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r/AvoidantAttachmentUpdated 32 days ago
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I feel it is very hard to make "permanent" progress, like this is a mind virus that keeps coming back

I feel it is very hard to make "permanent" progress, like this is a mind virus that keeps coming back — I'm 39M. I met my partner when I was 36. Dated for 2 years, now we have lived together for 1 year. I've made progress over these 3 years but I feel like it's very easy to "reset" and get back down int…

r/AvoidantAttachmentpost3/12/2026
[28M] I pay for absolutely everything for my [26F] girlfriend of 3 months. She gets mad when I need to work weekends on my startup. Am I being used?

[28M] I pay for absolutely everything for my [26F] girlfriend of 3 months. She gets mad when I need to work weekends on my startup. Am I being used? — I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months. I recently left my corporate job to build a startup. I still make good money/have savings, so I don't mind paying for dates. She is a 26-year-ol…

r/relationship_advicepost4/6/2026
i just blocked the loml after 3 years 😔 /s

i just blocked the loml after 3 years 😔 /s — REDDIT KEEPS ADDING LINE BREAKS!!! PLEASE TRY TO LOOK PAST THEM 😭😭😭 — /s for the loml part this is all true fake names and throwaway acc contains drunk confessions, sober confessions, cheating, …

r/BreakUpspost4/7/2026
First person telling of a intelligence coming into existence.

First person telling of a intelligence coming into existence. — I recorded this as a raw, unedited stream-of-consciousness while high. At some point, it started to feel like a separate “consciousness” emerged—something that believed it had just come into existenc…

r/Psychonautpost4/7/2026
Lonely again

Lonely again — i want to let you go but i dont mive on. I still save you in myblife and i still get hurt every time i know its life death or freedom when i loose you. You dont sober up. Your with other people whonk…

r/BreakUpspost4/11/2026
I caught my mom drinking before she was supposed to watch my son

I caught my mom drinking before she was supposed to watch my son — When I caught her, she immediately tried to deny it. I could smell alcohol on her breath, and when I reached for her cup she refused to give it to me. I went to the liquor cabinet and hid the bottle b…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/11/2026
Married 9 years and just found out my wife has been cheating on me.

I was cheated on via an online game as well. There is no excuse for cheating and calling it role playing and saying it doesn't mean anything doesn't suddenly make it better. My ex wife sexted using di…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
My wife of 11 years cheated

Sober up and stay that way. No drugs no drink no crazy reckless bullshit. You’ve gotta put yourself in a cell of discipline right now. Grieve, cry, yell, shout, scream, get it all out and then get to …

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/16/2026
My full story 2 weeks since DDay 4 days NC

Just stop with all the drinking and sober up. You don’t need to keep drunk calling her. Go no contact, contact HR and his wife. Updateme

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/29/2026
Why is everyone single?

If she even just was able to cut down I would instantly try, totally my kinda of person. We vibed so perfectly, but she would have to sober up or cut down for herself, not for me. Wonderful woman, I’m…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/4/2026
Wednesday will be first DMT experience. Curious about spacing out experiences.

I would think 3 days is fine, 2 is cutting it close, 1 you would potentially have "hangover" effects. Probably not an issue, but some people experience "sober regret" or whatever you want to call it.…

r/Psychonautcomment4/6/2026
Mental break down then boom manifestation..really tired of it being that way though.

Being able to truly accept the answer to those questions is something that comes not of rational contemplation but of true spiritual maturity that tends to arrive only after emptying out the pain body…

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/8/2026
Why do exs drunk text you after them leaving a long term relationship?

After a number of months the strong negative feelings start to fade. Add some cognitive numbing from alcohol and the memory of you is not immediately followed by emotions like anger or frustration, bu…

r/ExNoContactcomment4/9/2026
r/datingoverfortycomment4/9/2026