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💞Beautiful awareness! 💞 No thoughts? OR... running on autopilot???It's more likely that you're simply not paying attention, in the moment, and miss the warm up prior to the snap. I invite you to tu…

Can Manifestation Really Help You Get Full Marks in an Exam If You Only Wrote Part of the Answer? — Hey everyone, I have a question that might sound a bit out there, but I’m curious to hear if anyone has had a similar experience. I recently took an exam where I only managed to write answers for ab…

My arguments against manifestation — 1. **Maladaptive daydreaming proves that manifestation isn't real**; Manifestation doctrine teaches that what you focus on expands and manifests in your physical reality. Do not split hairs and try to…

Yesterday I launched a landing page and I got 3 presales in 24h. (I will not promote) — I'm building a minimalist, AI based bookkeeping app. Went live with a simple landing page yesterday and shared it in a few relevant places. I was prepared for a long period of drought and self-doubt,…

The most painful relationship/breakup I've ever had, cracked me open for healing. Plot Twist: The text message llm tool said I was an FA, I ignored it for 5 months before I figured it out. — For five months I was absolutely certain I was dismissive avoidant. Monthly attachment coaching—as a DA. Studied obsessively, could recite every AP/DA/FA trait. I even built this text analysis tool, a…

Are pre-birthday discards the norm? — I’m trying to understand this through attachment theory because I genuinely don’t know what just happened. We’re both women. I was 23 with a grad degree, she was 38 and just got her culinary degree w…

My boyfriend and I had an argument over his marriage demands, and now he claims he means none of it... — Tl:dr: My boyfriend of two years has a list of requirements from me after we get married, and after our argument over it, which lead us to break up-- he said he didn't mean any of it and wants to go …

Has anyone else experienced something very feeling strange ever since the election of the current American President?? — Hello everyone. This might be an unusual post to make at this time. However, I am looking forward to see if anyone has experienced anything similar or exactly what I have experienced. Before earlier i…

I Genially Think My (35F) Husband (36M) is a Psychopath — Hi everyone, please I need help. I’m 35F and my husband is 36M. We’ve been married for 10 years and have two boys (7 and 5). I honestly don’t know what to think anymore. About three months ago my hus…

My (26/M) Girlfriend (26/F) Of 6.5 Years Emotionally Cheated and I Don’t Know What To Do — My (26/M) girlfriend (26/F) and I met our first year of college and started dating shortly after. We went through Covid together, graduated together, and started living together about 2 years ago. We…

Update: I received 3 opportunities in one day after months of nothing! (self-concept shift around money) — A few days ago I made this post about feeling stuck with money even though I had success manifesting other things: [https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/comments/1rm8jfl/success\_with\_loa\_in\_man…

I (21F) Am losing feelings for my (22M) boyfriend. Any advice? — Throwaway account. I (21F) and my boyfriend (22M) have been together for a little over two years. It's been good for the most part, and i can tell you that my boyfriend is one of the best people i kno…

self concept got me my dream life — This is a rant, but this is a confirmation that self-concept is real and it's what changes your life. Self-concept is something that you shouldn't convince yourself of. Self-concept is something you b…

Share your most insane ‘money just appeared’ story — Here's mine: A while back life really hit me hard. I just got out of the hospital with a $4,000 bill which is huge where I live since most healthcare is government covered. My job fired me while I was…

I feel like I was cursed or hexed by someone. How can I get rid of this? — I suddenly feel off. I don't understand what is happening to me but I can't think about anything else other than my past mistakes in my life and insecurities and struggles and negative thoughts in my…

Husband suddenly wants to end our marriage and says it’s because of sex. We have a toddler. I also discovered he’s been dishonest about where he’s been. Looking for perspective. — I’m 39F and my husband (34M) and I have been married a little over 3 years. We have a toddler (2). Recently, completely out of nowhere, he told me he thinks we’re “not compatible” and started talking…

