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I think youre "I got it" and you want him to be no- youre sick - I GOT YOU- but if youre uber girl and dont tell himwhen its a rough day- you cant be mad if he doesnt read your mind- you have to ask …

What to do with LLMs taking over? I'm LOST. — So we are in the era of AI and LLM, I got it. I've invested 20 years of my life into coding and information technology. (I've got a degree and such, I even have a personal blog with programming stuff…

The most painful relationship and breakup I've ever had, but it cracked me open so that I could heal. I created a text message llm analysis tool that revealed insecure attachment. — EDIT - TLDR; 8-month, high-intensity relationship. I was DA-leaning; she showed a lot of push–pull/negative lensing. We loved each other and still couldn’t repair, so we went NC. Post-breakup I focuse…

Am I crazy? I feel like a stalker. — I (26F) don’t understand how my ex (31M) switched on me overnight, and I’m struggling to cope. We dated for almost a year. At first, he was obsessed with me. He talked constantly about our future mar…

self concept got me my dream life — This is a rant, but this is a confirmation that self-concept is real and it's what changes your life. Self-concept is something that you shouldn't convince yourself of. Self-concept is something you b…

Manifested an Apology - Decide — I manifested an apology today from a friend who 'ghosted' me February 10th with no explanation (no replies, denied phone call, ignored me, physically walked away from me in person, didn't acknowledge …

Husband always accusing me of cheating. — \*\*TL;DR;\*\* My husband (29M) and I (26F) have been married for almost four years, and we’ve been through a few trust issues since we got married. We’ve both been known to paint things a certain w…

Update after miscarriage and blindside divorce from STBXH — Two months ago my STBX husband (39M) blindsided me (34F) while I was pregnant. I was abroad doing a graduate course when he ended our marriage by text. Three weeks after he dropped me off at the airp…

No need to overthink it — When it comes to getting your desires, we tend to overthink them at times. “Does this really work? Will it happen? When will it happen? Do I need to do xyz to get my desires? What if what if what if.”…

I am completely convinced that somehow my mind is being read. — Hi people, this has started to happen around 8+ months ago. It primarily happens on Instagram or Facebook. Random thoughts pop up in my mind, some topics long forgotten (not in the trend) maybe 10-15 …

Questioning ending a long term relationship — I (25F) am starting to question ending a long term relationship with my boyfriend (26M). We have been together since December of 2019, so about 6.5 years.  To give some background, I moved across the…

Advice required for dealing with gender related burden — I'm currently evicting a male boarder because he lacks in basic hygiene and isn't employable and has the expectation I need to run around for him (he leaves in a week). I am looking on taking on anoth…

feeling a bit hurt after my session yesterday — i have this flaired as advice cause im hoping someone has anything to say. Apologies if this turns into a rant in advance… So, six years ago i sort of “officially” started my self growth journey- it …

I 24 f got a dm that I think is about my 28 m husband and idk what to do. How can I bring this up to him without sounding accusatory? — So earlier today I got a dm on instagram and all she said was “I have seen him a couple of times”. I happened to be on my phone when I got it and it peaked my interest so I answered immediately asking…

manifesting activity that’s changed the game for my resistance/doubt — I decided I wanted to shut up my doubts and have some fun with manifestation. So, i’ve been writing weekly lists of random things to manifest and i tick them off every week (i saw this from another po…

Ramblings of a lunatic (me) — This is gonna be extremely long so I don’t blame you if you don’t want to read it but I’ve been writing about it for a while and struggled with meaning and found this Reddit and thought I’d seek out s…

Nmom broke my nose 30 years ago. Today, I got it repaired. — Today, I had my septoplasty surgery to correct my deviated septum, aka crooked nose. I told my nmom about the procedure a month ago and she acted nonchalant about it. Whatever. So, today, I’m on my wa…

After exam manifestation help!! — So my exams got over on the 15th of march, and regardless of how my exam went, I’m just repeatedly affirming like “ I already have a 98% in my class 12 finals, my mom is really happy with my results, …

I hate that they deliberately try to ragebait you — Like what is it with APs and wanting to deliberately ragebait you for no fucking reason? Like I just ate lunch and I just asked my AD if he had any news. Now for context, my AD, for whatever reason su…

