hi everyone: Thank you all so much for your enthusiastic response! The 14-day closed beta test of Lucid Wake has successfully concluded. After recruitment, we now have 30 testers. During the 14-day c…
can u guys give me some tips. — I believe in manifestation, it's one of the first thing that made a lot of sense to me. we become what we think, what we speak, what we do. and tbh sometimes things happens and i literally don't reali…
Boredom @ 25 After owning 2 homes & travelling to 15 countries. — At the age of 16 my dad told me that after my 10th grade that I need to learn to be financially independent, so I started teaching Violin lessons at that time I was an intermediate level player but he…
Learn a new language | Lingoda 40% off discount — I've been trying to tackle German since 2024 and I figured I’d share what I actually learned from using Lingoda for the last year and made the best out of it, it is a really cool and fun way to learn …
should i give my boyfriend a break after giving him an ultimatum? — **update**: thanks for your responses i felt bad and apologized for giving him an ultimatum. i realized i was wrong and i was being selfish and i told him i take full accountability for being difficul…
I built a soul mirror. It only works if you're honest with it. — try it here: [soulmirror.ai](http://soulmirror.ai) The idea is simple: you answer 4 open-ended questions honestly, and it mirrors back your wound, your mask, your gift, and an archetype. No multiple …
Heartbroken — Hi reddit, I could use some comfort and I need to write this out After a slew of bad dating luck and heartbreak in the past few months, I organically started developing a connection with a woman. O…
Heartbroken and Need to Move On.. But How? — Hi reddit, I could use some comfort and I need to write this out After a slew of bad dating luck and heartbreak in the past few months, I organically started developing a connection with a woman. Onl…
My (42F) boyfriend (55M) upset he wasn’t given cake — I (42F) have been dating my boyfriend (55M) for about a year and a half. I’m a single mom, so my time is split 50% with kids, and 50% with him. My kids (two - tween ages) have had a hard time except…
Thats a very very good explanation thank you . So the best time would be to wake up like 6 hours in my sleep and then try it since i would still be tired ?
I read this post as I was at lunch, I was sitting and thinking about a new scene for a mission I will do - and it involves a big airballoon. Out of nowhere this college walks in and says ”have u guys …
Yeah. Like I wrote in another comment here - NOONE OR NOTHING will give you proof enough, YOU have to try it yourself. And not the clowny way the people in that sub is whining about or Oprah Winfreys …
Love these arguments. Point 1: There is a difference between hypnosis (true authentic feelings of experience of here and now of the desired outcome) and daydreaming. When you give your mind and your…
There's alot of hate on people saying "it works for me, try it" but that's because most of us have tried and failed too (bc we did it wrong for ex) before just like the majority in the other sub, and …
So, I come from a science background, and as such, totally understand all your points and mostly agree with all of them. AND YET, I have tried variations of the methods from JM & similar and had very…
so let me ask you, why are you writing your argument against manifestation? do you want us to give up or to convince you otherwise? if I gave you an experiment, would you try it?
i used it, and love the fact that you can put your .toolversions file and isolate all your tools for that repo. really handy for monorepos. any tools that allows you to have a reproducible environment…
Is this a released and available app? Think I’m generally leaning secure, but currently in a relationship with a DA which has made me very anxious. If this is available, I’d like to suggest we try it …
There's no reason anyone needs to know that you see a therapist. If you don't tell people, they won't know right? Depending on your health insurance, a session usually only costs a copy ($20-40) fo…
A big reason why therapists can be so helpful is because they show us different perspectives. Few people have truly changed completely in isolation. I hope you are able to try it at some point, it can…
1. Therapy is like training wheels. If you can’t even ‘shop’ for a therapist, meaning: seeing their profiles, interview them, try it out, switch, maybe come back, maybe move on means you don’t have a …
Thank you! I’ll download the app and try it
What about exercise, should I do more? I am currently in a relatively sedentary job (radiologist). It's mentally tiring but fulfilling. A lot of my colleagues really work out seriously, they have rou…
I personally did not have help with medication. But if you want to try it you should :) It can be a great tool for many people. I benefitted a lot from going to therapy + doing the exercises in the …
I'm trying to explain that the intentional exclusion is likely due to your manager status. And while it's okay at your company, your direct reports may feel differently. If I were to spend lunch tryi…
Wonderful! Thank you. Could I ask a favor? Could you bring one healing technique to the next call? We can all try it out at a future meeting together.
