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My parents were ok with my chorus involvement, though my father was a trombonist and somewhat biased against vocal music. I tried learning 2 different instruments but finally realized music isn't real…
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …
Feedback Thread — Our weekly thread is the place to solicit feedback for your creations. Requests for critiques or feedback outside of this thread are against our community guidelines. Additionally, please be sure that…
Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure? — Working on an API gateway/proxy that sits in front of APIs. The proxy adds its own validation layer (toxicity, etc). I'm wrestling with an API design choice: when my **proxy's** validation rules bloc…
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Pouncemonial: 7th Kill - Disciplined Trader — # Here's how I achieved my 7th mission! **Mission**: To become a disciplined trader **What I achieved**: Mastered stop loss and trading discipline **Background**: After my 6th kill, I was eager t…
Feedback Thread — Our weekly thread is the place to solicit feedback for your creations. Requests for critiques or feedback outside of this thread are against our community guidelines. Additionally, please be sure that…
I cannot figure out why Google Search Console keeps indicating "Couldn't fetch" — I'm looking over a client's website and one of the things I found was their sitemap doesn't report being crawled since last September. I resubmitted the exact map that was crawled (happens to be plura…
Sitemap 404 error in Yoast — Hi everyone, I am stuck on this for 2 days. I am Getting 404 Not Found on my website sitemap, I have activated it on Yoast. Here is what I have done so far to fix this using youtube vidoes and Chatgpt…
I have a question about google search consoles "page with redirect" and removals — I have about 20 something pages in GSC that are listed under "page with redirect." These pages exist on my website, and when I copy the URL and search it, the correct page shows up. Some of the pages …
Description liquid block not working — Im trying to fix this error where the shopify API doesnt seem to work when I add a description liquid block. All the other block seem to have proper code and work perfectly fine. Please dm me out of t…
Anyone facing issue with Cloudflare recently of suddenly not honoring "Access-Control-Allow-Headers" set by origin? — Is anyone facing this recent issue lately where all the sudden, you're getting thrown Access-Control-Allow-Headers error across all proxied domains. Cloudflare proxy, out-of-the-blue, decided not to h…
Freemium from day one, free trial, or free for first N users? — Hi all, I am building a productivity app where you can track anything from habits (e.g. Meditate on frequency basis) to events (e.g. Social Dance/Clubbing) to build routines and track what matters to…
MySQL Database Quota Reached - Clean database — Hey everyone, I’m currently hosting several websites on SiteGround’s GoGeek plan which comes with 40 GB of web space. Most of my websites use between 1–3 GB, with one around 5.3 GB. However, one of m…
Woocommerce 9.8.3 issue — Don't upgrade to 9.8.3 - lots of sites are experiencing fatal errors, and rolling back to 9.8.2 doesn't work in all cases.
Woocommerce and shippo broke my website! Please help a begginer! — Hi, I am new to wordpress and woocommerce, i recently was very close to finishing setting up my site, but have had issues finding a plugin to work for shipping, today I tried Shippo, which crashed my …
Shopify Bill Pay - international vendor payments cannot be funded by Shopify Balance anymore — Im not in love with Bill Pay as its so sloppy and support is lazy. Plus they lock down accounts left and right and don't tell anyone. Once the new balance account numbers went out I saw that they were…
Error: Chrome persistently redirecting to HTTPS for HTTP site, code 400, message Bad request version. Need proper solution please. — **code 400, message Bad request version ('...') You're accessing the development server over HTTPS, but it only supports HTTP.** student project with django backend, running on local development. …
How to handle shift from input error inline with button? — [https://imgur.com/a/91hc4Tu](https://imgur.com/a/91hc4Tu) I want the input to be inline with the button, but that fails (items-end) as soon as a form-validation error shows. I tried making the input…
Quick help with CORS error — Hello, This is a stupid question I think I know the answer to, but I'd like confirmation. All the research I've done indicates my gut is right, but I like to check. I'm getting a CORS error when tr…
Rate limit when trying to log in to WP Engine — Hello everyone. I need to access to WP Engine to restart the plugins installed in a project. The administrators of the page gave me a link to create a password for my user and i loged in using my mobi…
Head of Digital - Feeling burnt out. — Hey everyone, I’m in a “Head of Digital” role at a mid-sized company — but in practice, I’m the only technical person in a team full of editors and project managers from a traditional print publishin…
Wordpress custom REST API — I have a WordPress-based learning portal with various user roles including Administrator, Tutor Instructor, HR Manager, Accounting Manager, and Academy Instructor. Students are able to log in and view…
WooCommerce PayPal Payments Plugin issue — Hey I have a webshop with the Zephyr theme (version 8.35.2) and have installed WooCommerce (version 9.8.3) including some plugins. Now I would like to process my payments via PayPal (also with credi…
