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What are your favorite ways to meditate? — Have a blessed day everyone. I'm no expert ,just been into meditation for about 4-5 months. My method is 60 minutes daily that I must do before the day ends. I usually space them in chunks of 10 or…
How to heal avoidant attachment? — Uhhhh hey gang. Formerly severe fearful avoidant here. The attachment quizzes put everyone somewhere on a quadrant, with the bottom being high avoidance and the right high anxiety. So I was farrrr in …
How do I put together a multi-product design system as a sole designer? — Hi all, my UX design journey has been chaotic but I suspect that’s normal. I was in visual/web design for about 8 years then 2 years ago I got my first UX role (after trying to pursue and study UX f…
Why am I losing keywords? — I'm a bit lost. For the past 6 months I have been working on improving the rank of my website. When I first started, I just left an agency that wasn't doing a great job. When I switch from them, they …
Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…
Freelance in SEO or full-time remote job: Am I making a mistake by still applying? — Hey everyone, I’m at a bit of a crossroads and could really use your advice—even if it goes against what I’m currently thinking. Since I was 18 (I’m 20 now), I’ve been building websites just for fun…
Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions — I had a technical discussion with with a smaller company(around 100-200 employees) and they are filling out a new devops team. I have 7 YOE at large tech companies as a software engineer, but my dutie…
My co-founder decided to quit: I'm stuck and could really use some advice | I will not promote — Hey All, A few months ago, I shared my story here (original Reddit post in comments) about starting an IT consultancy business in the Netherlands with a friend right after graduation. At that time, w…
How to decide cache lifespan (cache expiration time) — Hello technical SEO experts, im a newbie to WordPress seo. I just want to know if you're using a page optimization plugin like WP Rocket or LS Cache, how much time is the sweetspot for cache expiratio…
What plugins do you use for speed optimization? — I’m still new to the technical side of SEO and have mainly used the LiteSpeed Cache plugin since my personal site is hosted on Hostinger with QUIC.cloud CDN. But now I’m hoping to take on technical SE…
From Rejection to Redemption: How I Broke Into DevOps — Guys, I'm here sitting on my back yard on a beautiful Saturday and I am about to sign an offer letter with a Fortune 500 company — with a 25% salary increase. But just a few months ago, I was getting…
Do I really need to fully design and engineer my own product to succeed in e-commerce? — Hey everyone, I’m planning to start my own e-commerce brand, but I don’t have a big budget or deep technical knowledge. Right now, I can only afford to take an existing product, put my brands logo on …
Offered Technical Cofounder Role — How Much Equity Should I Ask For? [I will not promote] — I initially joined a startup as a developer, building the product from scratch — no existing codebase, no tech team, just me & one junior developer. After a few months of work, the founder has now off…
SEO Basics Done But Not Ranking — I've been working on optimizing a page for a keyword with good search volume and low difficulty according to Keyword Planner, but it's nowhere in the top 100 results. I've done all the basics: * Met…
Building an AI for No-Code Booking Apps – How to Get Our First 100 Waitlist Sign-Ups? (I will not promote) — Hi, I’m Vit, I’m working on an AI tool that lets non-technical small business owners, like barbers, photographers, or consultants, build booking apps without coding. Our mission is to save entrepreneu…
Things to do with my non technical cofounder "i will not promote" — Hi all i will not promote So i have a startup / side business im working on, I bought a friend in as a cofounder as he's generally useful in going out making connections, someone to help with site …
Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote) — Hey everyone, I’m in the process of building an exciting startup focused on **fantasy football** and I’m looking for a **technical co-founder** to join me and help bring this idea to life. The core i…
Need technical help; streaming platform dev. I will not promote. — Hello I am looking for someone who can build a streaming site (many different users stream live to viewers). The specific niche and competitive angle can be discussed in more detail, but at the core …
Need technical help; streaming platform dev. I will not promote. — Hello I am looking for someone who can build a streaming site (many different users stream live to viewers). The specific niche and competitive angle can be discussed in more detail, but at the core …
What’s the best UX you’ve ever experienced in a product? — Hey, I’m deep in the weeds designing the UX/UI for my vibe coding platform . I’m hunting for that spark of inspiration and digging through every app, site, and tool I can find. For me, Apple’s ecosys…
What's your opinion on custom radio select inputs? — Hey folks, I'm currently working on an interface that lets users choose between two options. Technically, this is a radio input. But I've used Tailwind's peer classes to create a custom interface for …
Why ex-tech creators are bad fit for conferences? — I haven’t been to many design-related conferences throughout my career, but I decided to give a CoCreate Conference a shot. I won’t go into the event organization here – just the speakers. From what I…
