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Could having pisces rising "erase" my capricorn sun?

Astrology is a very ancient wisdom and because of that very plural in interpretive methods. One commonly overlooked historical aspect of it is the fact that only recently people started to worry abou…

r/AskAstrologerscomment3/12/2026
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs

Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …

r/Wordpresspost5/13/2024
Addressing Community Concerns: No Porn/Masturbation Addiction Posts and Self-Hate Posts + Revamped Subreddit Rules

Addressing Community Concerns: No Porn/Masturbation Addiction Posts and Self-Hate Posts + Revamped Subreddit Rules — Hello everyone. Over the past few months, I have noticed a significant number of you expressing dissatisfaction with the increasing frequency of posts related to NSFW/porn/masturbation addiction and …

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost12/9/2024
Power of The Subconscious

Power of The Subconscious — Hello, I'd like to start this off by saying I've been a part of various subreddits that go around the topic of manifestation. The one sense of direction I've gotten was from this sub, which was to ac…

r/JosephMurphypost1/8/2025
How to heal avoidant attachment?

How to heal avoidant attachment? — Uhhhh hey gang. Formerly severe fearful avoidant here. The attachment quizzes put everyone somewhere on a quadrant, with the bottom being high avoidance and the right high anxiety. So I was farrrr in …

r/attachment_theorypost3/21/2025
How Can I Manifest Someone I Don’t Even Know?

How Can I Manifest Someone I Don’t Even Know? — Hey everyone, I need some advice. I recently saw a really handsome guy at my university fest, but he was an outsider. We didn’t talk, didn’t exchange contacts, and I have no idea where he came from o…

r/JosephMurphypost4/8/2025
Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago.

Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago. — I was reflecting and journaling on my past relationships, and taking full responsibility for past mistakes. I'm an FA so there were times when I thought I needed external validation to feel whole, and…

r/attachment_theorypost4/17/2025
Immersive Architects website concept

Immersive Architects website concept — Check out this Architects concept site that brings their latest album to life in a different way. The design plays with the album artwork through cool hover interactions and showcases upcoming tour …

r/web_designpost4/22/2025
my mind knows I’m trying to “trick” it

my mind knows I’m trying to “trick” it — i was reading the power of your subconscious mind by dr. joseph murphy and found it super interesting. it talks a lot about how feeding certain thoughts to your subconscious can shape your reality, ki…

r/JosephMurphypost4/23/2025
SQL Commands | DDL, DQL, DML, DCL and TCL Commands - JV Codes 2025

SQL Commands | DDL, DQL, DML, DCL and TCL Commands - JV Codes 2025 — Mastery of [SQL commands](https://jvcodes.com/sql-ddl-dql-dml-dcl-tcl-commands/) is essential for someone who deals with SQL databases. [SQL](https://jvcodes.com/what-is-sql/) provides an easy system …

r/web_designpost4/28/2025
Sharing my learnings as a mid-seniority job seeker

Sharing my learnings as a mid-seniority job seeker — I started job-hunting in April. After two weeks of sending applications and receiving zero feedback (only ghosting), I scheduled a few calls with my mentor. Based in Eastern Europe and looking for a f…

r/UXDesignpost4/30/2025
Announcement Regarding Community Safety

Announcement Regarding Community Safety — Dear SEO Members, We are reaching out to address a serious issue that affects the safety and well-being of our moderation team and our community as a whole. It has come to our attention that the CEO …

r/SEOpost4/30/2025
The Ability to Scale Predictably Is a Superpower (Here’s Why DTC Brands Can’t Skip Performance Marketing)

The Ability to Scale Predictably Is a Superpower (Here’s Why DTC Brands Can’t Skip Performance Marketing) — The ability to **scale predictably** is a superpower—especially for DTC brands. If you’ve worked with or inside a DTC company, you know the drill: * You launch, get some organic traction, and then… …

r/digital_marketingpost5/1/2025
Am I Overcomplicating This Workshop? (Personas or Empathy first?

Am I Overcomplicating This Workshop? (Personas or Empathy first? — Hey everyone! I need some advice on structuring a workshop for a client’s new product. They’re unclear on the direction (app/web/game?), target audience, or features, so I suggested a workshop to alig…

r/UXDesignpost5/1/2025
Identifying website visitors (companies) tool recommendations for a trade publication

Identifying website visitors (companies) tool recommendations for a trade publication — Hi guys! I have some potential freelance business for a trade publication in the design space (architecture, interiors, landscape, urban planning topics) and I was originally trying to pitch SEO, re…

r/digital_marketingpost5/2/2025
How to get the code for the interactions I created on Figma?

