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Need to write out what I've been dealing with for 3 months now

Need to write out what I've been dealing with for 3 months now — I cannot believe how much has happened in such a short amount of time. I met this guy back in mid-December and we had both recently gotten out of relationships in which we were both burned. At first…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/31/2026
2.5 million in fraudulent orders

2.5 million in fraudulent orders — I have a huge problem and Shopify has mentioned they cannot help and do not give refunds once processed. They insist there is no support phone number and can only discuss the matter via chat. My orde…

r/Shopifypost5/6/2025
Got hacked and now stuck in the verification process

Got hacked and now stuck in the verification process — So long story I got hacked due to a data breach. Which resulted in my sites password being taken down and about $6000 in fraudulent charges were purchased. I successfully refunded and cancelled those …

r/Shopifypost5/6/2025
How to remove Fraudulent Orders from Shop account?

How to remove Fraudulent Orders from Shop account? — So the question is as above. Back in March, I got fraudulently charged by a 'Elite Chimney LLC' for about $6100+. These were not placed by me or by any one I know, it just showed up one day. I manage…

r/Shopifypost5/6/2025
I want love but can't push past knowing that I would be a burden in all of my relationships

I want love but can't push past knowing that I would be a burden in all of my relationships — Hi, I am a 26F and want to seek some advice from this subreddit because I truly do not know who else I can talk about this with, and writing has always been easier than talking out loud. Sidenote: I …

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost2/14/2026
I don’t know how to talk to my mum!

I don’t know how to talk to my mum! — I want to state first, that I love my mum. To an extent. I see her for the woman she is and the horrible childhood and trauma she had to go through. I see the Woman who was abused by father and strugg…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/10/2026
I (35F) caught my husband (38M) gambling away our savings, my mother thinks I should stay. How to get through this?

I (35F) caught my husband (38M) gambling away our savings, my mother thinks I should stay. How to get through this? — A couple of weeks ago, I (35F) woke up in the middle of the night and noticed my husband (38M) wasn't in bed. I searched the house, but he wasn’t home. His car was still in the driveway, so I thought …

r/relationship_advicepost4/12/2026
Married 5 months after 10 years together (M32 / F29) — she started talking to another guy right after the wedding. We’re now on a 30-day separation and I don’t know what to do.

State specific, but probably not. I looked into this since we only lasted a few months after getting married. Usually needs to be fraud, so one partner will need to admit on the record they came at th…

r/relationshipscomment3/8/2026
r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/13/2026
Still hurts after many, many years

He won't and he cant. Sunken cost fallacy. And he wasted 35+ years on a fraudulent marriage. Could've saved himself when she told him about the affair the first time around. Absolutely brutal

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done to a spouse while or after going through divorce?

I stopped cleaning up his messes, stopped covering for him, and let him start feeling the consequences of his own actions. Decade of time to declutter, purge, clean out, and clear out piles of messe…

r/Divorcecomment3/24/2026
Need help with this

I actually got a message today that my card might have been used fraudulently too. My heart dropped for a second, not gonna lie lol. I can’t imagine how scary it feels for you, especially since you s…

r/selfhelpcomment3/27/2026
NEW STUDY — Folks planning a psychedelic experience this year sought for a $250 entirely online Yale research study!

Good question! No, but you probably do want to be in the US because we are only making payments with Amazon.***com*** gift cards right now :/ . We also require folks to be in an OECD country (sadly) d…

r/Psychonautcomment3/30/2026
How do I (35F) handle my soon-to-be-ex-husband (38M) asking me to change my name back?

>"It's also really important to me that you change your name back to your maiden name." I was blindsided. I said, "That's my name!" And he replied, "No, it's MINE, and I don't want you walking around …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
I still hold love for a version of them, sometimes.

Better to pass out in a porta-potty than to reminisce on good times w/ these turds. The “good times” were fraudulent. They were mirroring 

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/31/2026
My brother (35M) and his gf (27F) want me (25F) to help insure their car but I’m uneasy about the idea

This is correct. Even if OP managed to purchase insurance, it wouldn’t cover the brother or GF as drivers anyway. There is literally no non-fraudulent way to accomplish what they are asking.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
My brother (35M) and his gf (27F) want me (25F) to help insure their car but I’m uneasy about the idea

It would take less than an hour for the GF to trade in her license for an in state version, so that's a red flag that she just won't. Brother shouldn't be driving period if he has no license. If he de…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
My brother (35M) and his gf (27F) want me (25F) to help insure their car but I’m uneasy about the idea

