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Are my parents the nparents or am I just the shitty kid? — Hello everyone, I'm Subha. I'll get straight to the point because this will be LONG. I've always wondered if whether my parents are narcissistic or not. And I needed your help to make me realise …
Victim Blaming will not be tolerated — Hey all, Codependency can lead to a ton of behaviors and relationship styles that are less than healthy, but as we all strive to better ourselves and shed these old habits that no longer serve us, it…
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means) — I last posted a variation of this a little over 5 years ago. We're a little overdue for a repost. --- You know how every Uber rating is right on the verge of 5 stars unless something's particularly …
Multiple dreams/goal at the time — Hi everyone, im new here. I work the book Psycho-cybernetics for almost 2 years and last week i bought POSM and i LOVE it, i almost finished it and will start re-reading it. My question is, since i h…
My arguments against manifestation — 1. **Maladaptive daydreaming proves that manifestation isn't real**; Manifestation doctrine teaches that what you focus on expands and manifests in your physical reality. Do not split hairs and try to…
A Procedural Update for the Continued Health of Our Subreddit. — Hey everyone on r/NarcissisticAbuse. We get it, we really do– the U.S. political situation right now is a bloody mess with further escalation, rather than some kind of stability, on the horizon. W…
Music / Art creation — Does anyone here use the LOB for music creation? Not as much for improving your technique on certain instruments, but rather the actual process of making music. Anything from songs, pieces, riffs, bea…
The song “I love you, I’m sorry” by Gracie Abrams makes me think of the POV of a DA — I'm DA, and I just listened to this song. It feels like a DA talking about how they sabotaged a good relationship, and they regret it. This line particularly hits: "I like to slam doors closed, trust…
I've been out of the coding loop for awhile. What is the best static website framework / scaffolding / generator that works with VSCode? I don't need react or any other bells and whistles. I'm just testing out creating various HTML/CSS styled elements. — I am really just trying to play around with HTML/CSS to create various client-side styled elements. For example, one project is just to create a more enticing email signature. Another project I am cre…
What web builders would you recommend in 2025 for simple websites? — **I**’m looking to build a few simple websites in and wanted to get recommendations on what the best web builders are at the moment. I’ve been working as a digital designer for over a decade but woul…
5 Best SQL Books for Web Development - JV Codes 2025 — Welcome to the [SQL Books](https://jvcodes.com/category/free-books/sql-books/) section on [JV Codes](https://jvcodes.com/)! If you’re starting with SQL or want to strengthen your skills, you’re in the…
What's the best free alternative to Dreamweaver for making a personal website? — I know the easiest route is to just use Wordpress, but I don't want a Wordpress blog again right now. Dreamweaver makes sense to me. I need to see the code view or what I'm looking at makes less sense…
What are the best meta ads courses in 2025?? — Want to explore paid social marketing for myself and clients. Any great course worth mentioning??
My Keyword Research Workflow — Hi guys, I wanted to check with you if my keyword research workflow canbe improved. Here's how I've been doing: Finding general keywords: Google Trend: Look the best variation of a generic keyword…
Hello, all. I am helping my mother run her small business by online admin and things, asking for SEO advice for websites etc. (Reupload) — My mother started a local intensive massage therapy business, is the best way I can put it, and I am designing, advertising and running all the online related things. I am tech-savvy I'd say, but am n…
The Ability to Scale Predictably Is a Superpower (Here’s Why DTC Brands Can’t Skip Performance Marketing) — The ability to **scale predictably** is a superpower—especially for DTC brands. If you’ve worked with or inside a DTC company, you know the drill: * You launch, get some organic traction, and then… …
I'm about to get a job interview with publicis do you know what questions they might ask — What questions do they ask and usually what the best things to say to them
The best way to differentiate yourself? — What I have found works is this: Step no.1: Research yourself and your competitors If you're the founder or in a C-level position, you might say: "I already know everything about my business." WRONG…
What’s the best domain name you own? — I’m curious to see what you guys say
E-commerce shop for honesty/honor farm shop/stand — Hello everyone. I run a small farm shop selling out vegetables and beef. It's based on an honesty system with customers writing purchases in a notebook book then paying in by cash or by typing their…
