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Figured out why this technique worked so well for me — About a couple of weeks ago, I shared a manifestation experiment that I did which worked wonders for me. If you've missed it, it's this one: [https://www.reddit.com/r/Manifestation/comments/1s4sx3x/ne…
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…
I made $32 after 16 months of coding. Was it all a waste of time? — Over the last 16 months, I’ve done something that sounds cooler than it really is: I built a SaaS. In my free time, at night, on weekends, while everyone else was at the beach or watching Netflix, I …
“My father always wanted to be the corpse at every funeral, the bride at every wedding and the baby at every christening.” - Alice Roosevelt Longworth — Written by Alice Roosevelt about her father, Teddy. I feel like this quote perfectly captures the dynamics of having an nParent. Whenever sympathy, positive attention or adoration is being doled out …
You will be rewarded openly! I promise! — How to manifest your desire? Well, We all know the "How"(Techniques to get into the state) but We don't know "How" (bridge of incident) whole thing will arranged itself to produce the result of the i…
Divorce is Finalized BUT… WTF is wrong with me? — I’m 56 years old. My divorce was finalized in January. My wife was given three months by the mediator to move out of our home. I should say my home since I bought it and paid it off before we were mar…
Only child (30F, Indian, US). Parents financially exploited me and my husband for years. Set boundaries. Now they’re trying to destroy my marriage. — **The financial fraud:** My father retired with 1 crore and started building a house. Behind my back, he took a loan using my husband’s documents — claimed 45 lakhs, was actually 80 lakhs (POA fraud)…
My parents used my abuse compensation money as a house deposit and then made me feel like I was the problem — Hi, I’m trying to process something that has just clicked into place for me and I honestly don’t know how to feel about it. I recently found out that the compensation money I was awarded as a child (…
I don‘t think I can take it anymore — Long story Short (or maybe not short at all): my husband (m/44) and I (w/30) am married for almost 2 years, together since 2019. About 3 months ago, I found out he cheated in massage parlours 4 times …
Turbulent year. Opinions on the worst year of my life? — I got into a relationship at 16. Within the first two years of our relationship I discovered he was cheating by having sexual chats and sending explicit pictures online to other women. I forgave him a…
I responded to an ex of mines no contact breach, with a link to Good Luck Babe — So i 18(M) had a 2 year long weird homoerotic friendship with a guy (20M) who had a boyfriend (22M) (i know stupid ofc) but in my defense, he pretty much introduced himself to me as "tortured guy stuc…
I'm the co-borrower on exes recreational loan and now she's filing bankruptcy — I co signed my exe's camper before we got divorced, all payments have been made on time but she won't pay it off or sell it to get me off the loan. There is a court order that state's she must get me …
I hate therapy/Psychology — I hate therapy. I hate that therapy has become a substitute for the discomfort produced by terrible material conditions, turning structural problems into individual ones. I don't have a personal probl…
Becoming a therapist at a community mental health health center was the worst thing I ever did, and is causing me to relapse. I hate CPTSD. — Ever wonder what it's like to work as a therapist when you don't even want to be alive? Lemme tell you... First of all, for the record, I want it to be known that I am leaving my job after 6 months d…
Is it too late for me? — Is it possible to start over and change at 30? I used to be a bad person due to substance issues and an abusive childhood. I was forced to take medication at 12 years old, and then given addictive pil…
I know there is way but I'm shattering myself — This not a positive post but I feel this way and I have no one or anyone to share. I just saw a post on LinkedIn a girl named something. She is a gold medalist at iim indore(prestigious college in In…
I still love him, I still think about him every day, and I really wish I could stop. — I (32F) have been married for less than a year to my husband (34M). I'm not divorced yet, but it seems inevitable at this point. I think the only reasons he hasn't filed yet are because he's broke and…
Do you ever get used to being alone? — I (41F) have been separated from my husband for almost a year now. I live alone with my 10 year old. We have a great relationship and we do a lot things together. That said, i still feel incredibly lo…
How can I be more motivated in my everyday life with my fixed grand cross? How can I use my chart as a strength? — I don’t know anyone with a similar chart to myself to ask for advice or follow the example of and online resources have been a bit hard to navigate because I feel like I get a lot of mixed messages be…
