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Nope, not even a fraction. I honestly could never lower myself to be with a cheater. We split and I didn't take her back. She is still stalking my wife online after 17 years. When I read "remarried"…

I am amazed that anyone would ever get married again after divorce - help me understand! — I am in the process of legally separating (which in California is essentially the same as a divorce) from a man who I was with from the age of 20-31. We have a toddler and I separated from him while p…

40M My uncle has divorced and remarried, still constantly fighting with his wife. And so much financial troubles.

I Stayed For WAY Too Long — I just found this sub (after watching the Ben Affleck movie *Deep Water*, which was super triggering), so I thought I'd tell you my story. Maybe someone here can relate. My ex-wife struggled with a …

Ex husband remarried — \*Update to my previous postings on this sub.\* My ex husband got married this morning. We just divorced in October 2025. I feel like he is crazy. I don’t know how I feel about this. I am glad he has…

They'll make me insane. First they create problems for me & then paint me as an attacker — Idk how to defend myself anymore from my parents and grandma. I have to cope with their ugly behavior until I get away from this house but my university is really near my living place so I don't have …

My (27M) gf (23F) of two months wants to start hanging out at her parents house more and I’m feeling overwhelmed — Im really independent and have been living on my own for about 7 years now and don’t have the greatest relationship with my family. My family dynamics are way different from hers. Mine are more distan…

My ex is getting remarried tomorrow — My ex is getting remarried tomorrow. Today he sent me a text “I’ll never understand your choices” and “I would have always fought for my family”. He says this because I’m the one who initiated the d…

Emotional incest ruined my social life and made me numb — I’ll try to make this as short as possible. I’m 30 years old and an only child. My dad was verbally abusive to my mom for years and cheated on her multiple times, he finally left her for someone else …

Should I just leave my father and move back to my home country with my mom? — Tl.dr Should I(17f) just leave my dad(40sM) and and move back to my home country with my mom(40sF) (who isn’t in this country btw) bcz things are really messed up. My mom is thinking of getting a divo…

Any advice after my wife left me? — In 2018 I was in an extremely toxic friendship that ended in my friend attempting suicide…later that year, my sister got remarried, and passed away in a car accident with her husband just two weeks af…

I’m dating my stepbrother — So first off I know it’s weird, my parent got divorced when I was 15 and my dad remarried when I was 17, fast I know but there was no infidelity at all on his part (I could write forever about how cra…

I dont know what to do now after breaking up with someone I truly loved for once and she left me — For context, my ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. The main reason was that I was emotionally unavailable, which caused a lot of friction in our communication. The relationship did not end o…

Asking if this was abuse — I am struggling with IDing what was abuse or me overreacting. I stopped talking to my dad since the past came up since my mom passed 7 months ago. I am having issues separating the past and present.…

Do I keep my kid's last name? — I (37F) got divorced from my manipulative cheating ex-husband (37M). After our divorce, I kept the last name because I wanted to keep the same last name as our 2 kids. Last night my boyfriend (38M) of…

How do I (35F) tell my dad (70F) we want to severely limit time with his wife (70F)? — My dad got remarried a few years ago to a woman who is, without a doubt, the most mind boggling and frustrating personality I've ever dealt with. While she has welcomed us into their home and cooks fo…

Just found out ex wife remarried — I knew it was going to happen. She’s honestly one of the best people I’ve ever known. One of my best friends texted me that he saw her IG post. I told my family they didn’t have to figure out who to t…

I’m 30F, married to my husband (30M) for under 2 years and i'm unsure if i'm in a good marriage or i'm stuck with something that's not Bad enough to leave. — Hi, I’m 30F, married to my husband (30M) for under 2 years, but we’ve been together for over 7 years. I’ve been sitting with this feeling for a while now, and I genuinely don’t know if I’m overthinkin…

My (30F) ex husband (34M) is obsessed with me. How do I handle this with minimal damage? — This is an.. interesting situation im having. My (30F) ex husband (33M) and i have been divorced for about 6 years. I am remarried, and he, we will call him B, is still dating the woman he cheated on …

My nMom passed away. I handled her final days, funeral, and possessions. — ​ Growing up, I was always told that I looked exactly like my mother. I was her “spitting image.” I sounded like her, had her mannerisms, her laugh—everything. My younger brother also looked …

Reconnected with an old flame and I feel like I'm losing my mind — TL;DR: No names or dates here are real. I (40M) just need to get this out because I can’t keep it bottled up anymore. Just a lengthy rant more than anything. Welcome any advice if you have it. Severa…

When will get remarried? — My (30M) last marriage was from Jun 2022 to Feb 2025. When will I get remarried? How will my future wife be like?