Doing meditation for past 100 days — Unable to do meditation for not more than 6 or 8 minutes, than increased it day by day and now do 25 minutes of daily meditation, Does anyone notice these things, which I noticed ? 1. Music feels mor…

My husband (34M) told his friends about my miscarriage as a “joke” and now says I’m overreacting (32F) — I don’t even know how to explain this without sounding insane I had a miscarriage 3 months ago. It was early but it still wrecked me. My husband (together 5, married 2) knows that. He saw how bad it …

Carl Jung wasn't a psychologist. He was a shaman. — Carl Jung quietly wrote one of the most profound esoteric texts of all time, at least in my own personal opinion. Seven Sermons to the Dead was written in 1916, privately shared between a handful of J…

Manifested all four things using a list method (With Proof) — I have shared about my February list manifestation here, too. This is for between March 10-20. The interview offer was the most insane one because I hadn't gotten to hear from them for two weeks, and …

My "Alzheimer technique" worked on my NMom again but I almost chickened out — About a month ago I shared a [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/comments/1qyh9x9/at_age_40_i_finally_found_what_works_with_my_nmom/) here how I visited my NMom after 3 years of NC and…

Processing my NDE and the paranormal experiences that followed — I can’t sleep and i’m feeling the need to document a sequence of experiences I had from February 2019 through 2020 that forever changed my life. I’ll try my best to keep each section somewhat brief, b…

Did he just used the O method on me? Twice?? — ok so... I used the famous O method before, not even knowing what it was (found out later), with a guy I'm in separation with (not talking for months now). He checks only my "romantic" stories with h…

Help me please — Created this account just to talk about this I don’t know if it would reach a lot of people but I don’t feel like it’s appropriate to post on main I feel so empty right after I just felt alive I don’…

Have you had any experiences where your beings saved yours or someone else's life in some way? — *(Added this image as I thought it was fitting given the title - its one of my favourite sculptures which is called The Ecstasy of Saint Teresa by Gian Lorenzo Bernini, finished in 1652)* \------- P…

1.5 Years Update 💀 My predictions became true — No, I do NOT want my ex back—like ever 😭 but I do have a story + some lessons from how everything played out. So basically, about 1.5 years ago, my ex randomly broke up with me out of nowhere. Like……

Coming to terms with the fact that I am a stalker, and I'm not sure where to go from here — I met a girl online about 4-5 months ago, and she basically love bombed me. Was super into me, kept pushing to meet, and told me she loved me. I was initially really indifferent about the whole thing …

I 27f pregnant can barley eat and my partner 31m didnt sleep because I ate McDonald’s — I’m 12 weeks pregnant and my first trimester has honestly been HELL. I can barely keep food down. The smell of most meats makes me gag and throw up. Even random things like cold air outside gets me an…

Broke 6 months of no contact — I(26M) texted my ex(24F) on her birthday just to be nice. It was a stupid idea I know. Basically I broke no contact of 6 months through this text and we didn’t exchange a lot of words she just thanked…

An Eerie Success story from yesterday that PROVES the Power of these teachings!! Healing my Mothers back, I influenced her mind with Robotic affirmations and a personal success healing story. — So I wanted to share this with you today, as a reminder of the sheer immense power of these teachings and also as a reminder, that when I share my word salads here, you can actually rest assured, that…

Someone from your dr manifesting YOU — There is something I have been thinking about and that is someone from your dr manifesting you to come into their life. I persinally think yes, as the people in our desired realities are real people l…

I thought I died last night. — (For background) In college - about ten years ago - I took an interest in lucid dreaming for a few months. During that time and since, I've had a few lucid dreams. Not often at all, but enough so that…

Woke up to boyfriend on the couch? — I (31 F) randomly woke up at 12:45 AM and saw that my boyfriend (33 M) wasn’t in bed next to me. All of the lights are off in the apartment. So I get up, walk out into the living room, and I see him s…

