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Division in the astral community.

I love Jurgen Ziewe's stuff, I think he has had some of the best experiences and I love how he describes things from an artist's eye. Plus, all of his accounts with his deceased mother are great if yo…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/29/2026
Someone elaborate on this please

Someone elaborate on this please — Hello I have been reading and watching lots of Neville videos and what I concluded is that circumstances come from our inner state and that they don't matter anyway because we can always adopt a new s…

r/JosephMurphypost11/10/2024
Can Manifestation Really Help You Get Full Marks in an Exam If You Only Wrote Part of the Answer?

Can Manifestation Really Help You Get Full Marks in an Exam If You Only Wrote Part of the Answer? — Hey everyone, I have a question that might sound a bit out there, but I’m curious to hear if anyone has had a similar experience. I recently took an exam where I only managed to write answers for ab…

r/JosephMurphypost11/13/2024
Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading

Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading — # 6th Kill: $20,000 Money Mission **Mission**: To make $20,000 from futures trading **What I achieved:** I made $20,000 from futures trading **How long did it take:** 5 and a half months **Backgro…

r/JosephMurphypost12/31/2024
Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure?

Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure? — Working on an API gateway/proxy that sits in front of APIs. The proxy adds its own validation layer (toxicity, etc). I'm wrestling with an API design choice: when my **proxy's** validation rules bloc…

r/web_designpost4/19/2025
What parts of digital marketing are most valuable to learn in 2025?

What parts of digital marketing are most valuable to learn in 2025? — I'm gonna begin learning digital marketing (as I'm already doing non-digital marketing) but I don't feel like (and don't have enough time & energy to) learning all kinds of it, I mean for instance SEO…

r/digital_marketingpost4/29/2025
Does this SEO strategy make sense ?

Does this SEO strategy make sense ? — Hello experts ! Recently, I came across an SEO expert (have some good proof) that talked about the seo strategy that she used, but I'm not sure if I understand it correctly. The strategy goes as fol…

r/SEOpost5/1/2025
Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions

Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions — I had a technical discussion with with a smaller company(around 100-200 employees) and they are filling out a new devops team. I have 7 YOE at large tech companies as a software engineer, but my dutie…

r/DevOpspost5/2/2025
How did you find working in Avada? Would you charge more?

How did you find working in Avada? Would you charge more? — Im creating a site audit for a potential client about some SEO work. The last agency he was with builty a pretty site that doesnt and hasnt shown up anywhere in 4 years its been live. Were going to…

r/SEOpost5/3/2025
Rating my website + getting help with ad setup

Rating my website + getting help with ad setup — Hello! Ive started a small workshop where i produce and sell lamps. A lot of my designs are based on already existing popular ones but most of them ive come up with myself. I never expected to becom…

r/ecommercepost5/3/2025
Failing to Find Google Maps Scraper (that does everything)

Failing to Find Google Maps Scraper (that does everything) — I've built a directory listing website and I'm using WP All Import plugin to pull in data from a spreadsheet (which consists of scraped business info from their Google Maps / GBP listings). Being tha…

r/SEOpost5/4/2025
I have a question about google search consoles "page with redirect" and removals

I have a question about google search consoles "page with redirect" and removals — I have about 20 something pages in GSC that are listed under "page with redirect." These pages exist on my website, and when I copy the URL and search it, the correct page shows up. Some of the pages …

r/SEOpost5/5/2025
Etsy integration that allows products not listed on my Shopify store?

Etsy integration that allows products not listed on my Shopify store? — Hi all, I'm trying to get started with Etsy integration with my Shopify store... Would like some suggestions on which app to use. I've looked around myself and maybe I'm misunderstanding how this who…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
Client has disappeared from map pack for target keyword ("More Results" button missing, only top 3 displayed)

Client has disappeared from map pack for target keyword ("More Results" button missing, only top 3 displayed) — ISSUE: I have a high profile client, with a competitive brand, authoritative website & highly optimized GBP, of which they have dozens of real locations, including this one. I have been working with t…

r/SEOpost5/5/2025
Is AI Applicable Everywhere?

