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why are they able to put in more effort with the affair partner than in their own relationship?

Wow thank you so much for sharing, I'm really sorry you went through that as well. The part about you painting his house, cleaning it, helping with the rental, doing all the real life stuff while he …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/14/2026
Manifested a $32K scholarship with accidental SATS!!!

Manifested a $32K scholarship with accidental SATS!!! — Hi all :) I have a pretty amazing success story that I’d love to share, and I hope it may motivate some of you in your manifestation journeys 😊 Basically, I accidentally manifested a $32,000 scholar…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/14/2026
My mom who disowned my for being gay is ready to forgive me, oh and for me to financially support her and my dad after he retires of course.

My mom who disowned my for being gay is ready to forgive me, oh and for me to financially support her and my dad after he retires of course. — I don’t speak to any of my family anymore because they disowned me for being gay after i was outed. It hurt at the time but honestly the more time i spent away from them the more i realized how awful …

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/15/2026
Carl Jung wasn't a psychologist. He was a shaman.

Carl Jung wasn't a psychologist. He was a shaman. — Carl Jung quietly wrote one of the most profound esoteric texts of all time, at least in my own personal opinion. Seven Sermons to the Dead was written in 1916, privately shared between a handful of J…

r/experiencerspost3/19/2026
It worked !!!! Lol

It worked !!!! Lol — \>gets broken up with \>Enters huge sad time \>Decides to quit all controlled substances \>Goes to therapy / support groups \>All the self help books \>Starves and works out like a maniac \…

r/ExNoContactpost3/26/2026
Why are koreans so class/status conscious?

Why are koreans so class/status conscious? — \*\* here, 'koreans' mean korean-koreans or first gen korean immigrants, not korean americans who tend to be more chill in my experience. I'm a first gen immigrant. I'm posting it here in a hope to ge…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/28/2026
AI is your friend.

AI is your friend. — I am an expat in a foreign land, and fell in love with a delightful woman here. The first month was glorious and beautiful, but soon after she began exhibiting many of these traits (before I even knew…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost4/4/2026
Idk why i haven’t killed myself yet (I feel like a coward)

Idk why i haven’t killed myself yet (I feel like a coward) — I think this is my first post on Reddit. I usually read them but I never actually really posted anything. I never thought I would but I’m struggling really bad right now. I usually research the h…

r/CPTSDpost4/9/2026
People and their dumb opinions

People and their dumb opinions — Let’s say that people hear about a man that filed for divorce because his wife gave him sex only once a week. Everything else about the wife is great. Many would say that he’s selfish and shallow. Bu…

r/Divorcepost4/12/2026
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You’re making the rounds lol (but seriously, 20 is a respectable amount!)

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/7/2026
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I'm not pretending to be anything. It's pretty clear that an honest response wouldn't be a wrong answer. But an evasive one? Not respectable and honestly pretty telling about what would be in store. I…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
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I've seen your posts regularly and you seem like a very respectable, stand up guy! Imagine fumbling a guy like you!

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/10/2026
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All my friends are with their partners this Valentine’s Day so this evening I’m drinking whiskey and watching live music performances on YouTube like any respectable single man in his 30s What are y…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/14/2026
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It’ll be fine. Pizza is indestructible. I can always warm it back up, anyway. I’ll even buy us each a latte. So we can sip that while eating our left over pizza. Like respectable people

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/14/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 23, 2026

Im sorry to hear you’re going through that that sounds really challenging. I hope things feel better for you soon, it’s really frustrating to not even be able to walk like you used to. I get that so…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 25, 2026

In dance classes my friend. As a 30s guy myself, I signed up salsa last month and met plenty of men and women. Of course there a few creeps, but also some nice respectable guys.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/26/2026
My experience with NHI's, contact and navigating society.

I'm happy you've found some measure of peace and health, especially if you're a contact experiencer, which is often inherently stressful. But I'm not here to just say niceties, I'm on a mission. The m…

r/experiencerscomment3/12/2026
Dating as an Asian Australian man

Being a woman and heavily in the gaming community my entire life (also a people behavior observer prob audhd), it's all about your energy/vibe. Find the weird that matches yours. Be confident, own yo…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/13/2026
I (26F) told my boyfriend (26M) I sometimes miss the freedom of being single and he broke up with me on my birthday

Im with him. If my gf said that to me, I would do the same shit. Shit is disrespectable

r/relationship_advicecomment3/15/2026
Anyone NOT having a rough time dating?