Got ghosted after 3rd round — Hey everyone, Just wanted to share my recent experience and see if others are going through the same thing. I’ve been applying for DevOps roles for the past few months, and finally landed an intervi…
Why do MNCs seem to avoid the MERN stack? — I've been working with the MERN stack for a few years and noticed it's quite popular among startups and smaller tech firms. However, when I look at job openings in MNCs, I rarely see MERN listed—most …
Should technical articles be a nlof post or a pagw — I always debate this internally. If i write a technical article about for example how to meaure voltage when testing a piece of equipment. Should it be a page or a blog post? And what normally determ…
Looking for marketing strategy tips for our startup(I will not promote) — Hey all, My friends and I are currently building a startup. We’re in the preparation phase now and plan to go live in about 3 months. While we’re handling the operational and technical side, we’r…
Looking for marketing strategy tips for our startup — Hey all, My friends and I are currently building a startup. We’re in the preparation phase now and plan to go live in about 3 months. While we’re handling the operational and technical side, we’r…
Looking for marketing strategy tips for our startup — Hey all, My friends and I are currently building a startup. We’re in the preparation phase now and plan to go live in about 3 months. While we’re handling the operational and technical side, we’r…
Technical Advisor role - as individual or LLC? I will not promote — I'm negotiating a contract to be a technical advisor to a startup, with compensation by equity. Wondering what is best for the contract - to be between the startup & myself as individual? Or, between …
Best low-effort analytics tools for Shopify optimization? I'm drowning in data... — I'm struggling to make sense of all the analytics data from my store. The native Shopify reports give me tons of information, but I'm finding it difficult to determine what metrics I should actually f…
Fed up with scattered UK property data, I built an AI tool that combines everything into one smart search — **What It Does** This is an internal tool I’ve been building to help with UK property prospecting, market research, and deal due diligence. If you've ever tried to buy or invest in property in the U…
How to prepare for this final step interview — this was included in the email "The exercise will include a walkthrough of report formatting and analysis using a simple Programmatic campaign example, along with a brief performance review of a Goog…
Finally in Dev!! Your input would help — This journey as a non-technical founder has shaved years off my life, but fuck it - I am in Dev and ready for this next stage!! 😤 Any suggestions on what I should be looking out for while in develop…
Proud of my results as a non expert and want to share and say thanks! — I posted about my SEO efforts about 5 months ago and I had such a warm response from everyone that I kind of wanted to provide an update. I had both shared my results and asked for advice on next step…
Looking for a technical co-founder I will not promote — Hey all, I'm working on a B2B SaaS platform targeting a specific form of fraud that's draining revenue from e-commerce and logistics companies. It's a blind spot for many, but the financial impact is…
🚀 Introducing VybeBuild - The Platform to Kickstart Your No-Code Projects! 🚀 — Hey, everyone! I'm excited to share something I've been working on: **VybeBuild**\- a platform designed to help you **kickstart your no-code projects**! **How it works**: 1. Simply input your projec…
Anyone else noticing small businesses drowning in SaaS subscription costs these days? — Been consulting with a few local businesses recently and I'm shocked at how many are spending $500-1000+ monthly on various software subscriptions. One client is paying for Salesforce, Asana, Notion, …
Death by a Thousand Subscriptions: Is anyone's SaaS bills higher than their Ad spend? — I've been watching several eCommerce businesses in my network, and it's fascinating how many are drowning in subscription costs for essential software. One store owner I know is paying nearly **$500/m…
Head of Digital - Feeling burnt out. — Hey everyone, I’m in a “Head of Digital” role at a mid-sized company — but in practice, I’m the only technical person in a team full of editors and project managers from a traditional print publishin…
After raising for 7 startups, my pitch decks have fallen into three categories (I will not promote) — Over the years, I've raised funding for 7 startups. I've also raised for startup funds and stare at a hundred pitch decks a month. Based on the patterns, I've realized my pitch decks have fallen into …
How do startups choose between Supabase, Firebase, Auth0, and Clerk for auth & DB? What are your must-haves? (I will not promote) — I'm doing some research into how early-stage startups choose backend platforms, particularly when it comes to **authentication and databases**. I’ve seen a lot of teams go with **Supabase**, others sw…
How do you balance your input vs AI — As a technical person, am curious about concerns that you trust AI with verses stuff that you feel better coding by hand. For example, even though I know CSS and by extension Tailwind, I usually let …
Anyone wants to collaborate? — Fellow business owners, I'm openly asking if anyone is interested in collaborating. I am a digital service provider; I am highly technical but have very poor communication skills due to my autism. I a…