How to get the code for the interactions I created on Figma? — So say I create a hover effect of a button going from a small button with just the icon to make it expand and include the text on the button as well. Once I have create an interaction like this, do we…

r/UXDesignpost5/2/2025
Business scaling up - what cloud provider should we use?

Business scaling up - what cloud provider should we use? — Our business is scaling rapidly — we’re currently handling millions of unique requests per week, and this number continues to grow. At the moment, we’re hosted on DigitalOcean, paying approximately €4…

r/DevOpspost5/2/2025
What's new in AI for marketing: YouTube is testing AI reviews, will it reduce clicks? Google discusses search ranking volatility, beyond

What's new in AI for marketing: YouTube is testing AI reviews, will it reduce clicks? Google discusses search ranking volatility, beyond — Sometimes it’s so hard to keep up with all the AI news. It seems like it's taking over every platform and us as well. But the most important thing is staying updated on everything important. So let’s …

r/digital_marketingpost5/2/2025
10 startup lessons I’d tattoo on every founder’s arm (in comic sans) - i will not promote

10 startup lessons I’d tattoo on every founder’s arm (in comic sans) - i will not promote — 10 startup lessons I’d tattoo on every founder’s arm (in comic sans) 1. no one cares about your idea. not even your mom. show traction. 1. 2. build fast. talk to users faster. and by “talk,” I mean…

r/startupspost5/2/2025
How to Wreck Your Career: a cautionary tale from someone who has 5 years of experience..

How to Wreck Your Career: a cautionary tale from someone who has 5 years of experience.. — Context:- I am a 31 year old UX designer with a masters degree in industrial design from one of the top design schools here in India. I have almost 6 years of experience on the paper of which I hav…

r/UXDesignpost5/3/2025
Dreaming of Full Time Freelance Consulting in SaaS B2B (I will not promote)

Dreaming of Full Time Freelance Consulting in SaaS B2B (I will not promote) — Hi r/startups, I’m in the process of developing a consulting service designed specifically for startups, from Pre-Seed all the way to Series B. The idea is to offer a practical, hands-on partner for …

r/startupspost5/3/2025
Don't get distracted by lack of experience (I will not promote)

Don't get distracted by lack of experience (I will not promote) — You know the biggest myth people buy into? That you need experience to succeed. It’s a trap - a story we tell ourselves to stay comfortable. Don’t get me wrong, experience is nice, but it’s not the…

r/startupspost5/3/2025
New to SEO and Trying to save my local business

New to SEO and Trying to save my local business — Hi Everyone! I run a local companion care service for seniors and I’m staring down what feels like an impossible mountain with SEO. I’ve watched countless YouTube tutorials, learned a bit about on-si…

r/SEOpost5/3/2025
Why did it take OpenAI 24 hours to roll back a faulty model?

Why did it take OpenAI 24 hours to roll back a faulty model? — Hi everyone, I read through [an article by OpenAI](https://openai.com/index/expanding-on-sycophancy/) and stumbled upon the following segment: >With the recent GPT‑4o update, we started the rollout …

r/DevOpspost5/4/2025
Canary like deployments for Custom Resources?

Canary like deployments for Custom Resources? — Why is there no Canary-like deployment orchestrator for Custom Resources with quality gateway analysis? AFAIK, Flagger, Keptn ( have some maintenance problems ), Argo Rollouts, these are tightly boun…

r/DevOpspost5/4/2025
To all the scrum masters/PMs: Would you use an AI that joins meetings, takes notes, and assigns tasks to the right teammate automatically? I will not promote

To all the scrum masters/PMs: Would you use an AI that joins meetings, takes notes, and assigns tasks to the right teammate automatically? I will not promote — Hi! I’ve been thinking about a recurring pain I see in most teams — meetings generate lots of discussion and action items, but someone still has to take notes, track tasks, and figure out who shoul…

r/startupspost5/4/2025
Different Businesses Need Different Content Formats – Here's Why (i will not promote)

