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Astrology is a very ancient wisdom and because of that very plural in interpretive methods. One commonly overlooked historical aspect of it is the fact that only recently people started to worry abou…

Can we talk about how bad the current Shopify Admin UI is? — How has this continued to be a thing, and how did this get approved internally? The Shopify Admin UI is a complete mess. It's genuinely hard to believe this shipped — and worse, that it's still the c…

E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…

This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…

My father is sabotaging my career and medical treatments through "smear campaigns" and monitoring. I feel like I'm living in a Truman Show nightmare. — ​I (25F) am an Indian doctor currently preparing for NEET PG, and I am living with a family led by a malignant narcissistic father. My mother and brother are complete enablers. I’m writing this becaus…

A friend fell for me, even though he knew I'm happily married. After trying to distance himself for a while, he's now back but acting hostile towards me. I don't know what I've done to deserve his anger, nor how to fix the situation. Any thoughts or advices? — Me (31F) and my husband (32M) have a friend group we often hang out with. We used to be pretty close with this one friend there (30M), who would hang out with us often even outside the group. He came …

Alex Collier - Andromeda E.T. Contactee | 1996 Interview with Rick Keefe | Describes Aliens that Are Here (info in body of post) — Andromedan contactee Alex Collier has had his face-to-face contacts with blue-skinned human ETs from the Andromeda constellation and the Andromeda galaxy, which have included multiple visits aboard …

Chronic Stress Turned Into Depersonalization, I’m Scared — Hey all, needing some advice or just to know I’m not alone. I’ve struggled with anxiety my whole life, and had a lot of success with nervous system regulation techniques like somatic exercises and DNR…

About to be laid off, again - will this ever end? — For past 7-8 years, I have been on the run. I am always forced to leave my jobs - policy changes, layoffs, hostile behaviour etc etc. l am good at what I do, but it’s obviously not enough. Job changes…

My second OBE was just... Magical!! — I got up in the middle of the night and went back to sleep. I tried to fall back into sleep but instead I shuffled, twisted and turned about. I was awake, with my eyes closed trying to sleep. So to ma…

My Orb experience as a kid and what it did to me — Hello everyone, ive been lurking here for a while and i thought id finally share my first and only ever orb experience. i remember this day very vividly and i have pretty much 0 recollection of any m…

Help! Feeling dread and doomed after sessions. — I’ve been using gateway tapes for over 5 years, not every day but I will say over 70 sessions or so. Over 2 years ago, I started to have OBE and I fought them (because I was worried about astral proje…

The nature of dreams & the abilities therein — **Note\*** The following is not an experience, I repeat it is not an experience nor a collection of experience. Instead it is best to think of it as background information that pertains to some of my …

34 M, marraige collapse, business collapse & false cases..Will this improve? — I got married in Dec 2024 after months of red flags that I ignored. Even before marriage, her behavior felt distant and inconsistent, but I trusted the process. Within a month of marriage, things sta…

April 2026 Astrology: Key Dates, Weekly Forecast and Mundane Astrology World Events — April is one of the most active months we’ve seen. Not one planet is in retrograde. Aries fire and cardinal energy sets the stage for initiation, assertion and spontaneous energy. There is a bit of na…

breakthrough trip & the bigger picture — Hello, it's me again. I know that there are people here who enjoy reading my experiences so thus my posting. Obviously a disclaimer is this experience is under the influence of a psychadelic, but it t…

I don’t know how to understand what’s happening in my family (mom vs sister & husband) — This is a long read, but I’d really appreciate any insights or thoughts. I feel pretty alone in all of this. I’m trying to figure out how to even classify what’s going on in my family, because it fee…

Day 2 of NC after I reported him — So I reported my partner to the police on Monday after a tirade of harassment and abuse. I have endured abuse and intimidation for 6 months straight, and I couldn’t take it anymore. Every time I tri…

27 M my first gf left me for another man. — I don’t have my first relationship until I was 24. I met her (let’s call her Ashley) while working fast food after I stopped going to college due to Covid & tuition. She was a typical alternative type…

I feel hurt and don’t know what to do. — \*\*TL;DR;\*\*: Girl is making relationship difficult . Me (22M) and partner (22F) have been dating for 4 months now. When we first met is was very nice and the freshness of it all made it exciting, …

34 M, marriage collapse, career collapse, false cases, ongoing divorce. Will I ever get relief? — I got married in Dec 2024 after months of red flags that I ignored. Even before marriage, her behavior felt distant and inconsistent, but I trusted the process. Within a month of marriage, things sta…

