standing up for me,

I need to know if he was abusive so that I can be sure this is the right decision — Hi everyone - I'd appreciate anyone who reads the entire thing before commenting. My (24F) boyfriend (24M) just ended things with me after one of our many fights. We've been together for 3 years. We …

I remember my father gleefully boasting to a relative visiting from out of town about how he "bent us over the fender" of the car to be punished. (So much Ew) She reacted with disgust and told him he…