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My partner (NB-20) and I (NB-23) need help picking out an alternative to "master" in the bedroom

My partner (NB-20) and I (NB-23) need help picking out an alternative to "master" in the bedroom — Okay, this one is a bit of a weird one. Hopefully it's allowed in this sub. Background: So I (23-NB) love being dominant in the bedroom. It's fun and very empowering. Before I went on my self-discove…

r/relationship_advicepost4/13/2026
Official r/realityshifting Discord

Official r/realityshifting Discord — ## Welcome to Shifting Help! ### The official r/realityshifting subreddit's server! I made this server a while ago to serve the purpose to give the right information to shifters across the world !…

r/realityshiftingpost7/23/2024
SQL Commands | DDL, DQL, DML, DCL and TCL Commands - JV Codes 2025

SQL Commands | DDL, DQL, DML, DCL and TCL Commands - JV Codes 2025 — Mastery of [SQL commands](https://jvcodes.com/sql-ddl-dql-dml-dcl-tcl-commands/) is essential for someone who deals with SQL databases. [SQL](https://jvcodes.com/what-is-sql/) provides an easy system …

r/web_designpost4/28/2025
Pouncemonial: 7th Kill - Disciplined Trader

Pouncemonial: 7th Kill - Disciplined Trader — # Here's how I achieved my 7th mission! **Mission**: To become a disciplined trader **What I achieved**: Mastered stop loss and trading discipline **Background**: After my 6th kill, I was eager t…

r/JosephMurphypost4/29/2025
How do you generate qualified leads for a cohort-based course?

How do you generate qualified leads for a cohort-based course? — Hey everyone! 👋 I run a live, cohort-based masterclass on advanced Midjourney prompt engineering and am in the process of ramping up my lead-gen funnel for the next cohort. So far, I’ve Explored: *…

r/digital_marketingpost5/2/2025
What will it take?

What will it take? — Seriously… What does it take to land a UX role these days? My wife is graduating with her masters in UX from a good program but it seems that the industry is evolving and everyone is making it seem …

r/UXDesignpost5/2/2025
Transition into a different role

Transition into a different role — Career Summary Masters in Design got me campus placed in a MNC. 2 years of UX in enterprise and I did an internal switch. Although my role is of UX Designer, the scope of work I do is mostly with educ…

r/UXDesignpost5/3/2025
How to Wreck Your Career: a cautionary tale from someone who has 5 years of experience..

How to Wreck Your Career: a cautionary tale from someone who has 5 years of experience.. — Context:- I am a 31 year old UX designer with a masters degree in industrial design from one of the top design schools here in India. I have almost 6 years of experience on the paper of which I hav…

r/UXDesignpost5/3/2025
Why would startup hire me as an intern? I will not promote

Why would startup hire me as an intern? I will not promote — Hi guys, I recently joined a startup as a marketing intern. My focus is mostly creating video content for their TikTok and youtube. In the LinkedIn post, I saw that they had a lot of interest from…

r/startupspost5/3/2025
To all the scrum masters/PMs: Would you use an AI that joins meetings, takes notes, and assigns tasks to the right teammate automatically? I will not promote

To all the scrum masters/PMs: Would you use an AI that joins meetings, takes notes, and assigns tasks to the right teammate automatically? I will not promote — Hi! I’ve been thinking about a recurring pain I see in most teams — meetings generate lots of discussion and action items, but someone still has to take notes, track tasks, and figure out who shoul…

r/startupspost5/4/2025
What’s the best UX you’ve ever experienced in a product?

What’s the best UX you’ve ever experienced in a product? — Hey, I’m deep in the weeds designing the UX/UI for my vibe coding platform . I’m hunting for that spark of inspiration and digging through every app, site, and tool I can find. For me, Apple’s ecosys…

r/UXDesignpost5/5/2025
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025

E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025

This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
Thoughts on GTA VI's new site? I love it.

Thoughts on GTA VI's new site? I love it. — As everything else from Rockstar, this feels like another masterpiece.

r/web_designpost5/6/2025
Finding Like Minded Business People

Finding Like Minded Business People — **TL/DR :**  Looking for people who are stuck with unsure with what business they want to pursue and end up learning a little bit about all of them; that want to partner up to stay focused with each …

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Everything to learn about Headless wordpress and integrating react

Everything to learn about Headless wordpress and integrating react — Hello fellow devs, I'm looking to expand my skills as a full-stack developer and dive into React.js, Tailwind, and related tools. I know WordPress can be used as a headless CMS, but I'm a complete be…

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD?

ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Sitemap could not be read (Google Search Console)

Sitemap could not be read (Google Search Console) — Google search console has not read a sitemap from me since 2023 and as I build out my website, its becoming more frustrating to have to submit URLs one by one. I keep getting the error 'Sitemap could …

r/SEOpost5/7/2025
Every day I try to do things right. Every day they say no. Now I duct-tape and maintain the mess I warn them about

Every day I try to do things right. Every day they say no. Now I duct-tape and maintain the mess I warn them about — Hey folks, Just wanted to drop this little gem of corporate masochism So I work at this company where we develop software for real state agencies, in this 'properties' sql table we have a field cal…

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
"Mastering Content Creation with Real-Time Optimization, Competitor Analysis, and Smart Editing Tools"

"Mastering Content Creation with Real-Time Optimization, Competitor Analysis, and Smart Editing Tools" — Content is still king—but not just any content. Today, high-ranking content is the result of a strategic balance between creativity and data-driven precision. To climb the search engine results pages …

r/digital_marketingpost5/8/2025
Pouncemonial: 9th Kill - 30 Successful Trades

Pouncemonial: 9th Kill - 30 Successful Trades — **Mission**: To accomplish 30 successful trades **What I achieved**: Accomplished 30 successful trades and learned how to execute and manage trades well. **Background**: With the previous kill, …

r/JosephMurphypost7/23/2025
Another win for Trump

Another win for Trump — And this is why this sub praises Trump as a LOB master. From surviving his assassination attempt, to winning his 2nd term over Word Salad Kamala, to driving the stock market to all-time highs (makin…

r/JosephMurphypost8/22/2025
Master’s degree, big scholarship, and leaving a toxic situation

Master’s degree, big scholarship, and leaving a toxic situation — Background: I was keen to leave my toxic family situation for years but let’s just say it wasn’t happening. I got a good job in my hometown, I found someone I loved who was desperate to marry me, I …

r/JosephMurphypost12/10/2025
My boyfriend and I had an argument over his marriage demands, and now he claims he means none of it...

My boyfriend and I had an argument over his marriage demands, and now he claims he means none of it... — Tl:dr: My boyfriend of two years has a list of requirements from me after we get married, and after our argument over it, which lead us to break up-- he said he didn't mean any of it and wants to go …

r/relationshipspost3/7/2026
When is emotional control actually suppression?

When is emotional control actually suppression? — In reading Epictetus and Seneca, I’ve been reflecting on how Stoicism distinguishes between emotional mastery and mere suppression. the texts emphasize that destructive emotions, anger, fear, resentm…

r/Stoicismpost3/8/2026
My boyfriend (M35) and I (F27) have not said i love you, over a year of dating

My boyfriend (M35) and I (F27) have not said i love you, over a year of dating — TLDR; My boyfriend (M35) and I (f27) have been together for over a year, he hasn’t said I love you despite having talked about marriage, kids, future together. In a conversation he said he was apprehe…

r/relationshipspost3/9/2026
read this if you are confused

read this if you are confused — Yes I have shifted, here is the mindset that brought me to this point. If this does not resonate with you move on. For those who follow the Law of Assumption, non duality etc I intend this will make …

r/realityshiftingpost3/10/2026
You will be rewarded openly! I promise!

You will be rewarded openly! I promise! — How to manifest your desire? Well, We all know the "How"(Techniques to get into the state) but We don't know "How" (bridge of incident) whole thing will arranged itself to produce the result of the i…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/11/2026
THE PHOENIX LIGHTS 29th ANNIVERSARY This is what I saw that night March 13, 1997. It was a totally solid piece of machinery not just lights. I could see the bottom of the UFO clearly by two light sources illuminating the bottom of the craft as it flew over my head

THE PHOENIX LIGHTS 29th ANNIVERSARY This is what I saw that night March 13, 1997. It was a totally solid piece of machinery not just lights. I could see the bottom of the UFO clearly by two light sources illuminating the bottom of the craft as it flew over my head — I posted this also in UFO sub. March 13, 1997 I was working in East Mesa, Arizona in a 10 bed Hospice inpatient unit as the Charge RN. We worked 12 hour shifts getting off at 7:30 PM but that night t…

r/experiencerspost3/12/2026
I wanted to be recognized as an artist

I wanted to be recognized as an artist — (Non native English speaker, sorry for mistakes) I had 1 dream. Im an artist, i do art. Ok, this is ego talking, but anyway, art is all I do Since i’m a Little girl. I’ve been told I was good at it, …

r/Meditationpost3/13/2026
Should I help repay my sister’s debt to protect my parents?

