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How to cope with someone who cannot bring themselves to date, yet they once confidently exclaimed you two were going to get married. — So, I suppose all I can do is try getting into what happened to me. I knew my ex partner, online, for around 2 and a half years before dating, and we both (coincidentally) had 2 partners, one bad, one…

I [33F], am tired of being the family mediator for my [50+] parents, and my youngest sibling [18] — As the eldest daughter, I’ve always been used to being the mediator for my nuclear family whenever there’s been an argument, a discussion, etc. Now as an adult who’s in therapy and working on boundari…

Parent wants to kick me out for my disabilities — throwaway for anonymity, I’m 21F, i live with my mom and brother, we lived in this bought house for about 3 years now. I grew up in an abusive household, which i helped my mother escape the abuse of …

Better at Being Lost in Life — It's felt like such a long decade for me. I'm 24 and have so many regrets. As a child I was exposed to so much adult media unfit for my age that totally warped my understanding of the world. I was a…

How do I access specialized care within budget, given the current job market. Is there hope? — Hello, hope this reaches the right people. I am in need of therapeutic help but do not know how to access it/what exactly is needed. I've faced childhood sexual assault(repeated), childhood kidnapping…

Look up the term “stonewalling”. I can feel empathy with those with avoidant attachment, but when it leads to an unhealthy controlling dynamic, they are unfit for relationships and you deserve to have…

So either stop looking for fit, pretty woman, or get tall and/or rich. Or are you a short, poor man who wants/expects to get a pretty fit woman and doesn't want the ugly unfit ones? This is such a s…

How can you 'heavily lean' towards anything like a diagnosis based on such little info given?? Like you arent ops clinician. This is at best anxiety inducing and unhelpful and at worst actively harmfu…

I'm a size 0-2. I get frequent comments on how thin I am from people. I walk 100km per week and have a very active lifestyle. My last boyfriend decided I was unfit and ate unhealthily cos I couldn't r…

NY. My ex clearly exhibited behavior in court, in front of the judge, on record that showed she was an unfit mother.

He's preaching nothing new. I made a post here a while back that going back to Asia is where it's at. I got a lot of hate for it. I got called doomercore. I got lots of people coming out of the woodwo…

If you're working out ... maybe you have the same reason as I do. I want to be fit- because I also want a fit partner. I know I don't want somebody overweight so it would not be fair If I am not fit…

“One parent because the other one bailed or is otherwise unfit” and “single parent with resources and support system to have a child alone on purpose” are different lol

50/50 should be the baseline in most states. One party would need to say they want primary placement for the court to change that. Usually a Guardian Ad Litem is assigned as a lawyer to advocate for t…

Im really sorry you have to go through such an awful betrayal. It's not fair at all. Weaponizing his mental health issues to make him seem unfit is not ok. It's why parents who do suffer from things …

Omg just want to validate you on your parents over reactions. Sometimes I would naturally respond in a way my mom saw unfit and she would blow up over it. I wouldn’t even have a look on my face but sh…

You are older and probably less attractive and shiny to women! Accept it! If you are unfit with a one pack and dad bud then you are invisible to them. Women have the same issues as they get older. Not…

That's so true mate, it gets you despairing for a second because you feel like you're about to lose forever and she will detach and it's your last attempt to save the perfect life and then you wait fo…

i suppose. i watch this films as a form of comfort material; i used to have extreme urges to self harm, do dangerous things like running in traffic or drinking indigestible liquids (usually medical …

Same. For the longest time I also felt unfit for this world and for this society. What changed was time, healing and changing perspective. I still think my ADHD sucks, but ive learned to manage it an…

It will get better bro. If she leaves that’s her loss and she would’ve made an unfit mother

I’ve been where you are and its mindblowing and heart breaking. You sound like a decent husband and you’re really trying to accept the blame and move forward. Its not your fault. None of it. All …

1. DNA test. They can be done via blood test while pregnant. Unless you’ve had a DNA test already you don’t know shit. You don’t even know when that video was taken, could’ve been during the time she …

Sorry to say, but in many states he likely will be awarded 50-50, with you paying some child support since you are the higher earner.  Usually, when the kids get to be about 14 years old, the judge w…

First and foremost, that teacher is unfit to hold the title of educator and must be fired. The bizarre regime currently in power is reminiscent of Hitler's era, and a teacher of such low caliber is es…

When I was a young kid I could see them...looked like faded red lines going along hills and ridges. Never thought much about it - I found out about them later...but it was not a big deal - sort of "so…

You sound like you’re in a relationship with my ex SIL. She treated my BIL the SAME way as this woman is treating you. Except she decided to confide in MY husband that after we each spent weeks at the…

You need to hire that PI and get the evidence you need to have her designated as an unfit mother. Then you get custody and the other guys won’t be an issue.

God that’s awful. I had no idea their hooves could kill them😭 I have also never heard of the floating of teeth, so she most probably hasn’t done that either. We’ve had a few horses pass throughout th…

I got surgically sterilized last year, I decided I never want to have biological children. My mom of course took it all as an attack on her, my message to her that she shouldn’t have had children eith…

I believe the body responds to the brain (within reason). I prolapsed a disc a few years ago and couldn't stand up straight, long story short: due to unforseen complications after a couple of surg…

I’m worried that they will try to deem me unfit or unstable when I was struggling with getting off my medications and dealing with first trimester hormones. I was only 7 weeks pregnant when I behaved …

Yeah, I really don’t think he’ll have a leg to stand on if he even bothers trying to take you to court. It doesn’t seem like he will by the way, he’s going to make you chase after him through the cour…

I am so sorry you’re dealing with this 😓 I will pray for you and your babe. I am also am also worried my ex will want to get custody of the baby and deem em unfit to be a mother in some way. It cause…

Thank you! I would appreciate that :) Honestly, do not worry about custody battles just yet. It is highly unlikely he as the father would gain full custody unless there was solid proof that you were …

> he somehow made it about how badly HE felt and not really about how I was feeling at all This kind of personality trait has become one of my biggest red flags. If a person sees apologies only as a …

First- I just want to give you a big hug, coming from a mama. A baby, new life, a child, is a precious gift. The parent should provide love and care. It’s not a failure on your part, dear. She is weak…

Are you asking if a physically fit woman would be attracted to an unfit man?