Is AI Applicable Everywhere? — Currently working in the tech space for the mining industry. Core product I work on focuses on workflows and tasks for ground and office staff to complete. Such as verifying CAD drawing, sign offs and…

r/UXDesignpost5/6/2025
Personalised auto mails for retention

Personalised auto mails for retention — People, have you ever wondered if in Shopify you can set the rough aging/by when the product will potentially end and needs a refill (such as for shampoos, oils) and this will auto trigger mails to us…

r/Shopifypost5/6/2025
With Updated Reporting, Now Deleted Products are removed from Sales & Tax Reports

With Updated Reporting, Now Deleted Products are removed from Sales & Tax Reports — I'm struggling to get a clear answer from any of the help team (shocker I know). Previously I could delete a product and still run reports and see the sales numbers, etc. Ran a report yesterday and t…

r/Shopifypost5/6/2025
Website Traffic Analytics Show No Activity Suddenly

Website Traffic Analytics Show No Activity Suddenly — Hello Guys. Hoping you can shed some light as to why we are facing a situation. When I click on Rank Math Analytics for the last 30 days it shows zero activity across the board. There is activity up…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
Duolingo leader throws shade at r/UXDesign

Duolingo leader throws shade at r/UXDesign — You all might remember this thread a few months ago, [debating Duolingo renaming UX to “Product Experience.”](https://www.reddit.com/r/UXDesign/comments/1j3hvkw/duolingo_renames_ux/) The VP Mig announ…

r/UXDesignpost5/6/2025
How do you promote kubernetes environments using ArgoCD?

How do you promote kubernetes environments using ArgoCD? — I've watched a video by Anton Putra, [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=\_G\_RY5trQao](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_G_RY5trQao), on production grade setup with Argo. The video is great and I've l…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Why can't I get myself to hire anyone?

Why can't I get myself to hire anyone? — I run a digital marketing agency and currently I am doing all the work. I am starting to understand that if I keep doing the menial tasks I won't be able to focus on what's necessary or have more free…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Need Help Integrating Custom OpenAI Assistant in WordPress Chatbot

Need Help Integrating Custom OpenAI Assistant in WordPress Chatbot — Hello, Reddit! I’m working on integrating a custom-built OpenAI assistant into a WordPress site and could really use some help. The chatbot is supposed to interact with users, respond to questions, a…

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
google maps washington dc

google maps washington dc — Does anyone know how to fix this? I don't live in Washington DC. Google chrome incorrectly locates me there. Doesn't happen in Safari. Anyone? Bueller? Thank you [https://www.reddit.com/r/Go…

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD?

ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
how do you manage cache browser control- after version update?

how do you manage cache browser control- after version update? — here's the problem- obviously we don't want to screw up our clients when they are working, so a new version should be in a manner that won't cause conflicts in the previous version, which has loaded …

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Front-end dev looking for direction

Front-end dev looking for direction — Hey everyone, I'm a front-end dev for 5+ years, mostly focused on React. I'm looking for any tips as far as getting more knowledgeable, I feel I struggle in tech interviews because I don't know the c…

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
Organization lost access to website

Organization lost access to website — (Edit: mostly solved. Consensus is there isn't a good process to reclaim a site that has been lost. Open to other thoughts, but thank you to everyone who has offered their advice already!) I've been …

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
SaaS Site with 11k Visits – Meta Audience Still “Below 1,000”

SaaS Site with 11k Visits – Meta Audience Still “Below 1,000” — **Hey everyone!** I'm struggling to understand why my website remarketing audience on Meta Ads isn't populating correctly, and I'd love your input. **Context:** I manage paid media for a SaaS clie…

r/digital_marketingpost5/7/2025
Shop app shadow banning?