Need Help Integrating Custom OpenAI Assistant in WordPress Chatbot — Hello, Reddit! I’m working on integrating a custom-built OpenAI assistant into a WordPress site and could really use some help. The chatbot is supposed to interact with users, respond to questions, a…
Yaml lint usefull ? — Not a devops just trying to test a workflow using yamlLint but i do wonder if its useful since github already point at critical syntax error, yamlint seems to point at trailling spaces or "---" missi…
Feedback on Branching Strategy for IAC Repository — Hello, One of the challenges I’ve faced when researching branching strategies is that most resources are focused on software deployment workflows, often emphasizing versioning and tagging. These stra…
jQuery(...).unblock and jQuery(...).autocomplete are not functions — I’m working on a WooCommerce checkout form and I’m getting the following errors in the browser console: Uncaught TypeError: jQuery(...).unblock is not a function at setSpeedyMethod (speedy\_form.js?…
Sitemap could not be read (Google Search Console) — Google search console has not read a sitemap from me since 2023 and as I build out my website, its becoming more frustrating to have to submit URLs one by one. I keep getting the error 'Sitemap could …
Every day I try to do things right. Every day they say no. Now I duct-tape and maintain the mess I warn them about — Hey folks, Just wanted to drop this little gem of corporate masochism So I work at this company where we develop software for real state agencies, in this 'properties' sql table we have a field cal…
Do your deploy dashboards ever show business impact, or just health checks? — We pump every deploy through Slack + Datadog to see latency/errors, but PMs still ask “Did *that* hotfix nudge MRR or retention?” How (if at all) are you tying *revenue or product metrics* to ind…
What I learned building a quoting system for a construction company doing $10M+ a year — I recently finished a project for a construction company doing roughly $10M per year. They were quoting jobs using Excel and email threads, and while it technically worked, it was slow, error-prone, a…
Can no longer access my website after changing the URL from HTTP to HTTPS in settings — I am using Siteground to host my website and added an SSL certificate and enforced HTTPS. I was already logged into my Wordpress site when I did this and then changed the settings on Wordpress so both…
I need a simple easy tip to fix a JavaScript error on my Wordpress blog — I added a page to my Wordpress blog and it was fine and today a command popped up stating that it’s the wrong json response error and I looked it up in the search engine and a few of the steps that we…
Pods, Probes & Sidecars: Your First Real Step into Kubernetes Magic — Hey Folks, In our last post, we broke down **Docker Compose vs Kubernetes – Why You’ll Eventually Need K8s**. Now, it’s time to officially dive into Kubernetes, starting with the smallest, yet most po…
Anyone Else Feel Relationships just Aren't for them? — Hello all, I'm basically pretty severely A.P. , & so far I've been unable to get close to anyone (romantically) in my life without just exploding with terror that I'll be abandoned (or feeling a stro…
What I'm realizing: I relate closest to others with deep trauma and that is a troublesome recipe. — TW: addiction, suicide, physical and emotional abuse, CSA. I have CPTSD, routine struggles with depression and anxiety and the corresponding executive dysfunction. I grew up with an alcoholic parent…
Announcement - Important Update on Bot Advertisements — Hello, all! We hope you're having all a lovely start to the new year. Recently, there has been a noticeable increase in subtle ads and a bot campaigns. It is explicitly against our rules to post pr…
March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More — **Last month’s write-up, I ended with this,** *“Let’s just say we end the month in a chaotic state of energy. Nothing seems real while at the same time, there is a sense of urgency that something need…
Six Months of Dating in Europe as an East Asian Guy — Honestly Better Than I Expected — Today marks my sixth month living in Europe. Looking back at the past half year and all the European girls I’ve interacted with, I thought it would be fun to do a little reflection—what I did well, wh…
"What does it mean to heal?" channeled message from my guides — I thought to share with you all this excerpt from a channeled conversation between myself and my guides. I love this text a lot and return to it often. Perhaps those of you on a healing journey and t…
Where to go from here — Just to warn you, this is a long one... For context, my partner (F39) and I (M40) have been together for 17 years, have two kids together. This all started in early January but seems to have been goi…
My biological mother sexually abused me in such weird sadistic ways throughout my childhood and I’m wondering if anyone else has experienced this — For context I am a 20 year old girl I was raised by my two lesbian parents they got a sperm donor and had me and my twin sister. Starting since I’m assuming a toddler up until about 13 my biological m…
HOW TO MAKE CHARTS SO YOUR POSTS DON'T GET REMOVED — # MOST IMPORTANT PLEASE USE ONLY THESE SITES: * [Astro-Seek.com](https://Astro-Seek.com) * [Astro.com](https://Astro.com) Do not use these chart makers. All are either useless because they don’t pr…