Does anyone else get these crazy "vibrations" or is it just me? Need to vent — Yo everyone, i rly need to share this because whenever i try to tell someone they either think im capping or jst give me that blank oh really? look its frustrating as heck. so here’s the deal i usual…

Did anyone else's narc apologize, but not specifically? — Whenever my narc would "apologize" after I had confronted him about something, he wouldn't say like "I'm sorry for discarding you without warning" or "I'm sorry I yelled at you out of nowhere a few da…

What pulled you out of your worst version of yourself? — We all hit that point. Mine was waking up one day and not recognizing who I'd become — lazy, unmotivated, just going through the motions. I'm not gonna pretend I had some dramatic overnight transform…

Religion might be trapping people in their own hell 💀 — We know that assumptions and beliefs create our reality. Think about people throughout history who did absolutely horrific things, yet genuinely believed they were doing the right thing in the name o…

nmom ruining my pregnancy by bullying my body — went no contact again and she won’t stop blowing up my phone — My whole life my sister and I have been bullied by our mom. When I was anorexic skinny, she’d say I had “no ass” and looked like a stick. Now that I’ve recovered and I’m at a normal, healthy weight (f…

Had my first one last night. — Basically I was dreaming of something that happened that same night and I checked the clock and it was 9:41 so I realized I was dreaming because I left the event at 7:53. So then I made myself fly, wh…

Do men regret fumbling the girl they were in love with? — It’s been two years since my ex broke up with me out of nowhere while I was on a trip and he was out with his friends. We had been together for two years, and even now, some of my guy friends—who are …

[22F] Need outside opinions on a very confusing and painful situation with a guy I dated [22M] — I’m 22F and he’s also 22M. We met on Hinge last August and clicked very fast. It became intense almost immediately. He was very interested in me as a person first, not just physically, and he openly s…

I’m just so ANGRY at him !!! — my ex and i broke up 2 months ago of a one year relationship and we see each other EVERY FUCK\*NG DAY at uni I’m just so angry at him. we had trouble talking to each other about what was bothering us…

My 18M bf broke up with me 17F because he got an A in maths — hi, im 17F and I'm dating 18M, we met in grade school and became high school sweethearts. It's been 4 years and we have been going on really strong, although he lives 30 mins away and goes to a differ…

Boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me, and i begged him to stay. — I got broken up by my boyfriend yesterday, and to me, it was out of nowhere because he said he would never leave me. For context- I was his first serious relationship and he says I was the first girl …

I hate my mother's friends — I hate and resent them so much, it seems like my mother always seem to prioritize them more like as if we are some blood relationship when they tend to be super manipulative, immature and shady. Once …

almost texted my ex again tonight… caught myself this time — was literally typing the message and everything nothing important even… just something random because I suddenly felt like I needed to talk to her it’s weird how your brain makes it feel urgent, lik…

He asked for a divorce… after “upgrading” everything I owned — I’ve been married for 6 years, and out of nowhere, my husband tells me he wants a divorce. No buildup, no real warning... just dropped it like it’s nothing. What’s messing with my head is everythin…

How important is it to take actions? — If I wanna manifest a certain amount of money each month. How much percentage of manifestation is also about action? For example- I need to post each day on socials for me to grow. Is it possible to…

How to process this weird break of no contact? — ​ My ex avoidantly discarded with seemingly minimal thought, which absolutely destroyed me. She then anxiously broke no contact after 2 hours in an anxious spiral thinking I mightn't have gott…

I'm disgusted with my partner — I hope you can adress my embarrassing story maturely and offer real sympathy or advice. My girlfriend (29F) and I (37M) have been dating for 3 months. She mostly stays at my apartment. We have common…

What do I do with the Gift? — We were 11 years together and just recently she broke up with me out of nowhere 3 weeks ago. Randomly called me annoying prior to the breakup for asking her repeatedly to tell me when she would be bus…

Because thats not how relationships work. You can’t solely be thinking of whats best for you. If I date someone yet kept myself before them all the time, that relationship would probably not last very…

If they broke up with you, out of nowhere, it really doesn't. They don't care. And you shouldn't either!