Shop app shadow banning? — Has anyone else had an issue with the shop app? I've ensured all of my listings are correctly set up, I can see that all the settings are active. I can even search for my shop name in the shop app and…

r/Shopifypost5/7/2025
I need a simple easy tip to fix a JavaScript error on my Wordpress blog

I need a simple easy tip to fix a JavaScript error on my Wordpress blog — I added a page to my Wordpress blog and it was fine and today a command popped up stating that it’s the wrong json response error and I looked it up in the search engine and a few of the steps that we…

r/Wordpresspost5/8/2025
Afraid of the "how"

Afraid of the "how" — Hi to all. I have been studying the law and this sub since many years, then left, then (1-2 months ago) came back. I had my fair share of watching coaches, reading the content proposed here (and more)…

r/JosephMurphypost7/29/2025
I have become obsessed with finding someone.

I have become obsessed with finding someone. — After my breakup in winter of last year, I went through a long period of mourning and not knowing what to do or how to move forward. Now, over the past 2-3 months, I have become obsessed with finding …

r/AnxiousAttachmentpost9/16/2025
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations

Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…

r/attachment_theorypost10/23/2025
Least talked about method from POSM (question)

Least talked about method from POSM (question) — In the section where Murphy talks about techniques, one is the "argumentative technique". "In brief, the argumentative method employed according to Quimby consists of spiritual reasoning where you …

r/JosephMurphypost11/7/2025
Recovering DA trying to reconnect with FA wife

Recovering DA trying to reconnect with FA wife — For context: * I (40M) am a DA, my wife (41F) an FA. We have three children. * Together for 17 years, married for 13 years, distant/no-touch for over 10 years but stable and no deep conflicts. * Cont…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost11/18/2025
Studying attachment theory

Studying attachment theory — I’ve been studying attachment theory for a couple of months now, and I’ve only recently started to REALLY look into it. I started reading a book called Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost11/24/2025
I’m genuinely confused by the adverse effects since starting to do the programming

I’m genuinely confused by the adverse effects since starting to do the programming — Yeah yeah, I’m one of those. I have been on a SP mission for almost three months now. We started in a semi okay place, even though it’s a long distance thing and I’m programming for us to be in a rela…

r/JosephMurphypost12/27/2025
For those hurting, advice for your 2026 and my story

For those hurting, advice for your 2026 and my story — Hello everyone, **Preface** I am an anxious attacher, so my experience by-and-large is with dismissive avoidants and fearful avoidants. It is not my intent to villainize these attachment styles; thi…

r/attachment_theorypost12/28/2025
Which reason is correct for why conscious techniques work less efficiently?

Which reason is correct for why conscious techniques work less efficiently? — Ive been reading and trying to think of the answer. Came to 2 conclusions. 1. You need 51% subconsious faith only. So any effort with conscious faith will have no effect unless it eventually effects …

r/JosephMurphypost1/1/2026
Should you announce that you're avoidant early on?

Should you announce that you're avoidant early on? — Not just in dating (in fact I don't even want to date right now), in general? I really want to start correcting my fear of engulfment and vulnerability but I can't make the jump from avoidant to consi…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost1/16/2026
What is my core wound when I don't worry what others think about me, I'm not afraid of being alone, but still no boundaries with closest people

What is my core wound when I don't worry what others think about me, I'm not afraid of being alone, but still no boundaries with closest people — I want to heal my wounds and spot and correct the false truths that I have about myself and others, but I'm finding it quite difficult. It is because it seems to me that I lack some essential traits o…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost1/25/2026
Septile vs Novile

Septile vs Novile — Hi friends 🩵 so I've been digging pretty deep into astrology recently, I had been messing around with it lightly for a couple years but now going in headlong. Not to make a career out of it or act li…

r/astrologypost2/26/2026
Mom is being kicked out

Mom is being kicked out — Parentified eldest daughter here. haven’t spoken to my recovering alcoholic mother in years. Doing so always sends me into a spiral. She puts herself in awful, high-risk situations, never chooses her …

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/7/2026
Did anyone elses parents correct your reality growing up?

Did anyone elses parents correct your reality growing up? — I just realised that whenever i would be upset and overwhelmed because of my parents pressuring me constnatly they would instead tell me that i am feelig overwhlemed because i am just too overwhelmed …

r/EmotionalNeglectpost3/7/2026
Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience]

Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience] — So I'll start off by saying I'm not very experienced and have multiple psychotic and/or disassociative disorders plus a medical card But I'm surprised at my take away when using the medical marijuana…

r/Psychonautpost3/7/2026
When is emotional control actually suppression?

