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Sunken Cost Fallacy

Reading that book was pivotal for me. It's been awhile, but I think the book states that if you have a few/several items in the "too bad to stay" category, you should seriously think about leaving. …

r/Divorcecomment3/15/2026
Sunken Cost Fallacy

There’s a really great book called “too good to leave, too bad to stay” by Mira Kirschenbaum. It lists like 50 things and whether or not they’re things that can improve with therapy and work or if the…

r/Divorcecomment3/15/2026
Cheating Husbands: Did You Ever Stop Cheating Completely? If so, what made you want to stop cheating on your wives?

That's a great question. I think it's just how I grew up. Ive never been one for instant gratification or "the thrill" of the moment. Always been loyal and look to fix rather than leave. In the mome…

r/Divorcecomment3/30/2026
29F 32M Fiancé and I got into life altering fight

Any therapy should be useful to begin with and I recommend some reading Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life Susan David Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of…

r/relationshipscomment4/6/2026