she self sabotages everything she cares about

I used to be very anti-divorce for any reason and was skeptical of people claiming it was the right thing to do. Reading infidelity stories changed my opinion on that. While I do think there are some …

No, not exactly, she was upset and said she took her anger out on me, I also heard that she felt she was missing something here. I was also told that she self sabotages everything she cares about.