When is emotional control actually suppression? — In reading Epictetus and Seneca, I’ve been reflecting on how Stoicism distinguishes between emotional mastery and mere suppression. the texts emphasize that destructive emotions, anger, fear, resentm…

r/Stoicismpost3/8/2026
I have done absolutely horrible things. I might be the worst human being to ever live.

I have done absolutely horrible things. I might be the worst human being to ever live. — 20M. This might be the longest post you'll ever read. I believe I have OCD and do nothing but ruminate 24/7 about my past. I have been in isolation for the last 3 years. It started as a fear of adult…

r/therapypost3/8/2026
How to Meditate (or at least one way to get started)

How to Meditate (or at least one way to get started) — Intro: There are endless amount of intentions or, in other words, ways to focus your meditation practice. At the end of the day, your meditation practice is \*yours\*, so make it your own. This post …

r/Meditationpost3/8/2026
Wondering if anyone has taught a child the basics of grounding, meditation, shadow work, and/or energy work?

Wondering if anyone has taught a child the basics of grounding, meditation, shadow work, and/or energy work? — A little information, my children are younger, but not too young to understand, and we are expecting again. My wife is very skilled with energy even out of practice, and I am getting back in tune with…

r/energy_workpost3/9/2026
I was able to communicate with someone…..

I was able to communicate with someone….. — I don’t know if this the correct sub… let me know I’ll explain my situation hoping some one can orient me : A few days ago, I had a weird dream/astral projection experience—I don’t even know how to …

r/AstralProjectionpost3/9/2026
Lack will dissolve when you realise: Manifestation starts from irony, and feeling it real starts from memory.

Lack will dissolve when you realise: Manifestation starts from irony, and feeling it real starts from memory. — I said it. This post is for people whose brains are very logic driven. Those who think: “I need to see proof before I believe something.” i have something for you. Let's go. We all know the key: The…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/9/2026
If you are new here..

>If we believe with perfect faith that our desire is already ours in the subconscious mind, why would the subconscious mind not just assume the act has already been finished in the past rather than wo…

r/JosephMurphycomment5/31/2020
If you are new here..

Correction: Neville taught to “feel as if”. There were many New Thought authors that taught their students to “act as if”, but Neville primarily taught how to impress your subconscious mind using slee…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
If you are new here..

>Correction: Neville taught to “feel as if”. There were many New Thought authors that taught their students to “act as if”, but Neville primarily taught how to impress your subconscious mind using sle…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
If you are new here..

I’ve read all Nevilles books several times over, but I’ll check out the lecture you’re referring to. About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
If you are new here..

>About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought I’d always be broke. I even had to take a screenshot of my bank balance to remind myself of that amaz…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

i can never see with eyes closed . Im not sure if i have aphantasia or something but i only see greying shapes or black lines .. Never see anything clear . can that be corrected ?

r/AstralProjectioncomment11/30/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I just realized recently that I've been astral projecting while attempting to meditate. I was in a meditation group and telling them of my experiences and every single one of them said I was astral pr…

r/AstralProjectioncomment6/9/2022
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means)

I've seen the opposite. I've seen people encourage illegal acts. It was a recent post about a PS5. The girlfriend bought their boyfriend a PS5 for his birthday and like a week later he said he wants …

r/relationship_advicecomment9/3/2024
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means)

Just to correct this statistic this guy is throwing around - the divorce rate in the US is 42%. First peak in divorces are first 5 years.. then another at 15 - 20. So, no, a majority of people don’t…

r/relationship_advicecomment9/20/2024
Donald Trump & the LOB

'They' is not singular. Even the queers know that. Banned 7 days for trying to defend your failure. You would have been banned for 60 if you had tried to defend your next failure instead of concedin…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/23/2024
Donald Trump & the LOB

Just because its on [thesaurus.com](http://thesaurus.com) and just because uneducated englishmen have been using it wrongly over the years, doesn't mean it is correct. A little critical thinking would…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/23/2024
Donald Trump & the LOB