Different Businesses Need Different Content Formats – Here's Why (i will not promote) — Hey everyone! One thing I see often overlooked is the fact that **not all businesses need the same type of content formats**. Depending on your target audience and the type of business you run, the …

r/startupspost5/4/2025
Personalized marketing: Questions about segmented waitlists for eCommerce (based on McKinsey Article)

Personalized marketing: Questions about segmented waitlists for eCommerce (based on McKinsey Article) — I've been building on Shopify and came across this interesting McKinsey research about personalization that got me thinking about how store owners manage their waitlists in their stores. **Some key i…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
Personalized marketing: Questions about segmented waitlists for eCommerce (based on McKinsey Article)

Personalized marketing: Questions about segmented waitlists for eCommerce (based on McKinsey Article) — I've been building on Shopify and came across this interesting McKinsey research about personalization that got me thinking about how store owners manage their waitlists in their stores. **Some key i…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote)

Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote) — Hey everyone, I’m in the process of building an exciting startup focused on **fantasy football** and I’m looking for a **technical co-founder** to join me and help bring this idea to life. The core i…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
Google Ads Class Action Lawsuit Legit?

Google Ads Class Action Lawsuit Legit? — Received an email this morning notifying me I'm eligible for a settlement. Can anyone confirm of the below website is legitimate? https://www.adwordsclicksclassaction.com/ *fully aware it will like…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
How do you handle tracking updates + international shipping transparency in Shopify?

How do you handle tracking updates + international shipping transparency in Shopify? — One challenge we’ve been facing is managing customer expectations when it comes to international shipping, especially when multiple carriers are involved (like packages moving from 4PX → USPS, or YunE…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
Marketing for startups (I will not promote)

Marketing for startups (I will not promote) — (I will not promote) Proven strategies to take a startup from zero to scale ($10M+ ARR). As a 3X startup CMO, I have experienced tremendous success and a ton of failure.  I have been involved in th…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
My experience winning a chargeback

My experience winning a chargeback — Sharing my experience winning a chargeback recently. We specialize in gaming collectibles, and our store has been running online for 3ish years. We have had 2 chargebacks in that timeframe, and won bo…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025

E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025

This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
How do you persist data across pipeline runs?

How do you persist data across pipeline runs? — I need to save key-value output from one run and read/update it in future runs in an automatic fashion. To be clear, I am **not** looking to pass data between jobs within a single pipeline. Best solu…

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
Shopify Support is the absolute WORST

Shopify Support is the absolute WORST — I have had issues with payouts- as in first they disable my payouts for verifaction then I get an email saying everything is okay and then within hours without no communication or email, I´ve checked …

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
Very high traffic website on Shopify

Very high traffic website on Shopify — We have a high traffic website on woocommerce (<100 TB bandwidth, around 2M pageviews per month, 12K orders). We use a few dedicated servers currently - one for php, three for DB and 1 for Redis cach…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
Like a mentorship, but more low key

Like a mentorship, but more low key — Coffee Drips, Strategy Sips is a product that delivers daily steps of action to keep you and your digital business growing! ON SALE for $17 until tonight, back to $27 tomorrow. Private Telegram chat w…

r/digital_marketingpost5/5/2025
I made $32 after 16 months of coding. Was it all a waste of time?

I made $32 after 16 months of coding. Was it all a waste of time? — Over the last 16 months, I’ve done something that sounds cooler than it really is: I built a SaaS. In my free time, at night, on weekends, while everyone else was at the beach or watching Netflix, I …

r/Entrepreneurpost5/5/2025
Warning: Aggressive Tactics from Paperstack – A Cautionary Tale for Store owners seeking funding

Warning: Aggressive Tactics from Paperstack – A Cautionary Tale for Store owners seeking funding — Hey fellow builders, I want to share our recent experience with [Paperstack](https://paperstack.ai/), an e-commerce financing provider, to caution others who might be considering their services. We …

r/ecommercepost5/6/2025
Finding tool recommendation for video personalization for my emails.