Parents completely oblivious to how dysfunctional and harmful our relationship is — Sorry in advance for the long post. My latest family drama started at the beginning of this week when I noticed my mother's chronic cough had gotten worse and sounded different and my mother casually …

THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 1 — (YA'LL I DONE POSTED PART 2 AND 3 - GIVE IT A READ OR DONT -YOU DO YOU LOVELIEESSSS!) Alright now ! it's gonna be some tough love so take it that way.' Also it's gonna be one long post so imma need y…

THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 1 — (YA'LL I DONE POSTED **PART 2 AND 3** \- GIVE IT A READ OR DONT -YOU DO YOU LOVELIEESS) Alright now ! it's gonna be some tough love so take it that way.' Also it's gonna be one long post so imma need…

THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 2 — SELF-CONCEPT (roll those drums caz i got my tea and i got to PREACH) i can claim to be the GOD of self concept i swear on me i got it baby and i got it sooooooo goooood (please take what you will …

THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! (manifestation and neville) // PART 2 — SELF-CONCEPT (roll those drums caz i got my tea and i got to PREACH) i can claim to be the GOD of self concept i swear on me i got it baby and i got it sooooooo goooood (please take what you will caz…

THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! - PART 3 - IT'S YOU! (NOT ME) — THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS!- **IT WAS/IS ALWAYS YOU** Never me , nor anyone else. No post in here could make you get all your desires, no coach could teach ya all that you wanna know about…

THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS! - PART 3 - IT'S YOU! (NOT ME) — THE ONLY ANSWER TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS!- **IT WAS/IS ALWAYS YOU** Never me , nor anyone else. No post in here could make you get all your desires, no coach could teach ya all that you wanna know about…

Make sure you thoroughly research your dates — So I posted yesterday about the guy I was going to go out with who had a criminal history from 20 years ago (2 counts of burglary, 2 of criminal mischief, 1 of theft) and yes, I deleted it because I w…

Minor less serious trauma moment. — The day My mom let me down. I don't remember how old I was but it had to have been around 10 years old, I was with mom at some kind of celebration at a farm mom gave some kind of frozen fruit treat s…

I'm laying in bed crying again cause I'm realizing what I feared 6 years ago is the truth — Alright I uh don't really know how to start this but I just need it to be written down somewhere. TW, SA and Suicide So i've had autism and ADHD and was diagnosed when I was a child. I was the lucky …

Need HELP! Shall I reach out to ex for an advice ?! — ex and I broke up couple of weeks ago (after 2 years). He said we’d be better off as friends, and I didn’t object. Since then, he’s been messaging me sporadically…. And less over time, as I’ve been tr…

Fuck — So earlier today, I got it in my head that I was going to leave my ex a voicemail- just letting him know that I'm here if he needs to talk. Everything ended really badly; if you've seen my other pos…

Im autistic and I realized my boyfriend of three years (who I live with) doesn’t like me. — Im autistic and I’ve realized my boyfriend of the last three years (that I live with) doesn’t like me. So I 27f have been with my boyfriend (32m) for the last three years. We live together. He has a…

What should I do in this situation? Do you think he was aware or just clueless? — I wasn’t fully sure of how to title this because this whole situation is confusing me. I’m rewriting the intro because I posted this in the wrong Reddit. TW abuse (honestly up to interpretation if it …

Narc Parents really would rather your life be ruined so they can feel secure. — Really sorry about the length but after all these years, my narc parents behavior still bothers me. TL;DR Narc mom wanted me to quit my first summer job because she couldn't handle being alone durin…

small manifestation is real!!😭 — i was out in san francisco and i was playing Pokémon go and i was battling a raid to get a specific pokémon i never got and i after that raid i kept telling myself that i’m going to get a shiny versio…

"You have power over your mind-not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength" — For anyone on their journey of manifestation, here is mine. At 18, I wanted this job steeplejacking, I didn't get it the first time round, but when I saw it advertised the second time, I got it beca…

