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I am reading your post and the thread below, and I just want to validate your exhaustion. When you feel like the world is collapsing and your safest memories are locked 12 years in the past, being tol…
Official r/realityshifting Discord — ## Welcome to Shifting Help! ### The official r/realityshifting subreddit's server! I made this server a while ago to serve the purpose to give the right information to shifters across the world !…
Sidebar Navigation On Landing Pages... Good UX? — I was browsing around ThemeForest the other day, looking for some layout and design inspiration, and I found something I can't say I've seen before. It’s a landing page with a sticky sidebar nav that …
Am I the only one that dislikes Wireframe CC? — I'm new to web design, so take this with a grain of salt. I've been browsing around for good, easy wireframe websites so I can finally stop using PowerPoint to do them. I tried the 7 day free trial fo…
Developing your own app — Hello! So I’m needing to hire a developer to create an app for my company, basically linking the two POS systems (one of them is Shopify of course) we use at the front desk with an API… Currently ther…
Failing to Find Google Maps Scraper (that does everything) — I've built a directory listing website and I'm using WP All Import plugin to pull in data from a spreadsheet (which consists of scraped business info from their Google Maps / GBP listings). Being tha…
Help Me Understand Relation Between Guest Posting and Google's TOS — I'll start off by quoting Google's Spam Policies: https://developers.google. com/search/docs/essentials/spam-policies >Advertorials or native advertising where payment is received for articles that i…
using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…
How do people actually find South Korean clothing manufacturers? — Not asking for specific names, just wondering what strategies actually work. South Korea doesn’t have platforms like Alibaba and isn’t really built around manufacturing the way China is, so it feels h…
The song Wicked Game by Chris Isaak sounds like an AP singing about falling in love with a DA — A few weeks back I wrote about "I love You, I'm sorry" by Gracie Abrams sounding like the pov of a DA. Well, I was listening to Wicked Game by Chris Isaak today and it occurred to me that the lyrics …
Has anyone had success reselling? — Hey guys anyone can share their reselling business and give me tips on how to do it? I’m unemployed, but got some money. Really want to get into reselling items, and I wonder if anyone here is curre…
Anyone use shopify to sell as a marketplace? — same as ebay, amazon etc? I always see shopify users being either brand owned or verified third party sellers who have permission from the brand owners to sell their products. but what about resellers…
Finding Like Minded Business People — **TL/DR :** Looking for people who are stuck with unsure with what business they want to pursue and end up learning a little bit about all of them; that want to partner up to stay focused with each …
Have you used any design subscriptions? — I am thinking about starting a subscription for design based services like social media posts, paid ads posts, website creatives, pitch decks etc (anything non video) all clubbed into 1 single monthly…
Need to add tamper-proof links to my page — Hi there. I need to make a website with secure links to institutions. These institutions are targets for scammers who will want to redirect users to their fake log-in pages to steal credentials from p…
Sp related question — I have been try to manifest ex sp for a while now . Which is 2 months to be precise And we have been friends in the whole process. Selectively calling but texting twice daily for random catching ups…
We should keep in mind that its a spectrum.. — I realized something in my relationship and it is not much shared in this way so maybe it helps someone else I am anxious and my fiancee is avoidant. He is very introverted and trying to deal with hi…
How do you tell whether you need to push through the avoidance or if you just don’t like them as a partner — I feel silly asking this but I’m in my first serious long term relationship and I’m struggling so hard. I get very paranoid that it’s not meant to be because I feel so insanely avoidant. Like what if …
Trying to navigate a "casual" relationship — Hi everyone, I (30F, trans) have been talking to/seeing a woman (24F, cis) for about 5 months. The chemistry is legitimately the strongest I’ve ever experienced - emotional, intellectual, creative, s…
Avoidant conversation patterns are confusing me - should I address them? — I’m (secure leaning anxious) getting some confusing conversations patterns from an avoidant friend. And I don’t know if I should address it or just let things continue to play out. Context; we disco…
I'm not sure about my attachment style but I want to discover it right now 'cause I want to start healing!!!!!! — Sorry for the long text, I want to be thorough. So, I just ended my first ever relationship. I'm 20, I'm a lesbian from a conservative background and had a lot of internalized homophobia and religiou…
RULES: PLEASE READ — *POST REMOVAL: Understand that all posts are instantly removed into a queue to await mod approval. Please allow 24 hours, though usually it is much less. Your post will either be approved, or you will…