Roommate (50m) purchased a new leather couch for the living room and complains about how I (38f) sit on it. He recently moved the coffee table so I can't use it for drinks anymore. — I've been renting a room from him for the past 3 years. he's a long time family friend. I work hours from 10:00 to 8:00 while he works from 7:30 to 6:00, so generally the dynamic and personal space is…

Was anyone else taught that families shouldn’t have conversations? — I was talking to my therapist about the way my family functioned as a child and she said something really interesting. Basically, she said that I’ve absorbed a lot of their messaging about myself with…

Estranged spouse won’t give my car back — My spouse has a car that is titled in my name only, insured in my name only, loan in my name only. They tricked me into letting them use it and now will not give it back. I’m going to have to file a…

I (25M) broke thing off with my fiancé (24F) last night and she refused to accept it. — So recently I've been struggling with the idea of ending my relationship with my fiancé. Weve had a lot of trouble throughout the relationship, and I've tried my best to hold it together, but I just c…

is anyone willing to read my super long journal entry? i’m feeling so much right now, i wonder if anyone else relates. — TW: strong anger/aggression, depression, suicidal talk, negative self-talk, small mentions of religion. I’m back home again, and I hate it. I’m not sure why I keep doing this to myself. I’m not happy…

I finally told my mom the truth in front of everyone and now she’s acting like i ruined her life — so this happened last weekend at my cousin’s birthday, whole family packed into this tiny apartment, kids running around, people pretending to enjoy dry cake my mom was in one of her moods, you know t…

Please help — I’m going through a separation with my wife and honestly just trying to make sense of what’s happening. We’ve been married less than 4 years. A few weeks ago she told me she was done and asked me to…

I miss him, but — we dated for almost a year. we were perfect for six months, loved, safe, then everything changed towards the seventh month. our relationship went downhill, more dry and hostile. then one day he finall…

Hostile discard reeling advice? — I had a sharp out of no where (and he said he wasn’t considering or planning it but who knows he lies a lot) middle of the night while naked break up…. He just said “we’re breaking up” out of NOWHE…

How do you actually stick to “just the facts” when your ex is being emotional or hostile? — I keep seeing the advice to “stick to logistics” and not take the bait—and I completely agree with it in theory. But I’m finding it a lot harder to actually do in real conversations. When messages c…

In laws led to divorce — I got married a year back. He and his sister had a weird relationship which did not sit well with me and it all started there. Constant fight abuse misunderstanding. His mom was also dual faced and wo…

confused if i [24NB] should break things off with the girl [23F] i'm talking to? — tagged nsfw for mentions of abuse (verbal and physical) long one, just gonna get right into it. i, 24NB (afab), am currently talking to this girl, 23F, who also has/had a fwb. we're both african amer…

no contact to reset..? — my ex and I broke up and it was messy. Very messy. The end of our relationship turned very toxic. We both love each other but also acknowledge the way we were going was both unsustainable and down ri…

Narcs talking behind your back - covert signs? — It took me a very long time to realise that my covert narcissist mother was bad mouthing me behind my back.The signs were there, but not blindingly obvious at the time. My mother's behaviour was mai…

What are most men like when they are upset? I (42F) am considering leaving my husband (46M) over how he acts when upset. — TL;DR: how do upset/angry men really talk to their wives ‘behind closed doors’ and how often are they upset at their wives? Hi all, I’m in a very unhappy marriage. I (42F) my spouse (46M). Married 12…

I dread summer — I searched on this thread for other’s experiences with dreading summer and I was surprised to see a lot of folks resonating with this. Usually when I explain to people that I dread summer I am met wit…

How to be civil with your ex? — Been divorced for over a year, have not seen her since the divorce hearing about 11 months ago… Ex wife calls me up and needs to meet with me to get some joint paperwork she forgot about separated i…

I like when there’s tension in my home — This sound weird, but All my life, I was used to unstable environments. I was used to my mom coming home angry every day. I was used to my parents fighting every day. The only thing that was stable wa…

I’m spiraling after a phone call. — Hi, I could really use some internet hugs right now or something. I’m low contact with my narcissistic mom out of necessity and planning on no contact eventually (I would rather not disclose the detai…