I (M19) talked to some girls yesterday and my brother (15) is jealous despite having a girlfriend. Why? — For context, our parents asked if I could take him to a sporting event since schedules were going to clash and I agreed. We had about two hours of free time before he needed to compete, so I told him…

Self concept is the key — Link to my previous post is attached. Can't believe whatever happened after I changed my mindset. So grateful for everyone who advised me and suggested me to try all these steps ❤️ ❤️ I knew my sel…

Anyone else abandonded by their mom? — I have met maybe one other person in my life who was abandonded by their mother. Its something I feel makes me act and feel so differently than anyone else, which is a super lonely feeling. Mother hun…

First fight (28F, 28M, nearly 2 years, long distance) — My significant other (28M) and I (28F) have been in a long distance relationship since August 2024. We mostly have dates on teleparty twice a week, write letters to each other and occasionally text. R…

Thanks for such valuable advice. It meant a lot. I'm in sp situation. And when other person is envolved things get tricky... I'm doing my best to visualize. Sometimes it felt like it can happen. Wh…

Oh, now I got it. “That” was the need vs want sentence! Thank you.

Hope someone can tell me what i did wrong or misread. I’m in my 30s, Mikaylah is in her early 20s. i transferred to her department last July. At first i wasn’t interested in her as anything more than …

this didn’t get any traction in the previous thread so i’m hoping this one might get me some advice. i have to go back to work on friday so any help would be appreciated. Hope someone can tell me wh…

This is exactly what I mean.  I am also the oldest daughter and my parents were absentee. My entire life I've had to be the leader and in charge. If at work and in family, I'm the one who has to keep…

And depending on how old your kids are, tell them to never throw open the door if someone knocks. Mine started doing that as soon as they were able, because they thought it was such an accomplishment …

Yup. She tried to do the ugly clothing thing with me for years but eventually I told her "only solid black, gray or blue, or i'm donating it" and she hates the idea of me donating clothing she gets me…

I’ve taken it and had no side effects. I got it prescribed because I was really itchy and couldn’t sleep lol (eczema)

Your new partner is not a replacement for your ex wife. The fact that you love her and she's amazing is not mutually exclusive with the fact that you lost the wife you built all these hopes and dreams…

It’s true. I remember my husband always initiating with me and how nice it felt. Then I asked myself if I do the same for him. I got it together and slowly started working up to the point of now we ha…

Yeahh I get you. I felt the same... one thing after another. But I realised there were some things I just didn't have control over and there was nothing I could do about those things so I focused only…

I appreciate this post. I’ve also felt the same way around money , and it’s been so disappointing to see such little movement around money in my own life. I’ve experienced the same thing you did , thi…

visualization/sensory drench. i sat in my old car, closed my eyes, imagined the exact car i wanted - felt it, smelled it, imagined i was in it. then i said and ya know what i still got this old jalopy…

They do this because if you do try to go to police or stand up for yourself, they would have "proof" that you are bad too. That this is a "both sides" thing and they are not the only one at fault. Esp…

Sometimes I just need to be told that I can or that i will manifest something. 🙃 That gives me a big push. I struggle with doing it on my own but i got it! I’m so close… but feel like i have to be s…

One. I've always had an overactive imagination from an early age, used to day dream a lot but I got it under control as an adult.

I accidentally discovered one. It’s very Zen: manifest by not manifesting. People have already taught this: a rich person wouldn’t be “manifesting” wealth. They’re already rich. Someone in a relat…

Me - Childhood trauma (extreme bullying), difficult family (drug addictions, worse), adhd, ex two-times drug addict, left at home at 17, turned my trauma into being the absolute worst version of mysel…

The inability to apologize + projecting a LOT. My ex cheated on me at least once (I think twice at least tbh), and gave me Chylamdia, and when he told me, he kept saying “I don’t know how I got it” an…

I’ve read The Four Agreements too, and this second one finally hit me the same way you described. I remember reading it years ago and thinking I got it, but it stayed purely intellectual. Like “yeah t…

Funny you say that... I actually used AI to build one based on everything you've shared across all your posts and today's comments. Would love to know if I got it right: 1. Morning (before you d…

I just got a lil hooked up cuz it's a seasonal occurence of mine to give up lucid dreaming and getting hooked up again, this time I got it. As on how I do it, I just sleep normally

