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Surprise Surprise another tale of a cheater

Take it easy mate and just work out what you want to do. A serious word of advice though. If you do not think you are built for "getting over this" then you are going to be two steps ahead of anyone …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/19/2026
Adventures of a South African Engineer: Lessons from 3 Startups (I will not promote)

Adventures of a South African Engineer: Lessons from 3 Startups (I will not promote) — **Adventures of a South African Engineer: Lessons from 3 Startups** These are a few things I have come to learn while doing "startups," maybe it will help some entrepreneurs in their startup travels.…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
My boyfriend (M35) and I (F27) have not said i love you, over a year of dating

My boyfriend (M35) and I (F27) have not said i love you, over a year of dating — TLDR; My boyfriend (M35) and I (f27) have been together for over a year, he hasn’t said I love you despite having talked about marriage, kids, future together. In a conversation he said he was apprehe…

r/relationshipspost3/9/2026
How to get over wanting love and relationships

How to get over wanting love and relationships — Before, I was asking how to find love and a relationship, nowadays I realize its just not gonna happen. I used to believe there was someone for everyone, but now I realize its bullshit because if that…

r/selfhelppost3/29/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me? — I post alot on here about meeting men and figuring out what's not working for me with dating and relationships. I recently met with a friend whom my friend Paul passed on my number to and we've met an…

r/datingoverfortypost4/4/2026
Weekly Lucid Dream Story Thread - April 04, 2026

Weekly Lucid Dream Story Thread - April 04, 2026 — Welcome to the weekly lucid dream story thread. Post your lucid adventures below, and please keep this *lucidity related*, for regular dream stories go to [r/dreams](https://www.reddit.com/r/dreams/)…

r/LucidDreamingpost4/4/2026
Shifting - is it a transition into REAL parallel realities or is it something from the realm of lucid dreams, tulpa creation, and hyper-realistic fantasies?

Shifting - is it a transition into REAL parallel realities or is it something from the realm of lucid dreams, tulpa creation, and hyper-realistic fantasies? — I am an absolute beginner in this topic. Literally. I only learned about the concept of 'shifting' and what it means today. And I have the biggest dream - to learn to move between worlds of the infini…

r/realityshiftingpost4/4/2026
Are Persistent Realms satisfying?

Are Persistent Realms satisfying? — When I get better at lucid dreaming, I would love to create a persistent realm and have fun with a bunch of characters I'd create to have adventures with them, in some kind of dream-enhanced larping I…

r/LucidDreamingpost4/5/2026
How can I have an adventurous life?

How can I have an adventurous life? — Hello!!! I am a 19 years old girl college student. I have been wondering how i can incorporate adventures into my life, have an adventurous lifestyle. I don’t want to just go to uni and go home, live…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/5/2026
Are OBEs Real or Enhanced Dreams? My Latest Experience

Are OBEs Real or Enhanced Dreams? My Latest Experience — Last night I had another supposed out-of-body experience. These episodes still leave me with so many doubts and questions. Are they dreams? Are they imagination? Are they real? I’ve had several by now…

r/gatewaytapespost4/6/2026
Are OBEs Real or Enhanced Dreams? My Latest Experience

Are OBEs Real or Enhanced Dreams? My Latest Experience — Last night I had another supposed out-of-body experience. These episodes still leave me with so many doubts and questions. Are they dreams? Are they imagination? Are they real? I’ve had several by now…

r/AstralProjectionpost4/6/2026
Lessons with my dog training client trigger good and bad flash backs and I need to know why

Lessons with my dog training client trigger good and bad flash backs and I need to know why — I have had a training dog do consistent obedience and trick training for almost two years now. My client used to take her dog to the boarding facility I used to work for. We’ll call the place Rockefel…

r/CPTSDpost4/6/2026
Grief

Grief — I honestly just need to scream into the void a bit tonight because my friends/family seem a bit tired of hearing me go on and on about grieving the loss of my relationship, and honestly I'm pretty tir…

r/BreakUpspost4/7/2026
Can't tell if my growth post breakup is truly growth or not

Can't tell if my growth post breakup is truly growth or not — it's been almost 4 months since I got broken up with. My partner of 4 years left me because despite the love we had for each other, we were simply not being healthy for each other and were not able to…

r/BreakUpspost4/7/2026
did i make the right or the wrong decision to break up with my boyfriend?

did i make the right or the wrong decision to break up with my boyfriend? — I (22F) dated this guy (22M) in college for almost a year. We broke up a little over a year ago. He came into my life at a completely unexpected time, but he made me feel like I was the only girl in …

r/BreakUpspost4/8/2026
My (42) wife (39) feels sad. There must be more to life.

