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r/datingoverfortyUpdated 30 days ago
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Yep, I wasn't going to be pressured into it just to save my marriage. I was very direct with her from the start, I wasn't okay with it and her reasoning behind why she HAS to do it seemed very unhealt…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/20/2026
I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband

At this point since you don't want to leave and you think he can be saved, why don't you just open the marriage so you can have some fun, and see what's out there. This is your one option, the other i…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
Pulling the trigger but terrified, Male 48

I honestly tried to open the marriage. We are all in a trap.

r/Divorcecomment3/19/2026
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>But yeah, everything I read online said it was pretty rare for two long term monogamous people to suddenly "open the marriage" successfully without at least one person getting badly hurt and ending u…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/20/2026
My wife (f38) wants me (m42) to be okay with her going speed dating with friend?

Sounds like you guys need to focus on your marriage. Suggest couples counseling . Date nights. Not here weird attempt to open the marriage under the guise of supporting her friend.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
My (F34) husband (M35) hasn't tried to learn what makes me orgasm in our seven years together. I don't want to leave the relationship but am beginning to feel like a predator. Any advice?

You need to just stop giving him the opportunity to fuck up. Just don’t have sex if he can’t try. The fact that this has gone on for years makes it clear to me that it can’t be too much of an issue, o…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026