Finding tool recommendation for video personalization for my emails. — I am running a small startup, I have 6 clients that I got for my cold email outreach. I'm starting to feel less traction to my email campaigns and I am experimenting towards adding a touch of personal…

r/digital_marketingpost5/6/2025
iThomas.dk - New site don't get traction?

iThomas.dk - New site don't get traction? — I launched my site on March 1st, but I’m still struggling to gain traction and would really appreciate a second pair of eyes. A quick check using site:ithomas.dk shows that most of my pages are index…

r/SEOpost5/6/2025
I feel like I can build anything! I will not promote

I feel like I can build anything! I will not promote — I’ve been “vibe coding” since January 2024, at first it was just copy and paste between ChatGPT/claude and VS Code.  I started making web apps, then mobile apps, etc. Struggling I must say but eventu…

r/startupspost5/6/2025
Seeking a low-maintenance frontend/CMS stack for modernizing 10+ year old sites

Seeking a low-maintenance frontend/CMS stack for modernizing 10+ year old sites — Hi all, I’m looking for advice on a conservative, low-maintenance frontend and CMS stack for modernizing a couple of old but still functional client sites. **Background:** I’ve got two long-lived s…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Organic growth and discovery tools - i will not promote

Organic growth and discovery tools - i will not promote — Hey community, I'm a founder of a few products (not posting links as i will not promote). My time for early traction goes in navigating reddit, twitter, articles, etc trying to get organic traction. …

r/startupspost5/6/2025
Best low-effort analytics tools for Shopify optimization? I'm drowning in data...

Best low-effort analytics tools for Shopify optimization? I'm drowning in data... — I'm struggling to make sense of all the analytics data from my store. The native Shopify reports give me tons of information, but I'm finding it difficult to determine what metrics I should actually f…

r/Shopifypost5/6/2025
Anyone here navigating entrepreneurship with ADHD? How do you manage focus, procrastination, and distractions?

Anyone here navigating entrepreneurship with ADHD? How do you manage focus, procrastination, and distractions? — Hey everyone, I wanted to reach out to the community to see how many of you might relate. I've been wondering lately if I might have ADHD — I haven’t been officially diagnosed, but I know a lot of pe…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/6/2025
ID this Wordpress Theme?

ID this Wordpress Theme? — I'm a very beginner Wordpress user who can implement some themes, but I want to build out my website to have much of the same functionality found at [https://coucoufrenchclasses.com/](https://coucoufr…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
Fed up with scattered UK property data, I built an AI tool that combines everything into one smart search

Fed up with scattered UK property data, I built an AI tool that combines everything into one smart search — **What It Does** This is an internal tool I’ve been building to help with UK property prospecting, market research, and deal due diligence. If you've ever tried to buy or invest in property in the U…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/6/2025
If you are new here..

It took me 2 days of thinking on this post to finally internally understand The Law of Belief vs acting as if. A person can get caught up in trying to take surface actions of acting as if, but still u…

r/JosephMurphycomment4/13/2020
If you are new here..

Joseph Alai's grandmother was here. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/JosephMurphy) if you have any q…

r/JosephMurphycomment6/6/2020
FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals

Knowing that there's a physical reason for the confusion and lack of awareness makes it easier to accept. One feels like an outsider; the people around you seem to know how to be with each other. An…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment6/26/2020
FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals

Glad it helped you in some way. I’ve felt like a whiny little wimp for getting PTSD from something that I saw as not a true threat to life. Babies and children absolutely register lack of affection…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment8/22/2020
If you are new here..

Not to contradict, but the law of gravity is attraction-based by its very essence.

r/JosephMurphycomment9/8/2020
If you are new here..

More pseudoscience from you (the first being that gravity is attractive- gravity is a warp in the space time continuum as it responds to mass, and only appears to be attractive to the uneducated). No…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/8/2020
If you are new here..

>Correction: Neville taught to “feel as if”. There were many New Thought authors that taught their students to “act as if”, but Neville primarily taught how to impress your subconscious mind using sle…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

I also can get back into the dream after I wake up, but I can't control the dream. I somehow can control myself (actions, decisions), but that's all.

r/LucidDreamingcomment2/15/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

##This Is The Way Leaderboard **1.** `u/Mando_Bot` **500725** times. **2.** `u/Flat-Yogurtcloset293` **475777** times. **3.** `u/GMEshares` **70937** times. .. **411598.** `u/Benjadoo36` **1** …

r/ExNoContactcomment4/1/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

I have full awareness that I'm dreaming but I still can't control stuff well and I find it hard to fly for instance. Also when I bully people in my dreams after realizing there's no concequence their …

r/LucidDreamingcomment4/16/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

##This Is The Way Leaderboard **1.** `u/Mando_Bot` **501219** times. **2.** `u/Flat-Yogurtcloset293` **475777** times. **3.** `u/GMEshares` **70943** times. .. **467156.** `u/kam1goroshi` **1**…

r/ExNoContactcomment6/6/2022
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I've asked two different entities, and they gave me partly conflicting answers. The self-proclaimed deity said most humans and all animals go to an enormous astral...warehouse waiting room thingy. Th…

r/AstralProjectioncomment8/24/2022
If you are new here..