Heart chakra help — Hello all, I hope everyone is well. I am suffering from a closed heart chakra, I consciously think I am good there but I am not. I hold pain there. It began in 2023, I got a snippet of some trauma i…
I was going to be incredible — I was such a smart kid. A gifted child, kind and clever and great at academics. Everyone said I was going to change the world. I could have done so much. Instead I am thirty and I am frozen with terr…
My ex-wife tried to kill me a few years ago. She just moved in three houses down from me. — I’m struggling with how to even process this. A few years back, things with my ex-wife reached a breaking point. She was struggling with substance abuse, alcohol and pills, and I had discovered she’d …
I’m leaving the person I love to break the cycle of codependency — (M22) Ho deciso di lasciare la mia ragazza (F22) perché la nostra relazione è di codipendenza. Sono in terapia e mi ha aperto gli occhi; mi ha aiutato ad accettare che sto ancora lottando contro la di…
I (22 male) slept with my colleague (30 female) and fell in love, but it was unrequited. — I apologize for possible errors in the text, translated by Google. I got a job as a loader at a store. And when we first met, we didn't really like each other. I just went to work; I didn't talk to h…
First actually OBE — So today I had my first real OBE experience. Not really much but I was definitely exiting my body. I was listening 45minutes of f21 where I felt asleep. My Alexa woke me up after my timer endet and I …
Creaking and Cracking — # Do you get unusual noises in your vicinity during experiences? **Such as: Creaking, cracking, popping, thudding, snapping, etc.** **These noises occur in synchronistic-timing** with my thoughts an…
Hello I just had the weirdest dream and I don't know how to look up my specific type of dream and was so shocked I decided to come here and write. I remember going to sleep around 12:30pm after wakin…
Everyone coming here from the other subs is blessed to have finally sought a break from the emotional self-harm that seems to be at the core of the methodology in these other groups... which I took pa…
>Who do you think you are? Neville's method are the best! Joseph murphy's techniques were also good but required lot of work , but neville just said you to imagine and later in his lectures he did sai…
Glad it helped you in some way. I’ve felt like a whiny little wimp for getting PTSD from something that I saw as not a true threat to life. Babies and children absolutely register lack of affection…
Just a few questions here - I'm new to lucid dreaming. I garden quite a bit, so I can grow Artemisia douglasiana and a few other helpful herbs and make a poultice or something. I usually don't rem…
This is the hardest part for me. I struggle with some PTSD which manifests itself often at night, in the form of nightmares, night terrors, and sleep paralysis. I'm deathly afraid of encountering an…
What if someone remembers the hour (and P.M. vs A.M.) but not the minute? Any typical margin of error?
How do I post charts? I keep getting errors and blocked for minutes at a time
DevOps evolves around 3 key principles: 1. Automation 2. Monitoring 3. Integration The rules are simple: # Automation Don't ever do anything by hand. The only allowable manual action is configurin…
>The baby immediately notices and first tries to laugh or shriek or point, or do anything that has illicited a reaction from its mom in the past. The mom does not react. The baby quickly escalates to …
I’ve been lucid dreaming for a long time, unfortunately a lot in night terrors not a fun time. Also has anyone ever had strange encounters when they realize they’re dreaming and then decide to ask abo…
Then why does MC recommend NC during SP missions? Because, many times, that is the appropriate conventional action, at that moment. Either because they are increasingly fearful of you, or unfairly ho…
Agreed. I also dated a guy like this and things got progressively worse and worse- no amount of ‘*understanding*’ would have fixed it because ultimately he wasn’t fit to be in a relationship. On refle…
I think all these time‐tracking systems in IT are absolutely useless and only justify the work of those who implement them. No offense to efficient managers. If the company were like a factory produc…
We're in the process of migrating to Planetscale. We set up code on the application layer to mirror the queries to Planetscale, and monitor for any errors. Planetscale also has an option during impo…
Pulumi, actually. I wanted to like it, but i wasn't able to really get any of the sequencing or dependencies figured out and i just mostly ran into errors. Terraform/opentofu just handles it better …
Every deployment to Slack? So then nobody pays attention and that's why they ask you to give them the details. Don't do this. People mute these channels because 99% of what goes to it doesn't matte…
>pursuing people who have communicated they're not offering what you're after is a great way to not get what you're after. >I spoke to an AP woman about this on a thread elsewhere and she said that i…
if you have time to spare, talk to them and take your chances. if you dont have time for trial and errors, let them know and dont start talking again. i think people who say don't reply are wrong, no …
Hard and so uncomfortable, but the perks that come with becoming secure are undeniable! I'm not there yet, trial and error, but I can see big differences in me now versus me before and yeah! Totally w…
Im an FA but with friends mostly DA. I think that she reached out when you were sick was a good sign and offered momentum that you didn’t recognise, you talked 10 days ago or so, maybe it feels like a…