My folks were separated, with no chance of getting back together, for nearly a decade before they got divorced. They finally signed the papers so that my dad could get remarried. So, I think that co…

I would date someone who is living separately with a separation agreement, has hired a lawyer, and if whoever is leaving the home has already moved at least most of their stuff out. They would also ne…

Highly against it. I’m happily remarried now, but when I was out in the dating world, I wanted nothing to do with any men who weren’t actually divorced. Separated is *not* the same thing. Getting …

Something like this happened to me when I was in my late 30s. My ex-wife left me in 2018 after a *very* difficult 12 years of marriage (and two kids), and I spent a year struggling to get over her wh…

As someone who experienced a LOT of what you went through and in your shoes- I can’t tell you what to do but I will tell you what I did and what I learned. You cannot fake intimacy and vulnerability …

Exactly. My dad got divorced for the third time at 65 and had and still has multiple girlfriends, because he's tall, fit, attractive, and comfortable in retirement. All of my parents and friends paren…

No. We're not in contact anymore. She's remarried and has a family now. Honestly, I don't feel bad about it. I'm sure I did at the time. She knew the risks and we wanted to be together. So we ju…

Dude let her go. She’s only 35 she has a chance at happiness. She’ll be in immense pain at the beginning due to the shock but if she would read what you said about her she wouldn’t want you around.…

Definitely the grieving process. Even though I was the one that initiated and did everything with no attorney no nothing, I still have moments and I’ve since remarried. You’ll always reflect back on w…

Ok no one should be jealous of a great relationship between a mom and child. Run if you see that. My kids didn’t want a blended family after my divorce. I had many men tell me I would be alone forever…

You are not alone in a situation like this. I have a relative who did this exact thing to her ex. When she got her degree after he supported her for years she left him. It was chaos for a while but I…

I had a horrific divorce and previous marriage. I remarried because I love my new husband, it gives me security, it gives my children stability, and I enjoyed being married just not the man I was mar…

I’ve been remarried for about 20 years and one of the reasons is it does a nice job of smoothing financial differences between two people. I mean, once you’ve been thru a divorce, you know the rule…

Divorced. Married for 26 years, together 27. I will never get remarried or live with a man again. The peace. Invaluable.

My ex husband remarried his ex wife (wife 1) last year. This is like their third time rekindling since we been divorced lol. From the looks of it, it is going exactly how we all thought it would. Marr…

i have often been shamed by people and eben emotionally abused by my extended and some primary "family" for being on SSDI for 7 years now. actually just had a huge blowup about it last week where my s…

I too went through a messy divorce after 11 years together. Was cheated on and was blamed for everything. I tried fixing the relationship over and over and was so one sided. I tried to save my marriag…

Listen ... really ask yourself: Would the person I DREAM of marrying some day ever ask me to give away the birds I love? OF COURSE NOT! 28 is young. A better person is out there and worth waiting …

I didn’t realize how fast he would be able to move on. From the day I moved out to the day he got remarried was whiplash.