Septile vs Novile — Hi friends 🩵 so I've been digging pretty deep into astrology recently, I had been messing around with it lightly for a couple years but now going in headlong. Not to make a career out of it or act li…
Feeling alone because my partner lives in his own Fantasy World — Recently I discovered I am a Codependent. I've been with my boyfriend for about six years, and he has this habit of always engaging and interacting by talking a lot about marvel or superpower fantas…
Why Manifestation can FEEL Forced and Unrealistic (Success & Guidance) — Today I came upon a realization that many people do not have for most of their lives. It was the realization that our feelings and the meanings that we attach to them are also affirmations. Right no…
Read! if you were anxious ! — I am going to write this with neville goddard lectures quotes. I know it will help some of you :) **Feel the wish fullfilled :** I know some people can't generate the feeling of wish fullfilled and b…
Stuck In My Head After Affair — So 3 years ago, I found through phone bills that my wife was texting a coworker more than anyone else. I confronted her as she had also been very distant. After trickle truthing she admitted to having…
Experiences With Cosmic Entities. — Hello everyone! This post will be a little bit different, as i wish to dive into odd encounters that i had with different beings, that surprisingly helped me out a *lot* - more than i could have possi…
Has anyone else experienced something very feeling strange ever since the election of the current American President?? — Hello everyone. This might be an unusual post to make at this time. However, I am looking forward to see if anyone has experienced anything similar or exactly what I have experienced. Before earlier i…
Unexpected emotional shift after Adventure - Five Messages. Has anyone experienced something similar? — Hi everyone, I wanted to share something that happened recently and see if anyone here has had a similar experience. For some context, I recently went through the end of a **10 year relationship**. …
My boyfriend (M35) and I (F27) have not said i love you, over a year of dating — TLDR; My boyfriend (M35) and I (f27) have been together for over a year, he hasn’t said I love you despite having talked about marriage, kids, future together. In a conversation he said he was apprehe…
Want to hurt a covert narcissist? Tell people the truth (but be smart about it) — **DISCLAIMER:** Only do this if you are physically, financially, emotionally, and psychologically separated and safe from a narcissist. The following will probably not be applicable if you have to mai…
My dad (56M) cut me off (21) for sleeping over at my boyfriend’s house. Now he’s blowing up at me and ruining our relationship beyond repair. — \-Sorry had to repost due to not having line breaks. I’ve always had a complicated relationship with my dad. He’s very controlling and has always been a “helicopter” parent when I was growing up. I a…
The term lunar new year was first used in British Hong Kong to quell Anti-colonial anti-imperialist sentimemts — “Lunar New Year” was first used to refer to the Chinese New Year in legal documentation in British Hong Kong in 1968. The holiday was officially called "Chinese New Year" in British Hong Kong until th…
read this if you are confused — Yes I have shifted, here is the mindset that brought me to this point. If this does not resonate with you move on. For those who follow the Law of Assumption, non duality etc I intend this will make …
My (18F) girlfriend told me she is taking 5 days to think over if we should break up. What should I (19M) do? — TL;DR my girlfriend has reached a breaking point and told me she’ll consider being together but as of now we aren’t. Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 2 years and met our senior year…
My parents wore my friend out in 10 minutes flat. — Hi all. I'm currently stuck at home recovering from surgery. Trying to put my health first ahead of my demanding parents is hard, but has to be done. Anyway, I had some validation today. A friend of …
Did anyone else leave a good partner because you just werent in love anymore — Ive been with my wife for almost a decade and shes genuinely a good person. She loves me deeply, supports me, and has never done anything wrong. But I dont feel the same way anymore and havent for a …
Crazy experience “timeline hopper” — I’ve been lucid dreaming since I was about 12/13, and I’m now 23. I trained myself into it years ago and now I lucid dream every morning which sometimes can be annoying because it affects my sleep. I’…
Friends/Coworkers joke about my Sobriety — I am 20 years old. I had never drank or used substances up until I started working at a high volume sports bar over a year ago. I swore i would never get into it, i never thought i would, but it is he…
Is aura wave on YouTube legit? Are their subliminals safe? — Obviously I know that they change the name of their videos to get more views, but I’m unsure if their video is legit or not + if the rest of their content is legit
was it "written in the stars" that i was going to be dropped on my head as a baby? (transit chart for the date and approximate time it happened) — my mom was taking me to my babysitters' house, holding me in one arm and diapers in the other when i threw my arms up and rolled out of her arms, landing on my head on my babysitter's driveway. it was…