If I recall correctly, Trump as a child attended the church pastored by Norman Vincent Peale who is the author of The Power of Positive Thinking.

r/JosephMurphycomment10/6/2024
Question about Negative Statements "don't, not etc" and mild contradictions in POSM

From my experience the way he described it was the confusing part, especially considering the dozen translations there are of this book. Personally I think that a few things he is not right about w…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/31/2024
To the former LOAPorn folks here

Yes it's few. Can take months, but a change or at the very least some thoughts of thinking from the desire will be noticed within 2 - 3 weeks, IF you are doing the technique correctly. And they may ev…

r/JosephMurphycomment11/6/2024
To the former LOAPorn folks here

I noticed you mentioned if you are doing SH technique correctly...how would someone know if they are or are not doing SH correctly? I mean I wonder for myself sometimes if I am

r/JosephMurphycomment11/9/2024
To the former LOAPorn folks here

I get extremely anxious during the day thinking about if I did my SH sessions correctly. During the actual session I am relaxed though.

r/JosephMurphycomment11/9/2024
Can Manifestation Really Help You Get Full Marks in an Exam If You Only Wrote Part of the Answer?

The world/universe runs on beliefs, not human reasoning.  Human reasoning says it's unlikely that this will happen. But you can maintain the inner belief that you're an A student no matter what. Tha…

r/JosephMurphycomment11/13/2024
Addressing Community Concerns: No Porn/Masturbation Addiction Posts and Self-Hate Posts + Revamped Subreddit Rules

Hi, sorry for the long response but please bear with me. TLDR at the bottom. You are slightly correct, but drug addiction posts will also more than likely be removed. 1- There is actually another…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment12/9/2024
Addressing Community Concerns: No Porn/Masturbation Addiction Posts and Self-Hate Posts + Revamped Subreddit Rules

These changes are long overdue. Thank you for updating the rules to adapt to the evolving situation! I hope the sun can self correct back into a helpful place to discuss self improvement again.

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment12/9/2024
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

If that's how you want to look at it. I quit smoking this year after 15 years. It took constant "affirming" in my mind that I was no longer a smoker. Same with losing a ton of weight. I decided I was …

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

Well, you can believe me or not, I have no incentive in lying. But the Neville sub has messed me up. Those LOA “teachers” there are messed up - and they don’t even know what they are talking about. “L…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

It’s so funny how you act like you are an expert at this, but your profile tells a complete other story. A quick look at your profile shows someone who constantly asks for reassurance, needs help unde…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

….And we were correct that not one person in this subreddit could actually refute any anti-loa argument. Keep manifesting those free cups of coffee guys, your SP will be here in no time!

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

1. That is why it’s called maladaptive daydreaming. The person does so to escape their current reality. They are not making actual changes, thinking different thoughts, reconditioning the subconscious…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

Like I get what you’re saying but it seems very contradictory and I feel like you’re ignoring what I told you. I and many others have used sats CORRECTLY and not yielded the results.

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

you think you used it correctly, if it didn’t work then you didn’t

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

you can do it correctly all you want - it has to be permanent in you SM, and in response slowly changes your CM that you even start forgetting about desire. How many times you want want want smth, and…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

You misread. And I don’t believe you’re in a relationship for a second because you’re way too disgruntled about something that didn’t work for you. Your SP may have been a bum that you were chasing, t…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

I did what you did.. except correctly 🫨 Not every one is drinking the koolaid. You’re attributing a few things you’ve seen on REDDIT OF ALL PLACES to a whole group of people. The silliness. There’s …

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

It stopped being about proving, tbh. They probably lost years of their lives doing things incorrectly and it’s easier to say they were duped instead of saying they made wrong choices on their own.

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

If it comes to new age stuff like LOA/LOB/Law of assumption I actually agree with you to a certain degree but not entirely. So let me explain where I disagree. Most people who follow Joseph Murphy, LO…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/9/2025
Post-quality time cool down? Is this a pattern for DAs?

