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Oh yeah absolutely. I have no interest in fashion -> buys me new clothing in styles that are "trendy" cause they've seen others my age wearing it. I read a book and said I actually didn't like it that…

dealing with weebs? lol — hi all, i hope everyone is doing well! i (22F) am a japanese-american who just got into a phd program and will be further studying the asian american diaspora. i love my community very very much and l…

What would you do differently for your 5-9 after your 9-5? — I go through all my notifications and apps like it's a routine. Work has been tough so I wind down by connecting with my friends, replying group texts that I missed throughout the day, catching up on …

Is my husband having an affair? — My husband was intentionally detaching from me for past two years. But his cruelty specially increased in the last one year when he started resorting to taunts and sarcasm. He showed contempt to me. D…

Ndad is forcing me to do heavy labor knowing I’m chronically ill — I have been stuck with my parents for the past year and I’m finally getting out in a month or so to live with my partner. I have POTS, scoliosis, migraines, and hypermobility in several joints. Yes I …

Was i blinded the entire time? F26 M24 — In summary, i gave my all to someone with him abandoning me after several years. I’d get flowers delivered to his house, make breakfast and desserts, write love letters, give gifts like branded cloth…

I just finished reading “Attached”, and it gave me such a better understanding of attachment styles and myself. One of the ways my anxious attachment style has been manifesting post-break up with an a…

It’s *extremely* trendy right now where I live lol

Yep. I’m getting downvoted but that’s ok. These kinds of things are always trendy to like on and look passed class on.

Same here. Plus the way they edit movies and shows now with so many cuts. It's too visually choppy for me to watch. I miss old movies and TV shows where the actors could have uncut dialogue with both …

Trauma exists on a spectrum, as do its symptoms and effects. What you experienced was destabilizing and impacted your ability to feel safe in the world. Neglect by mentally ill caregivers absolutely c…

It's also pretty terrible in canada. Asian guys aren't really trendy outside of asia.

It's gentrification and white people do it a lot. It's a very common topic in tiktok as Asian food is trendy and assholes rename food items so they can take credit in "inventing" it.

It's also a generational thing. For someone like me in my 20's, it's never really been an issue. I figure that it partially has to do with the "trendiness" or the rise of k-style/fashion/pop/drama, an…

But he a bit of a unc and his face isnt the trendy look

Someone who cannot take accountability. Inability to meet expectation is not their fault. Never apologize for what they did. Someone who loves talking about themselves. Someone who is deemed as “cha…

I have a friend in exactly the same situation. Exactly the same. And his wife uses the same arguments, too. All I can say is that I just love modern (pseudo)feminist order of things. Full on, trendy…

i wouldn’t know about being Japanese but as a Chinese American I don’t mind it and think it’s pretty funny when I see foreign dudes dressing in traditional Chinese fits and stuff like that. It’s nice …

yeah i think the shitty tattoos in japanese that are grammatically wrong are pretty funny, my family was in the internment camps and i think a lot of japanese americans who also descended from interne…

If the restaurants really cared to, they can have their waiters specifically tell diners that the menu is designed so you share the plates. In the past 5-10 years it’s become very trendy in Western re…

Wear whatever you feel good and confident in... How you dress, is part of your sense of style (or in my case, lack of it lol I can't be trendy to save my life and don't care to be) Only thing really t…

Lmao you deleted your first reply then added this one. I said straight cut OR slim fit because I don’t know what this dude’s full body type is. You can’t recommend what’s trendy to everyone without kn…

>It's like when poke bowls got popular. And after that, boba tea shops. isn't it the other way around? Boba was already popular and trendy before poke spots started popping up, especially in places …

Maybe I'm too old or too Californian, but I haven't encountered any of this and just learned about it from this article. Sounds gross, though, and I'm curious if these people will still be "Chinese" w…

It brings social currency. A subculture of the face culture. Same reason Japanese and Korean high schoolers get a loan (from a bank or their parents) to get plastic surgery. Designer brands now have a…

When has it ever been trendy to be Chinese? I mean, at least since the first Trump administration, eveything's been blamed on the Chinese.

One of the two Bobba Tea company founders called boba “that trendy sugary drink that you queue up for and you’re never quite sure about its content.” That's racist and may explain some of the differen…

Appropriation isn’t always just mocking or derogatory. There’s a profit aspect to it. There are cultural specific things that get stolen by another race or group, get rebranded, and proceed to turn a …

I think it massively depends on the therapist and how empathetic (not sympathetic), experienced and professional they are. I’ve had therapy that was going nowhere, I’ve had therapy that I would have c…

Korean but I always get mistaken for Japanese, Chinese, or Viet by all the above ethnicities. I wear glasses (-9 prescription) so I think this is the main reason for this (as it distorts my eyes a lot…

If they had interviewed the people who had to go to the ER to find out their motivations and dosages, they could have potentially made their case. But it sounds like they just jumped on the possibly t…

This is not true. You think this because you view other realities through a specials lens rather the lens of *every reality*, where everything feels ordinary and “naive.” It’s like saying, “If I were …

My point is that anything from China that gets trendy in the US will purposely get mislabeled as "Korean", "Japanese", etc, whereas if it were anything from any other country or culture besides China,…

>These philosophies we read about online/social media by influencers and other internet strangers are not always healthy. We're fucking *human*, we're supposed to feel attachment to our partner and lo…

>Yes, this, exactly. "I don't give a shit if they leave me" (the literal meaning of "not caring about the outcome") is not an ideal to aspire to. It wasn't even just about losing me either, but also …

I don't think older gen z or millennials care about if someone is a feminist as a dating deal breaker. Maybe I'm not too caught up on dating technique or preferences but when did things like love lang…

I’ve said it before but I’ll say it again ..the power is not in the affirmation, the power is in YOU. Don’t get too caught up chasing fancy affirmations or subliminals. I’m not saying they don’t work…

Wolf cut is trendy among white women now. Part of a bigger pattern where they copy an Asian pop hair style and it becomes associated with women/lesbians. Thoughts?

Some Tough Love here.   You already HAVE "closure."  Your relationship is ended. Over.  In a perfect world, every relationship would end painlessly, with everybody understanding why,  everybody agree…

My struggle on the apps is a combination of me not being attracted to many, and the same back. Out for coffee yesterday with some friends in a relatively trendy neighbourhood and my god. Just about …

Im team, wear whatever makes you feel good, sexy, look good in. Doesnt matter if its on trend or not, if you feel good and it flatters your body, thats what matters. If you wanna wear something trend…