I'm like you. I think for APs a few embarrassing collisions and losses are necessary to wake up to the fact that life can't be lived this way. My parents are both extremely anxious people and my mothe…
As a fellow CPTSD survivor who has worked in the field for 2 decades now (internationally), both clinically and therapeutically, I want to give you hope; it doesn't ever have to get to the point again…
I think Fearful Avoidant - I know someone has a great counter argument in the above comments - but it’s a complete myth that fearful avoidants don’t crave intimacy The crucial part of fearful avoida…
I (anxious attachment) was dating a guy who's disorganized attachment for 3 months. About 3 months into dating I asked how he was feeling. Before then he was pretty consistent with me, meeting up once…
I completely understand this. What if it is possible to experience these simply as junk thoughts that are running on an error from past conditioning? For me, for a while, I thought the thoughts migh…
The very concepts of "beginning," "created," and "suddenly exist" are all products of our three-dimensional perception, where we experience events as a series of moments, one following another. The "…
I'm going to take a crack at this using critical thinking alone. *" The very concepts of "beginning," "created," and "suddenly exist" are all products of our three-dimensional perception, where we ex…
Yes, I identify with this and have a lot of thoughts here. I definitely overcorrected. One of the first things I worked on was more open and transparent communication. At the time, I think I was mostl…
Hi! Sure, this is my own healing journey, nothing more, nothing less. Everything here comes from sources that I have listed, I relied on their status in the scientific community and didn't go as far a…
Thanks for the detailed reply. The trial and error with the techniques did work for me personally. Once I got to affirming in SH I found that was the best for me and allows me to stay consistent day t…
Dating is one of my biggest struggles in life. I think I am disorganized leaning avoidant attached. I have never been able to date. When I was younger I didn't understand how people do it because of h…
Text of original post by u/f1rstpancake: TW: addiction, suicide, physical and emotional abuse, CSA. I have CPTSD, routine struggles with depression and anxiety and the corresponding executive dysfun…
They do come back from this but it's so so so hard 💔 I went through an avoidant discard. There was no writing on the wall, 2 very happy years. He used to say he sees us being together forever becau…
This is the way! Talk to your partner! But try to use language that doesn't make them feel *really* bad about themself. I tried to break up with my girlfriend like three times during the first year we…
Hi all - this could be considered a graphic post. Just FYI. I wanted to introduce myself and say why im here. My first memory is of being used as a human shield by my dad when cops pulled a gun on him…
I think there’s a spectrum to fear starting with a general sense of unease/anxiety and progressing all the way to full-blown paralyzing/mind-numbing terror. For me personally the avoidance tends to m…
You’re conflating epistemic priority with attachment function. That’s a category error: privileging affect as information does not redefine attachment motivation.
Hypervigilance is very much associated with AA. I've being doing a lot of work on healing AA in the past 1.5 years and I couldn't believe how many characteristics and behaviours of mine are associated…
Well, people are giving them to you and you kinda keep pushing back. Just like the therapist is. Not every way is going to be the right way for you but you can’t just jump ship or get your back up eve…
I understand that your experiences have been what has formed your beliefs. And at one point in your life the coping mechanisms you used to survive, worked. But as we get into adulthood those coping me…
Treat your dates like any other person. You're looking for a SO, someone to spend the rest of your life with, so they should be attracted to your true self. Also, don't get discouraged if a date is no…
Like any form of dating, multi-dating comes with its pros and cons, and it’s not the right solution for everyone. It really depends on the individual and everyone’s wired differently. For me personal…
yah i’m pretty sure it’s just old wounds on my side. hard to trust your own judgement when you’ve made some pretty bad errors in the past.
the fun is hiding underneath the terror, like roller coaster anxiety. but the more you practice relaxing through the fear, the more you'll notice the fun again.
So he answered this to my "breakup message" (a bit below). His response: "Can we at least call each other tomorrow to settle this up.. I just don’t know what to say anymore". What do I even say? Wh…
they matter, but they're very sensitive to birth time accuracy. the ascendant moves about 1 degree every 4 minutes, so a 10-minute error shifts whether a trine is actually within orb. that's partly wh…
I don't even do that with my girlfriend (when I do have one, that is). Maybe only an error?
Ahh, you are not alone! Unfortunately, trial and error can be one of our greatest teachers. Some of it is learning the pattern or the cycle, then you catch yourself once you see your self entering…
Hey! Ill give you some advice: Disclaimer im not super great at this. But im a guy 31M so same age range and I get about 6 or so matches a week. Im waiting on my car and on mobile so the formatting …