Should I help repay my sister’s debt to protect my parents? — I’m 31F. My sister is 29F and lives in Canada. We come from a lower middle-class Indian family that has mostly lived paycheck to paycheck. My sister always dreamed of studying abroad. She completed …

r/relationshipspost3/13/2026
32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth?

32 years of marriage, but I'm still unsettled by an affair from 2006. Is it too late to ask for the truth? — I’ve been married for 32 years now, but there is a something from 2006 that I’ve never been able to move past. Back then, my daughters were 11 and 10. We were leaving my parents' house after a weekend…

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/13/2026
Manifested a $32K scholarship with accidental SATS!!!

Manifested a $32K scholarship with accidental SATS!!! — Hi all :) I have a pretty amazing success story that I’d love to share, and I hope it may motivate some of you in your manifestation journeys 😊 Basically, I accidentally manifested a $32,000 scholar…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/14/2026
Some Pointers after 12 Years of Meditation

Some Pointers after 12 Years of Meditation — Meditation is an invisible skill, which makes it especially prone to confusion and obfuscation. I wanted to jot down some pointers and opinions about meditation that have served me at one point or an…

r/Meditationpost3/14/2026
Why am i so average

Why am i so average — I've put effort in everything I do, and yet everything I do leads to just an average outcome. How do other people try a lot less and do much better? Is life only successful if I have raw talent and we…

r/selfhelppost3/14/2026
Questions for people who have shifted :> (or just have done a lot of research)

Questions for people who have shifted :> (or just have done a lot of research) — This is just a bunch of questions Ive had. I believe in shifting, I’m just curious about some specifics (sorry if these are absolutely idiotic) 1. Can you script you forget about this reality? Will i…

r/realityshiftingpost3/15/2026
I understood Neville much better after started reading about transurfing.

I understood Neville much better after started reading about transurfing. — I am more of a reasoning person and therefore neville's amazing techniques left me full of doubts because I don't know WHY they work. Reading about Transurfing actually had me see Neville from another…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/15/2026
I am 18F and I’m exhausted dealing with my Indian mom who practically worships her narcissistic, manipulative younger brother and lets him control my life while treating me like garbage.

I am 18F and I’m exhausted dealing with my Indian mom who practically worships her narcissistic, manipulative younger brother and lets him control my life while treating me like garbage. — My mom (44F) has two younger brothers. The one I’m talking about is the middle child. He’s married and has a 10-year-old daughter. In my opinion he is one of the most narcissistic, selfish, and arroga…

r/AsianParentStoriespost3/15/2026
What kind of effect does a 6th house Gemini Stellium have on the user, is the user really burdened with a lot of misfortune?

What kind of effect does a 6th house Gemini Stellium have on the user, is the user really burdened with a lot of misfortune? — ASC ruler and Mercury domicile master in Gemini

r/AskAstrologerspost3/16/2026
Just feel so disappointed in myself all the time

Just feel so disappointed in myself all the time — I just can't help being so disappointed and sad about myself all the time. I constantly feel like I've been a disappointment, and that no matter what I do, I won't be able to escape that, and I'll end…

r/selfhelppost3/16/2026
I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work

I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work — **My Journey** I can’t remember not being depressed. I have some memories of the time before, but they are pictures, frames of a child enjoying life. But I’ve struggled with depression almost my enti…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/16/2026
I’d say I’m a master at it

I’d say I’m a master at it — Manifesting is literally a skill that revolves around energy/frequency and only that. Everything is energy, everything around you is radiating energy. The universe responds to frequencies and whatever…

r/Manifestationpost3/17/2026
A couple great tips for easier Revision.

A couple great tips for easier Revision. — Revision is an extremely important yet underrated technique. After going through an event that "future" manifesting just wouldn't solve, I knew the only thing that would fix this situation is to chang…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/17/2026
Don’t you fear being too isolated?

