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Leave a Cheater Gain a Life

r/survivinginfidelityUpdated 30 days ago
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Husband choosing affair partner, we have two kids - how does anyone survive this????

It hurts. I'm not really sure how to answer, except sometimes I feel like I'm not really living for me. I'm functioning because ppl around me need me to function. I'd rather just fall in a pit of noth…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/5/2026
DDay - 2/19/2026 - Online Emotional Affair Led to Full Blown Infidelity

I hope you check out resources like Tracy Schorns website and Leave a cheater gain a life (if you haven’t already). I also hope you get into IC. The discard is so horrendous. It is amazing that y…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/8/2026
Where to go from here

This sub tends to be about the betrayed surviving the betrayal. So if you look for a sub that will support you as you separate or divorce this on is pretty much pro divorce. Just my view. There’s pro …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/11/2026
Cheated on after 10.5 years together, divorced at 11 years together.

So I just heard of this lady today, in a bad way.... I went to get something from my ex wifes room (it was my possession) but I saw a book and reached for it, so I'm guilty of snooping. But I don't un…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/11/2026
Getting married soon help me pls

Umm your making excuses for her bud. When someone shows you who they are believe them!!! Never play the pick me dance - that's the path your heading down and it will look weak and in the end she'll en…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/12/2026
My cop husband cheated and now I can't trust him when he leaves for night shift.

I'm sorry you're going through this, OP. It's absolutely unbelievable he would do this after what his parents went through. He's but embarrassed. He's upset he got caught and his fun times aren't fu…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/13/2026
Found my wife has been cheating with a co-worker

Therapy asap buddy. Also realize your marriage is over. No coming back. It’s Never the same the doubt never goes away. Read leave a cheater gain a life. Make new friends. Breathe. Eat…

r/Divorcecomment3/15/2026
I 34F woke up to a message about my 35M husband

Read leave a cheater gain a life. Or just keep letting it happen.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
Text that Blew Apart My Entire Life

Run mate, run. Please choose yourself. She will do it again n again. I know that’s not what you want to hear, but that is the reality. Please read and or listen to Lundy Bancroft’s “Why Does He Do Tha…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/22/2026
16 years together feels destroyed...

Read Leave A Cheater Gain A Life, even if you don’t want to leave. It will clearly illustrate the behavior she is exhibiting be that gaslighting, trickle truth or stonewalling. It will also provide yo…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/27/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
I'm crushed. And I still love her.

Buy the book "leave a cheater gain a life". That book helped me immensely. I have a lot of sympathy for what you're going through. It will get worse before it gets better and it's going to take a long…

r/Divorcecomment4/2/2026
After 14 Years together and 10 years of marriage, today is the worst day of my life

A good dad does not traumatize his children’s mother. Cheating is abuse. A good dad doesn’t risk his kids’ intact family, their entire concept of safety and security, for his own selfish desires. He o…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/7/2026
What do I do after getting cheated on?

It's like a drug you have to detox from. I was here and I loved him so much for 14 years and in the end, I just refer to him as my abuser now, because that's literally what he was. He cheated on me…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/8/2026
Betrayal : side chick knew

Get a lawyer and serve him with divorce papers. The trash took itself out and now she can deal with the cheater. He’s gonna be cheating on her in no time because he’s a loser with no morals. They dese…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/9/2026
Does anything help the grief ?

Sorry you are going through this. I found reading “leave a cheater gain a life” helped. Speak to friends and family for support. And maybe get some therapy.

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/12/2026
I M40 found out my wife F40 of 10yrs has been cheating on me. Do I tell her other man’s wife?

Yea do it before you file for divorce. Read leave a cheater gain a life. This isn’t the first time she has cheated

r/relationship_advicecomment4/13/2026