Agreed on all points, but when I tried it (as someone securely attached) it never turned out well: I don't think any of my partners had secure attachment, themselves, because they all had strong emoti…
Been studying Stoicism for a while and wanted a way to "consult" Marcus Aurelius when working through difficult situations. So I trained a chatbot exclusively on Meditations (Hays translation) plus so…
Thanks for elaborating. What you say makes a lot of sense. It sounds like you like this guy and you have a connection. What if you invited him on a platonic date, as a challenge to yourself? Could …
I think that if this is happening when you start dating, your nervous system has been trained to think that romantic relationships keep you safe. So yes. This is very similar and this technique could …
Could I get thoughts on some sexual issues I have? I've accepted the way that I am and I don't feel insecure about it, but I am wondering about the effects it's had on my dating life. Please no comm…
I've been advised to give everyone 3 dates unless they're a serial killer and yes I did try it for a while but I think it just hurt everyone's feelings and "wasted" our time. If you wanted to you w…
I went on a first date on Saturday, an afternoon meeting at a coffee shop. We ended up sitting there talking for three hours until the cafe closed. He walked me to my car and we hugged goodbye. I text…
Posted this in yesterday's thread but it got locked shortly after, so reposting here: I went on a first date on Saturday, an afternoon meeting at a coffee shop. We ended up sitting there talking for …
That's awesome! I've never been to a singles event, but I think I would like to try it at some point!
Any other women extremely sensitive to smell/taste/“chemistry”? I can count on one hand the men I’ve enjoyed kissing in my life. I can even enjoy sex with some guys but still hate kissing them, it alw…
In my experience (FA-DA marriage), you could both really use couples therapy with an attachment styles-trained therapist. I don't know where your wife's mistrust comes from, but the goal of therapy wo…
When we first started dating they said they were fine with either, but my difficulty with ENM has come up before a couple times in the past year and they were never able to give me an answer as to whe…
Love this. Going to try it tonight :)
Only ever done a walk, drinks or coffee on a very first date but that’s kind of more to suss them out, but on a second date (which you might consider the first real date) I’ve done crazy golf/pool/air…
From your posts you seem like a very insightful and introspective person, as well as someone who is also willing to try something new. This is a wonderful collection of traits. Try it. You two go ou…
Thank you for thinking so :) I appreciate it haha. I am going to try it, and already sent the green light response back. Now I just wait and see what the next step is
Try to meet in person as soon as possible. Something like - hey, have you been to x? I want to try it
I’m not judging anyone for going with their gut feeling but I suck at texting. I’m much better in person. But it always breaks down in the texting app phase somehow. Something *always* happens. I hope…
Manifested a freelance project for $30,000 income in less than a week (the job showed up through a connection in a week, but it’s a 12-week project). Have manifested jobs and a dream partner who mak…
Haha wondered when someone was gonna ask this one. So we have a coat hook by the door to our garage. It has various coats, and our two car keys hanging there. My wife had taken my car out that after…
As someone who works in health care and has for many years this doctor was not doing her job if she let women deliver vaginally with open sores and/or did not have her patients on antivirals. I’m in …
Everyone's trip is different. Over the years I've come to realize that they are real. It's not just a trip it's an experience. Dmt is a beautiful gateway to the other side in my opinion. I recommend y…
The industry itself is predatory and vampiric. The trend has been increasingly violent and dregrading material. Often leaving the actors with regrets, trauma, feeling they were pressured etc. Even phy…
I have free meditation guided link in my profile try it especially letting go and tell me how it went
When everything in life feels unstable, it’s hard to know what to fix first. I built a tool that helps people sort through overwhelm and identify the safest next step toward stability. It creates a si…
That’s really beautiful and interesting. Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds almost magical. I’ve heard a lot about the use of DMT on here and researched it myself. It sounds like a wor…
Yes, I think you should. Try it. Sometimes, things happen when you're least expecting it. Or not. Either way - live the best life you can.
Ok hear me out...you should try it the other way around. Don't ask him to get a new number. Keep your old phone, BUT FIRST Remotely log out of EVERYTHING connected to it...you said you're not tech sav…
That’s really interesting. And makes a lot of sense when you think about it too. What’s funny is I just finished reading an autobiography by a former member of the Charles Manson family, and he met a …
It's fun to play with isn't it? Have you tried sending the ball of energy through your hands, around the arms and the back to the shoulder of the other arm and then down to the palm of the other hand …
that’s smart, thank you. might try it
I hope that doesn't come as rude but if you say you don't want to do an activity because you have enough, what exactly do you want to do with a person that you meet? Wouldn't that require some planned…
People become happy in their own hell. It’s uncomfortable and even sometimes boring or painful to work on the inner. Trust me, I’ve tried to get family to meditate and work on these things and they tr…