What I learned building a quoting system for a construction company doing $10M+ a year — I recently finished a project for a construction company doing roughly $10M per year. They were quoting jobs using Excel and email threads, and while it technically worked, it was slow, error-prone, a…
Found out my friend and her coworkers are stealing money from their job — My friend works at a small franchise location that is a self serve food place. The amount of staff is small (8) and I recently found out that the they all essentially steal money. The owner doesn’t li…
Consultant business- IN or FL — Hey everyone- I am now based in Florida (originally MI) and my business partner is in IN. We technically have all three options possible. What is the best state to incorporate from your experience?…
I need a simple easy tip to fix a JavaScript error on my Wordpress blog — I added a page to my Wordpress blog and it was fine and today a command popped up stating that it’s the wrong json response error and I looked it up in the search engine and a few of the steps that we…
How to shift focus when anxiously attached — I'm anxiously attached and have very little to no sense of self. I know therapy's necessary but I'm not starting before another month. I'll take any insight or advice on how to manage it, shift my foc…
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…
For those hurting, advice for your 2026 and my story — Hello everyone, **Preface** I am an anxious attacher, so my experience by-and-large is with dismissive avoidants and fearful avoidants. It is not my intent to villainize these attachment styles; thi…
What is this sign on the Aspect Grid? — [aspect sign](https://carrotcake50.tistory.com/18) Hello! I am researching various astrological symbols used in aspect grids and encountered a few that are unfamiliar. I would appreciate some technic…
Hi guys, I started 2 Youtube series to help new people getting into devops. The first one: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL-WCaWbINSZ6tTkXVYXKvB7oC7-t19rHF revolves around containers and kubernet…
Absolutely. I see so many comments that say things like "call the police" about things that aren't illegal, like - as much as you might WANT some things to be illegal doesn't mean they actually are. …
Omg twins. Hi! Yeah I hadn’t been in a romantic relationship at all for six years before I finally tried with this FA guy. In my last real relationship I was targeted by a psychopath and it fucked me …
I’d avoid vendor specific books and focus on the main concepts since you will switch tools and vendors often One good pick is Platform engineering book https://www.amazon.com/Platform-Engineering-…
I'm currently in similar situation. Experienced in overall system administration, windows, a bit of cloud and networking but I'm not able to get through technical interviews. This post is a huge motiv…
Congrats, my guy. i have a similar story. I can attest to grit and putting into he work to learn the technologies and terms. To learn the DSO isn't a single technical stack. It's a locus where culture…
Focus on showcasing your cloud support experience and how it relates to DevOps principles. Your background gives you a solid foundation in understanding cloud infrastructure, troubleshooting, and work…
There's all sorts of reasons why it might take that long, though I'd echo that 24 hours doesn't seem that long to me considering their scale of operations. Ignoring all of the technical side of thin…
Interpreters make do. Sometimes agencies will have specialists that are better at technical or medical or legal contexts and send them, but it isn't always the rule. When I was in grad school, there w…
It's certainly an interesting problem... Not knowing anything really about how interpreters operate and just spit balling, would it be helpful to provide the interpreters with a quick glossary of anti…
This is the poor man’s version. For deploys, trigger your GH Action pipeline on what ever event that matches your branching or tagging strategy. That action would build/push a docker image or build an…
Early in my career I’m pretty sure I did a technical home assignment and the company just took my work and never hired the role. It sucks. It happens. But recently, companies ghosting candidates on t…
My 5cents, as a person that’s been interviewing candidates for several years (almost 10 at same company, seen it grow from 100 employees to 2k+, interviewed QAs, SETs, Devs, DevOps and SREs). I’m sor…
**Find the right programmer.** [Technical Interviewers](http://techinterviewers.com) provides vetted coders that are hand-picked for your needs. Our screening process uses IT professionals as intervie…
This is the first I'm seeing about the Backstage platform, it seems like it can do a lot, and is pretty extensible. Considering the tool belt seems to revolve around Typescript, it's giving me the imp…
It’s a team sport for sure. But you’re right, it doesn’t mean everybody has to be a part owner to equal degrees. But I think a lot of “solo” founders use it as an excuse not to learn to work with ot…
Waterfall in all it's forms is a problem. Hand off between teams are never smooth. DevOps principles recommends integrating all stakeholders in the process. An isolated software developer building a p…
Setting boundaries is not easy technically you should have learned boundaries as a child. Therefore you are certainly neglected. That's a pretty difficult thing to deal with.