I read this post as I was at lunch, I was sitting and thinking about a new scene for a mission I will do - and it involves a big airballoon. Out of nowhere this college walks in and says ”have u guys …

There also used to be such a thing as a “heads up.” A discard comes out of nowhere. If an avoidant was run over by a car, I bet they would have appreciated a horn honk or light flash first.

ok so i typed up a hypothetical example haha let's say i have a coworker/acquaintance who seems like they'd have a lot in common with me, but we don't know each other well. i want to become closer to…

He’s going to leave you. I’m sorry. I can guarantee this. He’s extremely immature, and you are trying to be his mother and his therapist. It will backfire on you spectacularly. He needs professional h…

I've been reading people's experiences with partners who have borderline personality disorder, and I keep wondering... Is it possible for someone to not have a meltdown for a whole year before it happ…

Living through this right now. Was dating a DA last year and I really liked her, but she would put me down and be generally disrespectful at times. She would often say things that minimized our relati…

Wow, that’s… I mean, that’s seriously sociopathic behaviour. I can’t even imagine how you felt. It’s such a mindfuck. I hope you kicked him out and never looked back. What a toxic piece of bovine excr…

Yes he seemed very secure in the beginning and so was I. But immediately after we started living together, he turned very cold and sort of “robotic” out of nowhere. Made me extremely anxious and we en…

Thanks for sharing your perspective. I experienced this first hand. The wild part to me is she made me her enemy, and out of nowhere acted like we weren’t enemies. I wasn’t having it tho. Once my enem…

So many examples I can think of lol. In general, after our honeymoon phase was over, she deactivated and started pulling away. I assumed this was caused by anxiety, so instead of calling out her dism…

Having less of a support system has probably all played in this entire cycle. I'm at that age in life where friends are moving onto other life stages (kids etc when I don't want kids), other cities, a…

This is a great question. I was in therapy for 10 years and also went to countless coaches and therapists. There are a handful of things that actually helped me significantly: 1. Creating deep, meani…

I’m a year late but let’s be real, this is facts. The people bashing manifestation or New Thought teachings are just mad it didn’t work for them. They got half-baked info off TikTok or Abraham Hicks, …

I’ve been dating my guy for 5 months. He has been extraordinary. Patient, kind, loving, basically says all the things my soul has been dying to hear. He reached out to me, and by date number 2 said he…

Is it normal you freeze an entire night and morning watching someone you care about be like that? My back just started hurting out of nowhere and I couldn't walk, sit, or lie without feeling a sharp p…

I was hoping he would, but I know I need to be able to manage myself right now as I might just get angry at him this time if he acts helpless around me like last night. I don't want to get mad at him …

So… I have dated someone with DID before. Dissociative Identity Disorder. In these individuals, when anything even remotely stressful happens; they will quite literally turn into a different person. L…

Wow I am sorry. I have felt similarly before and it is such a terrible thing to experience. There was a time, even, where I was paranoid that I was NPD (despite being, if anything, the complete opposi…

Same situation here. I’m also on an sp mission. Now it has been around 7 weeks i would say. Everything seemed to be going super well because we are in contact despite being a long distance thing and h…

I (33m) just got broken up with by an extreme avoidant the day before Thanksgiving. She was supposed to come with me to my Thanksgiving, but created a fight out of nowhere seemingly to avoid going to …

Wanted to shape some of my thoughts for you and add to ThrowRA_patata3000. 🤞 It could be my two cents: but it might be that deep down, your feeling an intuition that’s trying to pull you out outward…

After seeing the comments, i am quite amazed how many avoidants say the same thing (not in a bad way but more surprised). I dated/ a crush with two avoidants of different avoidance level. Both mention…