26M 25F - In a healthy relation 4yrs, but then came back to back incidents which haven't kept me in peace — **My fiancée (25F) had a boundary crossing/coercion incident with a coworker.** **The Background:** My fiancée and I have a long-distance relationship and are set to marry in July. We’ve fought incre…

Can i manifest to remove black magic, evil eye etc...? — Hi there. Im not familiar with manifestation and i want to know if i can remove black magic/witchcraft and even evil eyes through manifestation? i have been hexed by my mother in favour of her daughte…

Lived in survival mode for 3 years, lost all sense of identity — For the past 3 years I’ve lived in absolute survival mode. I moved out for college, I live in dorms, I share my bedroom with one person. I have 3-4 more years of college left. My environment is sever…

Is it a good idea to take a 5k loan to move out? (2 months to pay back) — My n-mother has turned impossible to stand three years ago. I realized she's never been treating my right but: 1. I've been her psychologist since I was 14. After starting telling her I had enough of…

Why are narcs always hoarders & why are all of their possessions always broken/in disrepair? — I guess this is a rhetorical question because it's pretty much a reflection of how broken they are as people, how little they care for anything but themselves and their inability to accept a loss of c…

Tysm for posting this compendium and summary. I can feel your sense of kindness and willingness to share with others when so many might gatekeep or be hostile. ❤️

Then why does MC recommend NC during SP missions? Because, many times, that is the appropriate conventional action, at that moment. Either because they are increasingly fearful of you, or unfairly ho…

I question myself, for sure, which only leads me to ignore the initial red flags (love bombing, rushing to intimacy and commitment, neediness, etc.) I tell myself that I am being paranoid, that I am…

Thank you. This research at least is not wedded to what is seems to me to be a very over simplified model. I've just read the abstract and will chew through the rest of it. Then look at what else …

I've been in these scenarios a good few times in a good few ways. And I have some hostile opinions on it as well as some good ones. So scenarios. Indian CTO or VP is hired, and almost immediately, …

No, I’m not suggesting that. Not what I said. Your tone seems defensive and, at times, hostile. This discussion is not productive for me. I wish you well.

Maybe because you came right out the gate with immediately questioning what kind of emotional support capacity I could possibly have *because* I’m FA/DA. I told you that was insulting. It’s telling th…

Working something out thru conversation IS dealing with conflict. That's exactly the healthy way to do it. Not all conflicts are hostile. (but all hostility is a conflict. Just a little deductive reas…

It's a normal way to feel considering the mixed signals. Online dating kind of has a different set of social conduct rules than normal life, which people have to get used to when they rely on the apps…

I'm surprised to hear that you know only one other gay trans man. Is the trans population in London smaller than in other major cities? Is the mainstream queer culture there less open to trans people …

Went to a 30-50's valentines singles event over the weekend. It was pretty miserable if I'm being blunt. Talked to some other men there, but it wasn't really something I'm glad I bit the bullet on do…

Divorces with a lot of shared assets can take YEARS to resolve if the parties are hostile. I think it depends a lot on the situation. I have been with my current partner for several years and she to…

I haven't followed this issue at all but just wanted to add nytimes is a China-skeptic if not hostile (at least the editorial board), wapo was more pro business.

I’m not looking forward to the end of experience. It seems like whatever hostile thing is directed at me wants me to become pure bliss so it can extract it from me. I just want an end to suffering. Th…

No one is forcing you to participate in any discussion or engage with the post, I'm clearly not the most informed and I said as much in the thread, I've been led to believe my response to medical weed…

There's no way I'd deal with his nonsense. I have absolutely 0 pity and would tell him I'm not even interested in friendship at this point. I'd tell my friends I'm not going to hang around someone who…

Yes. having lived in Africa for a good bit, everyone doubts you are american. theres some pros and there are some cons. if you are east asian, a lot of them assume you are chinese, and some have a ten…

Agreed, I need to work on being less hostile. I won't delete because it's evidence of my own personal growth, which might be good for myself to look back on and others to read.