How did you find working in Avada? Would you charge more? — Im creating a site audit for a potential client about some SEO work. The last agency he was with builty a pretty site that doesnt and hasnt shown up anywhere in 4 years its been live. Were going to…
Best way to do Google/Meta reporting? Anyone interested in helping for a project? — I’m looking for the best way to present weekly/monthly data for both campaigns with key metrics in addition to high level P&L data like gross sales, order volume etc. Any thoughts on the best and cl…
Best language / framework — Hello what is the best programming language, framework to make shopify apps ? Is there a recommended one by shopify itself ? Thnks
DevSecOps / AI CTF today - Ctf.punksecurity.co.uk — Our CTF runs today, with entry level and difficult challenges across DevSecOps and AI. No cost to play, some prizes for the best teams. CTFs are little competitive puzzle based games designed to exp…
How to target global traffic but prioritise the UK? — Hey folks, I run a .com ecommerce store and I sell globally to English-speaking countries. But I want to make sure the UK is my main audience — most of my marketing and SEO focus should benefit UK u…
Why do people in LOA communities ALWAYS go to Reddit for their problems when JM advised against that? — Hello everyone. I've been into JM's (and NG's) teaching for quite some time. I enjoy it thoroughly and dipped my toes into the subreddits, so hence why I'm here instead of the NG subreddit since I wo…
SEO Strategies for Large Database Sites with Dynamic Titles and H1s — Hi ! What are the best practices for optimizing dynamic H1 and title tags on a large database-driven site with filterable pages (by year, country, artist name, etc.)? How do you avoid duplicate conte…
Building a paid video course site on WordPress — Hey everyone, I’m building a WordPress site that will work like Udemy — users will pay to access video lessons. I’ll be uploading football training videos, and only paid users should be able to watch…
Should I purchase multiple domain TLDs for my brand? What’s your opinion? — Hey everyone I own the main .com for my brand, but I’m wondering if it’s smart (or necessary) to purchase other TLDs too like .net, .co, .io, and so on. Some people say it helps with branding, trus…
How to Build a Site for Both Art and Ecommerce? — Hi everyone, I’m a freelance graphic designer and currently have my portfolio site on Squarespace, which also includes a small e-commerce shop for art prints. I originally chose Squarespace because …
What are your favorite tools to share changelogs, roadmap & features feedback with users? — We’re a B2B SaaS platform starting with beta testers in our production environment. We’re looking to integrate a tool to facilitate communication with the users, including: * having visibility on the…
What are the best channels to promote your product this year? — What are the best channels to promote your product this year? I know every product and audience are different, so there is no perfect answer. But what would you guys say are the best channels to be a…
What’s the best UX you’ve ever experienced in a product? — Hey, I’m deep in the weeds designing the UX/UI for my vibe coding platform . I’m hunting for that spark of inspiration and digging through every app, site, and tool I can find. For me, Apple’s ecosys…
How to build a marketplace from scratch? I will not promote — Hey guys! I hope you are all good. I am currently developing an MVP for a marketplace I talked with some people, and would be willing to participate on. However, although I am making my own research,…
Marketing for startups (I will not promote) — (I will not promote) Proven strategies to take a startup from zero to scale ($10M+ ARR). As a 3X startup CMO, I have experienced tremendous success and a ton of failure. I have been involved in th…
Do I upgrade WP or PHP first? — Hello, I’m helping someone who has an out of date site: Wordpress 5.3.18 PHP: 7.2 It’s using a very simple theme (also outdated and no longer supported.) The site owner has full access to their host…
SEO Optimized Posts — Greetings fellow members, Hope you're doing well. What are the best practices and key methods to follow and incorporate in a WordPress post that is fully or nearly SEO optimized? Your support is gre…
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…
WooCommerce CSS Best Practices with Block Editor — I need advise/help with best practices when implementing CSS for WooCommerce using the block editor. WooCommerce warns against writing CSS based off the block name classes but the current default Gut…
What AI SEO tools are the best? — There's so much hype it's hard to keep up with what's actually useful for SEO. Can be free or paid. I've tried a lot but have had mixed results actually getting reliable/useful outputs consistently.