My (42) wife (39) feels sad. There must be more to life. — Hello Reddit. I have been with my wife now for over 18 years but this past year she has grown bored and feels sad. She says there must be more to life, more adventures to have and things to see. She i…

r/relationshipspost4/8/2026
Blindsided by a breakup after 9 years. Struggling to cope

Blindsided by a breakup after 9 years. Struggling to cope — This is going to be a rambling mess I’m sorry. My (32f) partner of 9 years (34m) blindsided me with a breakup in January. I don’t know what stage I’m in of grief. I have spent the last four days cryin…

r/BreakUpspost4/8/2026
It kills me seeing how fast she moved on

It kills me seeing how fast she moved on — It’s been 6 months since our breakup. She was my first and only love, while I was her third. I guess it might be easier for her to move on since she’s been through this before, but it still hurts like…

r/ExNoContactpost4/9/2026
Continuing on my Crazy Scouting Reparenting Project

Continuing on my Crazy Scouting Reparenting Project — I've written on here in the past about my crazy reparenting project. It's helped me more than I've thought. I'm excited to continue it in a revamped way. Basically, I always wished I had been able …

r/EmotionalNeglectpost4/9/2026
Basically Doctor By Profession (MBBS) Struggling A Lot To Do MD/MS. Interested In Surgical Field. Hu gry For Fame, Money And Status. Want To Excel In Medical Field. Worst Relation With Father, Mother Brother Sister. Short Tempered. Learning Astrology Since 1 Year.

Basically Doctor By Profession (MBBS) Struggling A Lot To Do MD/MS. Interested In Surgical Field. Hu gry For Fame, Money And Status. Want To Excel In Medical Field. Worst Relation With Father, Mother Brother Sister. Short Tempered. Learning Astrology Since 1 Year. — Please Help. Any Suggestions Or Remedies Or Any Forseen Misadventures Any Knowledgeable Person Can Brief About.

r/vedicastrologypost4/11/2026
Weekly Lucid Dream Story Thread - April 11, 2026

Weekly Lucid Dream Story Thread - April 11, 2026 — Welcome to the weekly lucid dream story thread. Post your lucid adventures below, and please keep this *lucidity related*, for regular dream stories go to [r/dreams](https://www.reddit.com/r/dreams/)…

r/LucidDreamingpost4/11/2026
Depression - what would be my best option to help?

Depression - what would be my best option to help? — So I (m26) am experiencing an unexpected bout of depression. Like everyone I've had my ups and downs but it's not lasted this long in about 3.5 years. It really hit me bad the last 1.5 weeks, but lo…

r/Psychonautpost4/11/2026
I (28 M) need advice, my gf (26 F) began to love me more for the last year or so after I told I would move states when I land my dream role. Not sure on what to do next

I (28 M) need advice, my gf (26 F) began to love me more for the last year or so after I told I would move states when I land my dream role. Not sure on what to do next — I (28 M) met my gf (26 F) three years ago and have been dating her for the last 2.5 years. At first, I didn't have much hope for a LTR as did she but for different reasons, of course. I am a bit of …

r/relationshipspost4/11/2026
Life is a play and you’re the main character

Life is a play and you’re the main character — Neville, and all of the great teachers, have said something to the effect of “Life is a play and all in it are players”. I have learned that this is true. Physical reality is a play we have put on a…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/12/2026
I don't know how to get through this

I don't know how to get through this — My (33M) wife (33F) were together for 10 years. Married for 2. She moved out just after Christmas and we talked a bit in January about why. She said she's been unhappy for years but it all felt really…

r/Divorcepost4/13/2026
About, Wiki, Rules, Books, Etc-- Read First

About, Wiki, Rules, Books, Etc-- Read First — # Welcome to the energy work sub! The purpose of this community is to explore human energy in all of its facets. Out of body experiences, energy healing, energetic connections between people, psychic…

r/energy_workpost10/29/2021
Before you make that post about some avoidant ex ask yourself……..

Simply get back to the things that give me joy in life. Nature, cycling, career progression, healthy cooking, travel, caving, gym, movie buff, research, etc. Never abandon my identity ever again when …

r/attachment_theorycomment3/24/2025
I got ghosted and I feel blindsided

The distance didn’t make it harder in my opinion. At the beginning of a relationship you’re getting to know the other person. Thats incredibly easy to do with texting, calls, video chats etc.  We cou…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/20/2025
I have become obsessed with finding someone.

Let me give it to you straight and this is what comes up for me as a 34 single F. Do you think you might have the wrong mindset/attitude about dating right now? I think the process of dating can rea…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/23/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Yes there are a few people you whose adventures you can follow along. I've done diary-like posts too. But also I've definitely seen some post exactly the same stuff multiple times.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

All my pictures are of me indoors and I also said I like to watch movies. I'm not a hermit but I am not a drinker. I did put at some point I was a homebody, but everyone seems to want to go to "advent…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

What do you consider "personality"? Going to "adventures"?