Having a pet and dating someone who uses Rogaine — I recently started dating someone and I noticed he had a canister of Rogaine (Minoxidil) on his bathroom shelf. We had a talk yesterday and he confirmed that he uses it daily and has been for about 10…
Major John Liu Fugh — I came across this guy during my general reading. This is Major John Liu Fugh. He was the first Chinese American who was able to attain rank of General in the US army. He was born in China and his …
For the adult children with emotionally immature parents.. now what? — Okay, we've established our parents are emotionally immature and neglectful. They don't care to know us as adults but they expect us to care about them. Now what? Is this just how it is now? …
I've noticed everyone wants someone with CPTSD to stand up for themselves until they actually do it. — I've been a very passive and pacifistic person for years, because I came from an abusive home. I never, ever wanted to inflict pain upon anyone because of the amount of pain I've experienced myself gr…
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…
Mirrors and Energy — I wanted to ask your advice/ experience regarding physical mirrors in rooms and how they affect energy. From my experience as well as others I've spoken to, if the mirrors are in the bedroom, it lead…
Has anybody here got crushed that their dreams didn’t work out and it finally worked out in ways you didn’t imagine? — I had a dream since school to have an experience of doing my masters in the UK or Europe mainly for two reasons - the exposure and the pure joy of having an experience of living there on my own terms …
Can aspects to houses that represent the external ever represent internal changes ONLY? — Can aspects (in transit or solar return, not natal) in houses that typically refer to actual physical things, people, etc., ever represent internal changes in the way someone relates to those things, …
what finally got me to shift - I broke my mind ⋆˚࿔ — I used to be the person who would try to shift every single night and wake up crying from a failed attempt because I was so frustrated with the fact that I wasn’t shifting. I thought that I fully be…
Knowing that there's a physical reason for the confusion and lack of awareness makes it easier to accept. One feels like an outsider; the people around you seem to know how to be with each other. An…
Yeah, this is not true and not really good advice. In fact, it’s mental bullshit that feeds the ego of a person. People are bitter and want their ex to feel bad and regretful because it makes them fee…
I guarantee you that dreaming and precognitive or prophetic abilities are connected. I knew how long it would take for Kurt Cobain to die and even that it would be specifically him when I was 7 and 1/…
Has anyone ever experienced death in their lucid dream? I’m usually aware of my dreams, never really tried to control it or anything, but one dream I had was I was falling from a air plane and I had t…
This is so hard to do for me. It’s only been a week or so now but I would end my life if not for my 3 little kids. I can’t believe the woman I’m still in love with thinks so poorly of me she wanted to…
My ex broke up with me, I only sent him one message and link discussing ED. Stated "read it or don't". After that I muted all possible ways he'd contact. Had fair share of bitter tears and lost weight…
Let us know ur result Maybe ur teacher will give u extra credit or grade on a curve which increases ur grade
Let me tell you about the first experience I had with the LOB. Back then I only knew about Neville and read a few lectures here and there. In my 2nd year of University, in one of my exams, I did not …
1. Mental thoughts don’t become physical reality. Beliefs do. Repetitive mental thoughts turn into beliefs. 2. People in your world reflect your beliefs. Perhaps upon meeting someone you had an origi…
Don't even get me started on how dysfunctional people are with relationship skills these days. Absolutely based on lust, transactions and selfishness. Most younger people have ZERO clue how to love. T…
>The objective of LOB or LOA is to build lasting faith, not just temporary faith, over the long term to effect change subconsciously in the face of obstacles in life no matter what negatives are in th…
It's a theory, as that'd what it is. It may work for some, it may not for others. Its essentially a basic CBT method to help you break a loop of rumination and understand you can have 2 opposing thou…
It's a theory, as that'd what it is. It may work for some, it may not for others. Its essentially a basic CBT method to help you break a loop of rumination and understand you can have 2 opposing thou…
>Not saying you’re entirely wrong but that wasn’t the point of the ladder experiment. The point of the ladder experiment was to teach about awareness. > Ah. Conscious awareness. Complete rubbish and…
My ex was/is exactly like this. Had mutual friends telling me he either didn’t talk about it or would say “I don’t give a F about her.” But during this time he was also drinking very heavily. I heard…
They still feel the pain. Just alone, they cant name it or place it. And i imagine they experience it quietly for a long time as opposed to all at once and getting over it.