Why ex-tech creators are bad fit for conferences? — I haven’t been to many design-related conferences throughout my career, but I decided to give a CoCreate Conference a shot. I won’t go into the event organization here – just the speakers. From what I…
using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…
What's the best SEO Shopify tools to boost organic traffic? — My niche has a big potential for organic growth but l'm a newbie when it comes to SEO. Any good tools you have used that paid off? I don't use Zapier or things like this so would need native integrat…
A great copywriter is worth their weight in gold — I've been building brands for 15 years. If you just got your first $20k-$100k budget to build your brand/web/app, let me humbly offer you a tip: # In 2025, the #1 thing that will affect how 'pro' you…
Is it good to ghost people? — Hey everyone, I've been looking for client work as a freelance graphic designer and a few times now a potential client shows interest and sounds like a strong lead They ask for my portfolio I send i…
Rejected in the final interview after a month long process — This is honestly just a rant post, because I feel completely deflated at this point. I’ve been actively looking for a job for over a year now, moved to Spain three months ago to start a new life, and…
I will not promote - The best company merch box you have received? — On a light note, show off the coolest swag or merch box you’ve ever received! Whether it’s a quirky collectible, a stylish hoodie, an electronic item or just something that make you smile—share that o…
What is the best place to setup a subscription based business online? — Hi all- we are trying to start a subscription based business online! We looked into Shopify but Shopify doesn't seem like the best option for subscriptions. Any help is greatly appreciated :)
Best practices for organizing large web projects? — Hey everyone, I'm currently working on a large-scale web development project, and I'm trying to figure out the best practices for organizing the codebase. How do you structure your files and folders f…
Thank you for this. Because it seems like people put Neville and Joseph Murphy in the exact same category of teaching. I’ve read Power of The Subconscious Mind and going back for a 2nd read. Edit:…
>Hi everyone, > >I am new here.. i got the link of this group through the NG sub.. i am glad i found it.. i have been reading the posts and the content in the index.. i have started reading the P…
>Who do you think you are? Neville's method are the best! Joseph murphy's techniques were also good but required lot of work , but neville just said you to imagine and later in his lectures he did sai…
Thank you so much for explaining! One more thing if you don't mind, what's the best method to leave the physical body? I tried the rope technique yesterday, it didn't work but I know I need to practic…
Thats a very very good explanation thank you . So the best time would be to wake up like 6 hours in my sleep and then try it since i would still be tired ?
I was neglected from birth till, well, now, and have CPTSD for 28479227392 reasons related to my parents and to other experiences. I don't think focusing on blame is useful. I can't blame my one paren…
Yeah, this is not true and not really good advice. In fact, it’s mental bullshit that feeds the ego of a person. People are bitter and want their ex to feel bad and regretful because it makes them fee…
You are right. Saying they left because of our flaws isn’t completely right, they left too because of their flaws. The most important thing is to recognize our own flaws for the purpose of self-accept…
https://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?showgif&lang=e&gif=astro_2gw_jared_mcknight.75112.31364.png&res=100 This is the best I can do. As you can tell I’m not very good at this. Would you mind looking at…
AGREED!!!! Let’s stay in the grey and remember that we’re all just often doing our best and there are not usually “good” or “bad guys”, except where abuse or violence is concerned. Mostly, we’re figur…
Let the silence eat those parts of you that made you stay there. Be angry, be ashamed, and grieve. Question all those nasty feelings and learn what they try to tell you. They usually are out to have t…
It’s called a false awakening and you can search the sub to read more about it. The best method is to do a reality check upon awakening each time
Anyone still posting on here? I drove my ex away with my insecure attachment style, looking back he kept putting in little effort and I felt as though I was trying very hard to change. I’m sure he wa…
Hey, I’m glad I saw this comment. My ex is the same way. But I couldn’t seem to get a grip on my emotions. It just hurts… I’ll never have closure and it seems like the best I can do is tell myself she…
I’m sorry you’re feeling this way and going through this. It sucks she wouldn’t give therapy a chance. You can’t control others actions and feelings. I hope you can find meaning and joy in your kids …
I broke up but she didn't want to get back. It's my fault but she wasn't a Saint either. Immaturity on both ends. I have paid for my mistakes in heartache and tears. I hope you get the person who ch…
The best advice I could give is to envision this, if you are having a hard time holding on to this vision for hoping the future will lead you to back together and you will not let anything happen to p…
I hear you buddy. I loved my ex so much, and still love her, even though I could never take her back. But what really hurts is as you described - she blind-sided me and could not care less. I, on the …
It's so easy to resent and want to blame your parents, but don't you think the way you where raised where how your grandparents raised them? Finding compassion, and understanding that your parents did…
No way bro, he needs to keep making posts and keep on crying about his ex. That is clearly the best strategy to get over her.