Don’t you fear being too isolated? — I recently got rejected by a girl that I really liked. We started off as very good friends and unfortunately I caught feelings for her. So right now, I’m grieving the fact that I lost a really close f…

r/Stoicismpost3/17/2026
You are God.

You are God. — you can manifest anything and everything. I say this as someone who has been into this community since i was 10. I used to try manifesting height, weight loss, friends, parents to stop arguing, everyt…

r/Manifestationpost3/17/2026
25f, going through divorce, concerned about future. Help me

25f, going through divorce, concerned about future. Help me — Signed the divorce papers few days back. I'm bit tensed about process. Was divorce inevitable? And I'm also concerned about my future, career etc. Please tell about career from now on, health, fina…

r/vedicastrologypost3/17/2026
THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think)

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

r/realityshiftingpost3/17/2026
When the Disciples could not perform Miracles, they were not told to become Detached or to do somatic release work, they were told that they MUST Believe!

When the Disciples could not perform Miracles, they were not told to become Detached or to do somatic release work, they were told that they MUST Believe! — I had to share this as I have noticed in recent times a slurry of misinformation being shared on this subreddit. I see endless mentions now of the need to let go, the need to be constantly detached, t…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/17/2026
Having hard time with giving and receiving help

Having hard time with giving and receiving help — I’ve been together with my partner for over two years and also last year we got married. We love each other but we have a lot of issues. He has more an anxious attachment style, on top of that adhd wi…

r/AvoidantAttachmentpost3/18/2026
Caught wife with her best friend (F)

Caught wife with her best friend (F) — Im looking for advice, just this past weekend I discovered my wife with her best friend. I had previously never had any reason to believe that anything like this would happen and have left her with he…

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/18/2026
Has anybody here got crushed that their dreams didn’t work out and it finally worked out in ways you didn’t imagine?

Has anybody here got crushed that their dreams didn’t work out and it finally worked out in ways you didn’t imagine? — I had a dream since school to have an experience of doing my masters in the UK or Europe mainly for two reasons - the exposure and the pure joy of having an experience of living there on my own terms …

r/Manifestationpost3/18/2026
If you are new here..

> Everyone coming here from the other subs is blessed to have finally sought a break from the emotional self-harm that seems to be at the core of the methodology in these other groups... which I took …

r/JosephMurphycomment4/12/2020
If you are new here..

Hi everyone, I am new here.. i got the link of this group through the NG sub.. i am glad i found it.. i have been reading the posts and the content in the index.. i have started reading the POSM.. w…

r/JosephMurphycomment5/8/2020
If you are new here..

>Hi everyone, > >I am new here.. i got the link of this group through the NG sub.. i am glad i found it.. i have been reading the posts and the content in the index.. i have started reading the P…

r/JosephMurphycomment5/8/2020
If you are new here..

>Who do you think you are? Neville's method are the best! Joseph murphy's techniques were also good but required lot of work , but neville just said you to imagine and later in his lectures he did sai…

r/JosephMurphycomment8/6/2020
If you are new here..

>Correction: Neville taught to “feel as if”. There were many New Thought authors that taught their students to “act as if”, but Neville primarily taught how to impress your subconscious mind using sle…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

It just depends on what kind of beings you want to meet. Duality still exists in the Astral. Just like in physical life you can find good and bad teachers. And yes, dimensions above the Astral are gen…

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/2/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Should I just stick to the Robert Bruce mastering astral projection book? That's what I'm doing now.

r/AstralProjectioncomment5/10/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Pretty sure I need the master of the mystic arts for this

r/AstralProjectioncomment10/12/2021
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

But I'll keep trying to lucid and master it. Then prob I can make my dream last like an hour.

r/LucidDreamingcomment11/1/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

yes , it took me like 2 months to master it , all i did was lay on the back look up and close my eyes , i would invision seeing myself fly around my neighborhood while doing this practice , , this ga…

r/AstralProjectioncomment12/12/2021
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

I am new to this. I often can control my dreams. It’s so strange- I dream within a dream or two and within that dream I have to check myself that I am not in reality by floating. I am well educated, m…

r/LucidDreamingcomment12/28/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