This is interesting. A DA I was with didn't want to commit or name the relationship but seemed shocked that I started dating someone else. He was too busy chasing an ex that he refused to believe was …
I've tried it. I'm actually still trying it. They eventually ask enough questions to where they know you don't know what you're talking about. Only way is to actually know it or have your dad be the C…
Brush up on the company, what they do, their market, etc. Why do you want to be there specifically. Have that answer solid. It’s really important to convince them you’ll like it and therefore try hard…
1. Finding effective channels is the holy grail, isn't it? You've got a solid mix with personalized cold DMs and content. But experimenting with new platforms like Reddit or X can be a goldmine if don…
I don't see the value in getting the CKA at this point. As of 2023, 176,000 people had registered for the exam. On top of that employers don't value it all that much. It doesn't help if you used manag…
When you say "custom quoting platform" -- is that just a spreadsheet? Sounds like maybe a spreadsheet + CRM? Not trying to shit on it or say "you only did X" -- just trying to understand what exactly …
People’s own attachment styles will do what they will do. By entertaining that connection at all, you’re participating in a dynamic, yes. But he probably does like you *and* does have awareness of his…
I would be tempted to ignore it or feel a lot more pressured, who needs 24/7 check ins? I think it only works as they keep checking on it, honestly. I would just think I shouldn't have to do a daily c…
The first two points are big red flags for me now too! The third isn't a big deal, because I like to take things slow, but I'm also not trying to get on the relationship escalator. 4 & 5 are not gre…
Check out Patrick Teahan's YT channel, he has a few vids about the attachment styles that might help you pinpoint where it originated from. It's also great for starting working on your trauma on your …
>pursuing people who have communicated they're not offering what you're after is a great way to not get what you're after. >I spoke to an AP woman about this on a thread elsewhere and she said that i…
This screams that you have been on Instagram or Reddit or TikTok too long. Slow it down and allow people to build trust
That's actually part of why I do this. I'm looking for women who want what I want. I done wasting my time chasing people in situation-ships. Haha believe it or not there’s people who date with intenti…
Yeah, I feel you my friend. That hypervigilance that's always sort of "on" under the surface. And what makes it harder to overcome is the fact that we can point to all these instances where that hyp…
Thanks for that insight! >he would ask me “how are you doing?” In the morning. I didn’t know why at the time, but that question used to really annoy me. I can resonate with this. While usually I app…
Idk, the anxiety to me is so much easier than caring deeply about someone but not being able to show it or access those feelings reliably. Of course that is also because of anxiety but manifested diff…
Yikes I definitely understand. Also pretty similar to me. Mine wouldn't really 'blow up' but would just let it leak out as resentment during a fight. When I tried to ask him to lean in and share the t…
This really doesn't have anything to do with introversion. I'm an introvert. It simply means you get energy from being alone. It doesn't mean you hate being social, are a hermit or shy.
I can see your point with a lot of this. As someone who's worked a lot on myself emotionally, it feels like if I see someone else hasn't quite done the work or isn't emotionally and mentally there, th…
Agreed. Are there any platforms or companies working on it or is it just too mammoth a task to try to conquer?
When you do leave, do you regret it or do you stay detached?
DBT helped me a lot. You can see if your therapist knows about it or check some free resources like https://dbt.tools/ It has practical things you can actually do when you're feeling anxious. I like…
The easiest way I began my journey to secure attachment and it still works is by asking myself: what would I do if I was the one who is giving this person a chance? Would I text them every hour? No. W…
Yes I've been analyzing what I could've been doing wrong for the past few days even before making this post. The way I approached it is we have 2 CM methods (PSP & Affirmations) & 1 SM method (SH). …
’m in a really difficult spot with my boyfriend. We’ve been together since late 2021, and recently he’s been second-guessing our relationship. I think im anxious and he’s avoidant. I’m 22 and he’s 25 …
omg yes I was so confused,literally thought I deleted it or mis-pressed the post button
I feel you. That thought of being used is terrifying, I know this might not be what you want to hear but you might be projecting past partners behaviour or fears on to him, as in, if others treat you …
He wasn’t always mean. There were times where he was kind and showed interest in my day, what I’m doing, and whatever else. Other times when there was minor conflict or I sensed him just being rude, I…
Buddy nobody wants to be with somebody that needs them. Lots of us anxious people, get into a relationship with somebody that is more anxious than us and believe it or not, swing avoidant, but unlike…
He fucking promised and he broke his promise?! Aw,hell nah. I would be direct with him I would ask him “hey,you remember that promise you made?” If someone says they will do something,they better…
This makes so much sense. I’ve felt like a wimp too and I can’t even share it or dare use it because I know what people would think, that you’ve everything what are you sad about
This isn't surprising. Your insecurities are causing you to create a persona instead of showing up as your authentic self. The more you can get to a place where you feel like "this is who I am, take i…
Me (24F) and my boyfriend (24M) have been together for over five years, these last two long distance. We see each other once a month and I asked early on if we could text each other everyday - nothing…
I 100% felt that when my friend told me they just wanted to give what he wanted to give. I felt wanting to withdraw and argue. But then I remembered how much that would hurt my friend. They were giv…