I am an insurance agent with 25 years experience. Legally you can’t insure their auto because you don’t own it and anything you do to get it insured would be fraudulent which would get any claims deni…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
My brother (35M) and his gf (27F) want me (25F) to help insure their car but I’m uneasy about the idea

She simply has to go to the DMV, where she needs to show up with her current license and proof of residency (or whatever other forms they need, like maybe a SS card), pay whatever the fee is for a new…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
Spoon bending with psychokinesis and next steps

It goes from being difficult or impossible to bend, depending on the material, to having the firmness of a paper clip, or even less firm, that you can easily bend, twist and wrap before the 'window' c…

r/gatewaytapescomment4/3/2026
My mom reported my partner who is a medical professional of sexual misconduct

I’m a licensed healthcare professional and I am often worried about similar things from my mother. Birthdays and holidays always seem to set her off, or any joy tbh, and it sucks to feel like I have t…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/3/2026
Why is healing from a discard taking longer than the relationship itself? It was only 2 months

I just want you to know, it's okay to grieve even if it turned out to be a ruse. What you felt was real. That's what made it initially so beautiful but then so painful to you. Don't be ashamed of that…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/3/2026
Leaving if Date Lied on Profile?

Hey girl, I’m 49,f, also an attorney. So what do you think, a case for fraudulent misrepresentation? lol. I don’t know if I’m just so acclimated to it or if my standards are so low these days but I do…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/3/2026
Did anyone else have atypical trauma or extremely violent trauma?

I'm from an extremely religious 3rd world country. My dad used to take me to random self-proclaimed god avatars and they would do weird exorcisms, pray out spirits, as you said. So many uneducated and…

r/CPTSDcomment4/4/2026
I (28f) found out my bf (41m) has been requesting cash back on my debit card?

Why are you supporting a 41 yr old unemployed lazy man and giving him access to your cash. I suggest you check your credit because I have no doubt he hasn’t opened accounts in your name, maxed out the…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
If I sued my mother would it go anywhere?

In the case of any State benefits fraudulently paid to your mother, the 'victim' is the State, not you. Same with tax benefits. You could certainly make a legally valid complaint to tax and welfare a…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/8/2026
My bf (42M) says I(32F) ruined our relationship by bringing up a small issue.

Has everyone gone absolutely crazy in the comments??? OP, sorry to say this, but obviously you are the issue, you sound exhausting. I know you have trauma and that has greatly affected your life and …

r/relationshipscomment4/8/2026
BF (22M) fell for a phone scam. I (22F) don’t know how to feel about it, as well as my response. What would you guys do?

OP, I’m going to be honest with you— what you said was unhelpful, unnecessary, and actively damaged your relationship. Part of my work is breach recovery, so I deal on a daily basis with people who …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
BF (22M) fell for a phone scam. I (22F) don’t know how to feel about it, as well as my response. What would you guys do?

Maybe not. Maybe instead it’s a credential harvesting attack that gets your bank account credentials and they take the money themselves. Or a fraudulent website posing as a charitable organization sol…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
BF (22M) fell for a phone scam. I (22F) don’t know how to feel about it, as well as my response. What would you guys do?

Their point was about the legality of it. Yes it’s fraud, but it’s fraud through willful negligence of understanding. So basically the bank won’t refund or back them up. They weren’t trying to say it …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
Some Burning Questions

I just messaged the mods to ask why they removed it. As I said, I don't have any kind of paid or unpaid subscription to AI and I don't write with AI. Quite flattered by your forensic efforts of inve…

r/AstralProjectioncomment4/11/2026
Some Burning Questions

I never said anything about them being fraudulent or having 0 interest. I actually have a very similar experience to your face experience, except I see a recurring fractal pattern.

r/AstralProjectioncomment4/11/2026
Does anyone else have automatic thoughts of “am I overreacting”, “is someone going to be angry at me for this”, and “is this my fault”?

Yeah, like only they know how to do things and we should by osmosis or something, learned how to do it the way they would have done it, and the way is the only right way to do it Like even if I tell…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/12/2026
I (35F) caught my husband (38M) gambling away our savings, my mother thinks I should stay. How to get through this?

Soooo, you’re with a person that steals from you but felt this was reason enough to leave your children home alone??? You took MIL with you instead of having her stay with the kids??? Should have just…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
My husband told me he has $63,000.00 in credit card debt.

If any of it was from before the marriage, you might have more legal standing (especially with a prenup.) That almost feels fraudulent on purpose. I hope there's something you can do once you meet wit…

r/Divorcecomment4/13/2026
Yellow Peril Racial Profiling

I'm not sure what kind of remote work you've done but there are many jobs where they are fine with hiring out of state and some require people to come in because it's ridiculous to expect someone to g…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/13/2026