Nobody will believe this but nevermind :) I basically decided one day I didn’t want to work for money. I was having a hard time going through some things and I just needed to switch off. I affirmed…

Yes but I am autistic. Covid was regular life for me. Also, I got it in March 2020 and recovered so I was less scared of it and totally went out and did things just with very select people. The roads …

I had someone recently swipe right on me who had a profile saying he was 35 and there were a couple of pictures on there that were cropped a certain way and they turned out to be much older photos. Bu…

I needed someone to transfer some funds she owed, urgently, in Jan. She wasn't responding to my calls and texts for a week. I'd just discovered manifestation so I closed my eyes and imagined her pick…

Dawg I’m at 15% body fat, I got it measured idk what you’re talking about homie I’m already leaning out to 12%

How I got it to work is by turning my eyes (side sleeper) and tensing my neck muscles *as if* I was going to turn my head, and instead my energy body continues. 100% the hardest part is remembering t…

Those butterflies, they are like a lottery ticket. The odds might be low but if you win, that's a joy/thrill in life you'll never find anywhere else. It is pure, highly concentrated natural ecstasy th…

It’s not an exactly the earliest but I don’t have any memory of learning how to tie my shoes. I didn’t even realize I had taught myself until my brother say me do it once and asked why I was doing it …

Can’t really relate on the neglecting the relationship part but my ex also played a deliberate game of chicken by being progressively shittier partner in hopes of me breaking up with him. I didn’t rea…

Oh! I got it for free on the official gateway website! You can fill in your info and they'll send it to you 😍. You can also find the tapes on Spotify if I'm not mistaken

Oooh fun topic! I had a big glow up after my divorce. I lost 20 lbs and weight train at least four times a week. Then I got myself a new wardrobe for my new hot bod. 😁 I used to be afraid to be sexy …

I think i was caring but it could have come off as controling. I never told her what she could or couldnt do. But i was never excited when she told me she was getting drinks. At least 25 times during …

If you're going to trauma dump anywhere, this is the place. My Nmom also needs a cane so naturally, she gets venomous when you offer her your spare because *she's ~fine. This is the woman who woul…

I had to throw up blood before I got it!! Burst a blood vessel from excessive vomiting.

WOW, this sounds eerily familiar! Yeah scared to do anything wrong and afraid of the outcome, until you "vote different". I think mine were brainwashed and probably I was too bc I was a kid and didn't…

This is the nicest I’ve ever got it looking, also I can’t every lie I forgot how i got it to look like this 🥴 (also thanks)

I have this issue. I got it explained for me and its 3 parts. 1 part is the chaos/isolation caused me to shut down for protection  1 part is the undiagnosed adhd causing poor memory retention  …

I think he probably cheated. Why else would he say you got it from sharing underwear with your roommate. Have you seen that clip from the tv show house? The one where both spouses were accusing each o…

Sweetie, if your reputation is your bigger concern here, then that’s a whole different kettle of fish. Even if he cheated (which is the likely factor here), he can twist the narrative however he wants…

I was in a relationship like that from 23-25 I was diagnosed with an STD on Valentines Day my Dr told me it was new. My boyfriend denied such things we stayed together we already lived together. He w…

When I was 16 I found out a relative who died when I was 5, had left me $5,000 that I was to receive when I turned 17. My parents never told me this, despite them being the trustee. So when I turned…

I applied for the job I wanted, and I got it. But because of a lot of administrative red tape, it took three months. Until I received confirmation on Friday that I could start on Monday, I was kept in…

God, me, I give me the ick. But I saw the same behavior in my mom recently and it super grossed me out. I used to be the martyr who got my needs met by guilt tripping my ex passive aggressively and th…

Thank, i wanted to understand if I got it

I feel less alone knowing that I’m not the only one who clenches my jaw muscles with the teeth apart. I’ve literally never heard anyone acknowledge that this exists before. Be careful with fillings;…

I edited it cause I got it flipped around. 😉

The Prosperity Bible. I got it for $10 on sale so long ago. It is a compilation of all the best books from the 20th century. Is the language difficult to swallow, especially from a female perspective…