I’m so exhausted from trying to figure people out. I am close to dating for 4 years, 4! Met many many men, some more into me than I into them, some not into me at all and ghost, some we both tried and…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/15/2026
Stop wanting a relationship with neglectful parents.

This! My dad was a very conditional love type of parent. Only paid attention to me when he had to scold me or when I was doing something he liked/was interested in. I was basically trained to be a pe…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/15/2026
Trying not to get too ahead of myself with new partner

Idk two months is a respectable amount of time to start falling in love…enjoy!

r/datingoverfortycomment3/19/2026
Farewell

I know that so many of us can only wish you the best of luck living your remaining days in the best ways you see fit. I can only hope that I will meet my fate and final chapters with such grace and h…

r/Stoicismcomment3/19/2026
People are always shocked when abuse happens in "good families"...... but that's kind of the point.

Yeah I think a lot of people have preconceived ideas about what abusers look like. They think that abusers are all poor with alcohol or drug problems. I think that many people refuse to believe that "…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/21/2026
How do you handle conflict?

>The part that makes them feel unbearable isn’t the sensation itself, it’s the feeling that you need to do something to get rid of them faster. But the reason why I feel the need to get rid of them f…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment3/23/2026
Therapist ethics

As a T, I would never ever EVER do this. If I ever needed to ‘vent’ about something from work, it would be to my supervisor, in a confidential setting, and it would likely be something regarding the s…

r/therapycomment3/25/2026
People are always shocked when abuse happens in "good families"...... but that's kind of the point.

When I was growing up, my so-called family looked like a perfect Russian-Jewish family on the outside: always well-dressed, clean-shaven, designer clothes, financially comfortable, good food, well-con…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/26/2026
Are we giving up on relationships too easily nowadays?

I would say no. Most people stay in relationship for too long because now the social media is teaching us people can change if we are just patient enough. Doesn't help if you grew up in such environme…

r/BreakUpscomment3/26/2026
For the divorced people. How many of y’all knew before the wedding?

I didn't, but some of my friends and relatives did. It baffles me till today, because despite the abusive monster my ex turned out today, in public he presents himself as what my culture understands t…

r/Divorcecomment3/26/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 27, 2026

The other day I met someone and I thought we had a good thing going. We were connecting over shared interests and it seemed like it might go somewhere. However yesterday after sharing my astrology cha…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/27/2026
Was my therapist blaming me for abuse?

Go with a respectable, older male therapist with really good credentials. And go in-person if you're currently online.

r/therapycomment3/27/2026
do the narc and new supply ever break up

I hate to be the one to deflate the mood, but sometimes they do remain together with the person they left us for. I'm a firm believer some treat us poorly because they could never fully idealize us. …

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/28/2026
Revenge on my ex of 1 year

Revenge is never the answer, a year from now you have to know you stood your ground and did something respectable, whatever that is, so you don’t have regrets. Being a buttmunch isn’t lol.

r/BreakUpscomment3/29/2026
Are Asians really that short, or is it just a racist stereotype?

You do bring up a good point - there something to the idea that people living in hotter or humid climes have adapted to have smaller body types to aid in passive heat loss, along with your mother's an…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/30/2026
31F I’ve been told horrible things about my future partner. So why will I marry him?

I don’t expect him to provide for me but I have a respectable job, I would like someone who has one too. That’s the thing they keep telling me that I’ll have an average marriage or arranged and that…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/30/2026
parents that don't fake enthusiasm

you made me remember that my bio dad considering break dancing disgusting and ballet as the only respectable dance form 😭 I buried that memory lmaoo

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/30/2026
Revenge cheating question

I haven’t revenge cheated, but here’s my take, if you care. 🙂 There are two extremely strong reasons ensuring that I won’t. One is respectable, the other is more questionable. 1. Seeing how abso…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/1/2026
Men! I'm curious

Not at all. This is basically the madonna or whore idea -- that \*some\* women are kinky and sexy and might make awesome lovers, but precisely because of that aren't suitable as long-term partners sin…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/3/2026
Two year relationship down the drain.