I’m sorry you are experiencing this. And I can totally relate. I am brilliantly intelligent and highly intuitive (INFJ- like so many of us are). I am 56 and feel like my entire life has been a waste.…

After being married for over 31 years, and the last five of the marriage being very volatile due to drug addiction,impulsivity, verbal abuse, ex threatening divorce monthly, my marriage finally ended.…

No, I’m older and it was really really bad 20 years ago. All my aunts and my mom (remarried) are married to white dudes. Fast forward my younger female cousins are actually open to and dating Asian gu…

My ex wife was like this without the traveling part. I held out hope for nearly 22 years when I finally said I’ve had enough and left her. I’ve been remarried for almost 2 years now and couldn’t be ha…

I started dating in my early 40s as a single father that was out of shape. I got tons of matches, mostly women in their 30s that wanted kids. After I added "I have two kids, and I'm fine if you have…

I've been remarried for about 20 years and my ex-wife was pretty frantic when I met my second wife. I'd really recommend not jumping at shadows about what she says she will do. React to what she act…

So....you are amazing. Your wife could literally die or become disabled or a 100 other things. I do not thing it has been common in the past and I expect it to be more common in the future. Your p…

3 years when you still loved them is hard... Not sure I could move on either. Eventually you will probably be ready.... My grandfather remarried like 10 years back... So like he was 84 yrs.. You nev…

I'm actually happily remarried, ma'am. And no, your impression of me is incorrect. I am here support men and letting them know that sometimes, it is their WIFE that is the problem. I've never onc…

I’m an Asian woman (used to live in an enclave before I moved to a white area), and when I first came across discussions of this topic years ago, my reaction was very similar to yours. Especially sinc…

Hey I stumbled upon your reply, I'm in the same situation as OP. We broke up about 6 days ago now. She still loves me, she acknowledged me changing as we were in the breakup and she chose to leave bec…

My last single cousin of my generation got married 5 years ago, I’m still so unmarried… and the other cousins have divorced and remarried in the meantime lol

People do crazy shit to feel loved. I knew a woman who was SAed as a child. She had a couple kids, go remarried, had a couple more. Daughter from first marriage told her that step dad was SAing her. M…

I got engaged and remarried pretty fast. My wife and I have been married about 20 years now. It’s possible your ex is just an evil human being? But you didn’t say anything that suggested that. S…

My exwife separated, divorced, and remarried within the same calendar year.

I filed divorce, he refused to sign the response for months just to hold it over my head. Then, he got one pregnant, didn't want it to look bad in court so he hurried & signed the response so we could…

I broke us up many times in our 10year relationship, we even married and divorced and got remarried. I ignored the red flags so many times because I thought I loved her and we were meant to be togethe…

Not a commitment issue on my part we had the wedding booked for this year but had an issue occur which meant we needed to buy a house. I signed a 35 year commitment with her when we bought the propert…

Yep. My ex and had ours finalized in January and she is already remarried. Way I see it is I do me and she does her.

Some people need to be partnered at all times and move very quickly. My ex husband remarried two days after the divorce was entered into the record. There was already a baby on the way. I kept remind…

We were married for 25 years. Our divorce was final in August 2016 and he was remarried by July 2017. Hey, the albatross is around her neck now. Have fun and enjoy your freedom.

My ex husband remarried about 2 weeks after our divorce was final. He didn't even invite our kids

Oh yes. He remarried a few years back. She’s old enough to be his mom. But she was parent approved, so who cares, right? (Sarcasm at the peak)

It’s been 9 years. Been remarried for 6. My world was shook and my self confidence very low and felt thrown out with the trash. I’m Very very good now. The ex married her AP and got divorced last ye…

My ex told me and our adult kids that he remarried by text message. He's a coward like your ex! Our kids hadn't even met the woman.

My ex blindsided me by asking for divorce. We were in one of the few cases where he was not cheating on me. We were college sweethearts so I assumed we’d be together forever. No kids thank god bc I kn…

2years out.  Ex husbands lawyer is suing me for attorney fees. Ex husband has remarried and living in our house with her. Their official wedding ceremony is in June. I checked out their registry. All…

I ended up in a situation like this, as the new wife.  My husband had full custody, the ex wife had been remarried for years, had stepkids of her own, lived 30 minutes away and had every other weekend…

This happened to me. My ex husband and I got divorced March of 2025 and this past January he was remarried. We were married 16 years and he’s remarried not even 10 whole months after the divorce. It …

Same. Voldemort was a controlling, manipulative gaslighter who barely hid a smirk when I got more and more frustrated, eventually begging her to just please leave my stuff alone. She never did. Oh, an…