This is 100% a pattern for avoidant attachers. It’s referenced as the “vulnerability hangover” in our own spaces. It’s almost like taking an ice bath. You can do it for a while, like 10-20 minutes, an…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/18/2025
Handling another crush as a FA

So pardon the length (I haven't told anyone yet) and thank you for reading. I might have a crush on a good friend ("Steve") who I've reconnected with after a few years of not hanging out. We didn't …

r/attachment_theorycomment3/19/2025
How to heal avoidant attachment?

It is extremely difficult to *start* the healing process while in a relationship as you would be required to balance other factors (is the other party willing to work too? What is their level of healt…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/22/2025
Post-quality time cool down? Is this a pattern for DAs?

'Romantic relationships are great, but I will become resentful and actually deactivate for real if it feels like I can't correct that imbalance.' <-- I would suggest don't be in romantic relationships…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/30/2025
Reading interest in text

I suppose it’s very subjective. Even tho I’m wired anxious in romantic relationships, I catch and correct myself. I figured this out in my 20s when I began dating. At minimum, basic self-awareness a…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/4/2025
Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago.

You are correct. Your perception of love is warped. And thus it can be really hard finding it without accidentally finding yourself in shit relationships. As many have commented, avoidants typically …

r/attachment_theorycomment4/18/2025
What hurts a DA?

DAs are already very self-critical. Most criticism we receive from others, we’re already aware of and have gone to great lengths to conceal and/or correct said issue. Even if said criticism is somethi…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/26/2025
What hurts a DA?

Correct me if I’m wrong, but your comment has me confused from the tons of reading I’ve done on attachment styles. Am I missing something?

r/attachment_theorycomment4/28/2025
What hurts a DA?

Sorry, the more correct term is fearful avoidant leaning avoidant, and DA and FA are their own categories. However, there are a number of variations among FAs, including whether we lean anxious or avo…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/29/2025
Got a 3hr interview coming up. Tips/advice appreciated.

They want to see how you think, so be verbose with your thinking and troubleshooting process. Let them know HOW you are reaching a solution branch and why you discarded the others. Even if you don't…

r/DevOpscomment5/6/2025
Marketplace Tuesday! - May 06, 2025

Sophia NLU (natural language understanding) Enging released, with full specs and online demo at: https://cicero.sh/sophia/ For anyone deploying conversational chat bots at all, and is alternativ…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
I’ve failed at startups, lived on the road, and I still believe I’m successful

You’re rich in experience, and that always pays off sooner or later. People with real experience are built to succeed - as long as they use that wealth correctly.

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
Why can't I get myself to hire anyone?

There is a lot of middle ground before you hire an employee. You could contract out for a personal assistant. They work for themselves and usually have several clients. You could contract with an over…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
💾 Why You Should Consider MinIO Over AWS S3 + How to Build Your Own S3-Compatible Storage with Java

More interesting would be how to correctly set it up in a (K8s) cluster, especially given that it's recommended to have exclusive usage of the node with the MinIO workers. Not trying to slander your …

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
💾 Why You Should Consider MinIO Over AWS S3 + How to Build Your Own S3-Compatible Storage with Java

Please note the following is my opinion only, YMMV. I like minio for homelab or developer use cases. When it comes to cost though, I'd argue that S3 is generally cheap enough for anything that is ei…

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
How can I let devs update their lower environment terraform while protecting production environments?

Two basic choices: 1. You give them powers to push from local development (their laptops) into staging to test their Terraform. 2. You automatically push to staging as part of the PR CI tests (Su…

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
FA trying to be more secure, need some insigh on relationship to have "fresh eyes" on it and not just my insecure one

The first question is, why does the drugs trigger you? What are you imagining or feeling when they talk about it. Logically, it's just part of their past. If it was something that could happen again o…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/8/2025
r/attachment_theorycomment5/10/2025
Do push/pull dynamics happen even when you’re not participating in them?

I know I'm getting this a little late but I hope things went alright on Sunday. I think your intuition is correct that he is DA/FA because the initial side he showed of himself seems to be misleading …

r/attachment_theorycomment5/13/2025