Stop trying to be her lawyer. Stop putting yourself in a miserable position. I mean, you have a shitty girlfriend who is a dishonest and manipulative person. The world is full of women who are despera…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/3/2026
Facebook Cheating Compulsion

You knew what was going on and gave her a chance by saying you better stop this shit, which I think was actually a solid move on your part. No games no crying you saw something wrong and gave an ultim…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/3/2026
I don‘t think I can take it anymore

What trust are you trying to rebuild? You have been living a lie and putting your health at risk. Of course he is being super nice, he gets to go out and fulfil his sexual desires and cheat while hi…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/4/2026
My nervous system is ruining my life.

with deep preparation, personalized attention at a respectable center with lots of plant medicine treatments to supplement ayahuasca, and solid integration, plant medicine could help you a great deal.…

r/Psychonautcomment4/5/2026
POC solidarity as an Asian

>When you hear a non-Asian POC talking about internalised anti-Asianness in the Asian community, such as the stereotypes about Asian women and white men, or colourism—how do you feel about that? I ha…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/5/2026
Therapy moment

I think it could have been worded more tactfully, but I feel like this therapist may have felt that op was above their ability. Which is a respectable quality, but I agree it could have been handled b…

r/CPTSDcomment4/5/2026
My gut knew what she was doing, but I trusted that she wouldn’t.

these ultimatums will end up being you controlling her life and she will get sick of it and you will always have trust issues. would your son, father, and any other respectable individual respect you…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/5/2026
I wish men wouldn’t talk about my curves after 3 chats

Dude even had a picture in a nice suit, lives in a respectable neighborhood, wrote a nice bio. Nothing pointed at him being a bum no

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
How often do you get approached in real life?

50F, I actually get a respectable number of dates from apps but have not been approached in person in many years

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
Any other Women on here whos dad suddenly started hating you as you grew older?

Yes, this happened to me. For both me and my sister the "switch" happened around 8-10 years old. For her it was when she began visibly going through puberty, growing breasts etc. for me it was when…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/6/2026
My (M33) wife (F28) cannot accept that I dated a, on what she calls a "low class" woman (F30).

There is a wonderful sketch with Billy Connolly in a pub in Scotland and visiting the Laird of the local estate. A collection of yuppies, in fancy suits drinking fine whiskey call him over to talk and…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Looking for resources on healing from deep lies in a protracted relationship.

It might be helpful to remind yourself that a person’s actions speak for themselves. Yes—occasionally we misunderstand and misinterpret one another. But if someone is constantly insisting you misu…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/7/2026
Does a Dinner Date = Sex in 2026? 🧐🤷🏾‍♀️

You have to do what you are comfortable with. Respectable men want empowered women - set your boundaries and stick with it. If he if financially comfortable, don’t worry about the price of the resta…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/7/2026
Make sure you thoroughly research your dates

Here I am hoping every woman interested in my Googles me: respectable business career, interviewed by the WSJ in an article about investing, positive neighborhood engagement all on the first page of G…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/8/2026
I (21M) am ready to break up with my (20F) Gf of 4 years… but she is away

Once she’s back, have a convo in person with her or over the phone if you’re LDR. That would be the respectable way

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
Put a 🔪 in me I'm 👌🏽✔️

Literally. I am appaled at the way people are pussies about this. Out of all the guys that have rejected me, only ONE out of the several had the decency to be upfront and honest and communicate like a…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/9/2026
Betrayal : side chick knew

If you both are keeping him accessible, he is unbothered about the nagging....from neither of you. Let her have him, its obvious he is not a respectable man, husband, nor father to do what he has do…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/9/2026
Which haircut is the best?

My advice (learnings from more than 4 decades on this planet) - Stick with 3. Don’t listen to the cucks above. Looking more masculine makes it easier to get pussy. Looking like a low testosterone soy…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment4/9/2026
Asian YouTubers keep doing that accent for no reason

It is convenient for you to ignore that Uncle Roger is massive in Asia. People in Malaysia, Singapore, and across the East do not see him as a caricature for white people because they are not viewing …

r/AsianAmericancomment4/9/2026
How to people who were broken up with accept that the relationship is over?

Well, I consider coming to terms with the fact that it’s over and coming to terms with the fact that they’re gone different. To accept that it’s over? You do everything you can to fix things in the …

r/BreakUpscomment4/11/2026