I completely agree that nothing is owed irrespective of my efforts and she is allowed to change her mind at any moment but the emotional whiplash is catastrophic for the other person who has been made…

when my ex fiance dumped me it was really sudden and out of nowhere. it was really impersonal and there was no explaination at all (plus it was the day before valentines day.... the asshole 😒) we ha…

Your prince will not just pop out of nowhere, no. I've met plenty of people at meetups for example, but you need to make an effort to go there and engage with people. Personally I find it pretty exha…

What the flying fuck I'm so, so sorry he did this to you out of nowhere and was so mean to you about it Obviously it says so much more about his character than yours that he chose to end things this…

As Whosedev said, I hope this isn't a habit. I much rather get insulted right in my face, appearance and all, and be told to piss off, than be ghosted out of nowhere. Out of everything about modern …

Water water everywhere, and not a drop to drink. Have a date tonight with someone I already feel I won't be interested in, but I'm going to try to be open and curious and see if I'm wrong (I haven't b…

I’ve been getting matches on Hinge in NYC but most of the women haven’t been responding. Can I ask why folks would match if you don’t actually want to have a convo. I have 14 matches maybe only 3 have…

Is it normal to gain more weight in your 30s? Been skinny my whole life and now I’m 180 lbs out of nowhere.

What do you mean exactly when you say "out of nowhere"?

oof i've done that to a woman before. Super anxious day of, suddenly missed my ex out of nowhere, didn't feel ready, she was a stranger compared to my ex i dated (duh). Defs not proud of it though! …

A girl who unmatched me out of nowhere after a seemingly great date now messaged me on LinkedIn saying she lost access to her account due to a phone system update. Not sure if that passes the sniff te…

Omg! This sounds terrible and so out of nowhere … very nice of you to have sent her flowers.

Someone superliked me on Bumble and honestly his profile is 10/10. We have so much in common in terms of values and interests, this happens very rarely me for. However I am not quite sure if I am attr…

Assuming you mean outer planet transits to the luminaries, rather than sun/moon transits to Saturn, Pluto, Uranus. The moon moves so quickly you could go to bed one evening and totally miss they it sq…

I mean, if it came out of nowhere I would be inclined to agree, but it's different if you ask their red flags and they bring it up, it seems reasonable.

How can you tell if you’re with an avoidant? I’m kind of spiraling— my long term relationship is in trouble and I have been trying hard to fix it. Even this dynamic is a little weird for me, everythin…

She’s already let you go, the relationship is over. She probably wanted you to post more pictures of the two of you, like she did, she liked showing you off but you didn’t reciprocate it and she felt …

I understand what you’re asking, but I struggle to answer it logically, so I decided to share a story instead—maybe it’ll make things clearer. Years ago, I was working at a company as an assistant …

It wasn’t a single minute. It was problems from the past that we’ve worked through before but in that minute everything came back and idk it was like the whole world just came crashing down all in one…

lol I love that you’re talking about this because I know this to be true as well. So this weekend a good friend of mine misplaced his phone while we were out (we were at a restaurant.) He checked his…

Two more phone chats today then finished with this round. 15 matches, I swipe with pretty much everyone as I only know from interacting if we'll get along. 5 unmatched me when I asked early on if they…

Covert sides are worse because it’s unbearably obvious but sometimes not provable by average classification, sigh. I became jealous in general after her cheating, and how silent she always was. I onl…

Totally understand what you’re going through. 8 months out here and have the same sadness thinking of the future I won’t have with her. Some days are better than others then out of nowhere it hits me …

I felt every word of that. The part about suddenly seeing what you could have done differently and wishing you had understood sooner… that has been one of the hardest parts for me too. It’s a brutal f…

I'll share a bit of my story, take from it what you will. I have a degree in political science. In 2015 I was living in Washington DC, reading from a minimum of five news sources a day. I knew polit…

I felt this so much about 5 years ago. I would just look up at the sky and start crying, at age 35, out of nowhere, like I lost something up there. I’ve since learned about and identify as an indigo, …