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Seinfeld-esque reasons you broke up with someone

I have so many examples over the years! - Ordered nuggets and fries dry on the 1st date. - Insisted on driving me 60' across a parking lot to my car. - Got wasted at dinner on a first date and was p…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/11/2026
r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
What can I do when my (20F) husband (20M) is convinced I cheated on him because I’m pregnant again and refuses to listen to me.

How embarrassing for her to have to go do that! If it got to the point where I had to get a paternity test while pregnant bc my husband is treating me so badly I could not stay with him. My love for h…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
"You'll understand when you have kids..."

Yuck! Sorry these things were said to you, OP. Since I don't have kids (and never plan on having any,) I get the "Well, you don't know because you don't have any kids" schtick from my nmom, but it's a…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/19/2026
Are My Expectations Too High?

Well damn! Ugh. The best I can advise then is just keep on moving the moment there’s an issue. I feel the same as you on the dealbreakers—yuck! Such a turnoff. Haha 

r/datingoverfortycomment3/19/2026
Despite every effort, I'm developing feelings for my boss. Am I cooked?

Haha, I'm surrounded by physically attractive coworkers, but they're all either younger than me, (yuck!) authority figures, (yuck!) or they don't own headphones. There's always something not to like a…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/20/2026
How do I (35F) handle my soon-to-be-ex-husband (38M) asking me to change my name back?

This is the only answer. “Yuck! I don’t want your name. It has no power. Of COURSE I’m going to change it.” Then just don’t.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
my 32f boyfriend 30m has a bit of an extreme anime interest, and i’m not sure if it’s a deal breaker.

As a woman who is an anime fan and against the sexual objectification of women and ESPECIALLY girls in media, this dude sucks. I don’t feel like I could tolerate in a partner someone who believes it’s…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
My 23M bf gets a panic attack every time i ask him to pick up after himself 22F am i the problem?

Double yuck!! He is lazy. You see this guy in your future? Surely not?

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
The early signs and red-flags to look out for with a covert narcissist.

All of these! I thought it was so sweet when my nex bought a book on a subject I said I loved and a map for a hike I had on my bucket list and listened to the music I liked shared it with Ty me all in…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/4/2026
Why is it so wrong to date and have a bf/gf while being legally separated?

What decent sane woman would want to date a man who is living with his wife? Yuck!

r/Divorcecomment4/5/2026
How do I (20M) get over my gf’s (20F) past?

Monogamy isn't what it's cracked up to be. The thought of one lover your whole life is actually inconceivable. Humans are not meant to be monogamous. If you think about it, we get these amazing bodies…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
I (18F) want to explore, but love my bf (19M)

Monogamy isn't what it's cracked up to be. The thought of one lover your whole life is actually inconceivable. Humans are not meant to be monogamous. If you think about it, we get these amazing bodies…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
r/datingoverfortycomment4/7/2026
Lies about having kids.

I mean it’s bad enough when they lie about their age or use an old picture but lying about a life that you helped create that you’re neglecting? If that’s not the litmus test for being a shitty human …

r/datingoverfortycomment4/9/2026
Is poor dental hygiene or bad teeth a dealbreaker for you when dating?

My goodness! I went out with a doctor recently and he has bad teeth/poor oral hygiene. But I thought hm maybe I'm being superficial, he seemed like a nice person, I'd give it another try. Second dat…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/10/2026
My boyfriend (31m) has been making comments about me (27f) doing more "chores" lately, but would these comments bother you?

You are also an appliance he will replace, get out, get some self respect and never look back. This is a manosphere man, yuck!

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026