I’ve read few posts that are as “loser”-ish as this one. I’ve yet to study either in depth, but for anyone to not only BELIEVE that they are better than a very large group of people (all of whom are v…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/12/2022
About, Wiki, Rules, Books, Etc-- Read First

**!!!!! READ ME !!!!!** The purpose of this community is to explore human energy in all of its facets while stripping away the esoteric language, rituals and distractions that have accumulated over …

r/energy_workcomment3/3/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Same. I hung in there , at first thinking no matter what she does. Im more wise , I see her flaws, i will help her change. Me the man she “use” to say i was. She=“never give up on me”. Me-“never”. 4 w…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/19/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Easier said than done. I have no motivation to do anything. She was a big motivation for me in life. I’m going on 13 days NC now, and I have a very very strong urge to reach out. She reached out 3 tim…

r/ExNoContactcomment4/24/2023
How should this sub respond to reddit's api changes, part 2

Long term actions are important when you're doing something in protest. I really like the idea of once a week closures, which for Reddit means a permanent loss of revenue until they satisfy concerns.

r/DevOpscomment6/30/2023
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way and going through this. It sucks she wouldn’t give therapy a chance. You can’t control others actions and feelings. I hope you can find meaning and joy in your kids …

r/Divorcecomment7/10/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Much better at dealing with my emotions. I think of her every hour and it's been 11 months. My birthday was 2 days back and she didn't wish me. Sucks how easily replaceable/forgettable iam ,did I not…

r/ExNoContactcomment7/18/2023
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

Fortunately I've taken my separation (and inevitable divorce) as an opportunity to quit drinking and make healthy lifestyle choices. I've been working really hard to practice mindfulness and radical …

r/Divorcecomment7/22/2023
'Getting into DevOps'

DevOps evolves around 3 key principles: 1. Automation 2. Monitoring 3. Integration The rules are simple: # Automation Don't ever do anything by hand. The only allowable manual action is configurin…

r/DevOpscomment7/23/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

None of it *should* stop you from moving forward and healing, but for some people it still nevertheless does. I'm sorry, I know you said this more than half a year ago but I'm going through my situati…

r/ExNoContactcomment10/25/2023
FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals

>The baby immediately notices and first tries to laugh or shriek or point, or do anything that has illicited a reaction from its mom in the past. The mom does not react. The baby quickly escalates to …

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment10/26/2023
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

Omg I relate SO much to what you are saying. When my ex's affair was discovered he was remarkably cruel to me. He wasn't sure he wanted to continue in our marriage and refused to cut things off with h…

r/Divorcecomment12/15/2023
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means)

This is a neat way to look at it! And yeah, for cases that are more nuanced, when I give advice on here, I make it a point to try and see what might be going on from the other side, then suggest cours…

r/relationship_advicecomment7/7/2024
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means)

There is no hard yes and hard no. You can't trust strangers on the internet for good advice or conversely to be wrong. If you're reading comments or posts and wondering if a person is also here and wr…

r/relationship_advicecomment7/20/2024
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means)

The longer I hang out here, the more astounded I am how easy it is for people to throw around 'break up/divorce/dump him/her'. Almost as if they found some wicked satisfaction in pushing real people i…

r/relationship_advicecomment10/10/2024
To the former LOAPorn folks here

"Most of the time I feel like I'm going to die alone, like I'm not enough and oher bullshit." I suggest you take conventional action and see a therapist to sort out your self-esteem issues in the fi…

r/JosephMurphycomment11/7/2024
Hello, I have just recently started with Joseph Murphy books, I have a question.