Silva Method? - 7 Journeys? — I went to this mind scapping course my HR signed me up for. It completely freaked me out. Firstly it was at someone’s house instead of an institution. Then she started with alpha and beta brain wave…
I (22M) am so confused. Didnt know where else to go with this anymore. I just want help understanding what happened? PLEASE READ - its long, kinda. — important context- i was born into a religious family and grew up a religious kid not in any unorthodox manner only a typical hindu family in india. when i was a child i was afraid of the dark then on…
4 month Follow-Up to My Appreciation Post — Hello again, all. I (30m) posted a couple months back from my primary account, but recently deleted that account out of fear that my ex wife (30F) might still know the username. I figured the less a…
You will find the answer here - Moonlight Mailed Me ! : The No1 reason why people fail with their alpha programming. *Hi Everybody, I am one of moonlight's new cubs and his best for sure. I have a …
I'm so tired of people acting like 'being your authentic self' will be rewarded. They say 'well if you don't do it you're a coward', but my beef is this: clearly, if you feel comfortable showing every…
I can relate to a lot of this! For context, I come from a background where controlled emotions and behaviour is very normal and almost rewarded, so for me, that's always been my comfort zone. Additio…
What an interesting and thought-provoking post. Love it. I think what you describe here is more of an explanation for why avoidant attachment is glorified and can become so entrenched. Attachment in…
I would like to note that I do understand what you are saying and get how Society plays a role. I think if anything, what I take issue with is its a little too black and white. That Instagram post is …
Wow, this is well articulated. I've speculated for a while that the reported numbers of people in western societies with avoidant attachment aren't reflecting reality. There's this number bandied ab…
1. State your rising sign (this is important). Capricorn rising 2. State the sign and degree of your natal Saturn (we much prefer you use the Whole Sign house system, but if you use Placidus, the …
For me… Aquarius Jupiter is my chart ruler and is in my 2nd house (3rd in whole signs). I’ve somehow chosen things to study that require massive machines and lots of space lol. Like printmaking, piano…
>Is this a result of chronically online and/or porn culture? I'd say it's a combination of no consequences, them getting off on it, and that behavior being rewarded enough times for them to continue.…
This success story reminds me of some lines from Neville's book **_I do not care what men have diagnosed your problem to be. A problem might have a history ages long, yet I know it will vanish in the…
Seeing how well their life turns out to be compare to yours really validate that thought isn't it. If life treats the abusers well, and we are miserable as hell, then the abusers maybe isn't an abuser…
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I spoke my truth in court and was awarded a three year restraining order. It wasn’t something I wanted to do, it was something I had to do. He was harassing and threatening me and my family and I had …
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Nope. Venus in 9th house (Cancer), Moon in pisces, Jupiter with Rahu in Gemini, Sun in Leo. Saturn has directional strength in 7th house, Taurus. If you're asking about my Saturn Mahadasha, I had it a…
Yeahh I get you. I felt the same... one thing after another. But I realised there were some things I just didn't have control over and there was nothing I could do about those things so I focused only…
Black woman here - awarded this post BECAUSE YES.
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Congrats on the sobriety! Definitely start with the great advice about looking into alternatives to Ritalin, and potentially lab work to make sure nothing is super off there. I just have two other su…
It is really not so complicated. We are wired to be selfish - and are also rewarded for short term pleasures (in the form of dopamine). And really, that's it. People cheat because they want to and…
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I know how you feel. I was going through something very similar until very recently. Walking on egg shells and she was still flipping out. My exceptional patience was being rewarded with things gettin…
I totally understand ❤️ my ex would tell me “I most money I’ve ever made in my life after we broke up” and was implying that I was somehow holding back from reaching his potential. It made me feel lik…
Yeah they do get rewarded by being horrible and using people. His work is basically conning and scamming by pretending to be a sort of spiritual leader. The last months he really made me feel like I w…
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Hey, I have been where you are right now. Keep going, there is light at the end of the tunnel. It took me 4 and a half years of working, raising my kids on my own and documenting everything for family…
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