I'm divorced

You're the same age as my LDR partner, who I met on this sub. We've been together for 14 months. We've definitely had those ups and downs regarding the afterlife of our respective ended marriages. Ou…

He has significant debt from his divorce, I'm debt-free, can this work? — I'm 42F and have been dating someone (45M) for about 8 months. Things are going really well and we've started talking about a future together. The issue is he has around $65k in debt from his divorce …

I'm on chat-contact with a lady across the Atlantic . I feel fairly emotionally safe with her, but the distance makes the relationship borderline unrealistic. I'm divorced with a son whim I love more …

Ok, spanish man here, 39, never married. So take what I feel as a grain of salt: I think he is enjoying his time with you, and wants you close (for selfish reasons? maybe, maybe not) I'm worried tha…

Just figured out I took a married woman out on a date without knowing she was married. Definitely ample opportunity for it to come up if she was separated/divorced since I'm divorced and we explicitly…

Yes I noticed they're finally letting you filter more for free! Overall I find Hinge to be the best - I've noticed people actually read my profile and prompts! EDIT: It's funny, I have one of mine se…

I didn't need a piece of paper to tell me I was married. I don't need one to tell me I'm divorced. I'm not interested in dating yet, but when I am, I will feel ok with it.

I'm divorced and dated during my process and am here to say: HARD NO.

My ex wife cheated on me when we had an 18 month old. Blamed it all on me i thought it was my fault apologised for things i hadn't even done etc etc. This was two years ago this month. Now i'm divorce…

I suffered like this 😭 & now that I'm divorced I just still wish we could work things out because no 2 people are the same...

Umm, she'd not have any say in my life if she was my ex. I'm divorced and my ex tried to have an opinion she was quickly told where her opinions belong...in the garbage.

I'm divorced, 48 (f) with a 3-year-old. I feel your pain. Having said that, I think people find their match in the strangest ways of the most unlikely times. Hang in there. Your person is out there.

Everything you've described are red flags for reconciliation. She's not remorseful and she's minimizing it. She doesn't fully grasp how wrong it is because she justified it to herself. I did 2 years o…

I stayed and did couples therapy. Got cheated on again. Now I'm divorced. I do not have any regrets about the divorce.

Honestly, that's just wonderful to hear! My mum was married 3 times before she died, and my dad is also on his 3rd marriage, plus I'm divorced (just the once!) myself. This is why I love to hear fro…

Come travel with me I'm divorced. Only get one chance.

I'm divorced and have kids with my ex wife. But I'd consider having more, even though that seems somewhat unlikely unless I were with a woman who was a few years younger.

I fought hard for my marriage after the first affair. In the years that followed, it was the happiest I had been in a long time. Or so I believed at the time. Or so I told myself. But I was always par…

Trust me, no one cares but you. It's very common these days to be divorced... a lot more than when we were kids, even. Personally, I'm glad I'm divorced and not walking on eggshells or begging for a…

I don't understand how you can't have *any* expectations of your partner? If we're in a long term committed relationship, I expect my partner won't lie to me, won't cheat, won't break my trust, won't …

I feel this so deeply and you did such a good job stating what's happening with so many women. You are so correct that money is a factor and sometimes people might say it's not but we know and we feel…

I've felt that before... I'm divorced and had an engagement end. It's tough. I do go to therapy more as an ongoing thing; not urgent. You need to find the right help there (took me a while). However…

Original copy of post by u/Mindless-Cucumber-40: I'm 42F and have been dating someone (45M) for about 8 months. Things are going really well and we've started talking about a future together. The iss…

I'm divorced and haven't regretted that a day. However none of the words you used, peaceful, kind, great wife, etc, would've described the state of my marriage. Your wife isn't your religion. You mi…