Is it possible to use astral projection as a place to learn a skill? For example, while astral projecting you learn to play a guitar and master it. Then come back to earth and play it the same way you…

r/AstralProjectioncomment2/6/2022
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

This sounds like bullshit, but I am open to be convinced it's real. You compared it to LD, but lucid dreaming is just controlling your dreams, it's in your head. AP according to you guys is literally …

r/AstralProjectioncomment10/23/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

I can control my LD pretty well but I have been years trying to master how to make things just appear. I have done it by just imagining them a lot but it is so hard... any tips?

r/LucidDreamingcomment12/19/2022
About, Wiki, Rules, Books, Etc-- Read First

I know this comment is nearly 6 months old, but I just wanted to say THANK YOU so much for posting this, I feel like I’ve just found a master key to a huge door I’ve been trying to unlock for a while …

r/energy_workcomment10/10/2023
Donald Trump & the LOB

Hi Ralumarian35 On Moonbeam's instructions, the mod team has decided to ban you for 4 months. From your post history, it is clear that you've read, thought about and understood the posts in the index…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/22/2024
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

I read this post as I was at lunch, I was sitting and thinking about a new scene for a mission I will do - and it involves a big airballoon. Out of nowhere this college walks in and says ”have u guys …

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2025
My arguments against manifestation

Nope. What every spiritual masters, yogi etc teach is that your world conform to who you are. It's completzly onvious thzy all we think 1ld focus on in a day don't expand or even take life.

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

It has been there for the last 5 years : [https://www.reddit.com/r/JosephMurphy/comments/h7g0vn/progressive\_goal\_structure\_for\_lob\_mastery/](https://www.reddit.com/r/JosephMurphy/comments/h7g0v…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/25/2025
My arguments against manifestation

I have many, many personal anecdotes that prove our beliefs create reality. Some goals/desires achieved are beyond the realm of mere coincidence and far exceed a free cup of coffee. My response to th…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/2/2025
Too Long on First Mission And Moving On

This is a bad 'technique' if you want to call it that. It turns the LOB's practice into a value system. That will distort and ultimately destroy you. The LOB is a law of physics and does not depend …

r/JosephMurphycomment2/25/2025
Was pushed into a Devops role. Never got the chance to learn properly

There is no single right way to do it. The right way is deciding which tools work for your workflow, and provide the least administrative overhead. Whatever helps you not copy and paste things all the…

r/DevOpscomment5/6/2025
What are the signs to spot a DA or FA in early talking stage?

This is truly the master list I've been recently confused by the "don't give compliments to you" part – why?? I've never experienced this prior to my recent relationship which I have now thankfully l…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/20/2025
Attachment Theory & Free Will?

Well, where do I start? I guess for me the foundation was based on 3 pillars. 1st was of course Mindfulness as ability to comprehend that neither thoughts or feelings are our true self, which is in fa…

r/attachment_theorycomment6/4/2025
FA Ex who semi-ghosted me sent me this message 2 months later

I see where you’re coming from and can understand why it’s hard to see such vilification of FAs. However, just because it may have been difficult for him to express his feelings doesn’t mean that his …

r/attachment_theorycomment7/1/2025
Anyone Else Feel Relationships just Aren't for them?

Like anything in life, you cannot master a skill without practicing. So find out what attributes a secure man looks like & practice them until you embody being secure. It’s been proven that are brains…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/23/2025
The point of the index

I've read it twice. Great book. Self Mastery through Conscious Autosuggestion by Emile Coue is great too. Murphy mentions him in POSM.

r/JosephMurphycomment8/14/2025
Women I’m dating is afraid I’ll lose interest when I learn who she really is. Seeking FA perspective.

The last FA I dated shit tested me early on, dumping some not so flattering info about herself just to see how I would react. I'm not an FA but I've dated quite a few of them. Fear of abandonment is …

r/attachment_theorycomment8/14/2025
Women I’m dating is afraid I’ll lose interest when I learn who she really is. Seeking FA perspective.