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I don’t know if the issue is introverted vs extroverted - I am introverted bc I need time alone (and love being alone) to recharge but I love my hobbies, travels, adventures and being social…..it soun…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/10/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I think most people are exaggerating what their "interesting" aspects are. I don't think people are going to "adventures" everyday.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/10/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Time is inevitable, I’m making sure to focus on outdoor adventures but boy does hope seem hopeless! 

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/12/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Thank you again Salvage I really appreciate your replies and advice. I just ended up changing it to my own words. I still don't feel 100% about it, but if not lavishly put it is definitely true to the…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 03, 2026

Looks pretty solid to me. These are the only two things that stood out to me: 1. Are you vegan, or do you just enjoy vegan desserts? I found it a bit unclear. Being vegan is pretty strict and there m…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/3/2026
Have your thoughts on shrooms been somewhat like this?

I’ve experienced similar, but also the opposite re: LSD & Psilocybin Like on a fresh tolerance reset, 3.5g-5g’s of shrooms makes me an absolute child mentally. Every bit of expression and emotion I h…

r/Psychonautcomment3/7/2026
Which pics should I use for my online dating profile? 41M

Lots of great choices! Lots of adventures! I’d recommend keeping the dog photo, and eliminating most of the group photos. I’d also like to see a smile showing teeth. Good luck!

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/9/2026
What are your social lives like?

When I'm working, I'm on the road and dating is on hold: I take care of my dog, have work from 8-6 or 8-8 and then back to doggo needs and sleep. When I'm not on the road, I try to keep my days as f…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/9/2026
tried dating sites at 41/42 and only get messages from 20 year olds

Set the filter for age and you won’t get it unless they lie to get through which is always a red flag. You recognize that you have a look that isn’t mainstream. That will limit your matches. If you ar…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
Which pics should I use for my online dating profile? 41M

Seriously, your adventures are cooler than any toothy grin!

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/11/2026
Men having rigid body type preferences

I guarantee you fine sir, I am not. Neither are the misadventures of my dating life.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/11/2026
Which pics should I use for my online dating profile? 41M

Definitely digging your vibe, those shots scream 'have awesome adventures with me'.

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/11/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 12, 2026

i still have my engagement ring from a past ex. it's nice to take out and look at sometimes, and remember fondly the version of myself i once was (beautiful, mean, 105lb). i've had a long life full of…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/12/2026
Anyone find narcs to be entirely boring?

Mine never grew past age 30. He regales everyone who will listen with tales of his adventures - from 50 years ago. I know this because I met him when he was in his thirties. When we were dating, he to…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/13/2026
Asian erasure or something like that

Adventures of Logan and the Hot Pot Bomb

r/AsianAmericancomment3/14/2026
Self scrying on Ketamine

I've done this yes for quite a long time. I've concluded though that ketamine's depth is largely a cognitive hallucination, ie, an illusion. I can quite easily accept that very, very rarely, like once…

r/Psychonautcomment3/14/2026
She snuck out with a "friend" while we were at a party

You have to understand that sex is NOT special to women, despite all the bullshit women say. For an even mildly attractive woman, sex comes very easily and women love their adventures. Try your best t…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
Asking to come to my house way too so on

Sometimes they just dont understand those boundaries and its not about you. I had met someone in the wild, we exchanged numbers and shared what we were looking for. We seemed to be on the same page w…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/14/2026
Boyfriend of 3 years keeps storming out during every disagreement - feeling lost

Is this really how you want to live your life? How can you plan for your future or new adventures together when he refuses to participate in those discussions? You certainly CAN accept that this is wh…

r/relationshipscomment3/14/2026
6'4" ✅ Jacked ✅ Veteran ✅ CEO ✅ ... Dating Stills Sucks ✅

not lying, but taking the wrong approach. my thoughts: 1. he comes across as really serious / intense the entire video is him complaining about dating, complete with dramatic music in the background…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/16/2026
'Talk to the dream entity,' they said. 'It will help,' they said.

Try asking which part of your subconcious it's manifesting as or develop powers to vanquish away and make it your main villian you fight in your adventures in your dreamscape

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/16/2026
I'm buying books but not actually reading any of them. How do I actually enjoy sitting down and reading a piece of literature?

This is basically what I was coming to say, as well. Classics are actually often and mostly challenging, largely because you have to bring a fair amount of the interest in them oneself. Once you fill…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/17/2026
For guys who have no trouble getting dates on OLD, how do you filter for good personality?

I found if we shared specific, niche interests or adjacent interests. The conversation would be engaging and exciting, and generally when we met in person. At the very least we had a fun date, and enj…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/17/2026
Why do people have it out for me?

