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Tips for attracting left-leaning men?

Having no maga in your bio, some maga types might see that as a challenge? Stop me if Im overthinking this but ive heard that conservative men want to "take down" a liberal woman like its game hunting…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
Love after Love

Love after Love — I've been separated for seven months, after 23 years of marriage, a marriage where I slowly changed myself into the person I thought she wanted me to be. I wore a mask every day, suppressing my true s…

r/Divorcepost3/21/2026
~1 year no contact check in. It gets better!

~1 year no contact check in. It gets better! — Here’s my experience of going from never being single as an adult to single and happy (spoiler alert! It was SO hard but probably the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done).  Background context: I had …

r/ExNoContactpost3/22/2026
how can i get back into feeling like a person?

how can i get back into feeling like a person? — i’m not sure how to dive into this topic without this sounding like the textbook definition of depression, but i truly feel as though i need thorough advice to follow. i haven’t really felt engaged or…

r/selfhelppost3/27/2026
Narc Mom Bars Autistic Grandson From Inside Home During Short Visit

Narc Mom Bars Autistic Grandson From Inside Home During Short Visit — This January my mild symptom narc mom asked me to help take down her tree as she's in her 70s with a replaced hip. My wife unfortunately had the flu that day so I had planned to take my 11 YO son and …

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/10/2026
My arguments against manifestation

1. Daydreaming that makes you feel emotional isn’t what Murphy or Goddard are talking about. It is about feeling the reality of what you want to have happen now, that is the feeling. Emotions might co…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
How to soothe myself when they say they aren't upset.

Self promotion is against the rules of this sub. I don’t want to take down your comment since it has helpful info in it, but please refrain from further promotion.

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/14/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 14, 2026

He said “I have to go to work”. Like bro, you couldn’t call in sick? If the situation was flipped i 100% would have stayed in the ER with him (which i was sadly there for 3 hrs in agony in a locked w…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/14/2026
Which one trait helps you detect narcs early on?

Very well put! Dealing with the mean girl right now, who is my boss unfortunatelly. Ngl, even though I am scared and triggered, a Part of me enjoys seeing narcs for the absolute parody they are. If t…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/16/2026
How private is therapy when my therapist’s phone listens in to our conversations?

You're most certainly on many, many different lists. The ones you're worried about, you're not on unless you're actively plotting to take down the government or other assorted fuckery, or unless you…

r/therapycomment3/18/2026
How do I (F26) talk to my partner (M33) about casual misogyny?

Disagree- you are mistaking her word vomit for valid arguments. She wanted to go, he said no because we would have to change our behavior, she "pressed the issue" and started calling him a misogynist.…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
r/relationshipscomment3/24/2026
Anyone else notice there's always a weird delay?

Yup. And it’s affected getting medical care before because I can look like I’m fine and nothing is wrong but I’m falling apart inside. The nurses didn’t think I was anxious and having a panic attack …

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/26/2026
Why does it take years to realize you’re traumatized? And why does "standard" therapy often miss the point?

I just want to start by saying that I'm so sorry that you went through that and continue to have to deal with it. Sorting through everything can be such an all-encompasing, indentity-shaking experienc…

r/CPTSDcomment3/29/2026
What Detachment Really Means…

In terms of manifesting, no, they don’t. You persist. In my personal opinion…I had success with an SP once I stopped focusing on manifesting a specific person, and focused instead on manifesting the …

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/3/2026
Leaving if Date Lied on Profile?

I went out with a woman that when she arrived looked nothing like her photos. She had filtered them so much I almost didn’t recognize her. I thought about bailing. Then I was just curious. So as w…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/3/2026
No Contact or Quiet Obsession?

I broke the loop by saying stop. That by that point it was not a matter of silence, it was an ending that could take down all of my hopes and decenter her from my attention. This is the real silence, …

r/BreakUpscomment4/5/2026
My (21m) recovering girlfriend (19f) is falling back into old habits and i can’t get her to be better for herself. How can i approach her or help her?

She doesn’t have a therapist yet and shes declining meetings and appointments she was supposed to get. It feels like i cant do anything. She will just go back to destroying everything she gains. I can…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
Don't you think it's sexist for my fiance (28M) to not want our future children to have my (28F) last name?

They didnt "just have babies" although... yea, they had a lot of babies. Can you tell me a war that was won because of women? How many women do you think it would take to take down a wild buffalo? W…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Co-worker (27F) once turned friend has now cut me (32M) off

Your post is too vague for anyone here to tell you exactly why you made her uncomfortable. For example, the first time she started distancing herself from you was when you started texting her a lot wi…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
[48F] Planning a secret exit from my highly volatile partner [56M] of 10 years. Seeking advice on safely executing a remote breakup under the guise of a work trip.

Please take down this post or make it vague. I feel like you mentioned so many specifics that I am actually afraid for your life and your sake. For Christ, we are in April and you’re talking about a …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
UMich investigating researcher’s death after alleged questioning

They tried to take out MIT professor Gang Chen a couple of years ago. This happens every couple of years when some Karen gets jealous of their success and snitches. Everybody gets their n*gga wake u…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/8/2026
Sticky Thread Until Reddit Fixes Their Shit - April-ish

I used to be a book buyer. But then I moved cross-country. Now it's the library (physical or digital) unless I absolutely fall in love with something. It is definitely much nicer to browse at a book …

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/10/2026
advice on what to do?

i don’t think it’s being controlling?? i’m struggling to move on and knowing that it’s there is making it more difficult for me to do so. i’m trying to move forward and i can’t because this is in the …

r/BreakUpscomment4/11/2026