"The last FA I dated shit tested me early on, dumping some not so flattering info about herself just to see how I would react." • Mine has done it throughout all 4 years! I faltered a few times, yes…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/20/2025
Another win for Trump

he may be a LOB master but he’s a moron, so are his fans such as yourself.

r/JosephMurphycomment8/23/2025
4+ Months of LOB Practice

Read Progressive Goal Structure for LOB mastery. Try starting with a smaller goal to build faith.

r/JosephMurphycomment9/8/2025
4+ Months of LOB Practice

What's the point of this comment? Did you even read my post or? Maybe delete your comment before you get banned when stating : >Read Progressive Goal Structure for LOB mastery. Try starting with a sm…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/8/2025
Anxiety only triggered in romantic relationship, how to manage it?

This is a great question. I was in therapy for 10 years and also went to countless coaches and therapists. There are a handful of things that actually helped me significantly: 1. Creating deep, meani…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/10/2025
Law of Belief - Relationships

The replies that you've received in this thread is enough. The masters also made other conflicting remarks for various other reasons that are never stated but which can be understood after some think…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/14/2025
Law of Belief - Relationships

Read these two posts as well comments from both Apollo and MB to draw your conclusion. https://www.reddit.com/r/JosephMurphy/s/r36bxo9Fb8 https://www.reddit.com/r/JosephMurphy/s/3I40zfJcki Also, it…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/16/2025
The most painful relationship and breakup I've ever had, but it cracked me open so that I could heal. I created a text message llm analysis tool that revealed insecure attachment.

My partner is FA and I am a DA leaning earned secure. He definitely brought out some things in me that I had yet to address. We lived together for 1.5 years. Much of it was tumultuous. I moved out aft…

r/attachment_theorycomment9/27/2025
How to soothe myself when they say they aren't upset.

I mean, it’s not about imaging that life… it’s just about imagining in your body how you wouldn’t literally die. In fact trying to imagine a life without him that’s ok would be more mentally masterbai…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/14/2025
How to shift focus when anxiously attached

I tried the Chat too and didn't find it helpful, personally. I'm glad it worked out for you. It's definitely not the same as being helped by a psychologist, and I'm hopeful I'll make some big changes …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/21/2025
Does this have to do with my attachment style or is it normal?

Maybe i can add another view there… My sex drive and a good sex life has been important to me since puberty.  Because of this selfset value, i learned and looked out for ways to keep it up. It‘s prett…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/31/2025
I got ghosted and I feel blindsided

Although your story is different to an avoidant, doesn’t matter DA/FA, unless your constantly throwing up boundary walls at random and make them chase you they’ll stick to the avoidant (unofficial) ha…

r/attachment_theorycomment12/6/2025
How do you tell whether you need to push through the avoidance or if you just don’t like them as a partner

I feel like I could have written this, word for word. I completely understand! Like you, I came to a realization that I was probably always going to live with my avoidant attachment and so, had to f…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment12/16/2025
What to do when i am triggered around my partner?

I have recently become a master in this arena (not really but honestly so much better after 2 yrs of therapy). What I did to help myself was to slowly tell him what was triggering me. At first (probab…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/6/2026
It’s frustrating how often I run into women with Avoidant tendencies.

My way's more fun (disorganized insane person here), I spot avoidant with mid to low potential, I don't even try. I see one that has, I will have the patience of a god, but once certain threshold hits…

r/attachment_theorycomment1/10/2026
[Video] How to Tell if They're Emotionally Secure

Okay, I will look into this person more but Steph Anya is an LMFT. You might want to search again bc dismissiveness pulls right up as an avoidant trait only. Cognitive empathy is very limiting in true…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment1/16/2026
8+ Months of LOB practice ( Update from my 1st post )

I’ll admit, I’m not some manifestation master as I still consider myself a beginner. That manifestation is really the only significant one I achieved. I basically only have that one under my belt. B…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/21/2026
8+ Months of LOB practice ( Update from my 1st post )

>I’ll admit, I’m not some manifestation master as I still consider myself a beginner. That manifestation is really the only significant one I achieved. I basically only have that one under my belt. …

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2026
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are you still pursuing a masters? grad school is a great way to meet someone.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
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Then why not be upfront about going back to school? Its not uncommon or strange that you were doing a masters program.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
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Plenty of people who are allergic to dogs still have dogs (in my personal experience). They take precautions like frequent vacuuming, no dogs in the bed, take daily allergy pill. Does he still get the…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/13/2026
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Nah. If you're interested, you should ask! You are the master of your own fate, you don't need to wait for a man to make all the decisions. What do you have to lose at this point even if he says no?  …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/13/2026