Your title says it all; it's a self fulfilling prophecy. Change your story, change your life (Thank you Tony Robbins!! This motto legit changed my life years ago) Life lifes, it's our response to it t…

r/energy_workcomment3/18/2026
Did your partner/ex cheat with someone who had traits they previously said they disliked or hated?

So you do know you’re not together. It’s now your decision not just hers. That’s good. Reading this I can see that your heart and mind have come together even though you’re in pain. She’s not the one …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/19/2026
I am a scientist who discovered she can travel with her mind

Nice. It sounds like Remote Viewing/ A.P. . Check out Russell Targ of SRI International. His Third eye spies documentary is interesting. Robert Monroe of the Monroe Instittute. William Buhlman, also …

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/19/2026
Husband left for reasons I won’t know

Today is my cake day. That’s because 7 years ago today I made a Reddit account to log in and post something kind of like what you posted here. My husband dropped a bomb on me and my life had fallen to…

r/Divorcecomment3/20/2026
Surprise Surprise another tale of a cheater

!Thankyou. Nope same level of intimacy. Same amount of sex. I am sure she is just doing thjs to keep things normal to keep me "happy" and not cause any concerns for her adventures. Butt plug to …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/20/2026
Is it normal to hate your nparents? and To what extend do you hate them?

They never beat me and somewhat (over-)cared for me, but they both fucked me up emotionally, socially and societally. Everything which I know about my parents are the adventures of two hobolike, menta…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/21/2026
My partner (f34) “quiet quit” our relationship and I (m37) need closure.

You can't get closure from her only yourself . She pulled out of your relationship because she was dissatisfied or she was cheating because she thinks the grass is greener with someone else ( it usual…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/22/2026
Cobblestones

Thank you! I'm reading it now. I love discovering these philosophies in the wild, organically. It's so lovely to see something someone describes in amazing detail in my own mind, smiling and nodding, …

r/experiencerscomment3/22/2026
Finally detached! Flying, static vision, and a sudden "lust-induced" snapback. Advice needed!

Wasnt it 4hz? Anyway, say „Focus now“ in Your mind. Repeat it. Or clarity now. You don’t have eyes. So you will get a 360 View soon. Be Open to it. Oh and welcome. Lots of Adventures are waiting for Y…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/22/2026
How can i use my 12th house stellium to my benefit?

12th house Sag stellium traps that fire energy inside, total inner world lockdown. Channel it through meditation or dream journaling to map out your adventures first, builds quiet confidence so execut…

r/AskAstrologerscomment3/23/2026
I flew across the country alone at 19, and they followed me.

💒🙏🏾so glad you are safe 🍀good luck on your adventures

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/23/2026
How are you guys actually spending your weekends to feel recharged?

Time in nature, get a massage, self care, my skin routine, morning snuggles, sex, walk on the beach, plan a trip, set goals, go for a walk, listen to music, try a new workout class, try a new restaura…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/23/2026
Have you had any experiences where your beings saved yours or someone else's life in some way?

Too many times to count, but I liked this art piece from my art history class and was inspired by it for another art piece. I never got to that , but I did met too many angels to count. I'll say this…

r/experiencerscomment3/24/2026
She came back

Pretty much all of my exes come back. The secret? My life rocks. I've got the best group of friends ever. Physically and online. I've also got a massive family and we're always on adventures. Combine …

r/BreakUpscomment3/24/2026
I astral projected to someone's house and they saw me and wet terrified

Around the time I started astral projecting, 4 coworkers have seen shadow figures at work. A manager from another department saw me walking around at midnight, asking my manager what I was doing there…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/24/2026
Did anyone else's parents never teach you literally any basic life skills at all. And then turn around and mock you for not knowing them

Exactly! Sorry, I need to jump on this wagon because this is exactly what has been enraging me the last couple years: after being neglected by my mother all my life, being silenced, ridiculed...I move…

r/CPTSDcomment3/26/2026
Wave II Focus 12 experience

Yes! This. Try to replace your fear with curiosity. Easier said than done, but it is normal to initially fear the unknown or unfamiliar. Good luck! Exciting adventures await you.

r/gatewaytapescomment3/26/2026
How do you rebuild your life after depression takes everything?

You start with the basics. Staying hydrated and getting enough actual rest/ sleep. Then you work on hygiene, which I'm pretty sure 99% of people aren't excited for but it's a lot better than feeling …

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/26/2026
Has anyone dated a lot and kind of regret it?

In the three years after my divorce, I didn’t date, but I did focus on experiences with friends. The beauty of it is that these friends are still in my life, and probably always will be, so we will …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/26/2026
Has anyone dated a lot and kind of regret it?

How come they’re asking how many men you’ve slept with? *Stop* mentioning “that guy” every time you tell them you did xyz. Instead, “I went here, and it was a great experience.” “I did this and it was…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026