Times have changed. It's cool to embrace your culture and ethnicity now, since the 2010s, it seems. As a 2nd gen, genxer who grew up in a KKK town, even without being authentically Asian I was constan…

That’s a reply worth keeping for sure. We can all learn to be less hostile. Thank you for being candid and open.

surely you just bring it up to him but don't address it in a way you're attacking his chat gpt, if he has labeled it as an important key to his life then any criticism towards may come off as hostile

You're right. Believing that "life is suffering" is probably the most horrible way of living (there may be reasons for thinking that of course), because most of our experiences are based on what we b…

My experience has been very similar to yours. There was a period in my development when I was going into the training with passion. I had a stack of exercises i would do early in the morning and late …

Dude I'm a Filipino living in the Philippines but we still refer to Chinese New Year despite the majority of my country being hostile to China. Stop accepting any reason to normalize de-Sinicization f…

You called his bluff and he's freaking out. He expected you to give in, and when you didn't he's now getting repeatedly hit with the reality that he is losing all his leverage over you. Since it appea…

To be fair, the first thing I'd say is there's nothing wrong with your friendship standards. We live times of such empty value to the word "friend" or "friendship" - something even shown by how social…

I'm a 1.5th Gen East Asian American and a Gen Z, Idk if your definition of boy would fit for teenager? Or just kid under age 12? I came to US around 13 so already a teenager, I went to a middle class…

Last week, I took a chance on matching with a man who looked much older (15+ years) than his profile suggested. Turns out the hair is a fun genetic trait! I’m so happy I did, he has so many qualities …

\*I'm also weary of using words like toxic, they are overused and thrown around flippantly. I suppose I meant people we are forced to spend time around but cause stress and anguish in our lives. At …

This resonates with me. The first councillor simply asked her how she thought one of the things made me feel, aaand we didn’t go back. The second one at session 6 asked her what she actually wanted (c…

I did, back when I was a kid and I didn't have a strong sense of what I'm about. so I internalized what other people said about me instead. I'm in my 30s. Assume everyone who says hostile things abou…

Honestly, if she’s already insisting on divorce so she can be with the affair partner, I would stop fighting it. Go talk to a good attorney immediately and get everything drawn up so you can protect y…

Fucking hell that's grim. Honestly don't think that's the case here she's not exactly sneaking out or hiding her phone, just proper hostile to me. But you've got me thinking now. Might keep my ears op…

Yes I've experienced this however the strong reaction that you had and I had is related to psi and energetic mechanics in play that humans deal with in many NHI interactions. I don't automatically ass…

I've worked with experieners who've had reptilian contact, bad, neutral and good and there is a big contrast between those experiences and the type of stuff the Internet talks about where beings are r…

Completely same here. I did so much emotional and behavioral work. I knew that I wasn’t the main issue but if I wanted any chance of us being healthy I had to do a lot better on my end modulating my e…

Speaking from my own personal experience, but I believe there are multiple factors at play: 1. Awareness has a double edged sword. We are more aware of how common Shitty Life Syndrome is, so we feel …

I am just saying if everyone says manifesting is limitless and we can manifest anything we desire then why limit ourselves to what we see as "more realistic" instead of reaching for the stars? Its fin…

I’m going through a separation right now. My only concern is my future relationship with my 9 years old daughter. My ex declared to end the marriage in a hostile manner. We’ll see. Thank you for shari…

They want to divide and conquer unfortunately.  Most governments in the world right now are not helping their citizens.  So, we take it out on each other.  Neighbours fighting each other and more host…

Worried she'll help them again? OP, it's not an uncertainty, it's an absolute. Your wife's sister is going to drain her dry, probably for the rest of their lives. Unless you wife is willing to set bo…

Same. Mine too. Aggressive, angry, hostile and emotionally violent. Can you explain about the inner monologue part? Gosh the more you share, the more I'm discovering whatever damages I endured, which…

I hope this won't come across too harsh but the reason it's a pattern now is because you didn't say anything, multiple times in a row, and instead did stuff yourself that you resented doing. The resul…

My family was heavily impacted by both generational trauma and our various marginalized identities, but to me, this post is truly not it. I’m not comfortable with any argument that essentially softens…

Yes, emotional stability! I dated this man for 7 months and it was filled with green flags. We had our first major conflict and he totally shut down and got hostile. Wasn't even capable of a conver…

I agree. Coffeeshops in my city are wfh outposts w hostile furniture and I don’t enjoy them with anybody ever. And when I’ve done them anyway, it’s always this vibe of just wanting to make sure I’m no…

Well there's also another element: she's *just that good*. I don't think anyone would care if Eileen Gu was an also-ran; it's the combination of competing for a country that many Americans see as a r…

You need to tell the school that they're forcing you to stay awake. Please tell the school. The school authorities will immediately view your home life as hostile and abusive and see your home life as…

You need to tell the school that they're forcing you to stay awake. Please tell the school. The school authorities will immediately view your home life as hostile and abusive and see your home life as…