Reducing therapy as a concept to a script of a two person conversation is a misunderstanding of what therapy is and what makes it effective. Here are three links for you about the danger of AI therap…
I’ve recently got into a new relationship with a great guy, it’s been about 3 months and before this we were dating exclusively for the previous 3. We are technically long distance but I spend 80% of …
I have had numerous friends I think when we come from scarcity we believe that there will never be another As for the comment true friends stick around. I would not agree with that. People have dif…
Yes! Wow! Beautiful said, thank you for that! I certainly agree with you. In dating this time around (and I still am dating, technically), my approach was to make friends. I didn't push anyone away, b…
Text of original post by u/Aromatic-Spite-1516: I'm anxiously attached and have very little to no sense of self. I know therapy's necessary but I'm not starting before another month. I'll take any ins…
Why is he arguing against it? Maybe I'm misunderstanding something, but isn't all of this basically what moonbeam says over here? [How Our Thoughts Create Our Physical Reality](https://www.reddit.com/…
I was hoping he would, but I know I need to be able to manage myself right now as I might just get angry at him this time if he acts helpless around me like last night. I don't want to get mad at him …
Would you have actually gone to the hospital if he had suggested? If he had sprung up and said “let’s go to the hospital right now” would you have been relieved he made that decision? Since you had me…
I guess I understand that everyone splits under a certain pressure or environment and I definitely get people do it with racism, sexism and paedophilia etc but I dunno, I feel like I mentalise quite w…
Thank you for responding to me. Making this post was incredibly embarrassing for me because this entire situation feels absurd and the fact that it’s making me spiral so much has been really confusing…
I know the feeling...I used to turn up my nose at the idea of seeking a relation cuz it seemed so needy. When I was a teen/young 20s I felt superior to the girls who were boy-crazy or "pick-me"s. I th…
That's how she identified herself. As for why we meet so rarely ... Not entirely sure tbh. We're about 30ish mins away from each other, and we technically do have different days off. The only thing th…
My mom used to do the narration thing when I lived with my parents. It's so hard to coherently describe *why* it feels so bad when all they're really doing is just narrating out loud what you're doing…
I mean I have forgiven her in the sense that I do hold not hostility towards her, and really hold more sadness that her upbringing caused her to have these tendencies. Although, if we were to ever get…
Casual sex is technically no attachment, therefore not compatible with secure attachment
I don’t deal with people that get “angry” about this, but I second the idea of being clear to avoid confusing people and to be more trustworthy I don’t like “I wont respond for the next 5 hours beca…
Technically the anxious part does get sort of killed, so does the avoidant They are survival miswirings that can be undone... by leaning into them without acting on them
In true Co-Dependency, both people in the relationship are part of the abuse. Both could technically qualify as both abusers, and victims. Thats what makes this so aweful. "Fixer" is a better name …
For real, fuck ICE and everyone who made excuses for them in the beginning when it started to kick off, we all saw what it was really about. And it's not even remotely excusable now. So, an especially…
Question for fam. If a girl invites you over to her apartment after the third date and you already had sex after the second date (booty call the day after technically) is sex implied here as well? …
I’m not technically living with him. We’ve been split for a few years and the divorce is finalised. But he was house sitting for me while I was overseas and now I’m going home but he needs time to …
Not sure on any international context since I’ve only lived in the US, but politics/social causes are personal; can’t really separate them even if someone doesn’t want to talk about it or doesn’t pref…
I had a guy ask on a date if I wanted him to tell me why he matched me. I told him I honestly didn't want to know. He told me anyway. He was also "technically still married" and didn't tell me unti…
On it. I’m gonna buy a snorkel and some flippers tormrow. I can’t imagine it being that far to swim. Plus you’re on the east coast, so it’s technically closer! If only there was another way to get…
That's, on average, a new woman every ten days. Technically every nine and a half. If that's not a lot, what is? Two new women a week?
How would you feel if your boyfriend of 3 years wrote sexy/adoring/"lust" letters to other women, but you discovered it in a nefarious way by logging into his Insta, and \* you were both "technically"…
Really depends on how long you known each other and how long you actually “dated”. I knew my bf from high school, we reconnected as adults and dated for like a month before deciding to be exclusive.…
Oh absolutely. We want closeness but seek it with the people who won’t give it to us instead of the ones that can…so in some ways, subconsciously, we don’t want the intimacy even though we think we do…
I used to be like this. I used to think that if I did everything right, then people won't hurt or intimidate me. Turns out abusers just do that anyways regardless of if you're kind to them or not. H…
I'm jealous, I had the opposite experience recently 😂 a kid at the fitness studio asked whose mom I was. I guess *technically* I'm old enough to have a 10ish year old kid in the class that was finish…
I had a first date and it was technically fine but not a match. I turned him down kindly but firmly the next day. Probably not fully ready because I find myself so mad at my ex because we had such a g…
I was out of town last Vday, celebrating myself haha. I was seeing a guy but we had only been on one date so I was technically single. He later became my boyfriend (now ex). I took myself out to dinne…