The best revenge is living well.
If you left your ex then don’t go back because you’ll look like a chump… admit your mistake, move on and grow… if your ex dumped you then face it… you got dumped… examine yourself, grow and move on… …
Hello, I'm Kale, and Im 34. I was just married 3 months ago after being in a loving 8+ year relationship with the kindest person I've ever met. Three days ago she told me she had developed a relation…
>Work on becoming the best version of yourself Not on my agenda but I will keep going NC. I can prosper or rot, it doesn't really matter, the thing is my ex doesn't deserve to know how I am doing.
This is the way. My ex broke up with me last week on the phone before my dentist appointment. I had to cut the call short because I needed to make my appointment. I lied about watching a sad show on m…
I totally agree that there is a general trend to project personal issues and give drastic advice, especially since... well, it's not your life. I particularly notice it when it comes to fear of a par…
I don’t understand your take on this. No contact has time and time again been proven to be the best thing you can do for mutual healing if the breakup was bad or not mutual. Giving eachother time an…
Why don’t we come up with a simple mission that we can all do to prove this works? That would be the best way, in my opinion. Probably not going to convince her, but for those of us who are more open.
Probably the best answer +1
After all is said and done. My one true key belief is that YOUR BELIEFS SHAPE YOUR REALITY. Good or bad. Right or wrong. How you feel about everything in your life is what receive from it. It’s th…
>I have had conversations with my partner over time about attachment styles, and they eventually determined that the descriptions of Avoidant Attachment sounds awfully familiar to them. They have star…
Agreed. The best and healthiest relationships to pursue as someone recovering from a disorganized attachment style is a slow burn. Recognizing everything you have in yourself is a tremendous accompl…
I think it really depends on the partner and how willing they are to communicate. In my last relationship I was avoidant leaning secure and my partner was preoccupied. There were certain things I thou…
Therapist will navigate with you your core wounds which will help you to identify your fears and patterns, learn healthy boundaries, learn about attachment in deeper and learn more about yourself, wor…
It’s kind of saddening/comical to see how majority of these posts go “my partner / ex is avoidant. They are the best thing since sliced bread and I’ve already read 102839172 books on their attachment …
Yes this is my default mode. I need calm after engagement. Relaxation after stimulation. To unwind / recharge. The best thing an AP person can do is realise that other attachment styles don't need to…
" Lasagna is the best! " " YES AND ravioli is the best too! " It is such a beautiful moment when you realize you've been somehow tricked into automatic opposition, when - like you say - thoughts, op…
You're welcome, I wish you all the best and hope your situation gets better soon You've got this, it's ok to feel negative and possible to feel positive at the same time, if you need both just enjoy b…
Attachment styles are not the sole factors for attraction we create. But cutting off people we have known for a long time - especially family members, to which we are bound to biologically - is a sig…
You can ruin potential connections and negatively impact your social life this way, if that's any important to you. As kindly as I can, this is is a common misconception people can have about avoida…
Fearful-avoidants lovebomb you and then drop you when you're getting too close. They seem secure in the beginning. Watch videos of Heidi Priebe on YouTube, they're helpful. All the best.
As a man who has been on both sides of the coin… bear with me cause this is a long read but it has relevance I promise. I’ve been the anxious wreck begging and pleading. Saying stuff like “you don’t…
That's good to hear. Glad you're doing better. Wish you the best.
Limerence had me creating elaborate imaginings around our connection (which in reality was quite formal) and who they were as a person. In reality, there really wasn't a connection, this person isn't …
Your db isolation level is set for each session, it's not a global db setting (which is why you can't change it). You can change the code you use to initialize a db session to choose a different level…
I'm currently in similar situation. Experienced in overall system administration, windows, a bit of cloud and networking but I'm not able to get through technical interviews. This post is a huge motiv…
Buildkite is far and away the best CI/CD tool I have ever used.
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