This is very disingenuous of you. Of course this sub’s for interaction—but only quality ones. You know, the ones where people actually think. Take your half-baked assumptions to the ng sub.

r/JosephMurphycomment11/18/2024
Addressing Community Concerns: No Porn/Masturbation Addiction Posts and Self-Hate Posts + Revamped Subreddit Rules

Hi, sorry for the long response but please bear with me. TLDR at the bottom. You are slightly correct, but drug addiction posts will also more than likely be removed. 1- There is actually another…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment12/9/2024
Addressing Community Concerns: No Porn/Masturbation Addiction Posts and Self-Hate Posts + Revamped Subreddit Rules

I did not make these changes because of one member’s complains or disapproval. I made these changes over months of observation and after countless posts from members on the sub calling for mods to tak…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment12/9/2024
Addressing Community Concerns: No Porn/Masturbation Addiction Posts and Self-Hate Posts + Revamped Subreddit Rules

I did notice there are occasional “I am an abuser/racist/sexist” posts nowadays, although more time will be needed to observe and decide whether a rule about that will be necessary because as of now, …

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment12/9/2024
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

You have to take conventional action toward your goals. 

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

I agree that in most cases you have to take some conventional action, as you just will by the state, but also as I've seen myself.. You can choose not to. I can just sit at home doing absolute nothing…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

Exactly, for example for someone who wants a partner, the more you program, the more you will feel it real for yourself, your confidence will jump. And if you are a dude seeing a hot girl staring at y…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2025
My arguments against manifestation

I had a quick glance at this on my break and will chip in more later, just by point 1 alone I see you haven’t grasped it, feeling is the secret indeed. But the feeling isn’t emotions. 2 That knowing…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

Yes! Agree. It's just like affirmations are just as effective, but they rarely give me "that" feeling. It took alot of time get in my head that emotions was a reaction to a present true thought. And…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

1. Mental thoughts don’t become physical reality. Beliefs do. Repetitive mental thoughts turn into beliefs. 2. People in your world reflect your beliefs. Perhaps upon meeting someone you had an origi…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

I’ve tried it and it hasn’t worked. The only successful “manifestations” I’ve had required me to work hard until the very end which leads me to believe I was just setting goals and taking action like …

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

You put yourself in the mindset to take inspired action and you achieved your goals. Sounds like manifestation to me. This sub encourages action.  As for SP...I might get banned for saying this b…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

And you could have set goals, taken action and had every obstacle thrown your way to stop you even then. This has happened to many people, myself included. Covid is a great example of that unwelcome i…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

Tbh you’re allowed to have your viewpoints but this is attention seeking behavior judging by your posts meant to get a reaction out of the people here. Also, why go on a Murphy sub for this? You alrea…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
A reminder to think about what you’re posting.

Don't even get me started on how dysfunctional people are with relationship skills these days. Absolutely based on lust, transactions and selfishness. Most younger people have ZERO clue how to love. T…

r/ExNoContactcomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

\>Tbh you’re allowed to have your viewpoints but this is attention seeking behavior judging by your posts meant to get a reaction out of the people here. Also, why go on a Murphy sub for this? I invi…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/27/2025
My arguments against manifestation

Okay logic and science- so your RAS reticular activating system is basically the minds way of filtering and processing the insurmountable data that it takes in from the environment 24/7 as well as pro…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/27/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

Thank you. I will ask the op to insert these links into her other post. They are a good addenda and are a beneficial part of the record. We may make her post a part of our index as well. It is a very…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/29/2025
My arguments against manifestation

Then why does MC recommend NC during SP missions? Because, many times, that is the appropriate conventional action, at that moment. Either because they are increasingly fearful of you, or unfairly ho…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/31/2025
My arguments against manifestation

I have many, many personal anecdotes that prove our beliefs create reality. Some goals/desires achieved are beyond the realm of mere coincidence and far exceed a free cup of coffee. My response to th…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/2/2025
Post-quality time cool down? Is this a pattern for DAs?

Based on my experience dating a DA, yes this is all “normal” for them. He made it clear we were only to see each other once every two weeks. He didn’t “have capacity” for more than that. The week afte…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/18/2025
Post-quality time cool down? Is this a pattern for DAs?

I'm FA and I identify with this. I value my alone time, and generally speaking, consider myself an introvert. A recharge period is definitely necessary, not just after a social interaction but at the …

r/attachment_theorycomment3/18/2025