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r/survivinginfidelityUpdated 30 days ago
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Surprise Surprise another tale of a cheater

Take it easy mate and just work out what you want to do. A serious word of advice though. If you do not think you are built for "getting over this" then you are going to be two steps ahead of anyone …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/19/2026
I self sabotaged a seemingly perfect relationship

I self sabotaged a seemingly perfect relationship — (26M) So I met this girl a few weeks ago off bumble. Everything was going so well, we were both really into each other, and it felt so real. About a week after we started talking she and I went on a d…

r/BreakUpspost4/12/2026
I(17F) am having a hard time getting over this guy(19M) I've liked forever

I(17F) am having a hard time getting over this guy(19M) I've liked forever — So, he has a girlfriend, and it's hard cause I felt soo sure he liked me, just general friendliness, comparing hand sizes, eye contact, talking a lot-- and well, everything. I knew it wouldn't work ou…

r/relationshipspost4/12/2026
2 days after letting my first relationship of 5 years

2 days after letting my first relationship of 5 years — We both had issues that we pit on the relationship. I’ve given everything to be with her, and that burned me. My eyes wandered to other girls. she was insecure due to it. We had really toxic fights. I…

r/BreakUpspost4/13/2026
This situation is too messed up

This. This is an immature relationship given how young the OP and the SP are. They will likely break up when she realizes he is a loser and they will never get married. She’s better off getting over…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/29/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 07, 2026

I’m so sorry! I know how impossibly impossible getting over this feels - been there. But do you know how smart it was of you to block because you can finally work your way out through the mess! Knowin…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/8/2026
You cannot build a future with someone who is incapable of repair

How did you deal with getting over this? Did you find it hard to let go, were you in love? Or was it easy for you to cut this off?

r/ExNoContactcomment3/18/2026
My boyfriend (M25) saw an old video of me(F24) and was disgusted. How can I get over this?

I'm not sure there IS any getting over this. And I'm sorry for that because it's always painful to lose a special person from our lives. But those losses are simply unavoidable. It's just part of the …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
My boyfriend (M25) saw an old video of me(F24) and was disgusted. How can I get over this?

I gotta be totally honest and tell you I’m not entirely sure what the best way to go about getting over this, in whatever way is right for you. My heart goes out to you and I’m so incredibly sorry you…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
My boyfriend (M25) saw an old video of me(F24) and was disgusted. How can I get over this?

There's no getting over this. The boyfriend is a misogynist who let it slip. He doesn't respect women he doesn't think are f*ckable and that is, unfortunately, a chronic condition. This is not the typ…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
My best friend (29F) cheated on her husband (29M) with their mutual best friend (29M)

Anonymous letter or message to him? Your friendship is already kind of over - clearly you’re never getting over this.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
I (F23) have been with my partner (M24) for four years and he keeps being unfaithful

Listen to yourself. You literally said you want to be the only woman in his life and for the cheating to stop but are afraid of confronting this issue for fear of a break up. Why do you not want to b…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
How do you deal with the virtue signaling?

NC also means not accessing their socials in my book. If you can't achieve that, it's time to deinstall the apps completely. You're re-triggering yourself. Getting over this shit is hard enough but …

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/10/2026